Mark-69 Posted February 17, 2022 Share Posted February 17, 2022 Honesty, TRUST, and transparency are the keys. Quote Link to comment
efy.villaroman Posted February 26, 2022 Share Posted February 26, 2022 On 2/17/2022 at 3:23 PM, Eunice of Clam said: alam naman ng lalaki panu maging faithful eh . may mga lalaking dilang tlga kontento . buti nlng marunong ako mkuntento hahha Quote Link to comment
handsomebob Posted February 26, 2022 Share Posted February 26, 2022 On 2/17/2022 at 3:23 PM, Eunice of Clam said: alam naman ng lalaki panu maging faithful eh . may mga lalaking dilang tlga kontento . tinamaan ako dito ah, LOL sorna miss EUNICE...hahahaha Quote Link to comment
selosa Posted March 3, 2022 Share Posted March 3, 2022 Nasa pagkatao nya yon, wala sayo. Quote Link to comment
KapitanBoom2009 Posted March 3, 2022 Share Posted March 3, 2022 4 hours ago, selosa said: Nasa pagkatao nya yon, wala sayo. Yes and No... do you think lalapit pa yun sa iyo kung dika naliligo? Quote Link to comment
Bigshotbob32 Posted March 3, 2022 Share Posted March 3, 2022 Have lots of sex daily. Hanggang sa wala ng ibubuga. Para wala ng lakas maghanap ng ibang babae haha. Parang ginagawa ni JLo dati kay Ben Affleck. Quote Link to comment
X-23 Posted March 3, 2022 Share Posted March 3, 2022 On 2/26/2022 at 3:33 PM, Billy Hope said: Lots of 👉👌 at home para hindi na maka 👉👌 sa labas. 🤣 🤣 🤣 Not true. Ang manyak at ganda at sexy ko na (oo sure ako na maganda at sexy ako ask nyo pa si tog! Haha!), nambabae pa rin. Reason? Babae daw kse yun lumalapit and nangungulit. Never umamin pero alam ko. Tanga kse mga lalake ang dali nyo mahuli. Back to the topic’s question, focus on yourself instead of him(but of course make sure nabibigay mo pa rin yun needs nya) but yun focus mo sa sarili mo wag mo aalisin. Paganda ka, maintain mo figure mo, gawa ka sarili mong hobby para di mo sya iniistalk kse nga busy ka din. Territorial mga lalake, babakuran ka nyan pag alam na pwede ka pa maagaw ng iba. 1 Quote Link to comment
kenshinhimuraOG Posted March 3, 2022 Share Posted March 3, 2022 How to keep us man loyal or faithful? Love, Respect, Trust and be Transparent at all times.kasama din syempre dun yung physical needs ng isang guy.. pero secondary na lang yun. Quote Link to comment
X-23 Posted March 4, 2022 Share Posted March 4, 2022 5 hours ago, Billy Hope said: My post was about what works for me, personally, as a normal adult male with normal levels of libido. Keyword: NORMAL. That's one way to keep me faithful. Besides, you don't anything about me so don't talk as if you do. I don't know about you but based on your post, yun case ng asawa/partner mo, hindi na pangkaraniwan ang wanderlust niya. Hindi na physiological na ang problem niya, I suggest samahan mo siya mag psychiatrist. Hope this helps. Haha! Well, kudos to you if you are loyal. But I find it so amusing that you would say that when you need to pay just to get laid. 😂 Or maybe no other girls are flirting with you cause you don’t look good that’s why you couldn’t relate to my post? Quote Link to comment
FF Posted March 4, 2022 Share Posted March 4, 2022 (edited) On 2/19/2017 at 9:54 AM, Queen Darkeinjel said: The most common excuse (and the lamest actually) I've heard from a man: "Men are just polygamous by nature." It's a cop-out, since they can always choose to be monogamous. A man can only be loyal IF he chooses to use his BRAIN and not his tiny head. Only a man who respects his woman will do everything in his power to not stray from you. This I've heard from a woman: "A man who chooses to be faithful and loyal to his woman will not even TOUCH another woman even if she takes off all her clothes in front of him and spreads her legs wider than the expanse of the Grand Canyon." However, if a man subscribes to the archaic idea and thinking of "If the grain goes near the cock, peck it." Then no matter what you do, he will always find a way and an excuse to be unfaithful. Great sex? What could be greater than a union, not just of bodies, but of mind and your entire being? But, if he views his needs are far greater than that, he will stray. If he equates manhood to the number of women who chase after him or sleep with him, he will stray. If a man thinks of his own selfish needs (in everything) all the time, he will stray. Because a faithful man, a loyal man will think of you, what it will do to your well being first and foremost, be willing to supress his desires, and would want to find out the reasons for any troubles first before even entertaining the idea of cheating. f#&k, you can be vanilla in bed or a freak of a pornstar in performing, but if he wants to cheat, he will cheat still. You can be the role model,running for saint-hood type of person in your treatment of him if he wants to cheat, he will cheat. The truth is, if one (no matter the gender) wants to cheat, he/she will ALWAYS find a reason,a sob story to do so. Don't blame yourself (at least not entirely, it's a two-way street my dears) too much. How to keep a man faithful? There's no way in hell you can do it. You can't help someone who does not want to be helped not by others but by himself. napaisip ako dito ... Edited March 4, 2022 by FF Quote Link to comment
razeyhamirez Posted March 4, 2022 Share Posted March 4, 2022 There's nothing you can do to cure a man's lust. Siya lang makakapagpa-tigil niyan. Having sex with another woman is his decision. Kung di niya talaga mahal yung babae, most likely, titikim yan ng ibang potahe. Kasi kung true love yan, hindi mo maiisip na gawin yun kasi alam mo masasaktan partner mo. Yun lang yun. Walang excuses 1 Quote Link to comment
Bigshotbob32 Posted March 4, 2022 Share Posted March 4, 2022 5 minutes ago, razeyhamirez said: There's nothing you can do to cure a man's lust. Siya lang makakapagpa-tigil niyan. Having sex with another woman is his decision. Kung di niya talaga mahal yung babae, most likely, titikim yan ng ibang potahe. Kasi kung true love yan, hindi mo maiisip na gawin yun kasi alam mo masasaktan partner mo. Yun lang yun. Walang excuses I think kaht mahal niya ung babae e ginagawa pa din or tinutuloy pa din nila. But, tama ka nga, nde nila alam nasasaktan partner nila. Ang nasa isip kasi nila is biyaya na ung lumalapit e, tatanggihan ko pa? Or siya pa din namn inuuwian ko a. Or lalake tayo e. Which as lalake is normal to try other "putahe". What if baligtarin ang nangyari? If babae ang mag cheat? Will you still accept her? Quote Link to comment
FF Posted March 4, 2022 Share Posted March 4, 2022 4 minutes ago, Bigshotbob32 said: I think kaht mahal niya ung babae e ginagawa pa din or tinutuloy pa din nila. But, tama ka nga, nde nila alam nasasaktan partner nila. Ang nasa isip kasi nila is biyaya na ung lumalapit e, tatanggihan ko pa? Or siya pa din namn inuuwian ko a. Or lalake tayo e. Which as lalake is normal to try other "putahe". What if baligtarin ang nangyari? If babae ang mag cheat? Will you still accept her? yo bob ! naalala ko ung boss ko dati . Gwapo , may pera , intelligent . Kagandahan , sexy din ang misis niya. Mejo sosyal lang nga . Nung nahuli si boss ko ng ilang beses nag revenge fuck si misis niya. And she vowed to keep on doing it till he stopped. Malungkot kong inabot sa office. He gave me a wan and sad smile. Remember if we can do it ...they can do it too. 1 Quote Link to comment
razeyhamirez Posted March 4, 2022 Share Posted March 4, 2022 4 minutes ago, Bigshotbob32 said: I think kaht mahal niya ung babae e ginagawa pa din or tinutuloy pa din nila. But, tama ka nga, nde nila alam nasasaktan partner nila. Ang nasa isip kasi nila is biyaya na ung lumalapit e, tatanggihan ko pa? Or siya pa din namn inuuwian ko a. Or lalake tayo e. Which as lalake is normal to try other "putahe". What if baligtarin ang nangyari? If babae ang mag cheat? Will you still accept her? Will I still accept her? ABSOLUTELY NOT. People who cheat belong to the street. I'm not a saint, I also like sex (a lot) but I don't go sleeping around when I'm in a relationship. That's unfair for your partner. Biyaya lumapit? Alam mo naman na makakasakit ka, kasi alam mo masakit kapag ikaw pinagtaksilan. Hindi tayo hayop na bigla na lang sasakmal basta makakita lang ng kepyas sa harap natin. May utak tayo para magdesisyon at timbangin kung ano ang tama at mali. Quote Link to comment
Bigshotbob32 Posted March 4, 2022 Share Posted March 4, 2022 1 hour ago, razeyhamirez said: Will I still accept her? ABSOLUTELY NOT. People who cheat belong to the street. I'm not a saint, I also like sex (a lot) but I don't go sleeping around when I'm in a relationship. That's unfair for your partner. Biyaya lumapit? Alam mo naman na makakasakit ka, kasi alam mo masakit kapag ikaw pinagtaksilan. Hindi tayo hayop na bigla na lang sasakmal basta makakita lang ng kepyas sa harap natin. May utak tayo para magdesisyon at timbangin kung ano ang tama at mali. Precisely. Tama ka diyan. Kasi yan ang utak ng karamihan na lalake. "Normal" lang for a guy to sleep around. Kasi nga lalake. But its very wrong. Dapat kung ano ang ayaw natin gawin sa atin, wag din natin gagawin sa kanya. Quote Link to comment
Bigshotbob32 Posted March 4, 2022 Share Posted March 4, 2022 1 hour ago, FF said: yo bob ! naalala ko ung boss ko dati . Gwapo , may pera , intelligent . Kagandahan , sexy din ang misis niya. Mejo sosyal lang nga . Nung nahuli si boss ko ng ilang beses nag revenge fuck si misis niya. And she vowed to keep on doing it till he stopped. Malungkot kong inabot sa office. He gave me a wan and sad smile. Remember if we can do it ...they can do it too. Yes. What goes around comes around. Tapos pag lalake nagtaksil ang sasabihn " Everybody deserves a 2nd chance." Pero pag babae nagtaksil parang ung babae pa ang sumira sa pamilya. Masyado kasing accepted ng society natin na ang lalake normal na ang pagtataksil. Pero pag babae. Masyado na silang hinusgahan. 1 Quote Link to comment
FF Posted March 9, 2022 Share Posted March 9, 2022 On 3/4/2022 at 7:54 PM, razeyhamirez said: There's nothing you can do to cure a man's lust. Siya lang makakapagpa-tigil niyan. Having sex with another woman is his decision. Kung di niya talaga mahal yung babae, most likely, titikim yan ng ibang potahe. Kasi kung true love yan, hindi mo maiisip na gawin yun kasi alam mo masasaktan partner mo. Yun lang yun. Walang excuses no excuses talaga naman. pero kung dmo maiwasan ...just be discreet and don't let your wife / partner know. that is the least you can do for her . on the other hand ... there are women also who accept the fact that given the chance .. men will cheat. A good friend of mine said : If I had the choice of knowing whether my husband cheats or not .. I wouldn't want to know. As long as he is emotionally faithful to me . Just an anecdote lang. I dont know if this is shared by other women. 1 Quote Link to comment
JST2021 Posted March 9, 2022 Share Posted March 9, 2022 Frankly speaking, I think it's largely beyond your control. A man will either be sexually unfaithful or be totally committed, depending on his personality, what he saw with his own parents, if he's in a good and communicative relationship with his spouse, and sometimes based on no reason other than his mood of the moment. Personally, I've accepted the fact that I am sexually promiscuous. No justification or reasoning, basta lang. I am really fulfilled and happy when I have varied sexual experiences with different partners. Quote Link to comment
FF Posted March 9, 2022 Share Posted March 9, 2022 1 hour ago, JST2021 said: Frankly speaking, I think it's largely beyond your control. A man will either be sexually unfaithful or be totally committed, depending on his personality, what he saw with his own parents, if he's in a good and communicative relationship with his spouse, and sometimes based on no reason other than his mood of the moment. Personally, I've accepted the fact that I am sexually promiscuous. No justification or reasoning, basta lang. I am really fulfilled and happy when I have varied sexual experiences with different partners. men are naturally hotwired for this. there is a netflix docu explaining why bmen seek sex from diff women. Its the natural urge to spread your DNA. Quote Link to comment
razeyhamirez Posted March 10, 2022 Share Posted March 10, 2022 On 3/9/2022 at 1:52 PM, FF said: men are naturally hotwired for this. there is a netflix docu explaining why bmen seek sex from diff women. Its the natural urge to spread your DNA. On 3/9/2022 at 12:26 PM, JST2021 said: Frankly speaking, I think it's largely beyond your control. A man will either be sexually unfaithful or be totally committed, depending on his personality, what he saw with his own parents, if he's in a good and communicative relationship with his spouse, and sometimes based on no reason other than his mood of the moment. Personally, I've accepted the fact that I am sexually promiscuous. No justification or reasoning, basta lang. I am really fulfilled and happy when I have varied sexual experiences with different partners. Sure, you can put in genetic, evolutionary, psychosocial, hormonal (and others) factors into the equation. Those are scientific facts and I don’t disagree with that. But right before we do an act, we have a rational mind that can process these possible courses of action. We can’t just rely solely on our impulses. That is what differentiates us from animals. At the end of the day. There is still this conscious decision to weigh our choices whether they are moral or immoral. Acting solely on your bodily urges just proves that you are either a. Immoral b. A weak-willed person On 3/9/2022 at 10:29 AM, FF said: no excuses talaga naman. pero kung dmo maiwasan ...just be discreet and don't let your wife / partner know. that is the least you can do for her . on the other hand ... there are women also who accept the fact that given the chance .. men will cheat. A good friend of mine said : If I had the choice of knowing whether my husband cheats or not .. I wouldn't want to know. As long as he is emotionally faithful to me . Just an anecdote lang. I dont know if this is shared by other women. by that statement, the partner being oblivious to the disloyalty makes it okay? cheating is immoral. No matter how you look at it. There is no argument to that. Nobody want to get cheated on. You say ‘no excuses’ but from my point of view, you are trying to rationalize your previous acts by presenting an anecdotal/single testimony - that is, one of the weakest form of evidence Quote Link to comment
razeyhamirez Posted March 10, 2022 Share Posted March 10, 2022 Again, as a disclaimer, I am not one to be called pure Like most of you, I ALSO LIKE SEX (quite a lot) I, myself, also engage in flings, fubus, MU, spas, whatever. But I make the conscious effort to make sure that it’s (1) consensual, (2) no other parties are affected, (3) no relationships/marriages are broken. I don’t fuck around if I’m in a relationship. This does not put me on the pedestal, but justifying that ‘disloyalty/cheating is okay’ is just absurd. Own up your mistakes/sins. Quote Link to comment
Donabelle_Tisay Posted March 10, 2022 Share Posted March 10, 2022 Be sensitive to his needs/wants. Be a good companion Quote Link to comment
FF Posted March 11, 2022 Share Posted March 11, 2022 7 hours ago, razeyhamirez said: Again, as a disclaimer, I am not one to be called pure Like most of you, I ALSO LIKE SEX (quite a lot) I, myself, also engage in flings, fubus, MU, spas, whatever. But I make the conscious effort to make sure that it’s (1) consensual, (2) no other parties are affected, (3) no relationships/marriages are broken. I don’t fuck around if I’m in a relationship. This does not put me on the pedestal, but justifying that ‘disloyalty/cheating is okay’ is just absurd. Own up your mistakes/sins. sure enough. to each his own naman talaga. as i said no excuses. if people cheat it is their choice to do with it and live with it. this is not an open call to encourage others. lahat naman ng posts dito is just to share and help people understand .Hindi naman ito DEBATE comrade. if you"re faithful and loyal then you're faithful and loyal . congratulations at mabuhay ka comrade. Chill ka lang ok ? 1 Quote Link to comment
JST2021 Posted April 27, 2022 Share Posted April 27, 2022 On 3/11/2022 at 1:26 AM, razeyhamirez said: Again, as a disclaimer, I am not one to be called pure Like most of you, I ALSO LIKE SEX (quite a lot) I, myself, also engage in flings, fubus, MU, spas, whatever. But I make the conscious effort to make sure that it’s (1) consensual, (2) no other parties are affected, (3) no relationships/marriages are broken. I don’t fuck around if I’m in a relationship. This does not put me on the pedestal, but justifying that ‘disloyalty/cheating is okay’ is just absurd. Own up your mistakes/sins. I'm not justifying anything or making an excuse. It's just what I've done in the past and will continue to do. That's my choice and I was replying to the question on the topic. If you choose otherwise, then it's your choice sir. I am not telling you that you are foolish or forcing you to be sexually promiscuous. But the last time I checked you're not my boss or parent, so while I applaud your life choices, I don't feel compelled to copy them. Quote Link to comment
FF Posted April 27, 2022 Share Posted April 27, 2022 3 hours ago, JST2021 said: I'm not justifying anything or making an excuse. It's just what I've done in the past and will continue to do. That's my choice and I was replying to the question on the topic. If you choose otherwise, then it's your choice sir. I am not telling you that you are foolish or forcing you to be sexually promiscuous. But the last time I checked you're not my boss or parent, so while I applaud your life choices, I don't feel compelled to copy them. +1 Quote Link to comment
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