How can a cheater stop cheating

[Misteryotao]

There is a reason why people cheat. Now if you know the reason, then maybe you try your hardest to make that reason go away. If a person no longer has a reason. Then why he/she would cheat again?

[cumlaude]

alam ko nabasa nyo na ito na status ng isang Thera.

"A person can love you and still cheat, just like we love God but still sin."

[Fortuner_Kal_el]

Therapy and focus your energy into other things. If you have kids, spend time with them.

[Ph!nX]

pag nahawa ng malalang sakit sa ka-cheat

[Greasygrass]

Cheating is betraying own self and others. Cheaters need help but they need to accept it first. It takes a deeper understanding of its behavior.

[gello]

Sakit na yan hindi mo sila mababago unless magkusa sila or ma experience nila yung maloko or yung iba na experience nila na maloko kaya sila naman ngayon nanloloko without knowing na nagagawa na nila.

[Angel on Top]

Hndi na kailngan umamin gawin ko nlng magbgo pra itama ang pagkamali ko

[frankenstein4200]

Pray

[spidey21]

Nice forum

[jwynn]

a cheater never stops cheating.

 

once a cheater, always a cheater.

[Piaggio]

Maybe by getting busy doing other things that take one's mind off it.

[ronin_hentai]

In my humble opinion, you can't "make" a cheater stop. A cheater will stop cheating once he/she finally decides by him/herself to stop cheating. Much like quitting cigarettes or any other vice. A person will only stop if they make a conscious decision that they'll stop. No amount of cajoling, reward/punishment systems, or graded withdrawal will make someone abandon their indulgence unless there is a conscious decision from that person to stop indulging. Ganun din sa cheaters tingin ko.

[ronin_hentai]

 

....For clarity's sake, can we clarify kung ano definition ng cheating?

 

Siguro sir, pointless napo to split hairs at least for the purposes of this particular discussion. Whether we admit to it or not, cheating yan lahat. I agree, maaring may certain differences in degrees pero bottomline cheat pa rin yan lahat.

Edited May 1, 2016 by ronin_hentai

[p-colossus]

For me, any sexual or intimate encounter that can betray your partner's trust in you is cheating. Hell, even watching porn in some cases have been considered as cheating if it damages your partner's self-esteem and morale.

 

The thing is you made yourself exclusive to somebody when you decided go steady. That means you should be intimate only to your partner, as she is with you. Then you decide to do something with somebody else, an act which you should only be doing exclusively to the one you promised yourself to. It is betrayal, no matter what degree.

 

The damage it can do is vast. If you were keen on trying other intimate things with others then maybe exclusivity isn't for you. Have an open relationship, get consent from your partner to try things with other people or include your partner in these endeavors.

[jelly bean]

Agree with this. Until he gets tired of cheating, or probably until he catches a disease.

For clarity's sake, can we clarify kung ano definition ng cheating? Is that having an affair with someone who knows your true identity? Or having discreet encounters sa mga spas, mpas, one night stands wherein the man just wants to get his fix?

I think having an affair is a different level since you are already investing some of your emotions, as opposed to ESpas, mpas, ONStands wherein it's purely sexual. Cheating yan pareho pero magkaiba lang ng degree

Ikaw Na rin sumagot sa question mo... Cheating Yan pereho. Crystal clear.