*Jessie* Posted January 7, 2014 Author Share Posted January 7, 2014 (edited) office romances are crazy. nangyari na saken to like 5x. mejo disastrous but no regrets. yung dalawa minahal ko naman talaga; tumagal naman kame. yung others... hehehe kung mahal mo, why not? walang batas na kinikilala kung mahal mo na. kung first moves palang, like gusto mo kaibiganin. or kilalanin. or landiin (hehehe), mejo ingat lang. Good point. Actually yun yung exeption siguro pag na inlab ka sa girl kaya kahit na sa office pa eh ipupursue mo. Which happens less likely kasi it takes quality time to get someone to eventually fall.for her. kaya girls ganyan ang technique jan Dapat i-friends mo sya para may chance na madevelop sya sayo pero dapat wag super friends kasi baka mafriendzone ka. Edited January 7, 2014 by *Jessie* Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted January 8, 2014 Author Share Posted January 8, 2014 ^^ I agree with sir Raf lalo na sa walang batas I had one serious relationship with an officemate. i guess one bad thing about it is, walanog chance ma-miss nyo ang isa't isa. lalo na kung kasama mo pa sa bahay. hahahaha and mahirap mag-leave ng sabay. when it comes to pormahan... mas convenient pag officemate. hahahahaha you get to do little crazy surprises easily. it's always been a no-no sa karamihan, but i think office relationships are for the bold and daring. hahaha i had this couple officemate who didnt spend much time together when at work. they didnt even have lunch together. sabay lang sila uuwi. I think it worked for them. Months later, they got married. Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted January 8, 2014 Author Share Posted January 8, 2014 When dating someone new, the common rule of thumb is to keep the relationship under the radar until you decide it's long-term material. This rule is especially important if you're dating a coworker. Good point. Well, all is tested in time. Thanks artedpro. Quote Link to comment
viral Posted January 8, 2014 Share Posted January 8, 2014 When I was 21, 22 years old, I worked in a small office where one of the girls started being friendly with me. She was hot, would take me to the movies because I had no money. She taught me to finger her and that night I didn't wash my hand so I'd keep her smell. She'd let me feel the fine pubic hair that went up to her bellybutton. Then suddenly she turned cold and naive as I was, I went after her like a dog in heat. Partly I was really frustrated because she was more sexually experienced than me then and had been telling me about her adventures, and there I was with my tongue hanging out, and I never got any. Anyway, the moral of the story is that everyone at the office probably knew what was going on, and I was a fool of a dog in heat. Not a good office romance at all. Ah, women. Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted January 8, 2014 Author Share Posted January 8, 2014 one thing i think you have to consider is kung gano ka ka-sensitive when it comes to office gossip, especially since kapag pinursue mo ang office romance, gossips. men hate them. interesting pattern. 1 Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted January 8, 2014 Author Share Posted January 8, 2014 marami na ko pinakawalang pagkakataon na ganito, ewan ko nga ba kung bakit. siguro dahil sa hindi ako komportable katrabaho ang isang taong higit pa sa pagkakaibigan ang relasyon namin. (",) nice. thanks for sharing! Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted January 8, 2014 Author Share Posted January 8, 2014 I never really took any "office romance" seriously. I don't want to complicate things. I just get into flings, but nothing serious. That's just me. true. less baggage, better. Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted January 9, 2014 Author Share Posted January 9, 2014 When I was 21, 22 years old, I worked in a small office where one of the girls started being friendly with me. She was hot, would take me to the movies because I had no money. She taught me to finger her and that night I didn't wash my hand so I'd keep her smell. She'd let me feel the fine pubic hair that went up to her bellybutton. Then suddenly she turned cold and naive as I was, I went after her like a dog in heat. Partly I was really frustrated because she was more sexually experienced than me then and had been telling me about her adventures, and there I was with my tongue hanging out, and I never got any. Anyway, the moral of the story is that everyone at the office probably knew what was going on, and I was a fool of a dog in heat. Not a good office romance at all. Ah, women. Whoa! You will never forget this for the rest of your life. Quote Link to comment
Matty Ghas Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 Mahirap. Di mo pwedeng pagsabaysabayin. I was flirting with 3 girls from different departments, discrete lang ang diskarte since mahirap machismis sa office. Makaka score na sana ako when girl no 1 agreed to have dinner with me kasabay ng movie date ko with girl number 3. Ang tagal ko winork out tapos mauwi lang sa wala. Yun pala pinagkaisahan ako they knew all along. Magkasabay pala sa shuttle bus. 1 Quote Link to comment
viral Posted January 10, 2014 Share Posted January 10, 2014 Whoa! You will never forget this for the rest of your life. Hahaha! You said it, that experience was unforgettable. I felt like such a fool. But funny, before I left she made friends with me again. Quote Link to comment
viral Posted January 10, 2014 Share Posted January 10, 2014 (edited) ♡♡♡some women are hot and dangerous...haha haha but anyway nice experience Lol, she sure was hot and dangerous! I still don't understand what her trip was, she wanted to hook up but then suddenly dropped me. Maybe she decided she didn't like me that much after all. Charge it to experience, the emotional equivalent of blue balls. Edited January 10, 2014 by viral Quote Link to comment
*Jessie* Posted January 10, 2014 Author Share Posted January 10, 2014 Mahirap. Di mo pwedeng pagsabaysabayin. I was flirting with 3 girls from different departments, discrete lang ang diskarte since mahirap machismis sa office. Makaka score na sana ako when girl no 1 agreed to have dinner with me kasabay ng movie date ko with girl number 3. Ang tagal ko winork out tapos mauwi lang sa wala. Yun pala pinagkaisahan ako they knew all along. Magkasabay pala sa shuttle bus. Lol. Cool! I was about to say you are the man. Quote Link to comment
chiliman Posted January 10, 2014 Share Posted January 10, 2014 (edited) I guess it really depends... I had an officemate that started out as a "barkada", the drinking buddy, then girlfriend. We actually broke up a few months after she resigned. Siguro we were both the type na kapag hindi namin ma-feel ang presence ng partner namin or parang feeling ko weak yung desire/effort (parating may excuse...) to be with me, I tend to "drift away". Edited January 10, 2014 by chiliman Quote Link to comment
clandestinecuddles Posted January 12, 2014 Share Posted January 12, 2014 In my case it was hard to choose or choice becomes limited.. Pag binakuran ka na ng isa and he makes it known that he intends to court you, the rest who had the same intentions would back off. Sayang ang iba hahaha. Quote Link to comment
silvervic Posted January 14, 2014 Share Posted January 14, 2014 Upon reading the latest posts, I concur that men can't really comprehend the mechanics of a woman's mind and heart. I guess you have to look straight into their eyes to see their real intentions are. But, then again, there are women who can guise their gaze to look sincere. An office/workplace is like a big swingers party--minus the music and the booze and everybody should be in their utmost decorum. ^_~ Quote Link to comment
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