Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

same thing can be said to some theras. lonely girls looking for love in all the wrong places.

I was reading in the “other side” of this thread about a Top Thera or Top Attendant that had fallen in love with a married guy and that he had broken her heart. And as tragic as that is, that is the more general run of the mill happening. Married guy goes off the reservation and gets hot and heavy with miss flavorful of the moment, maybe he’s honest and does fall in love, but ultimately what it takes to be in a real relationship destroys the fleshy fantasy. And that’s the other thing, it takes a lot when you are at a certain level, the sacrifice is a cross to far to bear. The judgments are harsher; the disapprobation is more acrid; and embarrassment more acute.

 

It takes a lot financially, and it will take a lot more psychologically. And sure anyone can say that love is all you need, but the reality is when you stand at the bridge, it may be a lot more daunting to cross than “Pretty Woman” suggests. That’s the tragedy or the comedy of it, both parties know better, but they give in and the ultimate game of poker starts; both parties not knowing what the other holds- is it real or just a mirage?

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

I was reading in the other side of this thread about a Top Thera or Top Attendant that had fallen in love with a married guy and that he had broken her heart. And as tragic as that is, that is the more general run of the mill happening. Married guy goes off the reservation and gets hot and heavy with miss flavorful of the moment, maybe hes honest and does fall in love, but ultimately what it takes to be in a real relationship destroys the fleshy fantasy. And thats the other thing, it takes a lot when you are at a certain level, the sacrifice is a cross to far to bear. The judgments are harsher; the disapprobation is more acrid; and embarrassment more acute.

 

It takes a lot financially, and it will take a lot more psychologically. And sure anyone can say that love is all you need, but the reality is when you stand at the bridge, it may be a lot more daunting to cross than Pretty Woman suggests. Thats the tragedy or the comedy of it, both parties know better, but they give in and the ultimate game of poker starts; both parties not knowing what the other holds- is it real or just a mirage?

Thats the Unfortunate Truth. Regardless whether Top Thera or Just a Regular Jane falls with a Married Man would lead to Nowhere most of the time. Sure their relationship would be sinful yet sweet but after lets say three months, someones got to give. The Married Guy or The Thera.

 

Nothing Wrong with Falling for your Thera. Committing to have a working relationship would be another thing to think of.

Edited August 24, 2019 by K0RN

[will robie]

True, but its good to have a collection of classics so attachment is less. Also some absence makes the heart, if not the loins fonder. I used to have a really nice harem where I get 2-3 a week; then switch it up with others the next week. Though getting to that point where you have several reliables can require some investment.

A decade ago, I had a regular whom I came back to every week. She was my only therapist for two months because her two services were exceptional. I can't say I was attached because what I came back for were her services. She wasn't exactly a looker but she had a nice body and flawless. I would liken her to my favorite dentist, mechanic, barber, etc. I don't go back to them because I am attached to them. I go back to them because of their exceptional service. I believe "hiyang" is the term in the vernacular.

[plug]

It is a good practice for people who come to spakol just for the normal services, massage and standard ES. Maybe it cannot be called directly a bisyo. Kasi it is the same as you avail the services in a saloon for the haircut, manicure and pedicure only there is no ES. But come to think of it may posibilidad din magkaroon ng fall sa lugar na iyon.

Pag ginawa mong bisyo ang spakol hindi ka after more on the services but rather after the thera. Bisyo ang babae at yan ang tutoo. As bisyo bawat bitawan mong pera o bagay ay huwag mong asahan na babalik o magkaroon ng kapalit na hangarin. Tapon lahat iyon.

Okay spakol may not be the right place. So nag-fall ka to a decent or not decent girl ouuside spakol and still the same you have to bring out what is inside your pocket knowing not sure kung makukuha mo siya, Minsan di ka pa rin nakakatiyak kung makakatotohanan siya. So tapon din.

The big difference in spakol and that outside is the direct body contact amoy mo pa ang kanyang hininga (may amoy o wala) and it is up to the guest to respond. Nakaka-miss minsan pag nakatagpo ka ng iyong desired na thera. May sinubukan akong thera recently at nakakalibang pagmasdan ang kanyang mukha at makipagtinginan makakalimutan mo na ang ES, Ipon ng kaunti o next week suweldo. Could be a fall - NO but most likely para lang matikman.

May customer naman open to whatever rate ni thera and after the session just leave the spakol just like anyone who just availed a standard ES. Parehas din ang result - smiling.

A thera insisted her personal promo to a married friend but he declined and just asked for an HJ. Kasagot-sagot ni thera nagpunta ka pa dito para magpa-handjob lang. You cannot blame the thera because she is there to make money and she can deliver.

Another married friend said there is a better feeling being touched by another girl aside from his wife.

And sometimes that feeling may be transformed to a fall.

So let them fall. It's their money, time and life.

[barretm82]

I was reading in the other side of this thread about a Top Thera or Top Attendant that had fallen in love with a married guy and that he had broken her heart. And as tragic as that is, that is the more general run of the mill happening. Married guy goes off the reservation and gets hot and heavy with miss flavorful of the moment, maybe hes honest and does fall in love, but ultimately what it takes to be in a real relationship destroys the fleshy fantasy. And thats the other thing, it takes a lot when you are at a certain level, the sacrifice is a cross to far to bear. The judgments are harsher; the disapprobation is more acrid; and embarrassment more acute.

 

It takes a lot financially, and it will take a lot more psychologically. And sure anyone can say that love is all you need, but the reality is when you stand at the bridge, it may be a lot more daunting to cross than Pretty Woman suggests. Thats the tragedy or the comedy of it, both parties know better, but they give in and the ultimate game of poker starts; both parties not knowing what the other holds- is it real or just a mirage?

just like i said, just like gms falling for shitty theras. some theras too fall for shitty guys. in your story, investing in feelings to a married person is sort of an act of desperation. most of the time talo ka sa huli. i think that thera knew the consequences but was just blinded by her feelings.

 

but i still believe some relationships between a gm and thera "may" work. basta walang sabit but the risks involved are really high compared to meeting normal girls. kaya to those gms who are willing to take the risk, i salute you. good luck!

I was reading in the other side of this thread about a Top Thera or Top Attendant that had fallen in love with a married guy and that he had broken her heart. And as tragic as that is, that is the more general run of the mill happening. Married guy goes off the reservation and gets hot and heavy with miss flavorful of the moment, maybe hes honest and does fall in love, but ultimately what it takes to be in a real relationship destroys the fleshy fantasy. And thats the other thing, it takes a lot when you are at a certain level, the sacrifice is a cross to far to bear. The judgments are harsher; the disapprobation is more acrid; and embarrassment more acute.

 

It takes a lot financially, and it will take a lot more psychologically. And sure anyone can say that love is all you need, but the reality is when you stand at the bridge, it may be a lot more daunting to cross than Pretty Woman suggests. Thats the tragedy or the comedy of it, both parties know better, but they give in and the ultimate game of poker starts; both parties not knowing what the other holds- is it real or just a mirage?

just like i said, just like gms falling for shitty theras. some theras too fall for shitty guys. in your story, investing in feelings to a married person is sort of an act of desperation. most of the time talo ka sa huli. i think that thera knew the consequences but was just blinded by her feelings.

 

but i still believe some relationships between a gm and thera "may" work. basta walang sabit but the risks involved are really high compared to meeting normal girls. kaya to those gms who are willing to take the risk, i salute you. good luck!

[wh!teph0enix]

the last 1-2 months i had a regular thera, very young looking and her body is at the onset of blooming

 

i used to visit her once a week, but in the last few weeks our session became hotter that i had to visit her for two consecutive days once

 

she started months ago when i first met her, then took her again when she came back

 

she still remembered me and was very playful yet sweet to me, she will let me do what i want with her and the last few sessions namin, i felt like i was starting to have feelings for her

 

i usually tip her about 50% more than her rates, but she will allow me to do it live and even finish inside basta safe sya

 

she was also asking if i can support her financially so that she will not have to stay in the industry for more than a few months, she just badly needs quick money due to family emergency

 

unfortunately, kasama sya sa mga “narescue” sa recent raids and i havent heard from her since

 

at least hindi lumalim yung feelings ko at natapos ng maaga, although how it ended was not ideal

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

just like i said, just like gms falling for shitty theras. some theras too fall for shitty guys. in your story, investing in feelings to a married person is sort of an act of desperation. most of the time talo ka sa huli. i think that thera knew the consequences but was just blinded by her feelings.

 

but i still believe some relationships between a gm and thera "may" work. basta walang sabit but the risks involved are really high compared to meeting normal girls. kaya to those gms who are willing to take the risk, i salute you. good luck!

Isa lang ata ang nabasa ko dito na successful yung GM-Thera Relationship since yung Marriage ni GM was on the rocks.

 

But yes, I agree na palaging talo si Thera if makikipagrelationship sya sa isang Married GM, Top Thera man o Regular Thera lang not unless FUBU lang yung set-up nila and alam nilang dalawa yung boundaries ng relationship nila.

[barretm82]

Isa lang ata ang nabasa ko dito na successful yung GM-Thera Relationship since yung Marriage ni GM was on the rocks.

 

But yes, I agree na palaging talo si Thera if makikipagrelationship sya sa isang Married GM, Top Thera man o Regular Thera lang not unless FUBU lang yung set-up nila and alam nilang dalawa yung boundaries ng relationship nila.

so talagang malaki ang risk factor pursuing a thera. success rate is very thin based dito sa thread haha.

 

yan talaga hindi ko ma gets sa ibang thera. i mean theyve seen it all, lahat ng klaseng pambobola narinig na nila, theyve met guys from different walks of life due to their nature of work. yet, they still fall for shitty guys.

[Iceman7]

they still fall for shitty guys.

Thats just the nature of most women they will be more attracted to the bad boy or the guy that they cant really have(married guys).

 

You can look at it this way boy toy=alpha male GM=beta male haha 😆

[K0RN - RETIR3D]

so talagang malaki ang risk factor pursuing a thera. success rate is very thin based dito sa thread haha.

 

yan talaga hindi ko ma gets sa ibang thera. i mean theyve seen it all, lahat ng klaseng pambobola narinig na nila, theyve met guys from different walks of life due to their nature of work. yet, they still fall for shitty guys.

Just like we GMs fall for our own Kryptonite Theras, they (Theras) also gave in to their own Kryptonites (GM/Sponsor).

[Lorkan03]

It is a good practice for people who come to spakol just for the normal services, massage and standard ES. Maybe it cannot be called directly a bisyo. Kasi it is the same as you avail the services in a saloon for the haircut, manicure and pedicure only there is no ES. But come to think of it may posibilidad din magkaroon ng fall sa lugar na iyon.

Pag ginawa mong bisyo ang spakol hindi ka after more on the services but rather after the thera. Bisyo ang babae at yan ang tutoo. As bisyo bawat bitawan mong pera o bagay ay huwag mong asahan na babalik o magkaroon ng kapalit na hangarin. Tapon lahat iyon.

Okay spakol may not be the right place. So nag-fall ka to a decent or not decent girl ouuside spakol and still the same you have to bring out what is inside your pocket knowing not sure kung makukuha mo siya, Minsan di ka pa rin nakakatiyak kung makakatotohanan siya. So tapon din.

The big difference in spakol and that outside is the direct body contact amoy mo pa ang kanyang hininga (may amoy o wala) and it is up to the guest to respond. Nakaka-miss minsan pag nakatagpo ka ng iyong desired na thera. May sinubukan akong thera recently at nakakalibang pagmasdan ang kanyang mukha at makipagtinginan makakalimutan mo na ang ES, Ipon ng kaunti o next week suweldo. Could be a fall - NO but most likely para lang matikman.

May customer naman open to whatever rate ni thera and after the session just leave the spakol just like anyone who just availed a standard ES. Parehas din ang result - smiling.

A thera insisted her personal promo to a married friend but he declined and just asked for an HJ. Kasagot-sagot ni thera nagpunta ka pa dito para magpa-handjob lang. You cannot blame the thera because she is there to make money and she can deliver.

Another married friend said there is a better feeling being touched by another girl aside from his wife.

And sometimes that feeling may be transformed to a fall.

So let them fall. It's their money, time and life.

Agree. Could not have described it better, sir.

[borhe123]

It is a good practice for people who come to spakol just for the normal services, massage and standard ES. Maybe it cannot be called directly a bisyo. Kasi it is the same as you avail the services in a saloon for the haircut, manicure and pedicure only there is no ES. But come to think of it may posibilidad din magkaroon ng fall sa lugar na iyon.

Pag ginawa mong bisyo ang spakol hindi ka after more on the services but rather after the thera. Bisyo ang babae at yan ang tutoo. As bisyo bawat bitawan mong pera o bagay ay huwag mong asahan na babalik o magkaroon ng kapalit na hangarin. Tapon lahat iyon.

Okay spakol may not be the right place. So nag-fall ka to a decent or not decent girl ouuside spakol and still the same you have to bring out what is inside your pocket knowing not sure kung makukuha mo siya, Minsan di ka pa rin nakakatiyak kung makakatotohanan siya. So tapon din.

The big difference in spakol and that outside is the direct body contact amoy mo pa ang kanyang hininga (may amoy o wala) and it is up to the guest to respond. Nakaka-miss minsan pag nakatagpo ka ng iyong desired na thera. May sinubukan akong thera recently at nakakalibang pagmasdan ang kanyang mukha at makipagtinginan makakalimutan mo na ang ES, Ipon ng kaunti o next week suweldo. Could be a fall - NO but most likely para lang matikman.

May customer naman open to whatever rate ni thera and after the session just leave the spakol just like anyone who just availed a standard ES. Parehas din ang result - smiling.

A thera insisted her personal promo to a married friend but he declined and just asked for an HJ. Kasagot-sagot ni thera nagpunta ka pa dito para magpa-handjob lang. You cannot blame the thera because she is there to make money and she can deliver.

Another married friend said there is a better feeling being touched by another girl aside from his wife.

And sometimes that feeling may be transformed to a fall.

So let them fall. It's their money, time and life.

 

Tama ka jan sir. It should be the best practice to keep in mind that this is a business - never take it personal. lalong lalo na pag married guy ka na.

 

Shempre ang binabayad mo sa thera is yung services nia - massage, ES, friendliness, etc... you just need to go with the flow during the session then after that, leave everything there. wag mo na dalhin sa personal life/feelings mo.

[barretm82]

Thats just the nature of most women they will be more attracted to the bad boy or the guy that they cant really have(married guys).

 

You can look at it this way boy toy=alpha male GM=beta male haha 😆

hahaha or gm = spare tire

[will robie]

Going to a salon for a haircut is not a basic necessity but it is a necessity, nevertheless, for good grooming. You don't exactly have to go to a spa to get off. Going to a spakol is a vice because it is still a moral failing or a bad habit, pretty much like smoking, gambling and drinking.

Edited August 28, 2019 by will robie

[mikemurphy0305]

please remember specially sa mga tanders na gm a guest or a client is just a piece of meat for them to work on, after an hour believe me hindi kn nila maalala, lalo na ung mga tanders na gm na feeling nila gustong gusto cla ni thera no offense sa mga tanders pero natatawa nlng ako pg nkakakita ako ng ganito ung pgtapos ng session feeling gwapong gwapo c tanders.