Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[King Koopa]

boss ask lang ano yung kfc?

finger licking good~

[Batdad]

Nakakabilib kayo mga sir. Masaya na mahirap at may halong sakit talaga to.

[edotensei]

Nakakabilib kayo mga sir. Masaya na mahirap at may halong sakit talaga to.

Sa una lang masarap sa totoo lang. Believe me

[Jake 🥓🥞]

Sa una lang masarap sa totoo lang. Believe me

 

Could you please share your story Mr. edotensei?

[frank martin]

Maybe both parties will end up as losers in the end. The thera will hide her relationship (except from colleagued in the industry) for fear that she loses clients. The guy will hide her from his family and friends because of they met and her work. So they will end up in a relationship that they can't even brag about. Hopefully it won't be complicated by having an unplanned pregnancy more so if the guy is young, belongs to a family that wants the sons to marry only their kind.

In the end, they both end up breaking each other's hearts.

This is Spot on!

[Robmeister]

Just know your limitations and what you are getting yourself into. You'll be fine.

[philipsesar]

There are only two rules:

 

1. Always use condom.

2. Don't fall in love with your thera.

[edotensei]

 

Could you please share your story Mr. edotensei?

😀😀😀, just trust me kasi veterans na ako dyan. Matanda na ika nga.

[Erah]

There are only two rules:

1. Always use condom.

2. Don't fall in love with your thera.

 

Always use c.d yes it's really need, pero paanu nmn ung don't fall inlove with the thera?... How can you control it if the feelings is too much and in anytime sasabog? Kasi ito na nga nagmamahal ka ng sosobra na to the point na lahat n binigay mu at may mga bagay kana binitawan for her. ang love kasi mahirap icontrol, lalo n pag true love.

 

Question lang? Ganun ba kami kahirap mahalin as a thera?.

[edotensei]

Always use c.d yes it's really need, pero paanu nmn ung don't fall inlove with the thera?... How can you control it if the feelings is too much and in anytime sasabog? Kasi ito na nga nagmamahal ka ng sosobra na to the point na lahat n binigay mu at may mga bagay kana binitawan for her. ang love kasi mahirap icontrol, lalo n pag true love.

 

Question lang? Ganun ba kami kahirap mahalin as a thera?.

Thera ka maam? Ok ask kita, paano ko malalaman na sincere kayong mga thera? Paano ba ninyo pinapakita na love nyo yung GM?

[Mike Corleone]

Thera ka maam? Ok ask kita, paano ko malalaman na sincere kayong mga thera? Paano ba ninyo pinapakita na love nyo yung GM?

Tama!.. pano po ba talaga mam malalaman na sincere kau? Minsan sasabihin nyo masaya kau pagkasama nyo kami..iba yung saya na nararamdaman nyo... pero sa amin hindi namin alam kung totoo ba kau sa sinasabi nyo dahil alam namin part ng job nyo mag provide ng GFE sa mga GM...

[Kingkongphils]

When you love, REAL LOVE, you have to trust. Its part of being in love. If there is no trust then there can never be love, or what you are feeling is not love. Masaya ka lng buy you dont love her pag ganun. You also have to accept. If you cant accept, and she cant accept, wala mangyari.

[edotensei]

When you love, REAL LOVE, you have to trust. Its part of being in love. If there is no trust then there can never be love, or what you are feeling is not love. Masaya ka lng buy you dont love her pag ganun. You also have to accept. If you cant accept, and she cant accept, wala mangyari.

Real love, true love, trust.

Puro love na lang ba? Kahit kumakalam sikmura, kaya nga pumasok yan dyan sa work nila para kumita, at hindi sila pumunta dyab para makipag bf. Kaya malamang pag maganda pakita sa iyo kasi good ka.

 

Mahirap yan. Believe me.

[Kingkongphils]

Real love, true love, trust.

Puro love na lang ba? Kahit kumakalam sikmura, kaya nga pumasok yan dyan sa work nila para kumita, at hindi sila pumunta dyab para makipag bf. Kaya malamang pag maganda pakita sa iyo kasi good ka.

 

Mahirap yan. Believe me.

A.. E wala nmn problema un kunh tingin mo its not true or its true, judgement call mo nmn yun. D nmn ako para mag sabi syo na hindi ka mamahalin nyn, lolokohin ka lng nyn. At the same time hindi dn nmn ikaw ang pwede magsabi na walang thera na hindi masusuklian ang tunay na pagmamahal ng tunay na pagmamahal. Like what i have always said, if you decide you have to accept and trust. Tao lng dn sila, sabi nga walang matigas na tinapay sa mainit na kape. Wala nama pilitan sa pag ibig.

 

Mahirap talaga but in my opinion e ung pagiging masaya at pagigng mahirap is just a state of mind. Basta number one rule e know your limitations, and mag tira parati ng pagmamahal sa sarili mo, para if it does not work out e hindi puro hate ang maiwan syo.

Edited March 1, 2018 by Kingkongphils

[edotensei]

A.. E wala nmn problema un kunh tingin mo its not true or its true, judgement call mo nmn yun. D nmn ako para mag sabi syo na hindi ka mamahalin nyn, lolokohin ka lng nyn. At the same time hindi dn nmn ikaw ang pwede magsabi na walang thera na hindi masusuklian ang tunay na pagmamahal ng tunay na pagmamahal. Like what i have always said, if you decide you have to accept and trust. Tao lng dn sila, sabi nga walang matigas na tinapay sa mainit na kape. Wala nama pilitan sa pag ibig.

 

Mahirap talaga but in my opinion e ung pagiging masaya at pagigng mahirap is just a state of mind. Basta number one rule e know your limitations, and mag tira parati ng pagmamahal sa sarili mo, para if it does not work out e hindi puro hate ang maiwan syo.

Ang sinasabi ko lang. Mahirap yan. Yan lang ang point ko.. Totoo yang sinasabi ko

[rontan2014]

There are only two rules:

 

1. Always use condom.

2. Don't fall in love with your thera.

 

The 3rd Rule

 

3. Just enjoy from moment to moment.

[D'Greyman]

The 3rd Rule

 

3. Just enjoy from moment to moment.

4th rule:

 

Cherish while it lasts

[philipsesar]

Always use c.d yes it's really need, pero paanu nmn ung don't fall inlove with the thera?... How can you control it if the feelings is too much and in anytime sasabog? Kasi ito na nga nagmamahal ka ng sosobra na to the point na lahat n binigay mu at may mga bagay kana binitawan for her. ang love kasi mahirap icontrol, lalo n pag true love.

 

Question lang? Ganun ba kami kahirap mahalin as a thera?.

Ganun din naman ang two rules ng thera.

1. Always use condom

2. Dont fall in love with your client

 

Mahirap sundin yung two rules maam.

 

Mas masarap kasi pag walang condom.

 

At lalong mas masarap kapag may true feelings.

[sisid69]

mahirap talaga magmahal sa therapist, lalo na kung ikaw lang yung sobrng nagmamahal, na akala mo mahal ka rin niya ng sobra pero hindi naman pala, habang nagtatagal kayo, pinaglalaban mu pag-ibig mo ngunit siya, wala na pa lang gana at may nakikita ng iba

[BlackHoleSun]

For me, rule #2 does not make sense. Ano bang ginawa ng thera para hindi siya pwedeng ibigin? Goes the other way din, ano bang ginawa ng client para hindi makaranas ng love?

 

Coming from current experience, I would describe it simply as the thera and the client goes into a special relationship. The complication comes from how special is defined and verified. Sa side ng thera, kasama sa trabaho niya to make all her clients feel special. Wag na nating pare-parehas i-deny na ganun ang kalakaran. Kaya di mo rin masisisi si GM kung maging paranoid siya at feeling niya he is just being played. Pero ganun din naman sa side ng GM, how can the thera be assured of everything he says kung nasa ganito siyang bisyo? She knows how her clients think and what happens inside these cubicles, kaya di mo rin masisisi na maging paranoid siya at feeling din niya she is just being lied to.

 

If both of you find love in this situation, then good for you. Celebrate it, take care of it, but most of all respect it. Kung meron pa ring uncertainties - or in my case added layers of complications since we are both taken, it does not necessarily mean that you need to immediately close it off and k*ll your feelings. Continue to respect it - be clear with your intentions and agree on limits. Have an open mind and kung di kayo agree, accept it and let go. Dito na papasok yung enjoy from moment to moment. And hey, its never really love until you feel pained.

 

And to you Ms. R, kung alam mo lang kung paano na paikot-ikot at bumabalentong yung feelings ko para sayo. Heck, why am I even dedicating this to you eh baka di mo naman din mabasa haha. Pero just in case na mapadaan ka, I want you to know that you are always loved. Salamat sa tiwala (kahit na parang wala naman haha joke!) at sana wag ka muna magsawa.

[D'Greyman]

For me, rule #2 does not make sense. Ano bang ginawa ng thera para hindi siya pwedeng ibigin? Goes the other way din, ano bang ginawa ng client para hindi makaranas ng love?

 

Coming from current experience, I would describe it simply as the thera and the client goes into a special relationship. The complication comes from how special is defined and verified. Sa side ng thera, kasama sa trabaho niya to make all her clients feel special. Wag na nating pare-parehas i-deny na ganun ang kalakaran. Kaya di mo rin masisisi si GM kung maging paranoid siya at feeling niya he is just being played. Pero ganun din naman sa side ng GM, how can the thera be assured of everything he says kung nasa ganito siyang bisyo? She knows how her clients think and what happens inside these cubicles, kaya di mo rin masisisi na maging paranoid siya at feeling din niya she is just being lied to.

 

If both of you find love in this situation, then good for you. Celebrate it, take care of it, but most of all respect it. Kung meron pa ring uncertainties - or in my case added layers of complications since we are both taken, it does not necessarily mean that you need to immediately close it off and k*ll your feelings. Continue to respect it - be clear with your intentions and agree on limits. Have an open mind and kung di kayo agree, accept it and let go. Dito na papasok yung enjoy from moment to moment. And hey, its never really love until you feel pained.

 

And to you Ms. R, kung alam mo lang kung paano na paikot-ikot at bumabalentong yung feelings ko para sayo. Heck, why am I even dedicating this to you eh baka di mo naman din mabasa haha. Pero just in case na mapadaan ka, I want you to know that you are always loved. Salamat sa tiwala (kahit na parang wala naman haha joke!) at sana wag ka muna magsawa.

Well said sir

[margarito23]

For me, rule #2 does not make sense. Ano bang ginawa ng thera para hindi siya pwedeng ibigin? Goes the other way din, ano bang ginawa ng client para hindi makaranas ng love?

Coming from current experience, I would describe it simply as the thera and the client goes into a special relationship. The complication comes from how special is defined and verified. Sa side ng thera, kasama sa trabaho niya to make all her clients feel special. Wag na nating pare-parehas i-deny na ganun ang kalakaran. Kaya di mo rin masisisi si GM kung maging paranoid siya at feeling niya he is just being played. Pero ganun din naman sa side ng GM, how can the thera be assured of everything he says kung nasa ganito siyang bisyo? She knows how her clients think and what happens inside these cubicles, kaya di mo rin masisisi na maging paranoid siya at feeling din niya she is just being lied to.

If both of you find love in this situation, then good for you. Celebrate it, take care of it, but most of all respect it. Kung meron pa ring uncertainties - or in my case added layers of complications since we are both taken, it does not necessarily mean that you need to immediately close it off and k*ll your feelings. Continue to respect it - be clear with your intentions and agree on limits. Have an open mind and kung di kayo agree, accept it and let go. Dito na papasok yung enjoy from moment to moment. And hey, its never really love until you feel pained.

And to you Ms. R, kung alam mo lang kung paano na paikot-ikot at bumabalentong yung feelings ko para sayo. Heck, why am I even dedicating this to you eh baka di mo naman din mabasa haha. Pero just in case na mapadaan ka, I want you to know that you are always loved. Salamat sa tiwala (kahit na parang wala naman haha joke!) at sana wag ka muna magsawa.

ganda. eloquent, from the heart, sincere.

[Okita Sougo]

Ang mahirap lang minsan, kapag magaling umakting ang thera. Yung alam nyang kaya kang paikut-ikutin sa palad nya. Na kaya lang nya ginagawa yun para dagdag kita. Hindi lahat ha, pero may mga ganyan talaga. Kaya ako I stay away na lang from theras na magaling daw sa GFE. At first lang nakakatuwa pero once you take a second look, it is all bullshit.

[chefcurry]

Ang mahirap lang minsan, kapag magaling umakting ang thera. Yung alam nyang kaya kang paikut-ikutin sa palad nya. Na kaya lang nya ginagawa yun para dagdag kita. Hindi lahat ha, pero may mga ganyan talaga. Kaya ako I stay away na lang from theras na magaling daw sa GFE. At first lang nakakatuwa pero once you take a second look, it is all bullshit.

mapapa GGWP ka na lang talaga minsan

[rontan2014]

Ang mahirap lang minsan, kapag magaling umakting ang thera. Yung alam nyang kaya kang paikut-ikutin sa palad nya. Na kaya lang nya ginagawa yun para dagdag kita. Hindi lahat ha, pero may mga ganyan talaga. Kaya ako I stay away na lang from theras na magaling daw sa GFE. At first lang nakakatuwa pero once you take a second look, it is all bullshit.

 

Eh di bigyan mo rin ng matinding BFE para patas ang laban.

 

If you think she's bullshitting, you're bullshitting her as well.