Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Mistress Mia]

Just want to open another discussion related to this thread. Mia recently posted and has posted in the past her preference for clients who stick to one thera. Is this a smart thing to do? Sticking to one thera? Mia finds it repulsive when a gm treats the spakol/mp scene as a buffet platter kung saan lahat gustong tikman. Kayo anong say niyo dito? Is sticking to one thera a smart thing to do or better to change every now and then? What are the cons and pros?

By sticking to one thera, you form a bond with her and become more at ease. And if that thera knows what gets you going, her service is better. Sure ka din sa bayad mo na sulit. But this is a cause for you to fall in love with the thera or vice versa. Kung madalas mo na siyang nakakasama sa ganun ka intimate na setting, you may eventually fall for her. NOW, don't judge me. OK lang ma-inlove sa ganyan. Basta't ba'y single kayo parehas at kakayanin niyo ang pagsubok etc etc. But most thera here in MTC claim that most of their clients are married. Kaya nga ninja moves eh. So, wouldn't it be better na paiba iba ka to not develop intimacy?

 

I just want to make it clear ano? These are the things that I want to highlight.

 

1. Looking at the business perspective, why would you like your customer to go over and get someone else if he can get you?

 

2. It's just my preference and I believe many of you wouldn't understand. YMMV belongs to someone who has a connection with you. Now, if you prefer a hopper and cut off the ties, so be it. Its just that, i'd rather have a regular than someone who would just dip me to try my service and poof. Gone.

 

3. Not all men are like you. Some men, even with all the intimacy and s@%t, kahit nga sex my dear, they still won't care a s@%t about you. Otherwise, I wouldn't be a single mom. Right? Not all people who do intimate thingy fall inlove and get affected by it.

 

As I have mentioned, kung clients may karapatan mamili ng therapist. Since hindi naman ako therapist and I just rendered my service for a different kind of marketing scheme, I do have my rights to choose my client especially what I want to do with them.

 

Pero sabi ko nga.... Magkakaiba tayo lahat ng preference and regulars would always be my first priority. Hihihihi

Edited November 10, 2015 by Mistress Mia

[little_boy]

I just want to make it clear ano? These are the things that I want to highlight.

 

1. Looking at the business perspective, why would you like your customer to go over and get someone else if he can get you?

 

2. It's just my preference and I believe many of you wouldn't understand. YMMV belongs to someone who has a connection with you. Now, if you prefer a hopper and cut off the ties, so be it. Its just that, i'd rather have a regular than someone who would just dip me to try my service and poof. Gone.

 

3. Not all men are like you. Some men, even with all the intimacy and s@%t, kahit nga sex my dear, they still won't care a s@%t about you. Otherwise, I wouldn't be a single mom. Right? Not all people who do intimate thingy fall inlove and get affected by it.

 

As I have mentioned, kung clients may karapatan mamili ng therapist. Since hindi naman ako therapist and I just rendered my service for a different kind of marketing scheme, I do have my rights to choose my client especially what I want to do with them.

 

Pero sabi ko nga.... Magkakaiba tayo lahat ng preference and regulars would always be my first priority. Hihihihi

1) Tama from a business perspective of a thera, why would you want to share a client kung pwede mong solohin? Kung ang waiters nga nagaagawan ng table especially if the customer is known as a big tipper. Same rule would apply for theras. Good point.

 

2) YMMV. Ngayon kasi vague na yan. But based on testimonies I read here from older gms, iba ang spakol dati. And YMMV really does exist. And to get that you'd have to invest with one thera. Which is really nice and cool in my opinion. So, pro yan for getting only one thera. Parang ngayon ang YMMV depends on how much you're willing to pay.

 

3) True that not all men easily fall. Pero it's all also true that there are men who may fall. Sa mga nabasa kong stories dito, yun ang ngyari. Nahuhulog sa kinukuhang thera na regular. So, let's say as long as both parties know that this is a business relationship where money is rendered for services, getting one thera will be better in building a proper relationship and YMMV.

 

 

[Trey150]

Very interesting topic… here are my thoughts on this. First, we all know the reason why we are here so I wouldn’t focus on that. Second, it is important to note that men have different reasons on why they go to “Spakols” Perhaps there are relationship issues or a lack of sex in the marriage. There is also the novelty factor or the thrill of doing something illicit. The excitement and anticipation you feel when you go for the hunt. Getting their rocks off, and some might be even looking for a relationship while others go there to release their tension and anxiety etc etc. Now, “is this a smart thing to do…. Sticking to 1 thera”. Its depends on your intentions and needs.. for the guy who’s looking for the novelty factor or the thrill of the hunt to add to his selection of trophies this might not be acceptable sooner or later the thrill factor will be gone and off he goes to the next conquest. For the guy, who’s looking for an afternoon escape from the daily grind he might have different intentions too and might want to try everyone in the line up (ninja mode) … for the average guy looking to snag a Super Hot thera it might be a smart idea to concentrate on one.. AS for me , my Mantra is “ Only be loyal to a therapist you like” I have experienced having a therapist that I would visit regularly. She was my main thera and all this time I never gotten anyone else from the time I became her regular client. I liked her service I liked how she treated me with TLC I loved our conversations, not mention the X factor she exudes and the connection we had. To say the least the ES part wasn’t even on the top of the reasons why I became her regular.. it was a bonus for me. Unfortunately it just lasted for about 6 mos. Because she left the business and continued with her private life. So right now I have a different intention I am again in the process of searching for my “Main thera” one I could be comfortable with and have the qualities I am looking for. Feel free to try out multiple therapists if you need to in order to find the person you work best with. Once you find that therapist, stick with them. You should only go back to someplace if you have a good experience. I think it is important to point out that this applies to all fields. If you don't like your dentist, or barber/hair stylist, or doctor, find someone else who is a better fit. As for developing intimacy, this will be a risk that you have to decide on eventually, it will only happen if you allow it to happen. Golden Rule for myself , take FR’s with a grain of salt. Many of them are not representative of the businesses. Once You find a therapist you like, stick with them. If you don't like someone, move on without being mean and spirited. Everyone has a different style. Just because one therapist doesn't work well for you, doesn't mean they are bad at what they do.

[renskahils]

more testimonies please!! This is a very good thread seriously speaking! Learning from the experienced experiences.

[sabs2000]

This is a tough call, reading the subject on high level, my initial response would be, yeah, ok lng yan, basta tanggap mo ung tao and what matters most is nagmamahalan at hindi mawawala un RESPETO nyo sa isa't isa.

At the moment, while blinded and dazzled in trance of being IN LOVE and LOVED in RETURN, majority won't consider the cruelty and tipping point when the moment of realization comes.

GM's who fell in love - have you ever asked yourself, where is this love coming from? Is this found deep in my balls or in my heart?

Many GM's who loved and eventually wasn't loved back would say direct harsh negative words against thera's they fell in love with but failed to feel the love in return. However, what they forget to consider is, thera's have the norm to provide tender loving care to their guests, hello GFE!!! So whose to blame now? Unconditional love is relative to acceptance and willingness to tolerate a difficult situation or unpleasant position. Please don't say your in love when you're very much infatuated and your emotion is filled with lust that you conceal as love. Those who rant are comparable to a tantruming and whining kid. Not a good sight at all.

Perhaps there are a few GMs who may indeed provide genuine love and if not loved back, these GM's wouldn't say a word and keep mum about it as they say, if you truly love someone you should be capable to understand that what you feel wont always be reciprocated and be sympathetically aware of other's feelings.

At the end it is how you accept the circumstance and if it doesn't work out, STFU! If it blooms into a wonderful relationship, I wish these couples hold each other as tight as they can as they would be take a very very tough road ahead.

[ricardo23]

there can be no true love between client and thera

[Jack_Raiden]

since my last visit to a spa i seem to want to know more about the therapist that i was with. danger signs na ba ito?

 

hindi pa naman pero ingat lang din.

[pedroz]

kung saan ka masaya go.. Life too short my friends...

[amazingview]

kung saan ka masaya go.. Life too short my friends...

 

 

I agree with "Pedroz" but someone must be so sure that the feeling is really a true love and not just love for the flesh.......

 

It is hard to distinguish love from infatuation or lust.....

[Star Angel Vanessa]

pwde naman main love ang client sa thera" ung thera din pwde mainlove sa client" basta love nyo ang isat isa why not?basta nagkakaintindihan kayo sa isat isa! pack na pack champion!!!!!!

[Cool Fool]

"With men choosing to wife up whores, sluts and porn stars, the end of men, a fairy tale prophesied by feminists seems even truer. Men are contributing to their own end and destruction of their self respect in the eyes of women by making faulty choices when choosing mates. The levels of sexual thirst among modern men propelled by permissiveness in modern societies, blinds men on how to distinguish between a good woman and a slut. Unless men develop more taste and standards when it comes to choosing the women they want to mate with, the self degradation by women through slutty personal behavior will continue even more, who’d still know there’d be someone to wife them up." -ROK

Edited November 23, 2015 by Cool Fool

[EL_PY]

I see no problem if a GM-Thera love story happens.

Kung mahal nila ang isa't isa at tanggap nila kung ano background, eh Why not?

 

The issue that will arise pag kayo na is kahit hindi aminin ng iba is related pa rin sa background nila like jealousy factors kay thera dahil sa customers or si GM is napaghihinalaan na maraming thera na pinupuntahan

 

Isa ring factor dyan yung mga STD problems dahil sa background nila

Edited November 23, 2015 by Virtual_LordPaladin

[pedroz]

kung magmamahal ka eh bakit tingi tingi pa.. Love must be enjoy .. give it all .. kung di man kayo magkatuluyan atleast you can say you give it all you got.. and no regrets..

 

kung isip ka naman ng isip ng kung ano-ano.. then look somewhere else.. less headache and heartache...

[ragnar]

bsta tandaan lng lgi na be honest

[MidKnight Train]

I don't wanna mention any name of a gm or thera but if you could ready vanus thread from a thera, she told her side of the story and all she has to say were the awful ending of their affair. That's why I always tell my friends who has this thing about their theras to think about it twice before falling for them and not to fall apart in the end. I've had my share of such experience and before things could've gotten deeper, I spoke to her and told her that it's not that I want a great sex experience but I want someone to share my time with every weekend, being by myself and a soltero is also a lonely life. We did have that kind of set up until she had a sponsor who took her in and bought her a nice condo with a nice ride. Now, they're separated as well but she has quite a number of properties and two nice rides. We met once at Robinson's Magnolia and she was with some old thera friends. We had a moment to talk things over and we exchanged numbers, we still go out from time to time but not like before when she spends a weekend with me.

[BRAIN FOR HIRE]

I don't wanna mention any name of a gm or thera but if you could ready vanus thread from a thera, she told her side of the story and all she has to say were the awful ending of their affair. That's why I always tell my friends who has this thing about their theras to think about it twice before falling for them and not to fall apart in the end. I've had my share of such experience and before things could've gotten deeper, I spoke to her and told her that it's not that I want a great sex experience but I want someone to share my time with every weekend, being by myself and a soltero is also a lonely life. We did have that kind of set up until she had a sponsor who took her in and bought her a nice condo with a nice ride. Now, they're separated as well but she has quite a number of properties and two nice rides. We met once at Robinson's Magnolia and she was with some old thera friends. We had a moment to talk things over and we exchanged numbers, we still go out from time to time but not like before when she spends a weekend with me.

 

This sums up what is probably going to happen when you don't have enough money to buy her outright. And do you really want to be with someone who is just with you for the money? I don't think you can really get that deeper sense of connection when the other has an ulterior motive which is probably 99% of the time (sige na I'll give you that 1% that can't be killed by safeguard)

[edma]

what to do if parang na fall na ata ako sa isang thera? di ko alam gagawin ko....

[Cap™]

what to do if parang na fall na ata ako sa isang thera? di ko alam gagawin ko....

 

well, ang tanong, gaano ka kaseryoso. Never think about falling for a therapist being a bad thing. I mean, if you really like the person, just go for it And sana ganun din ang nararamdaman niya for you

[rikimaru17]

well, ang tanong, gaano ka kaseryoso. Never think about falling for a therapist being a bad thing. I mean, if you really like the person, just go for it And sana ganun din ang nararamdaman niya for you

U think bro magiging two way yung love? Ayoko rin maapektuhan work niya.... Or paranoid lang ako. At isa pa balit ako nagseselos

[temurlenk]

what to do if parang na fall na ata ako sa isang thera? di ko alam gagawin ko....

I don't know bro, pero parang nalihis ka yata sa description ng babaeng hinahanap mo- "Interests:i like women with fine taste and sophisticated. Who i can learn more about the feminine side. Hope to talk to them soon"

 

Pag isipan mo mabuti yan. Backread ka nalang sa thread na to.

[Cap™]

U think bro magiging two way yung love? Ayoko rin maapektuhan work niya.... Or paranoid lang ako. At isa pa balit ako nagseselos

 

well, kung ako lang, you need to know if she's really playing you or kung ano man. Minsan sweet ang thera kasi may gusto sila makuha sayo: maximum mileage. So yeah, alamin mo lang din. Wag pabugso-bugso

[rikimaru17]

I don't know bro, pero parang nalihis ka yata sa description ng babaeng hinahanap mo- "Interests:i like women with fine taste and sophisticated. Who i can learn more about the feminine side. Hope to talk to them soon"

 

Pag isipan mo mabuti yan. Backread ka nalang sa thread na to.

You're right, need to re think everything that happened this past few weeks. To be honest walang uhum (if u know what i mean) and all talk, mga past and future plans. Or trapped lang ako. I really want to know

[Cap™]

You're right, need to re think everything that happened this past few weeks. To be honest walang uhum (if u know what i mean) and all talk, mga past and future plans. Or trapped lang ako. I really want to know

 

ako ang technique jan, ilabas mo sa mundo niya. Go out on a date and dun kayo mag-usap

[edma]

 

well, kung ako lang, you need to know if she's really playing you or kung ano man. Minsan sweet ang thera kasi may gusto sila makuha sayo: maximum mileage. So yeah, alamin mo lang din. Wag pabugso-bugso

 

 

 

ako ang technique jan, ilabas mo sa mundo niya. Go out on a date and dun kayo mag-usap

 

Thanks bro, these really helped me. i'm really confused... maybe tama ka.. gulong gulo lang ako... to add, im working abroad... OFW, so very little chance to go out with her. Love, lust or money...

[temurlenk]

 

 

 

Thanks bro, these really helped me. i'm really confused... maybe tama ka.. gulong gulo lang ako... to add, im working abroad... OFW, so very little chance to go out with her. Love, lust or money...

Naku, been there, done that bro... ingatan mo ung pinaghihirapan mo na sweldo jan, bka kung san lang mapunta, hehe. Just sayin'.