How Important Is The Sexual History Of Your Partner?

[j]

i think what's important is, is it right for you? or does it work for you?

are you able to handle the knowledge? how do you process the information? do you know what to do with it?

[Kingkongphils]

How about the other side, are you honest with your partner regarding your sexual history?

[black cat]

Important in a sense that I don't want a partner who had sexual encounter with pokpokish girls. I'll get turned off for sure. Simply yukky for me. Sorry.

[Kingkongphils]

Important in a sense that I don't want a partner who had sexual encounter with pokpokish girls. I'll get turned off for sure. Simply yukky for me. Sorry.

May I know your definition of pokpokish girl?,☺

[kuparas]

Important in a sense that I don't want a partner who had sexual encounter with pokpokish girls. I'll get turned off for sure. Simply yukky for me. Sorry.

Baka maubusan ka ng partner. Karamihan ng guys may nakasex na na pokpokish. Pinagkaiba lang yung ibang pokpokish girls for hire at may bayad. Yung iba pokpokish pero di naniningil.

[crocxxx]

++++1

 

This is a good point. As a matter of fact, in the case of my ex, I had wanted to know...

 

1. How many partners she has had, one at a time ba, or multiple/sabay-sabay;

2. How many failed relationships she had, at ano ang reasons why they didn't work.

 

Re No. 1 -- Aminado sya marami na siyang naging partners. She even tried G2G. Pero, sabi niya, one at a time lang daw, at wala naman siyang pinagsabay. First thing na pumasok sa isip ko: Clean ba kaya siya? That's why, I always practiced safe sex with her even when she had a physical and was declared clean. Of course, pregnancy was another matter. Dahilan sa daring din siya, ayun. Dalawa na ang anak niya galing sa dalawang lalake. (Note: regarding the number, she wasn't really truthful. I also learned later na kahit yung sinabi niyang hindi siya nagsasabay ng partners, at one-at-a-time lang sya, ay hindi rin totoo. Kaya... would that be also possible with me? I had hoped she will be faithful. In the end, her history proved that hindi nga siya makapagpipigil when it comes to sex.)

 

Re No. 2 -- Marami na siyang failed relationships. By her own declaration, naka pito raw siyang serious relationships. Noong tinanong ko kung bakit hindi nag-work-out mga past relationships niya, ang sagot niya ay: "siya rin naman ang may kasalanan." (Kasi naman, madali siyang ma-in-love. Kaya, madali rin siya makakita ng kapalit.) Mukhang honest, di ba? Pero, kung honest siya, dapat, naghanap din siya ng paraan para magbago. Kailangang mag-effort siya in that regard. BUT, in the end, nangyari rin ang nangyari. After less than three months abroad, nakahanap na rin siya ng iba, at ipinagpalit din niya ako. I have become a statistic for her.

 

Having several sexual partners, whether one-at-a-time, or sabay-sabay, may be an indication of something. It could be a problem area which could either be physiological or psychological. Unless one is conscious that s/he has a problem in this matter, it will never be remedied. If your partner has "this problem," then, you should be prepared na mauulit din sa yo ang nangyari sa iba bago sa yo. Hindi rin tatagal at mapapalitan ka rin ng iba, o maipagsasabay ka rin sa iba.

 

So... is knowing the past history of sexual relationships important? For me, yes. It is important.

[black cat]

May I know your definition of pokpokish girl?,☺

Yun maluwag sa sex. Kahit sino na lang sinesex.

[black cat]

Baka maubusan ka ng partner. Karamihan ng guys may nakasex na na pokpokish. Pinagkaiba lang yung ibang pokpokish girls for hire at may bayad. Yung iba pokpokish pero di naniningil.

Well, not just because it's your lifestyle it means it's already the trend. There are still a lot of them guys who are choosy with their sex partners.

[Kingkongphils]

Yun maluwag sa sex. Kahit sino na lang sinesex.

Pano kung madami pro hindi nmn pokpokish?😊

[j]

Pano kung madami pro hindi nmn pokpokish?

 

Yun maluwag sa sex. Kahit sino na lang sinesex.

 

number ba yun basis nun pokpokish? or sa walang pinipili? basta lalaki go...

[Kingkongphils]

 

 

number ba yun basis nun pokpokish? or sa walang pinipili? basta lalaki go...

Parang carinderiang bukas sa lahat ng gustong kumain?

 

Ironically showed sa PBO while I was reading the thread.

[j]

Parang carinderiang bukas sa lahat ng gustong kumain?

 

Ironically showed sa PBO while I was reading the thread.

parang movies of the 80's?

 

pag 90's parang atm o kaya pag 2k parang 7-11 o mini stop

mga open 24 hours a day

[black cat]

Come on guys, I'm sure you know what pokpokish means.

[j]

Come on guys, I'm sure you know what pokpokish means.

just making sure na pokpokish is not the same as pokpok?

 

tsaka just making sure walang misunderstanding, baka may konting differences about when pokpokish begins?

 

but yun general idea naman ng response mo was about not liking guys who have a preference for very loose women. diba?

Edited February 8, 2016 by j

[black cat]

Yes j.. esp guys who are open 24 hours haha! That was funny kingkongphils, but yes, similar to that.