delavega Posted January 23, 2009 Share Posted January 23, 2009 ganyan talaga,, yaan mo na friend.. masakit lang yan sa umpisa.. kasi isip mo,, what could have been..pero dont na.. enough na yun, tinulungan lang nia sarili nia, kasi alam nia kung san lang yun papunta.. di naman madali lahat eh.. marami sanang plans eh, kaya mejo mataas ang rate ng pain.. nakakatuwa kasi pag may challenge eh,, masaya,, iba ang character mo. hindi naman hahayaang mag-end kung kaya pa eh, at gusto pa.. pero since wala naman kumontra,, pareho nio itong gusto.. to move on..so enjoy. we will all become a different person after this.. much cautious.wise.doubtful..(sometimes) alam mo ba kung anong masakit sa part nia.. (kung naramdaman mong minahal ka nia..)is yung, hindi nia nasabi kung gano kasakit na iwasan ka,, na hindi mo naman siang tinratong iba(mpa)..yung i-let go ka nia.. kahit na sayo lang sya totoo at masaya..yung... hindi nia siguro masabi-sabi na... "sana akin ka na lang".. pero wala na siguro kayong communication.. wag mo na rin sia usapin,, kasi masakit yun kung act ka na concern samantalang,, hindi mo nga sinasandya ano? pero nasaktan mo sia. kasi nga 3rd party sia eh. sakit yun. lalu na kung wala nangyari.. hay... wawa naman kame. joke! gudnyt.. keri yan brad! be strong for her. para totally maka-move on na sia talaga.. hay... best friend ko... in love sa guest nia.. paksyet. tatakot ako, kasi,, may gf na din eh.. badtrip naman kasi, ang kulit din nung guest eh,,,lapit nang lapit,, nag-confess pa na love nia bestfriend ko... tapos sasabihin na wala naman i-na-ask na commitment si guest..eh bakit ganun,, sinabi pa? alam naman niang special na sia sa bestfriend ko... tapos,, sasabihin,, walang expectations..tapos sasabihin,, "sana una kitang nakilala" para san yun? pampakilig?di naman nakakakilig yun eh,, nakaka gago.. paksyet eh, dami effort pa ginagawa,, tas sasabihin, kasi like nia tumulong..tapos sasabihin,, "special ka saken eh.,, ngayon lang ako naging happy ng ganito" tas sasabihin.. "alam ko hindi tayo para sa isat isa.." eh bat kaya sinabi pa.. tapos pagnagdate naman,,parang sila na.. tapos si bestfriend ko.. tulala... wala gana work,, kasi feel nia magisip kung ano nafefeel nia..ka-cheapan,, pero.. sige moment nia yun,, dinaanan ko yan,, sya naman muna ngayon.. pero sana,, mas-wise sya,, kasi nakita nia ako nuong unang panahon,, sana natuto sia sa aken..pero lagi nia sabi "iba sya ke _ _ _ _ L..."ano yun?? pinagtatanggol nia guest nia,, na hindi naman sya kayang mahalin ng buo? anu yun????????? baket ganun? inaaning nia lang bestfriend ko eh hoy!! kung nababasa mo tong ngoyop ka.. sabi ko sayo,,, ipakakapon kita.. wag mo lokohin at paasahin yang bestfriend ko! kapal ng peslak mo jan ah? gf mo nga niloko mo eh! paglalaruan mo pa yang bestfriend ko.. ang KARMA anjan lang ha? sana alam mo yan, kaya please lang.. wala nang special moment,, kung papahumalingin mo lang yan loka-loka kong friendwag mong pagsamantalahan yang kahinaan nung tao, alam mo naman mga pinagdaanan nian sa buhay, kaya please lang,, please..32 kana.. ha?? sana naman mejo maayos kang magisip.. sana bilang nakakatanda ano? alam mo ang dapat na gawin.. puchang gala.. hindi ko ata kakayanin maloko ang bestfriend ko.. pera-pera lang kasi dapat eh.. t#ang%na kasi.. mahina tong bestfriend ko eh,,sumusunod sa GALAW ko... syet. waaaah! bakit hindi natin matutunan.. sa experience ng iba? bakit kelangan maranasan pa? kung kelan namang nakaahon nako.. unti-unti naman nalulunod tong bruhang to.. naku!!!!!!!!!!! dko mabasag helmet nia.. patong-patong... matatagalan pa bago matauhan.. :cry: Sometimes, people have to learn the hard way. Mas lalo mo sawayin ang friend mo, mas lalo siyang mag gi-give in sa guest niya. There are somethings that are only learned trough painful experiences. Looks like nagawa mo nanaman lahat ng magagawa mo eh. The important thing is you didn't give up on your friend and hindi ka nagkulang sa paalala. Quote Link to comment
jetpilot_88 Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 after breaking my heart biglang babalik... shiyet! Quote Link to comment
jetpilot_88 Posted January 27, 2009 Share Posted January 27, 2009 di ko ren maintindihan. first off, their definition of bf-gf could be different from our definition. dun kami di magkaintindihan eh... sala sa init, sala sa lamig yun eh. there are days that she would be too sweet and there are days that she would be as frigid as ever. tapos after several days of not communicating biglang magtetext ng "i love you and i miss you so much". i asked her once, bakit ako naisipan mo gawing bf, sa dami ng lalake na umaaligid sa iyo, sabi niya "she does stuff that she doesn't do normally with other clients". yun na yun. baloney... di naman ako bitter, naiinis lang ako kasi i used to be the "king of casual" and now here comes the little devil therapist sweeping me off my feet with her subtle moves. naiinis ako kasi nagpadala ako. anyway over and done with. anyway to answer your question, baka nawalan na ng pera... kaso di naman malaki nabigay ko don. napaisip din ako ha.. hmmmm Quote Link to comment
jetpilot_88 Posted January 27, 2009 Share Posted January 27, 2009 wow joe the mango na pala ako, someone was seeking my advice on this favorite thread of mine.... share ko na lang sa inyong mga in lababo sa mga MPA kasi pinaghirapan ko ren ito, di ako kumain ng lunch para sa bro natin hahaha.... your story sounds so familiar. we might be dating the same girl. kidding. well after going through this, all i can say is that kahit anong gusto mo, kung di niyo pagtutulungan ang relationship it's bound to end. eto catch... kahit tangap mo ng buo ang trabaho niya, di pa ren assurance yun na it will work simply because di ren niya matangap yung fact na she sleeps with other men dahil mahal ka niya. you should be flattered and scared. flattered because she does love you, scared because don nahihirapan mga love natin sa buhay. kahit anong pagtangap gawin natin sa trabaho nila, kung di nila matangap... one has to go. either she stops being an MPA or she stops seeing you. in a perfect world, the first option will always be the best one. pero due to her other needs, you can be expendable. i'd like to tell you to ease a little bit and relax, pero mukhang you're way past that stage... if you still have a little love left, love yourself. wag ka magpapadala dahil super duper hirap ang relationship na ito. it won't work, it takes extraordinary abilities to make this work, divine intervention even. pero if you do, it would be the best feeling in the world, to prove them all wrong. but then again, you mentioned that you have your own complications to attend to. judging from that remark, mukhang you're already thinking twice about the relationship. having said that, i guess the inevitable pain is obviously inevitable. you stop now and you'll experience probably the same pain level a few months from now. although i am not saying na you're already resigned to the fact na it won't work, you seem to foresee it already. so here is some brotherly advice... accept the fact that it won't work and get ready for some painful days ahead, pero since you're still in it... make the most out of it. everything happens for a reason, probably binigay sa iyo ito just to make you feel how it is to fall in love again. if so, then it is a gift, and make the most out of it. and once the inevitable comes, at least you can say to yourself... sinagad ko lahat and enjoyed every borrowed time that was given to us. we had our chances but the circumstances of life was just too much. no regrets. at the end of the day, masarap pa ren magmahal, unconditionally masakit but it will be worth all the pain. good luck bro! Quote Link to comment
truellusion Posted January 27, 2009 Share Posted January 27, 2009 wow joe the mango na pala ako, someone was seeking my advice on this favorite thread of mine.... share ko na lang sa inyong mga in lababo sa mga MPA kasi pinaghirapan ko ren ito, di ako kumain ng lunch para sa bro natin hahaha.... your story sounds so familiar. we might be dating the same girl. kidding. well after going through this, all i can say is that kahit anong gusto mo, kung di niyo pagtutulungan ang relationship it's bound to end. eto catch... kahit tangap mo ng buo ang trabaho niya, di pa ren assurance yun na it will work simply because di ren niya matangap yung fact na she sleeps with other men dahil mahal ka niya. you should be flattered and scared. flattered because she does love you, scared because don nahihirapan mga love natin sa buhay. kahit anong pagtangap gawin natin sa trabaho nila, kung di nila matangap... one has to go. either she stops being an MPA or she stops seeing you. in a perfect world, the first option will always be the best one. pero due to her other needs, you can be expendable. i'd like to tell you to ease a little bit and relax, pero mukhang you're way past that stage... if you still have a little love left, love yourself. wag ka magpapadala dahil super duper hirap ang relationship na ito. it won't work, it takes extraordinary abilities to make this work, divine intervention even. pero if you do, it would be the best feeling in the world, to prove them all wrong. but then again, you mentioned that you have your own complications to attend to. judging from that remark, mukhang you're already thinking twice about the relationship. having said that, i guess the inevitable pain is obviously inevitable. you stop now and you'll experience probably the same pain level a few months from now. although i am not saying na you're already resigned to the fact na it won't work, you seem to foresee it already. so here is some brotherly advice... accept the fact that it won't work and get ready for some painful days ahead, pero since you're still in it... make the most out of it. everything happens for a reason, probably binigay sa iyo ito just to make you feel how it is to fall in love again. if so, then it is a gift, and make the most out of it. and once the inevitable comes, at least you can say to yourself... sinagad ko lahat and enjoyed every borrowed time that was given to us. we had our chances but the circumstances of life was just too much. no regrets. at the end of the day, masarap pa ren magmahal, unconditionally masakit but it will be worth all the pain. good luck bro!thumbs up ganda sir, i like how you explained it. well said. di talaga nagtatapos yun sa pagtanggap sa kanila, simula palang ng pagsubok yun at habang tumatagal sasakit pa lalo ang situation for both of you. this is the place where LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH, when you fall in love with them... ang daming odds... ang sakit nyan, sobra effin life! to tagalupa, break na pala kayo bro. 3 months din ako nawala sa board, ngayon ko lang nalaman. sad to know most of this kind of relationship dont work... yan rin problem ko ngayon na fafall nako, sabi ko dati "if you don't get yourself involve you wont fall" hirap pala pigilan pag andon na... Quote Link to comment
marblebay Posted January 27, 2009 Share Posted January 27, 2009 thumbs up ganda sir, i like how you explained it. well said. di talaga nagtatapos yun sa pagtanggap sa kanila, simula palang ng pagsubok yun at habang tumatagal sasakit pa lalo ang situation for both of you. this is the place where LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH, when you fall in love with them... ang daming odds... ang sakit nyan, sobra effin life! to tagalupa, break na pala kayo bro. 3 months din ako nawala sa board, ngayon ko lang nalaman. sad to know most of this kind of relationship dont work... yan rin problem ko ngayon na fafall nako, sabi ko dati "if you don't get yourself involve you wont fall" hirap pala pigilan pag andon na...Yup bro., you are so right on this. Kaya ako, I no longer frequented those places. At times kapag hindi maiiwasan ay I see to it that I don't get too attach to them. Masakit masaktan, at akala nila kasi ay sila lamang ang marunong masaktan. Quote Link to comment
jetpilot_88 Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 sorry ah? kala kasi namen kami lang nasasaktan.tama.wag kayong pumunta sa mga ganyng places. help yourself... hindi ka naman mahuhulog kung hindi mo HAHAYAAN eh...hindi ka naman ma-to-touch sa girl kung HINDI MO SYA IINTINDIHIN AT PAPAKINGGAN...wag nang maging good samaritan.. masyado nang, maraming NAAAWA samen.isa lang kayo dun. pati nga SUPERVISOR namen,, awa samen..guest pa.. KAMI pede kami ma-inlove.. everyday.. (yan nasaisip ng IBA JAN EH)nasasaktan din (kasi nga UMASA pa,,pareho namang TAKOT)akala ng IBA, madali MAG-MOVE-ON si MPA/gro/PSP..(kasi kelangan sa work IBANG TAO KA)so pa-smile-smile,, inom-inom, magentertain.. hindi ALAM ng IBA JAN.. it took every MINUTE to ease the pain. kasi umasa si girl.. sa GUY na hindi sya tanggap ng karamihankaya nag-back out na si GUEST. ka pa-smile smile,,, dahil para kahit papano, ma-taken at makalimutan si GUEST,kaya inom-inom para naman ma-NUMB ang katawan kung sino man ang hahawak..kelangan magentertain.. hindi para masiyahan ang mga new na guests.. KUNGDI PARA LIBANGIN ANG SARILI SA SARILING BIRO marami ng RESERVATIONS yang MPA/GRO/PSP na yan dude! hindi na niya hahayaang masaktan sya, gaya ng nangyari sa kanya NOON,sa friend nia,,,sa nanay nia na iniwan ng TATAY nia..sa kapatid nia na pinagpalit sa iba sa kapit bahay nia na nagiiskandalo sa gabi dahil naghihiwalay may takot sia,, dahil nakita nia ang ganun environment(if ever)..sa tingin ba ng iba jan.. ganun lang kadali BUMIGAY sa isang TAO na HINDI MO KADUGO???na KASEX mo lang at binayaran ka.. para MANIWALANG MAHAL na KAME??? gaya nga ng sinabi ko.. baka hindi kayo ang FIRST nia na GUEST na NA-IN-LOVE SYAbaka pang 4 na TRY nia na ito.. kaya marami nang RESERVATIONS nga..kasi takot si GUEST eh,, bawal bang MATAKOT din si MPA/GRO/PSP??para hindi maulit ang SAKIT na AKALA NAMEN KAMI LANG NAKAKARAMDAM.. good moooooooorning! breakfast:mtclunch:sexdinner:sexmidnightsnack:mtc dala na ko dude..wala nang mapaglagyan ANG LOVE na sinasabi ng iba jan.. YES!!! CORRECT KA JAN SIR!! sa ngayon,, oo.. who knows right?? parang may personal vendetta ka sa MTC member ha. anyway, nice point of view. at least alam ko na. yeah im pretty sure this isn't the first time na na in-love siya sa guest, probably 4 or 5 times, and everytime it ends lalong nawawala ang pag-asa niya na makahanap ng partner. so i told her na di ka nagtrabaho sa ganyang trabaho para humanap ng asawa or bf, di ren naman ako pumunta don para maghanap ng gf. surely, these places would be the last on the list if you want to find a SO. pero along the way something happened, kung ma-control ko ba eh di na-control ko sana... kaso hindi eh. parang kukuha ako ng bato at pinukpok sa sarili ko. nandun na yun eh, so i think ilaban mo na lang kahit alam mo matatalo ka at madugo... at least pinaglaban mo. but be sure kasama siya sa laban, mahirap pumasok sa giyera na ito na mag-isa ka. eh kung ikaw lang ang naglalaban, wag mo na pilitin. talo ka na. pero NEVER EVER paasahin ang MPA, never promise grandiose visions of being a knight in shining armor, who will try to save her from the savage arms of high class prostitution, making them "wait" for you, to fix your lives, to leave your gf or family. it won't happen... di naman sila super manhid, bumibigay din sa bola yan kahit ilan times na sinabi sa kanila. believe me when i say that they are really ok before we met them. they are ok with what they do, they already have a plan, they know what they got themselves into and it does pay the bills. but they would never plan on falling in love with a guest, that's just bad for business. it truly complicates everything. compared to other women outside this industry, may ego boost pag napamahal sayo ang MPA. they are practically courted every single day... they are showered with money, gifts, etc on a daily basis and to have an MPA love you is really something else. a real ego rush... which amplifies the feeling of love further. but these things happen, and we can't control it. not me, not the MPA. so if the case happens, judging from the entries here mukhang madalas... what is a guy to do? pag umasa MPA mo sa false hopes.... you only have urself to blame, ull only be another number sa guys na na in-love sa kanya and she will move on. you will move on. pero it's just soooo wrong. they've been through a lot and a broken heart from a guest is the last thing they want. be gentle. just enjoy your moment together, pag kumawala siya, wag mo na habulin kung di mo kayang ipaglaban ng maayos. Quote Link to comment
marblebay Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 sorry ah? kala kasi namen kami lang nasasaktan.tama.wag kayong pumunta sa mga ganyng places. help yourself... hindi ka naman mahuhulog kung hindi mo HAHAYAAN eh...hindi ka naman ma-to-touch sa girl kung HINDI MO SYA IINTINDIHIN AT PAPAKINGGAN...wag nang maging good samaritan.. masyado nang, maraming NAAAWA samen.isa lang kayo dun. pati nga SUPERVISOR namen,, awa samen..guest pa.. KAMI pede kami ma-inlove.. everyday.. (yan nasaisip ng IBA JAN EH)nasasaktan din (kasi nga UMASA pa,,pareho namang TAKOT)akala ng IBA, madali MAG-MOVE-ON si MPA/gro/PSP..(kasi kelangan sa work IBANG TAO KA)so pa-smile-smile,, inom-inom, magentertain.. hindi ALAM ng IBA JAN.. it took every MINUTE to ease the pain. kasi umasa si girl.. sa GUY na hindi sya tanggap ng karamihankaya nag-back out na si GUEST. ka pa-smile smile,,, dahil para kahit papano, ma-taken at makalimutan si GUEST,kaya inom-inom para naman ma-NUMB ang katawan kung sino man ang hahawak..kelangan magentertain.. hindi para masiyahan ang mga new na guests.. KUNGDI PARA LIBANGIN ANG SARILI SA SARILING BIRO marami ng RESERVATIONS yang MPA/GRO/PSP na yan dude! hindi na niya hahayaang masaktan sya, gaya ng nangyari sa kanya NOON,sa friend nia,,,sa nanay nia na iniwan ng TATAY nia..sa kapatid nia na pinagpalit sa iba sa kapit bahay nia na nagiiskandalo sa gabi dahil naghihiwalay may takot sia,, dahil nakita nia ang ganun environment(if ever)..sa tingin ba ng iba jan.. ganun lang kadali BUMIGAY sa isang TAO na HINDI MO KADUGO???na KASEX mo lang at binayaran ka.. para MANIWALANG MAHAL na KAME??? gaya nga ng sinabi ko.. baka hindi kayo ang FIRST nia na GUEST na NA-IN-LOVE SYAbaka pang 4 na TRY nia na ito.. kaya marami nang RESERVATIONS nga..kasi takot si GUEST eh,, bawal bang MATAKOT din si MPA/GRO/PSP??para hindi maulit ang SAKIT na AKALA NAMEN KAMI LANG NAKAKARAMDAM.. good moooooooorning! breakfast:mtclunch:sexdinner:sexmidnightsnack:mtc dala na ko dude..wala nang mapaglagyan ANG LOVE na sinasabi ng iba jan.. YES!!! CORRECT KA JAN SIR!! sa ngayon,, oo.. who knows right?? Thanks for the kind and honest comment. I hope you didn't miscontrued what I would like or wish to convey in this thread. More oftentimes and generally, ang babae ang lagi (daw?) ang higit nasasaktan. Kami din ay lubos nasasaktan, at siguro nga it depends on the situation o dahilan ng break -up. Anway, I admire your practical attitude in life. And I find all your posts not to be too pessimistic but leave a strong impression about yourself. A brotherly advise lang sis., "masarap na dalawa kayong mangarap at dalawa kayong bubuo nito". Peace! Quote Link to comment
HeartOfTheInfinite Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 Whew, took me a while but I'm here now... My Angel, I understand your grief but let me dish out a diatribe of my thoughts on the matter in hopes of convincing you to value and appreciate what's in front of you: I believe that people spend their whole lives searching for their soulmates. Most of them fail because they get tired and scared of the pain the 'adventure' entails. They eventually settle down not realizing what was meant for them. I hope your search does not end because of this travesty of love that has befallen you... Now, let me tell you my story: I recently met this woman. Really like her. Really care about her. The thing is, she doesn't seem to take me seriously because she's gone through the same experience as yours. So, I made a decision to wait and be patient hoping that she will someday realize how much I really care for her... If you close your door, you are denying yourself what the future holds... Just my 2 Cents. Quote Link to comment
truellusion Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 Yup bro., you are so right on this. Kaya ako, I no longer frequented those places. At times kapag hindi maiiwasan ay I see to it that I don't get too attach to them. Masakit masaktan, at akala nila kasi ay sila lamang ang marunong masaktan.yes bro di lang sila ang nasasaktan... minsan nga di tayo makatulog kakaisip kung kumusta na siya, ok ba siya, binabastos ba siya ngayon, yung iba kasing lalake porket GRO/MPA/Psp wala nang paggalang, pagnakainom na garapal na humawak. etong si gf mo na GRO iiyak nalang pag walang magawa lalo na kung bigatin yung guest. madalas pa NAIISIP NILA NAAWA lang tayo sa kanila kaya binibigay natin time, concern, kalinga, pagmamahal sa kanila. pero hindi yun eh, the fact is talagang na inlove ka at di mo mapigilan yung dikta ng puso. gustuhin mo man wala ka sapat na kakayahan para ilabas siya sa ganong klaseng industriya/kalakaran kaya you're just hoping na sana siya na ang gumawa ng paraan para sa relationship nyo, which will never happen kasi marami siya responsibilidad sa family at sarili niya. madalas sasabihin nila kapag tinanong kung ano bang hinahanap nila sa lalake, "siempre yung tanggap ako kung ano ako". pero ndi rin... tulad kay tigalupa sobrang tanggap nya yung girl pero in the end nagbreak din sila... it takes two to tango. pano kung tanggap mo siya pero ikaw lang ang gumagawa ng paraan, siya hindi niya maibigay yung gusto mo, yung PINAKA-GUSTO mo na umalis sya ganitong kalakaran. at mas masakit pa yung sinabi ni tigalupa na kapag nilamon na siya ng sistemang iyon, na ginagawa nya lang script niya kahit ayaw niya. para tayong sumusugal neto sa wala, dahil yung pinili natin ayaw rin tayong ipapanalo. sabi ko nga dun sa girl, alam mo give and take ang relationship kaya nga dalawa tayong andon eh. di ko kayang unawain kanalang parati lahat tayo may kapaguran eh, sana gawin mo rin ang part mo... sana lang eh kung how much ang pagiintindi natin sa kanila eh intindihin din nila tayo na kaya natin pinili sila ay mahal natin sila (hindi awa) at wala tayong pakialam sa past nila at ang gusto natin ay better future for them/us, for our relationship. matuto lang silang gawin ang part nila na humanap ng ibang work masaya na tayo. dahil sa totoo lang, yung totoo lang kahit sabihin na nating tanggap natin sila, sa realidad na to masakit man sabihin, wala talagang magulang ang matutuwa sayo kapag nalaman ganon work ng gf mo at di lahat ng mga kaibigan ay rerespetuhin at maiintindihan kayo. eto ang realidad na ating ginagalawan. so yung respect na hinahanap nila sa ibang tao makukuha nila yun sa iilang tulad natin na nagmamahal sa kanila pero sa karamihan, hindi! unless umalis sila sa ganong kalakaran. afterall respect is earned so you have to do your part to earn it, people won't give you respect just easily as that. maliban nalang kung inlove sila sayo... which is hindi lahat ng tao inlove sayo so hindi lahat ng tao tanggap ka kahit ganyan pa work mo-KAMI LANG, kaya andito kami sa thread na to... Quote Link to comment
tagalupa Posted January 29, 2009 Share Posted January 29, 2009 thumbs up ganda sir, i like how you explained it. well said. di talaga nagtatapos yun sa pagtanggap sa kanila, simula palang ng pagsubok yun at habang tumatagal sasakit pa lalo ang situation for both of you. this is the place where LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH, when you fall in love with them... ang daming odds... ang sakit nyan, sobra effin life! to tagalupa, break na pala kayo bro. 3 months din ako nawala sa board, ngayon ko lang nalaman. sad to know most of this kind of relationship dont work... yan rin problem ko ngayon na fafall nako, sabi ko dati "if you don't get yourself involve you wont fall" hirap pala pigilan pag andon na... Yep saer almost 2months na rin..Una akala ko enuf na un LOVE para magwork out un ganito relasyon..Hindi rin pala, madami kailangan..Pero wala ako naging regret sa lahat ng ngyari..Naging masaya ako and lam ko kahit papano naging masaya din cia..Ok na rin un ganito para mahanap nya un real happines na gusto nya..Hindi cia ordinary club girl and nakita ko sa kanya un, nde lang cgro ako deserving sa kanya, nde ko sinasabi ako lang may kasalanan, lam din naman nya na may pagkukulang cia..She deserve someone better and nde ako..Gusto ko parin makita cia masaya and mahalin ng guy na karapatdapat sa kanya.. I missd her badly pero hanggang dun na lang un..Cguro hanggang ngaun mahal ko parin cia and cgro wala na cia nararamdaman saken..Nakapagmove on agad ako kc una pa lang sinabi ko na "KUNG MAY LAKAS AT TIBAY AKO LIGAWAN CIA,MERON DIN AKO LAKAS AT TIBAY NA TANGGAPIN NA PWEDE NDE KAMI BAGAY SA ISA'T ISA" She will always be FOREVER and SPECIAL para saken.. Bro, payo ko lang kung cgrado ka tlga sa nararamdaman mo sa kanya, magkaron ka din ng lakas at tibay na loob tanggapin na pede ka msaktan..Hindi masama mainlab sa kanila pero kaya mo ba tanggapin lahat? Kung nde ka sure wag mo na ituloy dahil baka pareho kau masaktan..Eventhough its not always found in the most ideal places...LOVE..IS STILL LOVE... Quote Link to comment
MidKnight_Tranz Posted January 29, 2009 Share Posted January 29, 2009 Yep saer almost 2months na rin..Una akala ko enuf na un LOVE para magwork out un ganito relasyon..Hindi rin pala, madami kailangan..Pero wala ako naging regret sa lahat ng ngyari..Naging masaya ako and lam ko kahit papano naging masaya din cia..Ok na rin un ganito para mahanap nya un real happines na gusto nya..Hindi cia ordinary club girl and nakita ko sa kanya un, nde lang cgro ako deserving sa kanya, nde ko sinasabi ako lang may kasalanan, lam din naman nya na may pagkukulang cia..She deserve someone better and nde ako..Gusto ko parin makita cia masaya and mahalin ng guy na karapatdapat sa kanya.. I missd her badly pero hanggang dun na lang un..Cguro hanggang ngaun mahal ko parin cia and cgro wala na cia nararamdaman saken..Nakapagmove on agad ako kc una pa lang sinabi ko na "KUNG MAY LAKAS AT TIBAY AKO LIGAWAN CIA,MERON DIN AKO LAKAS AT TIBAY NA TANGGAPIN NA PWEDE NDE KAMI BAGAY SA ISA'T ISA" She will always be FOREVER and SPECIAL para saken.. Bro, payo ko lang kung cgrado ka tlga sa nararamdaman mo sa kanya, magkaron ka din ng lakas at tibay na loob tanggapin na pede ka msaktan..Hindi masama mainlab sa kanila pero kaya mo ba tanggapin lahat? Kung nde ka sure wag mo na ituloy dahil baka pareho kau masaktan..Eventhough its not always found in the most ideal places...LOVE..IS STILL LOVE... interesting points. i really like the possiblities you mentioned. personally I already asked a club girl to stay at my place. We're currently living together. There are ups and downs in the realtionship and as of this moment we're on a slide. It really is nice to know that there are people in similar situations because it is through you guys that I discover new horizons... different perspectives... Based on your statement sir taglupa, i'm assuming that you guys are already decided to end the relationship. I trully am sorry that it had to happen. I take strength in your words: "KUNG MAY LAKAS AT TIBAY AKO LIGAWAN CIA,MERON DIN AKO LAKAS AT TIBAY NA TANGGAPIN NA PWEDE NDE KAMI BAGAY SA ISA'T ISA" As of this moment I'm expecting the worst, and at the same time wishing for the best. I guess that's just the way I cope up with things. Quote Link to comment
truellusion Posted January 29, 2009 Share Posted January 29, 2009 KUNG MAWALA MAN ANG LOVE AND TRUST..SANA HINDI MAWALA YUN RESPETO PARIN SA ISA'T ISA..ngayon ko lubusan nauunawaan ang ibig mong sabihin dito bro. ngayong andito ako sa situation mo dati. ngayon i respect her so much na hindi ko na tinitingnan as GRO siya, na ganitong klase ang trabaho niya. yung dating pagtingin ko sa mga GRO di ko nakikita sa kanya, at pinagtatanggol ko panga sa tropa ko ng sinabihan akong "mahina kanaba ngayon sa babae at pati GRO gni-GF mo?" sabi ko "pare hindi lahat ng GRO hindi disente! babae rin sila at marunong magmahal". minsan nga mas disente pa sila sa mga ka-officemates mong wild... hehe. yung tipong yung respeto mo sa kanya lumaki at kahit mawala ang love and trust nyo yun ang maiiwan, na you will keep on admiring her as a woman not as a pretty face in a club. at kung sakaling di man kayo magkatuluyan di mawawala yung respect na yun na tinuring mo siyang totoong tao sa buhay mo, hindi mo siya isusumpa dahil pinagpalit ka niya sa ganong career nya... dahil nga nirerespeto mo siya. Quote Link to comment
jetpilot_88 Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 oops it just hit me. let's say kayo na.... how would you handle the safety issues? most likely she would like to go live, or todo laplapan kayo not knowing who she blew before you... ewan ko, another stumbling block sa relationship na ito. hehe Quote Link to comment
MidKnight_Tranz Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 oops it just hit me. let's say kayo na.... how would you handle the safety issues? most likely she would like to go live, or todo laplapan kayo not knowing who she blew before you... ewan ko, another stumbling block sa relationship na ito. hehe it really depends on what you plan. if you plan to bang and run, always be safe. if you truly love her and are in it for the long run, the past shouldn't matter but it wouldn't hurt both of guys get checked. Quote Link to comment
jetpilot_88 Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 it really depends on what you plan. if you plan to bang and run, always be safe. if you truly love her and are in it for the long run, the past shouldn't matter but it wouldn't hurt both of guys get checked. nice input... but if she's still in THAT job, then you can never be too sure Quote Link to comment
tagalupa Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 interesting points. i really like the possiblities you mentioned. personally I already asked a club girl to stay at my place. We're currently living together. There are ups and downs in the realtionship and as of this moment we're on a slide. It really is nice to know that there are people in similar situations because it is through you guys that I discover new horizons... different perspectives... Based on your statement sir taglupa, i'm assuming that you guys are already decided to end the relationship. I trully am sorry that it had to happen. I take strength in your words: "KUNG MAY LAKAS AT TIBAY AKO LIGAWAN CIA,MERON DIN AKO LAKAS AT TIBAY NA TANGGAPIN NA PWEDE NDE KAMI BAGAY SA ISA'T ISA" As of this moment I'm expecting the worst, and at the same time wishing for the best. I guess that's just the way I cope up with things. Yep saer..Hanggang dun na lang talaga kami..Wala rin naman ako plan na balikan cia kc baka mas masakit and may mga masaktan iba..I know masaya na cia ngaun sa buhay nya..Too bad lang nde kami naging magkaibigan..After ng break up namen binisita ko cia, i texted her na baka pede ko cia makausap kahit sandali gusto ko na rin magpaalam sa knya baka last time ko na makikita cia.. Pumunta cia sa table ko pero ramdam ko galit pa rin cia saken and sabi nya wala ako maririnig sa knya or sagot sa mga tanong ko..Sabi ko na lang sa kanya " I still love you, namiss kita oras at araw ng kahapon nde ko alam kung hanggang kailan ko to mararamdaman,wag ka magalala nde ako makikipagbalikan sana lang dumating pa rin yun time na magkakaayos tau as friends man lang..Thanks sa lahat ng pinakita mo and for being true saken..Pinakilala mo kung cno ka na nde mo pinakita sa iba..Thanks sa lahat, u will always be remember and sana nde mo rin ako nakalimutan..Sana makita mo un right guy na mamahalin mo at mamahalin ka higit pa sa ginawa ko..Sana maging masaya ka and ingatan mo lagi sarili mo..U deserve to be happy, u deserve to be love.. I LOVE YOU...GOODBYE... Umalis ako ng club na wala ako narinig sa knya pero ok lang un atleast nasabi ko lahat lahat sa kanya.. Bro kung ano man un pinagdadaanan nyo ng girl mo ngaun sana malampasan nyo...Bihira un nagpopost d2 ng may HAPPY ENDING and sana makita namen sa nyo un..Im wishing u all the best and love saer..Let's hope all will ends well and bro ano man mangyari magkaron ka sana ng lakas ng loob tanggapin lahat dahil para din sayo un..Ingat and goodluck.. Quote Link to comment
tagalupa Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 ngayon ko lubusan nauunawaan ang ibig mong sabihin dito bro. ngayong andito ako sa situation mo dati. ngayon i respect her so much na hindi ko na tinitingnan as GRO siya, na ganitong klase ang trabaho niya. yung dating pagtingin ko sa mga GRO di ko nakikita sa kanya, at pinagtatanggol ko panga sa tropa ko ng sinabihan akong "mahina kanaba ngayon sa babae at pati GRO gni-GF mo?" sabi ko "pare hindi lahat ng GRO hindi disente! babae rin sila at marunong magmahal". minsan nga mas disente pa sila sa mga ka-officemates mong wild... hehe. yung tipong yung respeto mo sa kanya lumaki at kahit mawala ang love and trust nyo yun ang maiiwan, na you will keep on admiring her as a woman not as a pretty face in a club. at kung sakaling di man kayo magkatuluyan di mawawala yung respect na yun na tinuring mo siyang totoong tao sa buhay mo, hindi mo siya isusumpa dahil pinagpalit ka niya sa ganong career nya... dahil nga nirerespeto mo siya. Diba saer ang gaan sa loob, kahit nde kau nagkatuluyan wala ka kinimkim na galit or sama ng loob..Nagkahiwalay kau may respeto ka sa kanya..Mahirap magmove on kc kung puro sakit at galit ang iisipin natin at im sure kaw din naman ang mahihirapan eh..Tanggapin natin un ngyari kahit mahirap at masakit and hope for the best..Mahirap gawin pero posible naman diba.? As my X BEST naghiwalay kami na may respeto ko sa kanya..Puro positive pa nga un sinabi ko sa kanya..Sarap ng pakiramdam kung wala ka galit sa loob mo..Naniniwala ako sa karma pero nde ko hiniling sa knya un..Simple lang dahilan ko..Ayoko maramdaman nya un sakit at hirap na dinanas ko..Ayoko makita cia nasasaktan...Mawala man un love atleast nandun parin un RESPETO ko sa kanya..Magmamahal uli ako na wala ko sama ng loob o galit sa nakaraan ko.. Quote Link to comment
Sheepshop Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 No problem if both in love. problem is if only one is... Quote Link to comment
lost4words Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 ngayon ko lubusan nauunawaan ang ibig mong sabihin dito bro. ngayong andito ako sa situation mo dati. ngayon i respect her so much na hindi ko na tinitingnan as GRO siya, na ganitong klase ang trabaho niya. yung dating pagtingin ko sa mga GRO di ko nakikita sa kanya, at pinagtatanggol ko panga sa tropa ko ng sinabihan akong "mahina kanaba ngayon sa babae at pati GRO gni-GF mo?" sabi ko "pare hindi lahat ng GRO hindi disente! babae rin sila at marunong magmahal". minsan nga mas disente pa sila sa mga ka-officemates mong wild... hehe. yung tipong yung respeto mo sa kanya lumaki at kahit mawala ang love and trust nyo yun ang maiiwan, na you will keep on admiring her as a woman not as a pretty face in a club. at kung sakaling di man kayo magkatuluyan di mawawala yung respect na yun na tinuring mo siyang totoong tao sa buhay mo, hindi mo siya isusumpa dahil pinagpalit ka niya sa ganong career nya... dahil nga nirerespeto mo siya. This is sooooooooooooo true. Quote Link to comment
lost4words Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 I wanna share this with you guys again... I know that some of you have read this, but still galing sa puso ang sasabihin ko kaya mejo parang sirang plaka Naniniwala pa rin ako na HINDI lahat ng babae sa club ay bastusin. In the 90's, I started frequenting this place when I was 15... I have friends that time that was very older than me (20's and above) so ang trip nilang lakad, more often than not ay sa gnitong lugar... Roxas Blvd area or yung cheap clubs in the baclaran area ang napupuntahan... depende pa kung sino yung kasama ko. At that age, dein ako nainom and I had good friends na sinasama lang ako and not force me to drink... pero, I usually drive their cars whenever they get drunk or argue with their gf's... 1 time, I saw a girl na nagpatibok ng puso ko... I was 17 na nun... (yung bestfriend ko, GF nya may grupo ng DANCERS/MODELS ng Ms. Brunnette... c ATE Anais... Kaya mejo madalas kmi dito sa lugar na ito) when I saw you pa tugtog nung girl na naradaman ko na kinabog ang dibdib ko... I really wanted to meet her... Inantay ko talaga yung name nya... Baby Jane... So nung pauwi(oo, torpe ako at nahiya ako magpakilala, at ayoko syang i-table dahil ayoko sana mabahiran ng pera yung pagtingin ko sa kanya and besides, sabit lang ako dun). So ang ginawa ko, tinanong ko kay ate anais... protective din kasi sya sa akin and ke kuya nonie... it took me a couple of more visits para mapakilala sa kanya... (kilig) Wala pang digital celfone nun kaya as much as possible, talagang landline lang ang kontakan nun... naalala ko pa nung panahon na yun, kinakabahan ako kapag dinadial ko yung number nila... tapos ang naging ka-close ko pa nun is c Me-Ann... yung pinsan nya which servesd as her wardrobe... ayun... twag twag... usap... bisita sa club... grabe, ngitian lang kami masayang masay na ako... d ki sya tinable... pero lumalapit sya sa table namen... tas kapag uwian na, most of the time, hinahatid ko sya... mabbilang ko yung times na tumanngi sya magpahatid... I can say na mahal ko sya... up to know, alam ko mahal ko sya not because of awa or dhgil gusto ko sya maikama but because that's what i felt... Tanggap ko sya at kung anu sya... wala syang ginawang khiya hiya... i'll even have the audacity to say na DECENTE sya. because pinakita nya sa akin na khit ganun trabaho nya, pwedeng silang maging decente. Sila ni ATE Anais ang living proof that it can happen. Birthday ko, she was one of the 1st person na bumati sa akin... although hindi sya nagpunta sa haws dhil nahihiya sya sa family ko... (Believe me, pinilit ko syan pumunta... kaso ayaw nia talaga...) She gave me one of the most memorable bdays I ever had... (Nope, walang sex...) Why? Because of her simple gestures... Bday ko sa Ms.Brunnette ginawa... pinakilala nia ako sa mga sisters nya... they sat with us, kasama ko mga pinsan ko, mga close friends... ATE Anais was there too... binigyan nya ako ng mini teddy bear which I have hanggang ngayon... tapos, binigyan nya ako ng cake na may matching subo pa... it was the first time na nahawakan ko kamay nya ng matagal na matagal... tapos when I was going utter the words I LOVE YOU... parang movie sa sine na kasyo lumalayo sya.. I know na alam na nya na sasabihin ko yun kasi yun yung dare sa akin ni kuya nonie ko na ipagagawa nya sa akin. And when I did say those words we both knew na totoo yun... it came from my heart. Fast forward to the present... About 10 years has passed and yet, ganun pa din feelings ko for her... although I must say that I know ala ng pag-asa... ang akin lang ay I just wanna know how she is... I just wanna see her... khit alang usap... khit d ko na matanong kung minahal nya ba talaga ako or natuwa lang sya sa akin... Baka kasi kapag iba yun sa pananiwalaan ko ng pagka-tagal tagal ay masira ang paniniwala ko na meron pa din maayos na babae sa mundong ginagalawan nila... Na before I saw her as an angel pero angel of death pala... I dnt wanna dwell in the past. Pero I wanna think of her a someone who made me happy... antagal kong dinala na mahal ko sya. D ko alam kung sinagot nya ako or busted ako... i never asked the question before kasi I just wanted to love her... share what i felt. And if that makes me stupid, oke lang... I was happy. Her name was Baby Jane in Ms.Brunnette... Gelli sa Ms.Universal... I'd post a pic of her sana here kaso baka ma-offend sya. I just wish I can see her one more time... just wanna know how she is na. This is my story to tell. Quote Link to comment
vane Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 haaayyyyy no matter how complicated love seem to be, we will never be able to escape the joys and the pains it brings. my story is already on a higher note compared to some of you (ouch!)... just a thought... (insights needed please)... do you think it is worth leaving your family (your kids and wife!) for the love of an MPA? will she be able to reciprocate that kind of sacrifice? Quote Link to comment
jetpilot_88 Posted January 31, 2009 Share Posted January 31, 2009 haaayyyyy no matter how complicated love seem to be, we will never be able to escape the joys and the pains it brings. my story is already on a higher note compared to some of you (ouch!)... just a thought... (insights needed please)... do you think it is worth leaving your family (your kids and wife!) for the love of an MPA? will she be able to reciprocate that kind of sacrifice? sir it's a decision that will take a lot of time. i'm not saying ur girl ain't worth it, but trading your family up will require a lot of thinking, whether an ordinary girl or an MPA. choose wisely Quote Link to comment
truellusion Posted January 31, 2009 Share Posted January 31, 2009 haaayyyyy no matter how complicated love seem to be, we will never be able to escape the joys and the pains it brings. my story is already on a higher note compared to some of you (ouch!)... just a thought... (insights needed please)... do you think it is worth leaving your family (your kids and wife!) for the love of an MPA? will she be able to reciprocate that kind of sacrifice?actually parang ganito rin ako eh.. pero hindi ko malaman kung alin ang mas complikado kung sayo or mine. ganito ang storya: dear ate charo, may gf ako and we're planning to get married na since matagal narin kami (5 years)... tapos dumating bigla to si GRO sa buhay ko, i mean sobrang tinamaan talaga ako, ewan ko ba... Dec ko siya nakilala at nagkamabutihan kami. this GRO is just for table lang walang vip sa club na yun. so makaka-kwentuhan mo lang siya at KTV kantahan. never had her body, and i never thought of asking that coz i respect her. and virgin pa daw siya and i believe that kasi 1 month palang siya dito sa manila and bata pa siya kaka-18 palang galing province and nakikipagsapalaran para kumita dito sa manila (if you're thinking bat pumayag parents niya, she's from a broken family and wala siya bf kasi nagbreak sila nakabuntis ng iba kasi nga ayaw niya ibigay sarili niya...). first time nga raw tinable siya nanginginig siya tapos manyak pa daw nagtable sa kanya kaya pinag-waitress nalang siya. uuwi na raw dapat siya sa province after 1 week lang sa club buti nalang nagkakilala kami after that and she felt comfortable with a gentleman like me. hahayz. umuwi siya nung december sa province sa family nya pero she promise na babalik daw siya. i even ask her sa text not to come back kasi mas gusto kong mas safe siya there sa family niya, saka matitigil na ang kabaliwan ko pero as she promised bumalik siya ng january at naging kami. so baliw talaga ako at namangka sa dalawang ilog (gago na kung gago) di ko alam kung bakit ganon. maganda gf ko, matalino, mabait, may career, may plano na kami sa buhay, kumbaga planado na lahat masaya nako at biglang kumatok to si GRO sa puso ko. kaya dito ko napatunayan na mahirap diktahan ang puso... everytime lumalabas kami ni girl iba yung feeling. yung naramdaman ko dati sa gf ko nararamdaman ko ngayon sa kanya, at parang higit pa yung emotions eh. one time naging demanding ako and i ask "kung hihilingin ko bang maghanap ka ng ibang work gagawin mo?". eh si girl matigas, sabi hindi, kasi yun daw ang gusto ng mama niya makapag japan siya. naasar ako kasi priority niya yun kesa sakin. pero naisip ko di ko naman siya dapat kontrolin kahit kami na, siempre may gusto siyang maabot di ko naman kayang ibigay ang financial freedom niya kaya di ako dapat humadlang. kasi mga tita niya ganon rin nagjapan at parang yun rin ang gusto ng mama niya for her (baka nga gusto makapagasawa ng hapon). sabi niya sakin gusto niya parin makatuluyan pinoy at sana ako na nga raw ang last guy sa buhay niya... she said she love me "kaluguran daka" (kapampangan siya eh) pero di ko alam kung hanggang saan at di niya mabitawan ang career na pinasok niya. ayoko lang mangyari sa kanya yung sinasabi ni tigalupa na lamunin ng sistemang ginagalawan niya. since bata pa siya at inexperience di niya pa nakikita yung worst part ng pinasok niya. one time nagsumbong sakin hinawakan daw yung breast niya ng guest na attorney (friend ng boss pa, taenang attorney yan!) wala daw siya nagawa umiyak nalang sa cr. habang tumatagal lalo ako nagiging concern sa safety niya, gusto ko habang maaga isalba na siya pero wala akong magawa di ko kaya... so ang tanong ko rin is, is it worth it na ihulog ko ng lubusan ang loob ko sa kanya or should i stay with my gf and close my heart nalang? my gf is so nice to me naiisip ko wala siyang kasalanan bat ko ginagawa to saka mahal ko parin siya, pero ang puso ko naman everytime we're together ni girl iba ang nadarama. PS. palit picture na at baka may makatunog sakin. hahayzz. :hypocritesmiley: Quote Link to comment
vane Posted January 31, 2009 Share Posted January 31, 2009 bro truellusion, at least naman ikaw di pa kasal. walang mga anak. pero tama ka. pag kasama ko si girl, ang saya ng feeling. ibang level ang emotional fulfillment. ewan ko ba? gago na nga kung gago pero pag kasama ko asawa ko, ang gaspang na ng trato ko sa kanya kahit alam ko sa sarili ko na mahal ko pa rin naman siya. andali nya ako mainis. sobra. minsan nasasabihan ko pa sya ng "umalis ka sa harapan ko" pag sinasabihan ako na ilabas ko naman mga anakko. ewan ko ba? alam ko namang mali. meron ngang bf tong si girl e. (pero sabi nya mas mahal nya ako kesa dun). kaya lang di nya maiwan kasi yun din daw ang pangarap nya sa buhay. magkaroon ng sariling pamilya na kanya lang. sabi ko nga handa akong iwan pamilya ko para sa kanya eh. hayyyy. minsan lang di ko maiwasan at maiwaglit sa aking isipan: pag kaya nagsasama na kami at naiwan ko sya mag isa sa aming bahay, di kaya sya maghanap ng iba, o di kaya makipagkita sa bf nya? Quote Link to comment
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