Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[markjoycehailey]

3 hours ago, Krimpayero said:

I think most GMs with thera GFs know what the ladies do. This is MTC, we all go here knowing what we will find.

My exes were top theras and GROs, i knew exactly what their jobs entailed. But it is when I began to see them as more than sex objects that things developed into samthng more.

Sex is the easy part, after all, thats how u meet these ladies. Seeing them as more than that is the bigger challenge, but once you do, then you know things just got real. 

It doesnt even have to be romantic relationships. These are people you can  have genuine friendships with. I got former theras na Ninong ako ng mga anak nila and are still close to me up to this day. Believe it or not, their current partners even know at some point b4, i fucked their GFs. Again, its about seeing past the flesh and appreciating their totality as real people. 

 

 

 

 

 

You Sir, are obviously an MP/Spa/KTV owner's dream and their "workers" as well as every pimp's/handler's.  I suggest that you repost this in all the MP/Spa/KTV threads and surely everyone will be at your beck and call during every visit.  Everyone would be expecting sky-high tips , of course, but I'm sure you already know that, as what you call "samthing more" is applicable to the financial aspect of the "genuine friendships".  And not just with the ladies, but with your inaanaks and "kumpares" too as part of seeing and going past the flesh and in appreciation for their totality as real people which include appreciating their financial everyday needs as your "kumpares" most likely are not as generous and well off as you are.   

Congratulations to you if you are happy with this arrangement.   Congratulations to the ladies, your kumpares and inaanaks as well.  You are one in a billion, and I have called just one other GM that way.

By the way, can I refer one top therapist to you na BAON na BAON sa utang?  I am talking a few millions.  She really could use a GM like you.... and I mean USE.

Edited September 7, 2023 by markjoycehailey

[darwin2k4]

teka, pinapatulog na ko 🤣

[Harding]

4 hours ago, Xbg said:

Marami kayong maghahati sa kepyas ni thera gusto nyo pa rin jowain? Makisawsaw nalang din kayo

that is the right thing to do . 

[Harding]

4 hours ago, Julzz said:

Nice one! Kung talagang genuine friendship, tutulungan mo lang kahit walang kapalit.

huwag lang aabuhin which we know marami na na victimize

[ilustrisimokolakes7]

On 9/6/2023 at 11:57 AM, Mang Ricky said:

Alam ni jowa na nagtatrabho si thera sa industry. Pero d alam ni jowa  kung anong milagro ginagawa ni thera pag on duty. Kung sakale nalaman ni jowa ang milagro sa loob ng spa o MP, nakuha niya info sa mga barkada. O kaya niyaya ng barkada si jowa na magpa "massage".

Most of them know their gfs offer sexual favors,they just dont care kasi nagbebenefit sila kasi karamihan sa kanila batugan

[plug]

15 hours ago, Julzz said:

Nice one! Kung talagang genuine friendship, tutulungan mo lang kahit walang kapalit.

Ten years ago, inilabas ko sa spa sa Makati at inalok tulungan sa pagaaral ang isang newbie. She was 18 years old and a virgin.

After more than two years binitawan ko pero di ko ginalaw ang kanyang pagiging virgin. Marahil I was just in need of somebody like her as company at "kalaro" kaya di ko na kailangan iyon na kapalit.

Years later kita ko sa fb na may decent na trabaho and still single pero di ko masabi kung virgin pa rin.

I ended the relation with the above thera for an 18-year-old and a week old model yung grupo ng may kaliitan Stargem/Gemstar sa Pegasus. Kamukha niya kung pababatain si Dawn Zulueta. Hindi ito virgin pero maybe less than five encounters lang siya with her bf. Nagkikita kami sa labas for almost two months but later di na rin ako nakipagkita.

Nabalitaan ko na nawala sa Pega dahil nabuntis ng Korean.

Noong bumalik sa Pega may dating nanliligaw na customer na pinakasalan siya.

This was known to her co models pati sa most staffs ng Pega.

Marahil better choice ang mga taga ktv rather than from spa or mp.

E sa ngayon mahirap pumili sa spa dahil medyo "bugbog" na karamihan aside from medyo may edad na at malalapad kaya wala ng "thrill". Halos ganoon na rin sa mp. 

[Krimpayero]

23 hours ago, markjoycehailey said:

You Sir, are obviously an MP/Spa/KTV owner's dream and their "workers" as well as every pimp's/handler's.  I suggest that you repost this in all the MP/Spa/KTV threads and surely everyone will be at your beck and call during every visit.  Everyone would be expecting sky-high tips , of course, but I'm sure you already know that, as what you call "samthing more" is applicable to the financial aspect of the "genuine friendships".  And not just with the ladies, but with your inaanaks and "kumpares" too as part of seeing and going past the flesh and in appreciation for their totality as real people which include appreciating their financial everyday needs as your "kumpares" most likely are not as generous and well off as you are.   

Congratulations to you if you are happy with this arrangement.   Congratulations to the ladies, your kumpares and inaanaks as well.  You are one in a billion, and I have called just one other GM that way.

By the way, can I refer one top therapist to you na BAON na BAON sa utang?  I am talking a few millions.  She really could use a GM like you.... and I mean USE.

Not really. I just dont generalize that all theras are sex objects who will do nothing else but take their clients money at every opportunity they get. Believe it or not, some of them can be real friends, girlfriends and even wives.

I am not a multimillionaire like some GMs here. I can finance my bisyo but I also have times that I am in difficult straits financially. Year 2017, my mother was confined in the hospital, she also passed away that same year. Baon dn ako sa utang mga panahon na un. I could not forget some of my thera friends pooling funds, passing the hat and helping me out. One of them even contributed 10K by herself. Amazing ryt? Despite being in the sex industry, d lng pala huthot sa client alam nilang gawin?

What makes the therapist na baon sa utang different from a friend or relative na nanghihiram sau? At the very least the thera can offer to pay in kind,  an option which a relativ or friend does not have.

Treat people right, whatever their background maybe, chances are, they will also treat you the same way.

[Julzz]

1 hour ago, Krimpayero said:

Not really. I just dont generalize that all theras are sex objects who will do nothing else but take their clients money at every opportunity they get. Believe it or not, some of them can be real friends, girlfriends and even wives.

I am not a multimillionaire like some GMs here. I can finance my bisyo but I also have times that I am in difficult straits financially. Year 2017, my mother was confined in the hospital, she also passed away that same year. Baon dn ako sa utang mga panahon na un. I could not forget some of my thera friends pooling funds, passing the hat and helping me out. One of them even contributed 10K by herself. Amazing ryt? Despite being in the sex industry, d lng pala huthot sa client alam nilang gawin?

What makes the therapist na baon sa utang different from a friend or relative na nanghihiram sau? At the very least the thera can offer to pay in kind,  an option which a relativ or friend does not have.

Treat people right, whatever their background maybe, chances are, they will also treat you the same way.

I would like to agree with this! Tao lang din sila at babae. Nagkataon lang na need nila ng money. Wala naman sigurong babaeng may gusto na pasukin ang field na to na walang bayad. Thrill seekers? Not sure. Give the respect that they deserve na lang siguro.   

[Krimpayero]

1 hour ago, Julzz said:

I would like to agree with this! Tao lang din sila at babae. Nagkataon lang na need nila ng money. Wala naman sigurong babaeng may gusto na pasukin ang field na to na walang bayad. Thrill seekers? Not sure. Give the respect that they deserve na T

The natural tendency of the thera is to get as much money as she can from the client. The natural tendency of the GM is to get as much mileage as he can for the least possible expense. Its a situation that both GM and thera are completely aware of and fully accept.

But...in some cases,  both get past these initial tendencies and develop real relationships (romantic or platonic).  

[LaFerrariTT02]

Professional relationship lang dapat. 

[markjoycehailey]

6 hours ago, Krimpayero said:

Not really. I just dont generalize that all theras are sex objects who will do nothing else but take their clients money at every opportunity they get. Believe it or not, some of them can be real friends, girlfriends and even wives.

I am not a multimillionaire like some GMs here. I can finance my bisyo but I also have times that I am in difficult straits financially. Year 2017, my mother was confined in the hospital, she also passed away that same year. Baon dn ako sa utang mga panahon na un. I could not forget some of my thera friends pooling funds, passing the hat and helping me out. One of them even contributed 10K by herself. Amazing ryt? Despite being in the sex industry, d lng pala huthot sa client alam nilang gawin?

What makes the therapist na baon sa utang different from a friend or relative na nanghihiram sau? At the very least the thera can offer to pay in kind,  an option which a relativ or friend does not have.

Treat people right, whatever their background maybe, chances are, they will also treat you the same way.

So, it has been 6 years, have you paid back what you owe your therapists?  Especially the one who gave 10K?  A real GM will repay with compounded interest pus more. NOT.... Let me correct myself.....

A REAL GM WILL NEVER EVER EVER BORROW MONEY FROM A THERAPIST!

Unless ikaw si MANGGAGANTSO DOCTOR (Alyas M.D.) namFussiang yon....

Krimpayerro pa naman ang handle mo.... KRIMPAY lang dapat den gudbay na tilnekstaymnalang.... But you have to pay big money....

Hindi para utangan mo the next visit dahil wala ka'ng pampaospital na nanay mo (The oldest excuse by the way ng lahat ng nangungutang na walang balak magbayad o talagang walang pambayad).

KRIMPAY lang again and again dapat kasi trabaho nila iyon.  Iyon lang ang alam nilang gawin.

You disagree because you still see the world through rose-colored glasses.   Baka naman ikaw si Mark na walang "K" BWAHAHAHA.....

Kapit

Rody

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May

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Ang

Yellowtae

[Midlurker2005]

Repost ko lang. Reminder. 
 

Yup. As far as my own personal experience (yes na fall ako one time. Ang tanga ko eh), walang therapist ang nagsasabi ng totooo. Kasama sa mojo nila yun gumawa ng kwento ng buhay nila o anuman ang gusto nila sa buhay na naka tuon kung paano ma enganyo ang guest. In fairness, meron din konting sincerity minsan kasi may emotional needs din sila. PERO alam nila na walang bukas ang mga relasyon nila kasi nga alam nila ang implikasyon ng trabaho nila. Kaya kukunin nila kung ano makukuha nila tapos move on. Hindi nila ibubulgar ang totoo nila istorya kasi mismo sila tinatago nila kung ano sila sa sarili nilang kamag-anak or malalapit na tao sa buhay. Kung may layer ang secrecy, ang estima ko ay 3 layers siya. In short, ang tanga tanga mo kung maniwala ka (pati na ako na napaniwala minsan). Ano mga bagay na nakatago?

1. NMILF. Walang aaminin masyado, lalot sa simula na  MILF sila. Kasi nga naman, baba yung customer na papatol. Usually may mga anak sila sa pagkadalaga. Minsan teenager pa lang. 
 

2. Nakatira. Pag nasa Makati ang spa, ang tirahan ay Rizal. Hindi totoo yun. Usually same city or the next city. Ayaw talaga nila lumayo kasi nga luge sa pamasahe. Kahit stay-in, they want to be near pa rin. Unless out from the province talaga. 
 

3. “Buti na lang nakakaintindi ka”. This is a hypocritical but deliberate comment from them. Tandaan mo, yung emotional investment ang target nila sayo dahil may pakinabang ka kahit nagbibigay ka lang ng 500 pesos na extra o ibinili mo siya ng cellphone o buong kabuhayan showcase. Ang masaya diyan para sa kanila, hindi lang ikaw nagbibigay marami yan. Tiba tiba sila kung ganun sila kagaling sa emotional investment. Alam nila yun. Alam na alam nila. 
 

4. “Wala akong asawa o hiwalay ako”. Eto isa sa mga pinakamalaking kasinungalingan. 99% meron silang asawa or partner, either married or live-in. Yung iba jowa na same sex. May alam ako jowa niya masahista naman ng mga bading. Remember may emotional needs din sila. Meron din silang need na steady. PERO hypergamist sila lahat. Gusto nilang may partner na mapera o mas mataas kesa sa sarili nilang asawa, live-in o jowa. At alam nila na that they can have the benefit of both worlds. Dahil nga sa nature ng trabaho nila, pwede silang short-term and temporary hypergamist without the consequences required of a permanent relationship. Tandaan mo, kung career oriented sila, hindi sila therapist. Sometime in their youth nabuntis sila, at gawa nun, malamang nag asawa rin sila. Or may ka-live in. 
 

5.  “Nagiipon lang ako”. 8 out 10. Hindi totoo. Dahil nga wala sila masyadong skills sa labas ng kanilang trabaho, babalik at babalik sila o kaya mag side job, or wala talagang balak umalis. Malaki nga naman kita. Kung maganda ka, kahit NTP, makakakuha ka ng at least 10k a day. Daig mo manager ng bangko. 
 

6. “Napamahal na ako sayo”. Wag kang tanga. See 1-5.  Nuff said. 

 

[markjoycehailey]

On 9/18/2014 at 9:01 PM, markjoycehailey said:

 

Naku maraming ma-iinlove lalo sa iyo dahil sa mga sinusulat mo dito . Liligawan na rin kita para pag naging tayo, LIBRE NA AKO.

 

On 9/18/2014 at 9:50 PM, markjoycehailey said:

Yon naman ang pakay ng mga "nanliligaw" ng therapist, lalo na yung mga nagpapaguwapo at nagpapasikat sa thread na ito at sa iba pang thread dito. NILINAW KO LANG.

 

Para on topic:

 

I Love you Hon.... Di ko na kailangan mag-tip HA....

Update:

I love you all my thera "friends".  Kapag naging tayo, di ko na kailangang mag-tip ha kasi BAON NA AKO SA UTANG.  And by the way, MAY SAKIT NGA PALA ANG NANAY KO.... PEKSMAN SWEAR TO ___ and HOPE TO DIE😇😇😇

kaya I NEED HELP!!!🤪🤪🤪

10K each 😁😁😁

[Harding]

16 hours ago, markjoycehailey said:

So, it has been 6 years, have you paid back what you owe your therapists?  Especially the one who gave 10K?  A real GM will repay with compounded interest pus more. NOT.... Let me correct myself.....

A REAL GM WILL NEVER EVER EVER BORROW MONEY FROM A THERAPIST!

Unless ikaw si MANGGAGANTSO DOCTOR (Alyas M.D.) namFussiang yon....

Krimpayerro pa naman ang handle mo.... KRIMPAY lang dapat den gudbay na tilnekstaymnalang.... But you have to pay big money....

Hindi para utangan mo the next visit dahil wala ka'ng pampaospital na nanay mo (The oldest excuse by the way ng lahat ng nangungutang na walang balak magbayad o talagang walang pambayad).

KRIMPAY lang again and again dapat kasi trabaho nila iyon.  Iyon lang ang alam nilang gawin.

You disagree because you still see the world through rose-colored glasses.   Baka naman ikaw si Mark na walang "K" BWAHAHAHA.....

Kapit

Rody

Inday

May

Propaganda

Ang

Yellowtae

biktima din ako ni MD haha. langyang yun. kaya pala ang bait sa akin haha

[Harding]

On 9/5/2023 at 11:33 PM, Prinsloo said:

bro mga Jowa ng thera nakikita ko wala namang bigtime. Pero pinipili nila yung mga walang potensyal maging parokyano ng flesh market. mg nakita ko na jowa ng thera: Service crew, Rapper, Gamer mga ganun. Not big time but not a potential customer to these kinds of establishments. lol

Meron akong kilala napaka gandang model at BF nya dizer lang sa SM. sabi ko bakit di mo gamitin ganda mo para kumuha ng BF na may pera or professional? sagot nya yun daw mahal nya. naisip ko masyadong mababaw utak nya.

[calvinjarix]

On 8/19/2023 at 10:03 AM, Pardskie23 said:

afaik, Miriam of Mira Comm/Mira Cubao

Nabutis pala cya,,, kaya cguro nalipat Mira Cubao. Iwas init.

[whispher]

What if may gusto sayo ang therapist.

 

[Rolf.go.06]

Dati sa mga naging regular thera ko may naging gf ren naman ako kaso ramdam mo ren na parang pigil sa feelings sila siguro mahirap ren maniwala sa GM ee. 
basta hirap explain 😁

 

[MARKROME]

Open letter from a real sex worker that we should all read, REAL EYE OPENER:

“The Good Clients” Purchasing Souls

This is for the sex-buyers. Yes, you who suffer from the “Good Client Syndrome” – you who think you are the good client and that only the others can be bad clients. You often purchase the “Girlfriend Experience” and some of you even call yourselves not a client, not a sex-buyer, but a “Sugar Daddy” or a “Sponsor”, as if your sugar-coating makes the act of buying sex any different.

You do not only feel entitled to purchase an access to the prostituted person’s body, it doesn’t do the trick for you anymore. You want to purchase an experience in which you can pretend that the prostituted person desires you. You are not satisfied with the fact that she “simply” offers her body for you to use sexually because she needs the money – you are demanding her to sell her soul too. You require her to use a lot of energy to convince you that she desires you, and this is extremely exhausting for us who don’t want to sell sex to anyone to begin with, but have no other options.

If she doesn’t appear to enjoy the transaction, you are unsatisfied. You must be aware that with her last ounce of energy, she is only acting for money, and your extreme demands suck the life out of her. You see, there is nothing real in offering the “Girlfriend Experience” to hundreds of men for money. There is nothing natural about pretending to be the eternally compliant “girlfriend” to each man who demands it, to different men each day, just for the sake of survival. She is a human being, and no amount of money will automatically make her desire you. Think of it, clients. How well would you do in a similar situation of ”survival sex” and pretense? Would it feel natural to you? Why do you think it’s any different to her?

Part of perceiving yourself as “the Good Client” is also the inability to accept it when a prostituted woman refuses to serve you anymore for any reason she may have. That’s when you get angry and say: “But I’m the good guy! She has no right to refuse me!” This is all too familiar to me and other prostituted women. How many messages from angry “Good Clients” did I get after I decided to stop servicing them (whenever I had the chance to do that – which was definitely not very often). The harassment after dumping a self-proclaimed “Good Client” can go on for months, or even for years sometimes.

You, the most demanding clients seem to believe that the clients who are fast (we say “easy”) and disconnected are the only bad and inhumane clients, and that you are the good ones because you pretend as if you aren’t buying sex, when you want to buy the whole package of pretended mutuality. Well, you couldn’t be more wrong. I have not heard any prostitute say that the more emotional labour and pretended intimacy a client demands on top of buying sex, the better. I have only heard the opposite. Yes, I talk to many other prostitutes. No, not on the disgusting public “escort review boards” where you clients brag about buying consent to sex (by the way, in my opinion real consent cannot be bought, so there’s absolutely nothing for you to brag about) and how you got away with cheating your wives again. In those forums some of the prostitutes clearly advertise. They pretend to enjoy your company, they pretend to tolerate your demands. They do it all for money.

But not behind your backs when they don’t need to lick your boots. Behind your backs we share a very different reality. We are tired of the emotional labour you put us through, not only the fact that you feel entitled to our bodies, but also that you feel entitled to our souls too. We talk about how much easier a client is when he is fast, less demanding. I’m saying ”we” because I’m talking about the majority of prostitutes I talk with, as well as my own experience in the sex trade.

You see, I have been in the sex trade since I was underage. For two decades. Not out of choice, but out of desperation. My mental health problems have been extremely complex, I have never had real stability or social support in my life, so this is the only way I know how to survive. And prostitution has made all my mental health problems a lot worse. I’m writing this because I’m at the point of no return, and I’m very tired of pretending. If I can leave anything behind, I will leave this truth behind.

I understand not everyone is the same, but in my experience this is what the majority of us think, and many of us share very similar difficult life experiences, the root causes to enter prostitution as well as similar views on how the sex trade has damaged our mental and physical health profoundly. That’s why I say “we” even if I leave out the minority of prostitutes who have no significant problems in life, are not in any way dependent on the clients’ money and therefore can possibly have an actual everyday choice.

To the clients who buy the pretence of the “Girlfriend Experience”, you take it to the extreme. We are tired, in pain, suffering from mental health issues, addictions, PTSD, our ongoing memories of childhood abuse, and you are adding to that with your extreme demands of prolonged sexual access and extended emotional labour. But we master dissociation and acting at the same time, as well as masking our mental health problems and addictions.

Until we can’t take it anymore. You call it “bad attitude” and “bad service”, while we call it being sick and tired of the sexual and emotional servitude to the endlessly demanding, entitled clients. With no way out. Yes, a lot of us are trapped in the sex trade for years, even for decades. I’m not expecting you to ever understand this feeling, sex-buyers. Walk a mile in our shoes! You couldn’t.

I have told some (not many – I try to keep my act together!) of my returning clients, particularly the clients who demand the “Girlfriend Experience” that I hate prostitution. Because I always found them the most exhausting and unfair of all clients. I have said things such as I’m trapped in prostitution, I hate this, and I have no sexual urges. I have completely lost my ability to pretend at times, and have expressed clearly to some of my regular clients how much I hate prostitution, and how I’m slowly dying in the sex trade.

Guess how many of my clients really cared enough to stop purchasing my body for sex, or my soul for pretense, after I had expressed my hatred towards prostitution? Not many. A few maybe. I would estimate, that after expressing my disgust towards selling my body and especially selling the unnatural “girlfriend” illusion, about 80% of my clients (“The Good Clients” specifically!) still continued to buy me for the sex acts and pretended intimacy – a lot of them even believing that they are the exception, that they are the good catch unlike all the other clients. Because a lot of you sex-buyers tend to suffer from “The Good Client Syndrome” – you see nothing wrong with you doing it, only the others can do wrong.

I didn’t expect you to care about my feelings, nor did I expect such entitled men to believe that you are not any better than the other clients. You believed you were helping me by being the self-proclaimed “Good Client”, so I wouldn’t have to take any “bad clients”. You were never helping me by buying an access to my body and demanding more and more. If you wanted to help me, you would not have demanded an access to my body and my soul. If you really cared about the people trapped in the sex trade, you wouldn’t buy their bodies for sex nor their souls for stroking your fragile male egos. You would either not touch us at all, or you would actually help without demanding anything. So stop pretending you are the good clients who are there to help, when you’re not.

I’m writing this because I’m extremely tired of all the lies in the sex industry, and all the pretense. I’m extremely exhausted and angry, and I want the clients to wake up and pay attention to their own deviant practices that destroy lives. I do understand a lot of you sex-buyers are sick. The sex trade is full of sick people on both ends, we just suffer from different mental health problems and different addictions – and they do not go well together. They destroy us all.

To all the sex-buyers around the world: She could be me. Yes, I could be her. The writer of this article could be your favourite escort! The one who really seems to “enjoy her job”! And you would never guess, unless I have already told you all of this, or even some of it. To most of you I haven’t told anything about my reality. You know that not everything is how it appears to be on the surface. Many of you live in the world of lies and deception as well, so you should know this. You cheat on and lie to your trusting wives, over and over again. And you lie to yourselves as well.

Stop cheating yourselves. Stop ruining what you have. Some of us would gladly have what you have. Some of us have lost our families, our children, our ability to feel love, because of the sex trade. I have never been a jealous, envious person, but the abuse in the sex trade has finally made me bitter and I’ve started to envy everyone who hasn’t lost their family, their children, their loved ones, and their bodily autonomy, their basic human rights. The right to say no to sex in any circumstances. It should be a basic human right.

Clients, you may believe you only purchase sex from willing women who have all the choices in the world, but the reality is different. None of you can have a clear conscience.

If you want to know if the “Girlfriend Experience” you purchased was real or not, try and ask the prostituted woman to hook up with you completely free of charge in her spare time. If she’s genuinely eager to do that, then it was probably real. But it’s more likely that she will blacklist you and tell the other prostitutes you are a time-waster.

Sex-buyers, it’s bad enough for you to feel entitled to buy our bodies to fulfil all your sexual fantasies, but it’s even worse for you to demand that we’d enjoy these unwanted and therefore degrading and unnatural sex acts. Of course when I say all this, you want to silence me and tell me my opinions don’t matter. I’m always told by clients that “things aren’t that simple” because “men need” to use a woman’s body for sex (apparently no matter who she is and whether she is willing or not). We always have to pretend to agree with your lifestyle, because we are not supposed to have our own opinions or feelings unless they happen to be approved by you, and we are not supposed to have our own moral codes because we only exist to serve hundreds of men sexually. We are not supposed to have any other life than the compliant servitude to clients. We are not supposed to be human beings. Can’t you see that, clients? If we stand up against you in any way to defend ourselves, you easily become aggressive, either physically, verbally or emotionally. That is just the truth behind unwanted existence in prostitution, driven by a multitude of problems in our pasts.

I feel at the end of my road, and this is why I’m writing these articles. This is just raw honesty, and it all comes from my own personal experience being trapped in the sex trade for survival, for a long period of time with no way out. Silenced by the liberal elite prostitutes, the sex industry lobby, and the sex addict clients. This is the real “Girlfriend Experience” for so many of us who actually have to play the unnatural role of the sex-crazed, never-complaining, eternally-pleasing “girlfriend”, the one that doesn’t exist in real life. It’s a lot to ask from us, to make us feel like we are not even human beings.

Why to offer the “Girlfriend Experience” then? Because the sex industry has changed in two decades, at where I live. More clients these days seem to demand this form of compliance, more pretended intimacy, more unnatural “connection” with a stranger. Otherwise they will be unsatisfied. It’s not a free choice for us. The one who has the money has the power to choose. The truth is that prostitution, as well as porn, is the very opposite of intimacy to us who work in this industry. Real intimacy can’t be bought.

I want to leave behind the legacy of truth. And this is the ugly truth about prostitution, without the usual mediasexy sugar-coating that you will always hear from the prostituted persons who are selling you lies to survive, and from the whole unethical ”pro-sex industry” lobby that makes a huge profit out of men’s ignorance.

Was I being rude? Sorry about that, but it felt good. The truth feels good. You should try it, dear sex-buyers, the truth is more powerful than a million lies. I do understand that you are sick, and I can sympathize with you for it to some extend, but I would prefer not to participate in it directly by selling my body and my soul for you to use. It really dehumanizes us both.

[Covidfree]

On 9/5/2023 at 10:32 PM, kikomatsingmatos said:

yung mahuhulog si thera sa gm ba par? di ko lalahatin pero sigurado akong marami ang hindi papatol sa hindi mapera. dun sila sa handa na magmamahal sa kanila na may kakayahang maglalabas sa kanila sa mundong ito.

True madami na akong Kilala na thera na nagpasakal sa matandang GM na mayaman at loyal sila dto dahil sa laki ng binibigay compare sa kikitain nila.

[darwin2k4]

48 minutes ago, MARKROME said:

Open letter from a real sex worker that we should all read, REAL EYE OPENER:

“The Good Clients” Purchasing Souls

This is for the sex-buyers. Yes, you who suffer from the “Good Client Syndrome” – you who think you are the good client and that only the others can be bad clients. You often purchase the “Girlfriend Experience” and some of you even call yourselves not a client, not a sex-buyer, but a “Sugar Daddy” or a “Sponsor”, as if your sugar-coating makes the act of buying sex any different.

You do not only feel entitled to purchase an access to the prostituted person’s body, it doesn’t do the trick for you anymore. You want to purchase an experience in which you can pretend that the prostituted person desires you. You are not satisfied with the fact that she “simply” offers her body for you to use sexually because she needs the money – you are demanding her to sell her soul too. You require her to use a lot of energy to convince you that she desires you, and this is extremely exhausting for us who don’t want to sell sex to anyone to begin with, but have no other options.

If she doesn’t appear to enjoy the transaction, you are unsatisfied. You must be aware that with her last ounce of energy, she is only acting for money, and your extreme demands suck the life out of her. You see, there is nothing real in offering the “Girlfriend Experience” to hundreds of men for money. There is nothing natural about pretending to be the eternally compliant “girlfriend” to each man who demands it, to different men each day, just for the sake of survival. She is a human being, and no amount of money will automatically make her desire you. Think of it, clients. How well would you do in a similar situation of ”survival sex” and pretense? Would it feel natural to you? Why do you think it’s any different to her?

Part of perceiving yourself as “the Good Client” is also the inability to accept it when a prostituted woman refuses to serve you anymore for any reason she may have. That’s when you get angry and say: “But I’m the good guy! She has no right to refuse me!” This is all too familiar to me and other prostituted women. How many messages from angry “Good Clients” did I get after I decided to stop servicing them (whenever I had the chance to do that – which was definitely not very often). The harassment after dumping a self-proclaimed “Good Client” can go on for months, or even for years sometimes.

You, the most demanding clients seem to believe that the clients who are fast (we say “easy”) and disconnected are the only bad and inhumane clients, and that you are the good ones because you pretend as if you aren’t buying sex, when you want to buy the whole package of pretended mutuality. Well, you couldn’t be more wrong. I have not heard any prostitute say that the more emotional labour and pretended intimacy a client demands on top of buying sex, the better. I have only heard the opposite. Yes, I talk to many other prostitutes. No, not on the disgusting public “escort review boards” where you clients brag about buying consent to sex (by the way, in my opinion real consent cannot be bought, so there’s absolutely nothing for you to brag about) and how you got away with cheating your wives again. In those forums some of the prostitutes clearly advertise. They pretend to enjoy your company, they pretend to tolerate your demands. They do it all for money.

But not behind your backs when they don’t need to lick your boots. Behind your backs we share a very different reality. We are tired of the emotional labour you put us through, not only the fact that you feel entitled to our bodies, but also that you feel entitled to our souls too. We talk about how much easier a client is when he is fast, less demanding. I’m saying ”we” because I’m talking about the majority of prostitutes I talk with, as well as my own experience in the sex trade.

You see, I have been in the sex trade since I was underage. For two decades. Not out of choice, but out of desperation. My mental health problems have been extremely complex, I have never had real stability or social support in my life, so this is the only way I know how to survive. And prostitution has made all my mental health problems a lot worse. I’m writing this because I’m at the point of no return, and I’m very tired of pretending. If I can leave anything behind, I will leave this truth behind.

I understand not everyone is the same, but in my experience this is what the majority of us think, and many of us share very similar difficult life experiences, the root causes to enter prostitution as well as similar views on how the sex trade has damaged our mental and physical health profoundly. That’s why I say “we” even if I leave out the minority of prostitutes who have no significant problems in life, are not in any way dependent on the clients’ money and therefore can possibly have an actual everyday choice.

To the clients who buy the pretence of the “Girlfriend Experience”, you take it to the extreme. We are tired, in pain, suffering from mental health issues, addictions, PTSD, our ongoing memories of childhood abuse, and you are adding to that with your extreme demands of prolonged sexual access and extended emotional labour. But we master dissociation and acting at the same time, as well as masking our mental health problems and addictions.

Until we can’t take it anymore. You call it “bad attitude” and “bad service”, while we call it being sick and tired of the sexual and emotional servitude to the endlessly demanding, entitled clients. With no way out. Yes, a lot of us are trapped in the sex trade for years, even for decades. I’m not expecting you to ever understand this feeling, sex-buyers. Walk a mile in our shoes! You couldn’t.

I have told some (not many – I try to keep my act together!) of my returning clients, particularly the clients who demand the “Girlfriend Experience” that I hate prostitution. Because I always found them the most exhausting and unfair of all clients. I have said things such as I’m trapped in prostitution, I hate this, and I have no sexual urges. I have completely lost my ability to pretend at times, and have expressed clearly to some of my regular clients how much I hate prostitution, and how I’m slowly dying in the sex trade.

Guess how many of my clients really cared enough to stop purchasing my body for sex, or my soul for pretense, after I had expressed my hatred towards prostitution? Not many. A few maybe. I would estimate, that after expressing my disgust towards selling my body and especially selling the unnatural “girlfriend” illusion, about 80% of my clients (“The Good Clients” specifically!) still continued to buy me for the sex acts and pretended intimacy – a lot of them even believing that they are the exception, that they are the good catch unlike all the other clients. Because a lot of you sex-buyers tend to suffer from “The Good Client Syndrome” – you see nothing wrong with you doing it, only the others can do wrong.

I didn’t expect you to care about my feelings, nor did I expect such entitled men to believe that you are not any better than the other clients. You believed you were helping me by being the self-proclaimed “Good Client”, so I wouldn’t have to take any “bad clients”. You were never helping me by buying an access to my body and demanding more and more. If you wanted to help me, you would not have demanded an access to my body and my soul. If you really cared about the people trapped in the sex trade, you wouldn’t buy their bodies for sex nor their souls for stroking your fragile male egos. You would either not touch us at all, or you would actually help without demanding anything. So stop pretending you are the good clients who are there to help, when you’re not.

I’m writing this because I’m extremely tired of all the lies in the sex industry, and all the pretense. I’m extremely exhausted and angry, and I want the clients to wake up and pay attention to their own deviant practices that destroy lives. I do understand a lot of you sex-buyers are sick. The sex trade is full of sick people on both ends, we just suffer from different mental health problems and different addictions – and they do not go well together. They destroy us all.

To all the sex-buyers around the world: She could be me. Yes, I could be her. The writer of this article could be your favourite escort! The one who really seems to “enjoy her job”! And you would never guess, unless I have already told you all of this, or even some of it. To most of you I haven’t told anything about my reality. You know that not everything is how it appears to be on the surface. Many of you live in the world of lies and deception as well, so you should know this. You cheat on and lie to your trusting wives, over and over again. And you lie to yourselves as well.

Stop cheating yourselves. Stop ruining what you have. Some of us would gladly have what you have. Some of us have lost our families, our children, our ability to feel love, because of the sex trade. I have never been a jealous, envious person, but the abuse in the sex trade has finally made me bitter and I’ve started to envy everyone who hasn’t lost their family, their children, their loved ones, and their bodily autonomy, their basic human rights. The right to say no to sex in any circumstances. It should be a basic human right.

Clients, you may believe you only purchase sex from willing women who have all the choices in the world, but the reality is different. None of you can have a clear conscience.

If you want to know if the “Girlfriend Experience” you purchased was real or not, try and ask the prostituted woman to hook up with you completely free of charge in her spare time. If she’s genuinely eager to do that, then it was probably real. But it’s more likely that she will blacklist you and tell the other prostitutes you are a time-waster.

Sex-buyers, it’s bad enough for you to feel entitled to buy our bodies to fulfil all your sexual fantasies, but it’s even worse for you to demand that we’d enjoy these unwanted and therefore degrading and unnatural sex acts. Of course when I say all this, you want to silence me and tell me my opinions don’t matter. I’m always told by clients that “things aren’t that simple” because “men need” to use a woman’s body for sex (apparently no matter who she is and whether she is willing or not). We always have to pretend to agree with your lifestyle, because we are not supposed to have our own opinions or feelings unless they happen to be approved by you, and we are not supposed to have our own moral codes because we only exist to serve hundreds of men sexually. We are not supposed to have any other life than the compliant servitude to clients. We are not supposed to be human beings. Can’t you see that, clients? If we stand up against you in any way to defend ourselves, you easily become aggressive, either physically, verbally or emotionally. That is just the truth behind unwanted existence in prostitution, driven by a multitude of problems in our pasts.

I feel at the end of my road, and this is why I’m writing these articles. This is just raw honesty, and it all comes from my own personal experience being trapped in the sex trade for survival, for a long period of time with no way out. Silenced by the liberal elite prostitutes, the sex industry lobby, and the sex addict clients. This is the real “Girlfriend Experience” for so many of us who actually have to play the unnatural role of the sex-crazed, never-complaining, eternally-pleasing “girlfriend”, the one that doesn’t exist in real life. It’s a lot to ask from us, to make us feel like we are not even human beings.

Why to offer the “Girlfriend Experience” then? Because the sex industry has changed in two decades, at where I live. More clients these days seem to demand this form of compliance, more pretended intimacy, more unnatural “connection” with a stranger. Otherwise they will be unsatisfied. It’s not a free choice for us. The one who has the money has the power to choose. The truth is that prostitution, as well as porn, is the very opposite of intimacy to us who work in this industry. Real intimacy can’t be bought.

I want to leave behind the legacy of truth. And this is the ugly truth about prostitution, without the usual mediasexy sugar-coating that you will always hear from the prostituted persons who are selling you lies to survive, and from the whole unethical ”pro-sex industry” lobby that makes a huge profit out of men’s ignorance.

Was I being rude? Sorry about that, but it felt good. The truth feels good. You should try it, dear sex-buyers, the truth is more powerful than a million lies. I do understand that you are sick, and I can sympathize with you for it to some extend, but I would prefer not to participate in it directly by selling my body and my soul for you to use. It really dehumanizes us both.

this is from the Nordic Model site right? unfortunately, in this 3rd world country of ours, its a much more complex coz poverty and lack of education, and this industry is a viable source of income for them, as for clients/GM, of course, men will avail such "product"...

https://nordicmodelnow.org/2019/11/22/open-letter-to-all-the-sex-buyers-everywhere/

[kikomatsingmatos]

47 minutes ago, Covidfree said:

True madami na akong Kilala na thera na nagpasakal sa matandang GM na mayaman at loyal sila dto dahil sa laki ng binibigay compare sa kikitain nila.

oo par. kaya nga siguro karamihan pumasok sa industriyang ito ay dahil malaki ang kitaan kumpara sa ibang trabaho. tapos sa tingin nyo ba papatol sila sa taong hindi sila kayang palabasin sa industriya? parang malabo diba par.

muli, di ko nilalahat.

[markjoycehailey]

2 hours ago, darwin2k4 said:

this is from the Nordic Model site right? unfortunately, in this 3rd world country of ours, its a much more complex coz poverty and lack of education, and this industry is a viable source of income for them, as for clients/GM, of course, men will avail such "product"...

https://nordicmodelnow.org/2019/11/22/open-letter-to-all-the-sex-buyers-everywhere/

Kaya kapag tumanggap ng "tulong" kuno ang GM sa mga therapist to the tune of 10k eh sobrang kakapalan ng mukha iyon.  

Kung walang pampa-ospital sa maysakit na nanay eh you have no business going to spas/MPs/KTVs   Unless ikaw ang nagbebenta ng kaluluwa mo.

[cutiechavez]

6 hours ago, Covidfree said:

True madami na akong Kilala na thera na nagpasakal sa matandang GM na mayaman at loyal sila dto dahil sa laki ng binibigay compare sa kikitain nila.

ok ito, ang pangit lang sa ibang thera or gro, may nagsusutento na, d pa magpaka loyal, papa kangkang pa sa iba, or lolokohin pa yung tumutulong sa kanila

[Krimpayero]

On 9/9/2023 at 11:13 AM, markjoycehailey said:

 

Update:

I love you all my thera "friends".  Kapag naging tayo, di ko na kailangang mag-tip ha kasi BAON NA AKO SA UTANG.  And by the way, MAY SAKIT NGA PALA ANG NANAY KO.... PEKSMAN SWEAR TO ___ and HOPE TO DIE😇😇😇

kaya I NEED HELP!!!🤪🤪🤪

10K each 😁😁😁

If you do not have any redeeming quality for a thera or for anyone for that matter, you're not filthy rich, you're not good looking, you have bad attitude (which you seem to have), then the most likely scenario is they will only get what they can from you to maximize their benefit.

And yes, whatever help my thera "friends" helped me with has been repaid. That thera i was referring to has been out of the industry for years and now owns a small resto. She has been with her former GM BF for awhile now and both are happy.

You know why they worked out so far? Because both of them looked past the thera-gm labels. They started there but both decided to leave the flesh trade to have a real relationship.

If you have scars from a thera relationship which turned sour (which you seem to have), then thats on you. It doesnt have to be the same for everyone else.

 

Edited September 11, 2023 by Krimpayero