Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[tamabaw13]

well said layman37, tao sila---you need not fall for them but they deserve to be respected and you cannot help but feel empathy for many of them.

[jaganman]

may mga kakilala ako na nainlove sa mga ktv girls, may isa pa nga pinakasalan pa nya, nag kaanak at pamilya na sila ngayon. minsan mahirap man tanggapin para satin mga gms na nabubuhay sa karnal na mundo may mga kapwa tayo na naiinlove sa mga psps/gros/mpas. pero di natin sila masisi, kung talagang tinamaan sila at nainlove wala tayo magagawa.

 

mostly ng kilala ko masaya naman pamilya nila sa mga naging asawa nilang mga gro. hindi narin bumalik ung girl sa trabaho nya sa club at naging house wife nalang.

 

un lang kawawa ung mga kapwa nating mga gm na nagamit, pinerahan at na huhutan ng mga gro/mpa/psps. siguro imbes na pagtawanan natin sila or kutsain, supportahan nalang natin, afterall they've learned their lessons the hard and painful way, na wag basta basta mag papaloko.

[Bameboy]

may mga kakilala ako na nainlove sa mga ktv girls, may isa pa nga pinakasalan pa nya, nag kaanak at pamilya na sila ngayon. minsan mahirap man tanggapin para satin mga gms na nabubuhay sa karnal na mundo may mga kapwa tayo na naiinlove sa mga psps/gros/mpas. pero di natin sila masisi, kung talagang tinamaan sila at nainlove wala tayo magagawa.

 

mostly ng kilala ko masaya naman pamilya nila sa mga naging asawa nilang mga gro. hindi narin bumalik ung girl sa trabaho nya sa club at naging house wife nalang.

 

un lang kawawa ung mga kapwa nating mga gm na nagamit, pinerahan at na huhutan ng mga gro/mpa/psps. siguro imbes na pagtawanan natin sila or kutsain, supportahan nalang natin, afterall they've learned their lessons the hard and painful way, na wag basta basta mag papaloko.

Correct sir and that's what this thread is for. Siguro makaka tulong din na ma express at mabigyan tayo ng opinion at payo ng ibang gms na nasa parehas na sitwasyon nila o di kaya mga natuto na at marunong na pag dating sa ganyang mga bagay. Everyone learns their lessons eventually either the easy way or the painful way but in this kind of situation i don't think there is an easy way

[jsa2009]

why is it that some people can be so judgmental.

 

they may be psps, mps,whores, or whatever you want to call them -- they're still human being!

 

its unfair to compare them with toys or any other THINGS that has no life in it.

 

they are all like us -- with feelings, with ability to think, with different conditions/situations in life

 

simply because of what they are now or before doesn't make us better than them

 

peace mga bros

 

 

super agree with you bro!

[kingjeff]

Isa lang masasabi ko d2.. at na experience ko na before.. Hindi ako client or anything ng mahal ko.. nalaman ko lahat na ganun sya late na at sinaktan nya ulit ako.. pinilit ko alamin lahat kasi mahal ko yun tao..

 

 

 

Bago ko man nalaman niloko ulit nya ako, narealize ko na mahal ko sya means kailangan ingatan ko din sya, at dapat mahalin ko lahat ng tao nakapaligid sa kanya and I will do everything para mabawasan yun problem nya with his past ex.

Mahal ko yun tao oo na tanga ako, bobo na ko pero pano kung worth it? at sinabi nya ayaw na nya ako masaktan ulit dahil mahal naman nya ako.. Kinilala ko talaga lahat every aspect and details about her, Time and effort to read and define everything for my wife. And yun kwento nya about his ex client nya in puerto not worth it yun lalake kung ibabased ko sa point ng lalake yun kwento nya parang hindi talaga nag invest ng love yun lalake for him nadadala lang sya ng happiness kaya nag expect sya ng too much.. Mahirap kasi minsan sa atin yun happiness sa simula yun nakikita kaya madali maloko mas maganda na yata yun sa simula pag aralan mo style nya hindi mo alam sa lahat pala ng babae ginagwa nya yun ganun pakita tao, which is normal lang sa kanya..

Maganda kung nag eexpect ka ng love sa hirap or sa ginhawa nandyan pa rin sya sayo.

Kung mahal mo talaga yun tao pipilitin mo wag sya bumalik sa ganto profession at kung mahal ka talaga ng tao pipilitin nya magbago para sa pamilya nyo. Mahirap? hindi sacrifice lang talaga wag lang mg expect ng too much pra hindi makaisip ng ano ano.

 

 

 

Friend and your husband

 

To my wife kung mabasa mo to sorry sa immaturity ko.. and I do my best also.

hindi ko na binigay yun ibang details,

 

I love you.

[senestroring]

a lot of people who falls in love with psp/gro/mpa will go through an emotional rollercoaster experience... me ups and down.. chances of being successful in these kind of relationship are slim... marami sa atin kasi ang mabilis ma in love sa kanila dahil sa trade nila sanay silang magpa in love... i hope the best for you guys which are undergoing these situations... please ask yourself if 'is it worth it???'

[Bugatti Veyron]

Tang na.. Pare.. parehong pareho karanasan natin.. kung nabasa ko lang ito nung una palang.. di nako nahulog sa babaeng un... sobrang ganda at bago lang daw kasi sa WORK SA BAR.. 1 MONTH PALANG.. Tapos ako lang daw naka halik sa kanya sa labi na pumayag siya.. naloko ko.. unang buwan.. ok ok pa.. pag tagal liabilities din na sakin puros pera.. suportado lahat lahat kulang parin.. un pala naloloko ulit sa ex niya.. alam din ng ex niya na kami.. tapos pineperahan na pala nila ko..tang na ako naman si tanga.. naniniwala sa lahat sa kanya kasi akala ko malahal niya ko... di ko akalin mamagawa niya un sa akin.. sa itsura palang may pinag arala naman konti.. maganda parang artista.. dala lang daw ng kahirap kaya napasok sa ganun...at dahil narin problema sa magulang nag layas.. nadala ko sa istorya ng buhay niya.. at yung ex daw niya yun ang taong kinasusuklaman niya.. yun pala yun pala ang mahal na mahal niya... mga hayop sila... kasama nila si karma.. hahhaha.. kaya mga tol.. tama pag galing dyan ang babae wag seryosohin.. pera pera lang sila...

 

salamat mga tol.. at least natutu tayo sa mga aral ng buhay..

Di ka nagiisa bro.

 

why is it that some people can be so judgmental.

 

they may be psps, mps,whores, or whatever you want to call them -- they're still human being!

 

its unfair to compare them with toys or any other THINGS that has no life in it.

 

they are all like us -- with feelings, with ability to think, with different conditions/situations in life

 

simply because of what they are now or before doesn't make us better than them

 

peace mga bros

super agree with you bro!

+1

[admark]

why is it that some people can be so judgmental.

 

they may be psps, mps,whores, or whatever you want to call them -- they're still human being!

 

its unfair to compare them with toys or any other THINGS that has no life in it.

 

they are all like us -- with feelings, with ability to think, with different conditions/situations in life

 

simply because of what they are now or before doesn't make us better than them

 

peace mga bros

 

 

 

 

you also got my vote bro

[jac]

a lot of people who falls in love with psp/gro/mpa will go through an emotional rollercoaster experience... me ups and down.. chances of being successful in these kind of relationship are slim... marami sa atin kasi ang mabilis ma in love sa kanila dahil sa trade nila sanay silang magpa in love... i hope the best for you guys which are undergoing these situations... please ask yourself if 'is it worth it???'

 

Very true. My relationship with a GRO which I maintained for 3 months was very very rough. Now I believe in the saying that a whore will always be a whore no matter what.

[Bameboy]

I sympathize truly with the guys who have fallen in love with women in this profession only to be hurt and used. But there are also some of them who find themselves in these situations and circumstances no longer new to us: poverty - needs to raise her family/siblings, wants to continue studying, etc. Even my current boyfriend fell for a couple of them sadly one of them used him too.

 

I think to love is a choice, whether to fall in love with women (or men) from this profession is also a choice. Sadly, differentiating whether they have real or unreal feelings is not that easy. So to those who got hurt, learn from those but to those who fell in love (and still are) then I wish you luck

It is and will always be a vicious cycle

[silvervic]

I sympathize truly with the guys who have fallen in love with women in this profession only to be hurt and used. But there are also some of them who find themselves in these situations and circumstances no longer new to us: poverty - needs to raise her family/siblings, wants to continue studying, etc. Even my current boyfriend fell for a couple of them sadly one of them used him too.

 

I think to love is a choice, whether to fall in love with women (or men) from this profession is also a choice. Sadly, differentiating whether they have real or unreal feelings is not that easy. So to those who got hurt, learn from those but to those who fell in love (and still are) then I wish you luck

 

Well said. +1

[kingjeff]

a lot of people who falls in love with psp/gro/mpa will go through an emotional rollercoaster experience... me ups and down.. chances of being successful in these kind of relationship are slim... marami sa atin kasi ang mabilis ma in love sa kanila dahil sa trade nila sanay silang magpa in love... i hope the best for you guys which are undergoing these situations... please ask yourself if 'is it worth it???'

 

 

Agree

Masakit pa sometimes after meeting with their client, or chatting, calling, msg ..Malamig sila sa normal na buhay nila or if committed sila affected yun, the cause is sa pag uusap or bluffing minsan nila at ng client with each other, then syempre mangyayari is comparing.

 

 

And

Para din sa normal people pag lumalandi yun isa affected yun isa, surprise ka suddenly cold and sensitive yun isa sayo kasi my ginagawa kalokohan.

 

 

 

[helpsome]

For me, falling in love with a girl in this profession needs guts and a very great understanding from the mind and heart.

Edited October 25, 2013 by helpsome

[Bameboy]

For me, falling in love with a girl in this profession needs guts and a very great understanding from the mind and heart.

But sometimes and it will always come to that time that no matter how hard you try to understand and even if you really love the girl you will come to the point wherein you will get jealous, have doubts, be paranoid and think if everything is still worth it and if what you're doing is still right even in the end she might already be making a fool out of you. It will always come to that point when the texts are cold and the arguements are getting frequent because at the back of your head there is still this thought that she has that job...

[senestroring]

mga gm's, opionion ko lang ito i hope that i'm not offending anyone... its up to you guys kung gusto niyong ma-involve with people of these kind of profession... maybe meron talagang naging successful sa ganoon pero sa tingin ko bibihira lang yun... buti sana kung kaka simula pa lang sa ganitong work baka ok pa... pero sa mga matagal na ganito ang work marami dito ay parang corrupted ng computer file na... from time to time nagbibigay ito ng problems... minsan iisipin nating ayos na pero bigla biglang nagbibigay ng sakit ng ulo... for some reason nag e expect tayo na walang ibibigay na problema pero pag corrupted na lalabas at lalabas din ang problem one day... ayaw ko naman lahatin pero sa tingin ko karamihan ay corrupted lalo na yung matatagal na sa ganitong work... masakit pa siguro kung mangyari pa na kung wala ka nang pera or pag hindi mabigay ang hilig nila ay lagi tayong babantaan na babalik na lang sa dati nilang trabaho or baka na me iba na mas kayang magbigay... also, marami din complications sa acceptance ng family members or relatives or friends... baka yung iba pa ay i-disown... pero cyempre there are exceptions pero kokonti lang... halimbawa kung sa sugal, bakit ka tataya sa isang bagay na me low probabilities to win... but come to think of it... para sigurong lotto ito, kahit low probability, dami pa ding tumatayo kasi me chances pa ding manalo... pero sa lotto kc konti lang time ang ini-involve natin, mas similar siguro ito sa casino na maraming time ang kinukuha sa atin pero kaya pa ding sirain ang buhay natin kung hindi natin kayang i handle...

 

have a nice time everyone...

[CommissarYardick]

I need input from you guys, im in this situation right now and let me just say, MY FREAKIN HEAD HURTS SO MUCH! (and heart) hehe. Any input would be greatly appreciated

[BigMarcus6]

Bro, I recommend that you read this thread:

 

http://manilatonight.com/index.php?showtopic=21662

 

Madami diyan GMs who share their experiences - good and bad. You can learn from them.

[Little John]

To me, the question of being loyal always comes to mind and falling in love for her will always leave room for doubt and jealousy...

[swynd]

Pwede yan. But you have to be sure about each other's feelings. Sincere ba talaga kayong dalawa? It's a simple question,, but very very hard to answer.

 

To be fair, I know of 2 very happy cases of therapists in a loving relationship with a client. There's a LOT of unhappy cases, sadly. It's gonna be hard, pero pwede.

[winfliz]

sa akin lng,sa daming lugar na pwd mainlove sa babae, e dyan p natapilok. wlang tama sa mali

[miketest75]

Check-out the other thread bro. My advice... quit while you're ahead.

[ronnieras]

Meron ako kakilala bro everything started just fine.. cool and smooth but as their relationship got deeper, things became complicated. marami issues involved and mahirap ang pagdadaanan. there will be a lot of trust issues and acceptance.. pero at the end of the day, nsa sainyo naman yan. goodluck

[aifor14]

I need input from you guys, im in this situation right now and let me just say, MY FREAKIN HEAD HURTS SO MUCH! (and heart) hehe. Any input would be greatly appreciated

 

Why not? I've met a few theras who are gf material. It's all up to you. Mahirap lang is if you are losing your head to a girl because of the sweetness that she's showing you inside the cubicle. Patay ka pag hustler yan and she knows that you're falling for her. But at the end of the day it's your life pre. Don't let others tell you what you can and what you cannot do.

[johnlove]

For me, falling in love with a girl in this profession needs guts and a very great understanding from the mind and heart.

And a very fat wallet.

[Crassus]

ngyari na rin kasi sakin yan believe me it is really hard to invest feelings

sa isang mpa,dati naalala ko pa sinasama ko pa siya lage tuwing may occasions, tapos nalaman ko nalang sa friend niyang mpa din na may anak na pala siya at kasama pa niya yung father nung anak niya sa bahay nila,in the end i felt so betrayed parang pinag damot niya sakin lahat katotohanan tungkol sa kanya samantalang ako napaka honest ko naman sa kanya sa lahat

 

Ngayon ko lang nabasa to. I know that experience.

 

We need to move on. Life goes on. Ganun talaga. Pero kailangan nating maging malakas.