How Important Is The Sexual History Of Your Partner?

[westell]

Why does sexual history have such a negative connotation?

 

It should not.

 

However, man is a primordial being, and rational at that--and that sex, as a matter of instinctive act capable of giving distinctive pleasure--bestows an enormous sense of malignity toward what was supposedly 'clean and pure'--in most cases, one's virginity. That one's sexual history, despite being ordinarily fundamental (the act itself), becomes a question of moral consequence.

[rockdj]

I will not be interested on the details of her past. I might think that she's still imagining of him while we're doing it.

[boy745]

past is past.. acceptance at trust talaga..susi sa isang maganda pagsasama..

[*Jessie*]

Before when i was seeing someone seriously, I like to listen to my partner's stories about his sex encounters because i think its good material to write. I don't get jealous listening to past experiences, it does make me horny, especially i have a vibrator between my legs and rubbing my clit with it while he tells me erotic stories...

 

I usually ask this question..

 

 

" Talk Sexy to me...Tell me how big are her tits and how you got her off..." Then i just get so horny..i get wet...i always get wet just the though of it and just by my breast as i play with my nipples and the vibrator in my pussy..

 

Interesting how you get inspired by their stories to come up with a good material to write. Like how Taylor Swift makes smashing albums based on some of relationships.

 

On topic, you don't need to know their previous stories too detailed. But I'm sure you'd rather want them to get tested for STDs.

Edited January 9, 2016 by *Jessie*

[ryokan21]

 

@ topic pwede cguro pero kailangan malalim na ang pag uunawaan nyo sa isat isa.. saka dapat maging mas malawak na ang pag iisip nyo.. and if ever na malaman nyo kung ilan yung naging partner nya dapat cguro wag na pangalanan kasi hindi maiiwasan ang mga insecurities and comparisons..

 

 

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i think sir malaki yung chance na malalaman mo agad kung may reputation sya sa simula pa lang nung nag babalak ka pa lng mangligaw sa kanya.. kasi diba bago tyo manilgaw nag scout/nag research tyo sa mga target natin so malaki ang chance na makakaamoy ka kaagad kung may reputation sya na ganun.. just my two cents worth

 

 

I have to agree on this, I mean before we even have a relationship with our partner, we first check, and make sure of what our partners to be's background, reputation and social standing...

 

Most of the time we are fully aware of it when we start to court her or talk to him, reason why we already have an idea of it... It's just confirming the notion you already have so it shouldn't really be a "DEAL BREAKER"...

 

[gyros]

everybody has a past...in a relationship the past should not determine the future

 

if the past matters so much then people has to look for virgins only...that is SAD

[NightWriter]

 

Interesting how you get inspired by their stories to come up with a good material to write. Like how Taylor Swift makes smashing albums based on some of relationships.

 

On topic, you don't need to know their previous stories too detailed. But I'm sure you'd rather want them to get tested for STDs.

Sa Pilipinas ata' di uso ang STD. Yung mga may STD..karamihan sa mga taga- callcenter meron. Parang isang merry go-beds ang ginagawa ang mga karamihan doon.

[NightWriter]

hmmm... that's interesting idea there...

 

you ask about history to learn more about a person. you learn the bad...

 

and the good.

Infact you'd learn pretty much where he gets his styles - although that makes me snicker..a lot of men i've dated aren't that good kissers..pretty much equates being bad lovers too.

 

so probably the girls they're with..aren't that good either.

 

Having sex with someone is an abomination of new techniques. I like to be with someone who had been with some attractive women than someone who isn't.

[j]

Infact you'd learn pretty much where he gets his styles - although that makes me snicker..a lot of men i've dated aren't that good kissers..pretty much equates being bad lovers too.

 

so probably the girls they're with..aren't that good either.

 

Having sex with someone is an abomination of new techniques. I like to be with someone who had been with some attractive women than someone who isn't.

could be they're the type who doesnt value the past?

 

kaya the treat the past as if it wasnt there and nothing is learned.?

[j]

 

Interesting how you get inspired by their stories to come up with a good material to write. Like how Taylor Swift makes smashing albums based on some of relationships.

 

On topic, you don't need to know their previous stories too detailed. But I'm sure you'd rather want them to get tested for STDs.

doesnt taylor swift bash her ex's in song?

 

if that's so, you think people would learn from others...

[kamandag7]

Past is past.

 

1 important key to a good relationship is 'acceptance'.

 

Once you have decided na siya na talaga gusto mo. You have to accept everything bout her.

How about when you see her again working as a mpa ? Can you accept she is being f#&k by her guest 5 times to 6 times a day?

[kamandag7]

past determines future as they say. if shes an easy lay, one misunderstanding and shes in the arms of another man. think how you 2 have met and that will detemine how she treats other men also.

well said bb8

[liquidforce]

Infact you'd learn pretty much where he gets his styles - although that makes me snicker..a lot of men i've dated aren't that good kissers..pretty much equates being bad lovers too.

 

so probably the girls they're with..aren't that good either.

 

Having sex with someone is an abomination of new techniques. I like to be with someone who had been with some attractive women than someone who isn't.

101% agree with what you said regarding bad kisser=bad lover. I think some men tend to fast forward the action and wants to jump over the deed than to setup the mood. I think it starts with the deep eye contact then a passionate kiss with some intimate touch.

[j]

i hope there is a difference between saying the "past does not matter" and understanding their past. and that these are not being used interchangeably.

 

to me one sounds pretty cavalier and the other shows a sense of being thoughtful.

Edited January 9, 2016 by j

[j]

past determines future as they say. if shes an easy lay, one misunderstanding and shes in the arms of another man. think how you 2 have met and that will detemine how she treats other men also.

but what about people learning from their past and changing?

Edited January 9, 2016 by j