temurlenk Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Avoid it if you can, but if you can't, don't let it get in the way of your job and do it only if you're both single. Quote Link to comment
raizel2nd Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Office romance or shags is also a no-no for me. It might lead to other job-related complications later on and I'm sure most of the people here know what I'm referring to. Eye candies and crushes are very great though. It keeps me motivated to work and go to the pantry "to eat" Quote Link to comment
smoothtalker Posted March 30, 2015 Share Posted March 30, 2015 ayaw. geez, buong office hours kayo magkasama? tapos after din, kung maghahatid sunduan pa kayo. tapos pag kasal na kayo, 24/7 ma kayo magkasama nyan. lol. Quote Link to comment
boching88 Posted March 30, 2015 Share Posted March 30, 2015 Let me just share my experience on this topic. I had this office mate before,she's nice to everybody & easy to get along with. No wonder a lot of people likes her personality. I consider her a friend vice versa,no strings attached. She's separated with his boyfriend in which they had a lone child. We were having our quarterly office bonding,we had several drinks. I was with my own set pals & she was also having fun with her own group. It was around 2am when I decided to go home,it was raining that time so it's kinda hard to take a cab. After 30 mins I got lucky a cab stop in front of me. When I was about to board in a heard a familiar voice asking if she can ride along. As I look behind it was her,I smiled & said yes. She told me she's leaving in Bulacan,were in Ortigas so you can just imagine how far she's going to travel. Looking at her a little tipsy I asked her if she wants to join me in Starbucks so that she can have a strong coffee & have more energy when going home. She said yes & so we went there,unfortunately the rain was heavier. I ask her if she wants to stay in my place at least until 6am since the coffee shop is closing already. I think it's more safer if she travels early morning than forcing her way home. Anyway there's no cab willing to take her to Bulacan that time even if she's willing to pay more. So in short we arrive home around 4am,I let her rest we were staying both in the same room since I'm leaving in a studio type residence. Because of the coffee running on our veins,we were talking all night long. Everything under the sun,when out of nowhere I decided to kiss her. I don't know what the he'll I did that for,she was stunned & just looking at me. Then after a few seconds she smiled,and the rest is history. Come Monday I feel a little nervous,I don't know what to do or say when I see her. When I reach the 8th floor,elevator opens. The first person I saw was her,my heart pounding faster than ever. She just say good morning sir,then she smiled as if nothing happens. I greeted her back,during lunch time when were just the two of us left on the floor I approached her & say sorry for what happened. She just told me that hopefully no one will knows what happened between the two of us. Several years gone by and she decided to leave the company,were still friends but the experience never happened again. Good for both of us,at least we remain professional all throughout the years in office. No more contact with her,hope she's doin fine. Thanks for the wonderful memory. Quote Link to comment
glut_func Posted March 30, 2015 Share Posted March 30, 2015 If you're going for a long term career sa office nyo, as much as you can help it, never ever sh!t in your own backyard. Pero kung isa sa inyo paalis na lang din then go. Just dont make a mistake na may mabuo. Quote Link to comment
Angas ng Tondo Posted April 6, 2015 Share Posted April 6, 2015 para sa akin ay okay lang, para naman maiba ang ambiance at location. Quote Link to comment
gwapingsz1 Posted May 12, 2015 Share Posted May 12, 2015 (edited) I had a lot of opportunity to take advantage of my role in the company. The signs are all there from peers and direct reports. However, I strongly believe that you Don't sh*t on where you eat. Its a big HELL NO if it is in the office. I try my luck once they are no longer connected with the company. hahaha. Edited May 12, 2015 by gwapingsz1 Quote Link to comment
batanghamog Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 be very very discreet Quote Link to comment
Black Cobra Posted May 21, 2015 Share Posted May 21, 2015 its okay only after office and away from CCTV Quote Link to comment
Cabs Posted May 26, 2015 Share Posted May 26, 2015 Mahirapang office romance itoyung naging experience ko recently we just broke up this february and nagkabfagadsya ... so I wanted her back I think mahirapsangayon we still talk peroanogagawinko I need advice on this? Quote Link to comment
ping.guerrero Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 would like to be involved in one:) Quote Link to comment
MODERATOR Alex_Corvis Posted June 8, 2015 MODERATOR Share Posted June 8, 2015 Hirap ngayon sa office, there's this sexual tension between me and an officemate.Problem is, we're both married and hatid sundo sya ng hubby nya. So hanggang landian lang sa (office) lynch messenger and konting hipuan sa pantry pag walang tao. I didn't even get her number for fear na mabuko ng hubby nya. Quote Link to comment
glut_func Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 ok lang sana to kung kayo lang tao sa opis...engkaso hindi eh, daming mata at tengang naka-abang sa tabi-tabi... It takes a lot for someone (or anyone for that matter) to not easily give in to temptation...lalo na pag ikaw na ang nilalapitan *nakupow dyuskolord!!!* Quote Link to comment
Obelisk Posted June 12, 2015 Share Posted June 12, 2015 Its difficult to pull off, but it wouldnt be fun if it is easy. the thrill of getting caught by the b.f. the winks across the hall. The small talk she initiates.girls walking up to you just to say hi. Good times.. Quote Link to comment
reyvenmartinez Posted June 13, 2015 Share Posted June 13, 2015 Haha, nabuo ako sa opisina. Wew Quote Link to comment
reyvenmartinez Posted June 13, 2015 Share Posted June 13, 2015 Sa opisina aq nabuo 😂😂😂😂 Quote Link to comment
Guest KT3 Posted July 12, 2015 Share Posted July 12, 2015 If you are a man/woman of authority in the office, there are 2 possibilities that will come out of an office tryst with a subordinate: 1. If subordinate is infatuated by your advances- great sex in the evening, bad work output in the morning, good coffee in the afternoon. 2. If subordinate is offended by your advances- a harrassment case in the morning, a letter of termination/preventive suspension in the afternoon, a Temporary Restraining Order in the evening. Either way, you lose. 1 Quote Link to comment
philnightlife Posted July 13, 2015 Share Posted July 13, 2015 Relations with a girl from another department would be ok but there are just too many things that could and will go wrong pag within a department Quote Link to comment
mieke18 Posted July 22, 2015 Share Posted July 22, 2015 Its a no-no... friends zone lng siguro. Quote Link to comment
Piaggio Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 Risky but possible. Very destructive, though. And very difficult to hide. Quote Link to comment
Eddy Syet Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 Syet, speaking from experience - problema lang yan! Quote Link to comment
Mad Damian Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 had an encounter w/ an officemate.ngayon, sa akin na palagi lumalapit kapag kailangan ng pera.dati, nangungutang pa sa kompanya at boss nya. zero interest, minsan pati principal di na rin nababayaran. in kind na lang. Quote Link to comment
IR○N B3^ST Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 Haha,, tinaman ako dun, remember ko officemate ko,crush na crush ko cya talaga kaso di pwde.. Quote Link to comment
seandevlin Posted September 17, 2015 Share Posted September 17, 2015 Unless you're both eligible, don't bother. It's a catastrophe waiting to happen. Quote Link to comment
BeautifulBitch Posted September 17, 2015 Share Posted September 17, 2015 It's exciting,thrilling, adventurous and fraught with danger for your job, relationships and peace of mind. I guess it's only ok if you're both discreet and adventurous. If you can't keep quiet, you're digging.your grave. I've had a mild office flirtation for the last two weeks. It only ended coz he resigned. Guess I'll have to wait and see if it progresses into something wonderful. Quote Link to comment
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