Falling For A Therapist - Merged Thread

[Edmund Dantes]

Eto na, mukhang nagkakainitan nanaman dito

Edited February 20, 2015 by Edmund Dantes

[jonlennon]

yup i too almost fell... three times

[king360]

So true. happwnd to a friend of mine once

[temurlenk]

Ok, so for those guys who are really into having relationships with MPAs/PSPs/GROs etc, after carefully thinking about it and deciding for youselves na gusto mo talaga sya pakasalan in the near future or gawing partner sya sa buhay regardless kung palakad lakad ka sa kalye na may ipot ka sa ulo, remember, LOVE is never enough. Love and attraction may be a motivating factor but MONEY is the key ingredient to give it a push. Kung wala kang trabaho or business na malakilaki ang kita, don't bother... walk away! PILITIN mo mag move on dahil walang mangyayare sa inyo na maganda. Mauubos lang ung kapirasong sweldo mo dahil pati pamilya nya kelangan mo tulungan (unless magtago kayo at pabayaan nya sila) and in the end you will be an emotional wreck. It's not a fairytale love affair where you come in the club on your white horse and you carry the girl of your dreams and ride into the sunset, BUT having said that guys, even if you have the financial ability to make her stop working it's not that simple. Her past will always haunt you for as long as you both live and this you need to accept unconditionally. This scenario can be so complicated I wouldn't recommend it.

[TruRevue]

Find a therapist who's innately honest and you can begin from there. She'll have no qualms about telling you the services she's offered her guests. It's somehow a sign that you can depend on her truthfulness.

[Edmund Dantes]

Ok, so for those guys who are really into having relationships with MPAs/PSPs/GROs etc, after carefully thinking about it and deciding for youselves na gusto mo talaga sya pakasalan in the near future or gawing partner sya sa buhay regardless kung palakad lakad ka sa kalye na may ipot ka sa ulo, remember, LOVE is never enough. Love and attraction may be a motivating factor but MONEY is the key ingredient to give it a push. Kung wala kang trabaho or business na malakilaki ang kita, don't bother... walk away! PILITIN mo mag move on dahil walang mangyayare sa inyo na maganda. Mauubos lang ung kapirasong sweldo mo dahil pati pamilya nya kelangan mo tulungan (unless magtago kayo at pabayaan nya sila) and in the end you will be an emotional wreck. It's not a fairytale love affair where you come in the club on your white horse and you carry the girl of your dreams and ride into the sunset, BUT having said that guys, even if you have the financial ability to make her stop working it's not that simple. Her past will always haunt you for as long as you both live and this you need to accept unconditionally. This scenario can be so complicated I wouldn't recommend it.

 

Tama! Madali sabihin na kaya mo tanggapin nakaraan ng babae, at tapos na yun sa umpisa. Masaya ka pa, nasa honeymoon stage pa kasi kayo. Pero pag nagumpisa na maubos yung kilig, lalo at nalosyang na yung babae, delikadong maisumbat mo na lang ng bigla yung nakaraan nya. lol

 

Lets be honest here. A lot of people think that accepting something like this (initially at least), is reflective of strength of character. Kasi open-minded sila and "can understand from the heart". When in fact, it could mean na di lang talaga masyado ginagamit pagiisip at madali sila mainlove.

 

Para sakin, emotionally immature ang isang taong madali mainlove

[jinnyboy]

sabi nga nila fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me so wag magpakatanga

[kuparas]

Find a therapist who's innately honest and you can begin from there. She'll have no qualms about telling you the services she's offered her guests. It's somehow a sign that you can depend on her truthfulness.

Any tips kung paano makakahanap ng therapist ba honest? Kasi sa trabaho nila kailangang marunong mambola.

[kuparas]

Find a therapist who's innately honest and you can begin from there. She'll have no qualms about telling you the services she's offered her guests. It's somehow a sign that you can depend on her truthfulness.

Any tips kung paano makakahanap ng therapist ba honest? Kasi sa trabaho nila kailangang marunong mambola.

[dinibdib]

bad move

[Edmund Dantes]

Guys reminder lang ha

 

If you wanna test your skills charming women, please do not do it with women like this. Kung talagang gusto nyo patunayan na mga matitinik kayo sa chicks, maghanap kayo ng babaeng nasa labas ng mga ganitong lugar. Bonus points kung makukuha nyo mga tulad ni KC concepcion.

 

Now you know what has been my consistent stand on the issue. Pero on this post mas kakampi ako dun sa babae. Naiintindihan ko kung bakit kelangan sila mambola. Trabaho nila naman yun eh. Kasama naman yun sa serbisyong gusto ng mga guest nila. Ang bolahin at istroke ego nila. Ang hindi ko masakyan, bakit kelangan yung guest magexert talaga ng extra effort na bolahin sila to the point na makakuha sila ng genuine validation na they are "liked" o kaya mahulog na loob sa kanila.

 

Think about it for a moment mga parekoy, o magtitiwala yung babae sa inyo, kwekwento buhay at mga problema, ano na pagkatapos? Matutuwa kayo kasi feeling nyo alpha kayo? Tapos sabay ipagyayabang ito sa mga katropa habang inuman? Sabihin nga na willing sila magumpisa ng relasyon sa inyo? Eh kaya nyo ba panindigan? O hangang tamang kerida-experience lang gusto nyo? Come on guys, let us not be jerks. They are making a living and maybe its in their best interest na huwag na sila mahulog so they stay focused on reaching their goals once makalabas na sa trabahong ito.

 

Eto ha, prangkahan lang tayo. Ang dami dito gusto magpakawhite night sa mga Thera, GRO, at kung ano ano pa. Nanenermon na babae din sila may karapatan mahalin blah blah blah.... Pero mamaya naman, andun naman sa kabilang thread nakikipagpalitan ng info sa kung sino ang pinakamagaling magserbisyo sa kanila. Kung ikwento at ibenta sa mga kapwa nila GM, parang kapirasong sariwang karne lang. lol

[Edmund Dantes]

For me, its also best for women in this industry to not fall and pursue such complicated relationships. Rather they should stay focused in their goals na makaalis at magumipisa ng bagong buhay. Allowing yourself to be a mistress is I think foolish. Mamaya eskandaluhin ka pa ng asawa

[temurlenk]

Any tips kung paano makakahanap ng therapist ba honest? Kasi sa trabaho nila kailangang marunong mambola.

may balak ka 'no? hehe. tama ka, trabaho nila mag please. ika nga at 80-90% ng lalabas sa bibig nila ay pambobola para gumaang loob nating mga clients. So... why do we need to hear the truth? Let them tell you lies, let them please you with their words and their touch, kasama un sa bayad, enjoy it while it lasts. Diba pinapalitan pa nga natin ung thera kung feeling suplada (and hence mejo honest na siguro sya nun). At the end of the day you feel good about yourself and you will be pretty sure na kahit anong klaseng jerk ka asahan mo na somewhere out there in one small cubicle may babae pa din na kayang sabihin ang gusto mo madinig.

[Ragabooots]

Aw...

[Ragabooots]

Hahaha ang mean ng ibang comment..

[temurlenk]

Always remember kung bakit tayo nagpupunta sa mga ganyang lugar, makinig kayo sa payo ni tito Boy o kung sino mang kamag anak nyo na nagpabinyag sa inyo. Hindi para ma-inlove or maghanap ng jowa or asawa sa club or spa. I understand, some of us can't help it, eh nakakabighani naman kse 'no lalo na pag binulungan ka ng babae na nahuhulog na puso nya sayo, wow, kakakilig! Pero pag-isipan nyo mabuti ung pinapasok nyo (alam nyo naman kung ano lang dapat pumasok- wag paabutin sa puso!). One way to counter this is to go out and see other people or simply take a break from clubs and spas. Kung di mo pa din mapigilan sarili mo, try see some other psp or gro in another club or spa, wag kayo mapapako sa isang babae lang dahil sila hindi rin tumitigil sa isang client lang, not for you, not for anyone. Ngayon, kung dika naman apektado sa mga ganyang bagay at dedma ka lang, at sa tingin mo hindi ka "jealous type", then goooo!
Pero wag mo na asahan na magiging totally honest sila sayo, dahil empleyado din lang sila tulad ng nakararami satin. Minsan may pinapagawa sa kanila na if it were up to us, hindi tayo papayag, and this happens a lot in their profession. Pera-pera lang yan mga brad. Kung kaya mo pa din tanggapin lahat yan, saludo ako sa pagkamanhid nyo, hindi kayo tao or maybe magaling kayo magkunwari. Tandaan nyo, lahat ng issues na yan pasan nyo sa likod nyo habang nabubuhay kayong magkasama at hindi nyo pwede bale- walain ng basta basta lamang.

Meron akong kilala na sumubok makipag relasyon ng seryoso sa gro, may kaya, pinatunayan nya sa babae na kaya nyang magalaga at pinatigil sya sa pagtrabaho sa club, binigyan ng bahay, car, lahat ng hingin binigay... pero anong nangyare? wala din, sa laki ng ginastos nya wala din kinahinatnan ang kanilang relasyon. I don't know, maybe maling example un, maybe kahit pano may nagnyayareng maganda sa ibang tao dyan with the same experience and good for them, pero... I wouldn't risk it, not even in the name of love. Bottom line fellas, you can find love anyplace pero wouldn't it be more worthwhile kung mas nachallenge ka muna sa pagligaw? ung kelangan pagtyagaan mo na mahulog puso nya sayo bago mo maikama? Ask yourselves guys.

[RED2018]

The first thing you have to ask yourself, can you honestly feel love, compassion, devotion, etc. to a woman who 'copulates' with other men for a living? If you can, then so long as you aren't spending a fortune on this woman. Make sure also that she's on the same page with you. There's a well-known saying I heard....the quickest way to scare off a 'PSP' is to tell her you are in love with her.But at least you'll know where you stand and if there is something there with her as well.

Is it possible that she might stop the life she is living and become your partner? Of course it is! I'm sure in the history of the world it has happened many times. But you have to understand that, to her this might all be business. She might like your attention because if any man bought up her whole day that's flattering- it says you really has gotten attached to her. But that may not make her love you. And tha's a big point to consider. What have you done to make her love you? From her perspective, you pay for sex with her and are willing to talk to her about your life or even listen to hers but the foundations that make a woman love a man may not be there.

 

Whichever direction at whatever intention you both go thru, it doesn't come 'cheap.'

 

Edited February 24, 2015 by artedpro

[Edmund Dantes]

Kilala ko yan😄

 

Hehehe, wala naman ako talagang tinutumbok na particular na tao. Since 2003-2004 pa ako nagbabasa dito sa MTC, at marami na akong nakita na ganyan. Mga akala mo kung sinong Alpha male na white knight ng mga PSP/GRO/Thera/MPA. I have heard the "babae din naman sila" speech na yan ng paulit ulit. Yet these are the same guys na magbubugaw ng mismong mga babaeng pinagtatangol nila sa mga katropa nila. Yung iba naman gusto lang makalibre sa extra serbis. Naalala ko may thread pa nga yan eh.

 

But on the issue. Why complicate the womans life by making her fall for you? Lalo na if the best you have to offer naman is to make her your mistress? Or keep her as your dirty little secret? Hayaan na lang yung babae magfocus sa hanapbuhay ng di sya magtagal sa ganitong klaseng trabaho.

[narcprick]

Guys reminder lang ha

 

If you wanna test your skills charming women, please do not do it with women like this. Kung talagang gusto nyo patunayan na mga matitinik kayo sa chicks, maghanap kayo ng babaeng nasa labas ng mga ganitong lugar. Bonus points kung makukuha nyo mga tulad ni KC concepcion.

 

Now you know what has been my consistent stand on the issue. Pero on this post mas kakampi ako dun sa babae. Naiintindihan ko kung bakit kelangan sila mambola. Trabaho nila naman yun eh. Kasama naman yun sa serbisyong gusto ng mga guest nila. Ang bolahin at istroke ego nila. Ang hindi ko masakyan, bakit kelangan yung guest magexert talaga ng extra effort na bolahin sila to the point na makakuha sila ng genuine validation na they are "liked" o kaya mahulog na loob sa kanila.

 

Think about it for a moment mga parekoy, o magtitiwala yung babae sa inyo, kwekwento buhay at mga problema, ano na pagkatapos? Matutuwa kayo kasi feeling nyo alpha kayo? Tapos sabay ipagyayabang ito sa mga katropa habang inuman? Sabihin nga na willing sila magumpisa ng relasyon sa inyo? Eh kaya nyo ba panindigan? O hangang tamang kerida-experience lang gusto nyo? Come on guys, let us not be jerks. They are making a living and maybe its in their best interest na huwag na sila mahulog so they stay focused on reaching their goals once makalabas na sa trabahong ito.

 

Eto ha, prangkahan lang tayo. Ang dami dito gusto magpakawhite night sa mga Thera, GRO, at kung ano ano pa. Nanenermon na babae din sila may karapatan mahalin blah blah blah.... Pero mamaya naman, andun naman sa kabilang thread nakikipagpalitan ng info sa kung sino ang pinakamagaling magserbisyo sa kanila. Kung ikwento at ibenta sa mga kapwa nila GM, parang kapirasong sariwang karne lang. lol

 

single ba si kc ngayon?

[kuparas]

may balak ka 'no? hehe. tama ka, trabaho nila mag please. ika nga at 80-90% ng lalabas sa bibig nila ay pambobola para gumaang loob nating mga clients. So... why do we need to hear the truth? Let them tell you lies, let them please you with their words and their touch, kasama un sa bayad, enjoy it while it lasts. Diba pinapalitan pa nga natin ung thera kung feeling suplada (and hence mejo honest na siguro sya nun). At the end of the day you feel good about yourself and you will be pretty sure na kahit anong klaseng jerk ka asahan mo na somewhere out there in one small cubicle may babae pa din na kayang sabihin ang gusto mo madinig.

That's my point, kaya may hint of sarcasm yung post ko. Mahirap maghanap ng magsasabi ng totoo kasi kasama ang pambobola sa kanilang tools of the trade.

 

Kahit nga sa bf nila may mga lihim, lalo na sa mga first time client.

 

Tama ka pre. Dapat talaga we let them tell us lies. And then bahala na tayo kung gusto natin maniwala. O yun ang gusto nating marinig.

 

PAg ilang taon ka na nagspa, halos lahat ng lies maririnig mo.

[darkspider]

a big no no no.. lets ask my good friend spy_der_man .. see you soon bro..

[Edmund Dantes]

 

single ba si kc ngayon?

 

Sulutin mo dun sa mga pumoporma sa kanya tol hahahaha! Pag nagawa mo yan, papangalan ko unang anak ko na lalake sa yo

[paulwalking]

Guys reminder lang ha

 

If you wanna test your skills charming women, please do not do it with women like this. Kung talagang gusto nyo patunayan na mga matitinik kayo sa chicks, maghanap kayo ng babaeng nasa labas ng mga ganitong lugar. Bonus points kung makukuha nyo mga tulad ni KC concepcion.

 

Now you know what has been my consistent stand on the issue. Pero on this post mas kakampi ako dun sa babae. Naiintindihan ko kung bakit kelangan sila mambola. Trabaho nila naman yun eh. Kasama naman yun sa serbisyong gusto ng mga guest nila. Ang bolahin at istroke ego nila. Ang hindi ko masakyan, bakit kelangan yung guest magexert talaga ng extra effort na bolahin sila to the point na makakuha sila ng genuine validation na they are "liked" o kaya mahulog na loob sa kanila.

 

Think about it for a moment mga parekoy, o magtitiwala yung babae sa inyo, kwekwento buhay at mga problema, ano na pagkatapos? Matutuwa kayo kasi feeling nyo alpha kayo? Tapos sabay ipagyayabang ito sa mga katropa habang inuman? Sabihin nga na willing sila magumpisa ng relasyon sa inyo? Eh kaya nyo ba panindigan? O hangang tamang kerida-experience lang gusto nyo? Come on guys, let us not be jerks. They are making a living and maybe its in their best interest na huwag na sila mahulog so they stay focused on reaching their goals once makalabas na sa trabahong ito.

 

Eto ha, prangkahan lang tayo. Ang dami dito gusto magpakawhite night sa mga Thera, GRO, at kung ano ano pa. Nanenermon na babae din sila may karapatan mahalin blah blah blah.... Pero mamaya naman, andun naman sa kabilang thread nakikipagpalitan ng info sa kung sino ang pinakamagaling magserbisyo sa kanila. Kung ikwento at ibenta sa mga kapwa nila GM, parang kapirasong sariwang karne lang. lol

 

Haha nadale mo..

[antwanshakeel]

 

Hehehe, wala naman ako talagang tinutumbok na particular na tao. Since 2003-2004 pa ako nagbabasa dito sa MTC, at marami na akong nakita na ganyan. Mga akala mo kung sinong Alpha male na white knight ng mga PSP/GRO/Thera/MPA. I have heard the "babae din naman sila" speech na yan ng paulit ulit. Yet these are the same guys na magbubugaw ng mismong mga babaeng pinagtatangol nila sa mga katropa nila. Yung iba naman gusto lang makalibre sa extra serbis. Naalala ko may thread pa nga yan eh.

 

But on the issue. Why complicate the womans life by making her fall for you? Lalo na if the best you have to offer naman is to make her your mistress? Or keep her as your dirty little secret? Hayaan na lang yung babae magfocus sa hanapbuhay ng di sya magtagal sa ganitong klaseng trabaho.

Tama si edmund dantes. Been there, done that. Laking pagsisisi ko na pumasok ko sa ganyan relationship. Kaya now i just treat them as PSP/GRO/Thera/MPA and nothing more. I go there to get what i want and after i get it then wala ng txt or call. Then pagbalik sa ko club / MP /Spa iba naman ang kukuinin. Binobola nila ko at sinasakyan ko dn pero nothing more. Quickie lang naman gusto natin dba? Kaya natatawa na lang ko pag yung mga friends ko na GRO sa fb nakakatanggap ng dami-daming flowers at ano pang mamahaling gifts. Isipisip ko na "nakaloko si tarantado". Bottom line is we just need a cum and they just need our money. Tapos na ang usapan.

Edited February 25, 2015 by antwanshakeel

[Ragabooots]

Yes!.. nothing more..