Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[MagikMike]

12 minutes ago, BrosTayoDito said:

Sometimes people get into relationships due to unexpected circumstances and timing.. ke-kwento ko...

Si GM ay isang ordinary guy lang na may GF na above his league, and naturally lapitin si GF nya sa ibang guys and madalas magselos si GM so madalas mag-away at cool-off..

Si Thera naman ay well, isa syang Top Thera at talaga naman GFE ito kaya madami nahuhumaling sa kanya na mga guys pero syempre tao din kaya hindi maiwasan na mag-fall din sa kanyang Guest

So this is where timing comes in.. cool-off nuon si GM at GF nya at si Thera naman ay well, u know, hindi xa ang pinili ng last BF nya who is married so heartbroken... so connect the dots.. GM who has a rocky relationship with GF and Thera na kaka-breakup lang so all the ingredients for 2 people to fall, rebound and move on fast.

So wag na paligoy-ligoy pa and let's get into it:

GM: Ano bang problema mo at para kang malungkot

Thera: Kasi, iniwan ako ng BF ko, hindi nya daw kaya iwan ang asawa nya

GM: Miss, pareho pala tayong heartbroken ganyan din ang problema ko, yung GF ko may iba na yatang pumoporma kaya nga napapadalas ako d2 sa Spa nyo

Thera: So, anong gagawin natin? Nag-isip sandali ang GM at sinabi... 🤔

GM: Kung gusto mo, maghiganti tayo sa kanila. 😒

Thera: Paanong paghihiganti? 🤔

GM: Alam mo na ang ibig kong sabihin... 😎

At yun nga, they met outside the Spa on one of thera's dayoff at nag-check in sila sa motel at nangyari na nga ang dapat mangyari. Nang makaraos si GM, nagsindi siya ng yosi. Nang halos filter na lang ay biglang nagsabi si Thera ng:

"Maghiganti uli tayo " Medyo pagod, pero pinagbigyan niya ang request ni Thera.

Nang makaraos uli, nagsindi uli si GM ng yosi. Nasa kalahati pa lang ang yosi...

Thera: Maghiganti uli tayo. lambing nya 😊

Medyo nangangatog na ang mga tuhod pero dahil sa tawag ng kamunduhan, muling pinagbigyan niya si Thera. Muling nakaraos ang dalawa. Nagsindi uli si GM ng yosi.! Unang hitit pa lang niya ay..

Thera: Ganti uli tayo. 😊

Talagang lupaypay na si manoy ni GM pero para huwag mapahiya ay muling pinagbigyan niya ang kahilingan ni Thera. Pagkatapos kumuha siya ng yosi. Sisindihan pa lang nang biglang...

Thera: Ganti uli tayo. 😊

GM: 'TANGNA NAMAN! PATAWARIN NA NATIN SILA!!! 😤😤😤

 

🤣🤣🤣

 

Napagod si junjun 😅

[GM Armani]

Huling Halik
 

Si Jonas, isang Gentle Maniac, mahilig sa thrill at sa mga bagay na labas sa ordinaryo. Isang araw, natuklasan niya ang serbisyo ni Dra. Mara, isang kilalang therapist sa Maynila. Bukod sa pagtuturo ng pagsasaayos ng sexual issues, may isa pang alok si Dra. Mara - ang pag-aalok ng intimacy sa mga may kayang magbayad.

 

Jonas: "Dra., magkano kung gusto ko ng 'extra service'?" Dra. Mara: "Hindi ito basta-bastang serbisyo, Jonas. Malaki ang presyo. Hindi lang sa pera, kundi sa emosyon."

Pero hindi natigil si Jonas. Sa kanya, isang challenge lang ito. Isang kakaibang thrill.

 

Sa unang pagtatagpo pa lang nila, ramdam na ang tension. Jonas would crack jokes like, "Eh, Dra., pano kung hindi ko kayanin? Baka mahulog ako sa'yo eh." Tumatawa si Dra. Mara pero may bahid ng seryosidad sa kanyang mata.

 

Sa bawat session, napansin ni Jonas na may kakaiba sa mga mata ni Dra. Mara. Hindi ito ang mga mata ng isang negosyante, kundi ng isang babae na may tinatagong lungkot.

 

Habang tumatagal, hindi lang physical intimacy ang namagitan sa kanila. They shared stories, tawanan, at mga lihim. Si Jonas, bagamat playful sa una, ay napansin ang sincerity sa mga mata ni Mara.

 

Jonas: "Alam mo Dra., hindi ko inexpect na ganito pala ang feeling. Akala ko thrill lang, pero mas complicated pala."

 

Ngunit sa isang pagkakataon, nadiskubre ni Jonas ang isang lihim ni Mara. Ang 'extra service' ay para sa pagpapagamot ng kanyang may sakit na anak. Hindi pala ito ginagawa ni Mara dahil gusto niya, kundi kailangan niya.

 

Mara: "Jonas, hindi ito biro. Ginagawa ko ito para sa anak ko. Hindi para sa sarili ko."

 

Jonas, now deeply in love, offered to help her financially without the need for the 'extra service.' Pero si Mara, ayaw niya ng awa. Ayaw niyang maging utang na loob ang lahat.

 

Jonas: "Mara, mahal kita. Gusto kong tulungan ka hindi dahil sa serbisyo mo, kundi dahil mahal kita."

 

Pero sa huli, si Mara ay tumanggi. "Jonas, maraming salamat. Pero hindi ko kaya. Hindi ako pwedeng mag-stay sa'yo."

 

Sa paglalakad palabas ng opisina, bumulong si Jonas, "Sana inalam ko muna ang presyo bago ako pumasok sa ganitong sitwasyon."

 

Sa huling eksena, makikita si Jonas na tumitingin sa malayo, na may bitbit na realisasyon na hindi lahat ng bagay ay dapat pinapasok kung hindi ka handa sa posibleng kapalit.

 

Hindi lahat ng desisyon sa buhay ay dapat pinapasok nang hindi pinag-iisipan. Minsan, may mga bagay na mas matindi pa sa presyo ng pera - ang presyo ng damdamin at emosyon.

[Prinsloo]

Isipin nyo na lang mga taga seiko films nung araw nalaos. Look at natasha ledesma, nini jacinto, bridgette de joya. Where are they now. 

These are top GROs, MPAs, Theras, and walkers, that got discovered and made it big. But once projects stopped coming thats where reality kicks in.

Mga males in their 40s and above lang makaka gets nito.

Look at the chicks nung teens and 20s kau, ano na sila ngayun? Nanghihinayang ka pa rin ba at hindi sila napa sayo while looking at their physical state right now?

Malamang hindi lol.

 

Edited October 22, 2023 by Prinsloo

[WhosThere]

12 hours ago, Prinsloo said:

Isipin nyo na lang mga taga seiko films nung araw nalaos. Look at natasha ledesma, nini jacinto, bridgette de joya. Where are they now. 

These are top GROs, MPAs, Theras, and walkers, that got discovered and made it big. But once projectsstop comming thats where reality kicks in.

Mga males in their 40sl and above lang makaka gets nito.

Look at the chicks nungbteens and 20s kau, ano na sila ngayun? Nanghihinayang ka pa rin ba at hindi sila napa sayo while looking at their physical state right now?

Malamang hindi lol.

 

Tumpak!

[Rolf.go.06]

Courting is not advisable, attract them much way better. 
 

[Prinsloo]

3 hours ago, Rolf.go.06 said:

Courting is not advisable, attract them much way better. 
 

It wll only work if you have a shit ton of money for them to take the risk and jump in.

[Voltes 6]

Nice topic though. I wouldn't mind marrying a thera.

[Jimmmyy]

It’s fine! If it is meant for you

[Kazuya04]

May isang Thera sa WH na regular ko medyo nagpaparamdam, lahat payag siya no hold bars pwera lang live for our own protection at na-enjoy namin yung time kapag magkasama kami. Siguro hanggang dun na lang. Ni personal number hindi ko hinihingi pero meron siya at nagpaparinig siya na may viber siya pero ako naman wala. Siguro a total of 8 or 9-ish times ko na siyang nakuha, kapag absent siya sa sched niya uuwi na lang talaga ako. Yung una ko siyang nakuha is blind pick. Nag walk-in lang ako nun at trip trip lang kasi at that time yung classique at sylvanus pangit line-up though 2am kasi na yun. If ever man maging tropa kami, siguro hanggang dun na lang. Birthday niya nga nito lang at gusto niya ako ayain kaso wala naman daw siyang contact sakin. Kwento niya nga nag rent daw sila ng room sa shangri-la at pakilala daw sana ako sa mga tropa niya na nagtatrabaho din sa ganung industriya. Ayun sayang daw at ako din naman nanghinayang din pero okay lang hahaha. Hindi ko siguro paabutin sa intimate level. Tropa tropa lang talaga siguro additional girl friends na pwede ma-imbita kapag ikakasal na ako 🤣 

Ayun, share ko lang. 

Edited October 25, 2023 by Kazuya04
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[Rolf.go.06]

21 hours ago, Prinsloo said:

It wll only work if you have a shit ton of money for them to take the risk and jump in.

Yaah right, but as a man I think we are required to be a financial stable.

[Suckaduck]

12 hours ago, Rolf.go.06 said:

Yaah right, but as a man I think we are required to be a financial stable.

Even then though, would you really want to deal with that? The relationship is inorganic to begin with 

[dominickcruise]

1 hour ago, Suckaduck said:

Even then though, would you really want to deal with that? The relationship is inorganic to begin with 

bullseye, it's best to just have a rotation of women to have sex with..you're paying her so part of the payment is her to leave you be after the sex, there are times the free sex is more expensive than the paid sex..i was a victim nito before!!

[Iceman7]

On 10/26/2023 at 4:03 AM, Rolf.go.06 said:

Yaah right, but as a man I think we are required to be a financial stable.

Most of their boyfriends are broke and receive an allowance from them. Once you guys realize this you will learn that the GM is on the losing end of the stick. Why spoil and shell out money when their real BFs receive money from them

[Prinsloo]

1 hour ago, Iceman7 said:

Most of their boyfriends are broke and receive an allowance from them. Once you guys realize this you will learn that the GM is on the losing end of the stick. Why spoil and shell out money when their real BFs receive money from them

my theory on why theras go for broke boys (thru their socials, they go for no name rappers, service crews or just full blooded bums)is that broke boys will never make sumbat or belittle them since they are the ones earning the money. whereas if they go for the corporate executive ones, lagi silang susumbatan nito pag may issue. narinig ko rin ito sa mga thera hat they will not settle with someone na parokyano ng flesh industry. 

[Prinsloo]

On 10/26/2023 at 4:03 AM, Rolf.go.06 said:

Yaah right, but as a man I think we are required to be a financial stable.

maybe for legit relationships. But for garahe type of affairs? they can kiss my ass lol.

Edited October 27, 2023 by Prinsloo

[Rolf.go.06]

This thread makes more interesting. 
You guys all correct. Cheers!

[plug]

As long as gusto mo pa si thera nasa iyo na yon kung gusto mong ipagpatuloy at gastusan. Kadalasan nagpapabaya si lover kay thera in terms of money para hwag lang mawala sa kanya si thera. Yung nagsasabi ng been there done that are only part of their past and it is not always the same to others kahit gaanong kaliit ang chance of what can be called a success and most failures. So, still not discouraging to fall.

[BrosTayoDito]

Haaaays mga newbie "first time in the industry" talaga mahirap ispelengin.. 🤨

so ayun na nga, nag-fa-fall na si Bro nyo... sa isang newbie "first time in the industry", syempre medyo close na at dahil bago nga e hindi pa nya naayos ang mga necessary arrangements like housing near the spa base of operations, pang-deposit, advance, rolling funds etc.. so ayun na nga, nangutang...

Pinautang ko naman, sabi ko pa "SAKA MO NA BAYARAN KAPAG MALUWANG KA NA" 😇

Abe e sinampal ako?! hays.. ako na nagpautang ako pa ang nasampal 🤪 🤪 🤪

 

[kikomatsingmatos]

Just now, BrosTayoDito said:

Haaaays mga newbie "first time in the industry" talaga mahirap ispelengin.. 🤨

so ayun na nga, nag-fa-fall na si Bro nyo... sa isang newbie "first time in the industry", syempre medyo close na at dahil bago nga e hindi pa nya naayos ang mga necessary arrangements like housing near the spa base of operations, pang-deposit, advance, rolling funds etc.. so ayun na nga, nangutang...

Pinautang ko naman, sabi ko pa "SAKA MO NA BAYARAN KAPAG MALUWANG KA NA" 😇

Abe e sinampal ako?! hays.. ako na nagpautang ako pa ang nasampal 🤪 🤪 🤪

 

hahahaha baka naman first time din umutang lodi par

[BrosTayoDito]

1 hour ago, kikomatsingmatos said:

hahahaha baka naman first time din umutang lodi par

it hurts bro 🥺

[kikomatsingmatos]

28 minutes ago, BrosTayoDito said:

it hurts bro 🥺

isang bagay ang sigurado par, hindi nya first time sumampal hahahaha

[YouDeserveBetter]

22 hours ago, Prinsloo said:

my theory on why theras go for broke boys (thru their socials, they go for no name rappers, service crews or just full blooded bums)is that broke boys will never make sumbat or belittle them since they are the ones earning the money. whereas if they go for the corporate executive ones, lagi silang susumbatan nito pag may issue. narinig ko rin ito sa mga thera hat they will not settle with someone na parokyano ng flesh industry. 

May kilala ako rapper din type. Tapos yung bagong jowa now sobrang downgrade mas malapit lang sa place of work nya

Tapos gusto nya ako singilin ng 15k-50k dahil kaka 18 lang daw nya. Pero dalawa na anak 

 

[Tipreth]

20 hours ago, plug said:

As long as gusto mo pa si thera nasa iyo na yon kung gusto mong ipagpatuloy at gastusan. Kadalasan nagpapabaya si lover kay thera in terms of money para hwag lang mawala sa kanya si thera. Yung nagsasabi ng been there done that are only part of their past and it is not always the same to others kahit gaanong kaliit ang chance of what can be called a success and most failures. So, still not discouraging to fall.

Nice words of encouragement master! Hahaha

P.S. Kala ko tinago mo na si VC ng LB hindi ko na nakikita sa lineup . Baka may nag sponsor or nag garahe na hahaha

[BaileyG]

4 hours ago, BrosTayoDito said:

Haaaays mga newbie "first time in the industry" talaga mahirap ispelengin.. 🤨

so ayun na nga, nag-fa-fall na si Bro nyo... sa isang newbie "first time in the industry", syempre medyo close na at dahil bago nga e hindi pa nya naayos ang mga necessary arrangements like housing near the spa base of operations, pang-deposit, advance, rolling funds etc.. so ayun na nga, nangutang...

Pinautang ko naman, sabi ko pa "SAKA MO NA BAYARAN KAPAG MALUWANG KA NA" 😇

Abe e sinampal ako?! hays.. ako na nagpautang ako pa ang nasampal 🤪 🤪 🤪

 

🤣🤣🤣

[BaileyG]

17 minutes ago, LookingOswald said:

Here are some nuggets of introspection that have come from exchanges, both through private messages with experienced members of the community, as well as a few service providers over the past few months, and what I can surmise, while not new information, is this:

Try your best to be emotionally hygienic, but as much as possible, don't do it. Unless you're ready to take her out of that life or make the conscious choice to sustain her, place your expectations aside. Service providers already have enough to deal with on a day-to-day basis, and to add to the job description is to continually fulfill fantasies that are so out of touch with reality. 

Closeness and intimacy beyond the paid service add to the experience and are one of the perks of being a returning regular, but it's best to not burden them with an overly demanding attitude to begin with. Don't put too much meaning on the developed chemistry over time. Some even consider the thought of having a second pop, or not even paying to be "love". That's not love, that's manipulation. Binebenta nga nila kaluluwa nila, tas gusto mo pa sila isahan. Mahiya ka naman sa sarili mo - hindi yan pagmamahal.

What you experience with them inside the confines of the room, the fantasy that is provided is far from the reality that they have to deal with when they get home - utility bills, supporting a family, financing a family member's education, etc. Some of them are the ones who are solely bringing their families out of poverty. Behind the seduction is a hidden Calvary that only a few are willing to truly empathize with, or even do something about. 

If you love, or enjoy a certain level of fidelity with your provider, this is what I can say - don't burden them. Treat them with respect. Understand that boundaries exist. Recognizing their humanity IS an act of love. Be a guest that they look forward to servicing, instead of them internally going, "Oh God, here comes the fake boyfriend again." Misplaced male jealousy - oh dear, nothing makes a vagina dryer. Of course, they wouldn't ruin the fantasy, it would just create drama and a potential loss of a recurring source of income. 

The only success story that is continually ongoing that I am super proud to say that I've seen firsthand was back in Kremlin 2016, with my first regular TEON. Her exit plan with her boyfriend/sponsor was one of the most intelligent exits that I've ever seen. They've used all the income gathered from her time in the industry and started a gluta distribution business, that eventually blossomed into a full-on string of dermatology clinics around NCR - ang galing, they even use social media managers and all that to run the business. Sobrang pulido. Not only was the man able to take her out of that life, but they've built a life in such a way that it is almost impossible for her to come back to this industry. They have just celebrated their 5th anniversary together, she's living her best life, just bought a Lexus IS, and I couldn't be happier for them. That's love, but God, the hell that they had to go through for the past 7 years - that's not for everyone. I know for certain that it is not for me. 

Reminds me of a post on this thread where there’s a fictional thera who wrote a letter that said it was far more taxing to fulfill the emotional fantasies of men than to just provide their physical ones. After reading that, I sometimes candidly ask new ones I meet which they prefer more: to go straight to the deed within the first few minutes or if they prefer the prelude that is conversational foreplay. Whichever they choose, I go with.

Happy to read about your past regular. We may never get to imagine exactly the hell they have to go through depending on how bad and deep their personal/family needs are, but very inspiring to meet ones who get out of this with a good exit strat that they’re actually able to pull off. I know of a few I think, pero mukhang “almost there” palang sila and not fully out. Hope they’re as successful as your Teon, eventually.