serendipity218 Posted December 21, 2013 Share Posted December 21, 2013 Well it takes guts and a really open...er WIDE OPEN mind to survive this kind of relationship....Masakit man tangapin but they are people as well with hopes and dreams. To put it succinctlyEveryone you meet is afraid of something... has lost something... and is dreaming of something... Quote Link to comment
sanso Posted December 28, 2013 Share Posted December 28, 2013 Why?? What happened... I guess my only consolation to share is tips on how to mend a broken heart (speaking from recent experiences.. hehe) .... 4. List down all the negatives about the girl your crying about in a piece of paper... then burn it If all else fails... then magbabae ka ng magbabae, then you will realize that the girl you were crying about is a dime a dozen. Remember life is too short to waste on self-pity,sorrow and anger. :-)... I did all these, except in the "listing"part, I kept this in my wallet and everytime I get the urge to go back to her, I read the list over and over till I get mad at her again. Now, I'm getting close to full recovery.... :-) 1 Quote Link to comment
r1 Posted December 29, 2013 Share Posted December 29, 2013 Just to share my experience... if you can avoid it just dont do it. Too much heartache too much complication... M i still love you and i hope wherever you end up you will be happy and successfull with your life. Quote Link to comment
Bameboy Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 Well it takes guts and a really open...er WIDE OPEN mind to survive this kind of relationship....Masakit man tangapin but they are people as well with hopes and dreams. To put it succinctlyEveryone you meet is afraid of something... has lost something... and is dreaming of something...What i don't understand is bakit pag pinapa hinto na sila they would say "yes" pero hindi naman pala kahit na sustentado na sila why need to go behind the back and do what they do when there's no need to do it anymore diba? You can't say money is the reason kasi bibigyan mo naman ng pera at bubuhayin eh...nakaka lungkot lang kasi lalo na pag nag invest ka na ng emotions and yun pala niloloko ka lang...sobrang sakit ng feeling ng naloko...just my two cents Quote Link to comment
HappyBuhay Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 It maybe because you found something in her that made you appreciate her more. Much like infatuation in steroids Quote Link to comment
filibustero Posted December 30, 2013 Share Posted December 30, 2013 What i don't understand is bakit pag pinapa hinto na sila they would say "yes" pero hindi naman pala kahit na sustentado na sila why need to go behind the back and do what they do when there's no need to do it anymore diba? You can't say money is the reason kasi bibigyan mo naman ng pera at bubuhayin eh...nakaka lungkot lang kasi lalo na pag nag invest ka na ng emotions and yun pala niloloko ka lang...sobrang sakit ng feeling ng naloko...just my two cents A lot of things could be the reason. It could be that the money provided them is not enough for them. The lure of quick and easy money is hard to resist. Also, if the money is pure dole out, then it might be that they are just bored doing nothing especially when the generous GM is not always there to keep her company, and the people she has come to know as friends are the therapists in the spas. Quote Link to comment
OMEGAnun Posted January 4, 2014 Share Posted January 4, 2014 For me, falling in love with a girl in this profession needs guts and a very great understanding from the mind and heart. ...yup, one should be very open-minded and understanding to handle this kind of relationship... Quote Link to comment
Crassus Posted January 6, 2014 Share Posted January 6, 2014 Needs Trust + Understanding + Patience + Love + Loyalty + Faith... Â Please feel free to add up. Quote Link to comment
zhaquille Posted January 6, 2014 Share Posted January 6, 2014 In general ganun ba talaga mga gro/dancer? Quote Link to comment
romyg Posted January 8, 2014 Share Posted January 8, 2014 In general ganun ba talaga mga gro/dancer?    definitely not all of them.....you can find some gems in this industry,...although rare.... Quote Link to comment
zhaquille Posted January 8, 2014 Share Posted January 8, 2014 definitely not all of them.....you can find some gems in this industry,...although rare.... Thank you. Pero paano kaya malalaman kung totoo sila? Quote Link to comment
doc speed Posted January 9, 2014 Share Posted January 9, 2014 It's not bad to fall inlove with the therapist. Like me I'm a therapist :*Â Yes its not bad, as long as their is a honest intention w/ each other and not just lust for gm and monetary for thera.... Quote Link to comment
boylib Posted January 14, 2014 Share Posted January 14, 2014 Currently having this dilemma with a club girl. I am not serious about her pero I feel guilty ski she's nice naman. Also she has a bf na they have a child together pa. \\Problem is ve been trying to cut her off pero she keeps going back. She knows where I live and all. Bad move hehe\Anyway absolutely no money involved we see each other at least once a week and drink and f our brains out. Sometimes she even sleeps over after work. Then her phone starts ringing. Tumatawag si bf. ayoko talaga Yung situation namin but how can I say no hahaha Medyo douchy . What I don't get is why she keeps on insisting herself, alam ko naman na lAro lAro lang pero pag nag eeffort e natutuwa Ako. Hahaha nagseselosselosan pa to when I'm out with my regular friends on regular gimmicks. I read the part na Baka pag Tagal manggugulo sya sa amin. I don't want that to happen.Wild also can relate to some posts here.  And honestly I'm starting to develop feelings for her nilalabanan ko lang hahaha tell me what you guys think please\ Thanks a bunch Quote Link to comment
curiosity101 Posted January 14, 2014 Share Posted January 14, 2014 Currently having this dilemma with a club girl. I am not serious about her pero I feel guilty ski she's nice naman. Also she has a bf na they have a child together pa. \\Problem is ve been trying to cut her off pero she keeps going back. She knows where I live and all. Bad move hehe\Anyway absolutely no money involved we see each other at least once a week and drink and f our brains out. Sometimes she even sleeps over after work. Then her phone starts ringing. Tumatawag si bf. ayoko talaga Yung situation namin but how can I say no hahaha Medyo douchy . What I don't get is why she keeps on insisting herself, alam ko naman na lAro lAro lang pero pag nag eeffort e natutuwa Ako. Hahaha nagseselosselosan pa to when I'm out with my regular friends on regular gimmicks. I read the part na Baka pag Tagal manggugulo sya sa amin. I don't want that to happen.Wild also can relate to some posts here.  And honestly I'm starting to develop feelings for her nilalabanan ko lang hahaha tell me what you guys think please\ Thanks a bunch Definitely, exciting .... but your skating on thin ice. Good luck bro Quote Link to comment
JohnLee Posted January 16, 2014 Share Posted January 16, 2014 (edited) nice to see varying opinions here... Edited January 16, 2014 by JohnLee Quote Link to comment
scam Posted January 16, 2014 Share Posted January 16, 2014 Currently having this dilemma with a club girl. I am not serious about her pero I feel guilty ski she's nice naman. Also she has a bf na they have a child together pa. \\Problem is ve been trying to cut her off pero she keeps going back. She knows where I live and all. Bad move hehe\Anyway absolutely no money involved we see each other at least once a week and drink and f our brains out. Sometimes she even sleeps over after work. Then her phone starts ringing. Tumatawag si bf. ayoko talaga Yung situation namin but how can I say no hahaha Medyo douchy . What I don't get is why she keeps on insisting herself, alam ko naman na lAro lAro lang pero pag nag eeffort e natutuwa Ako. Hahaha nagseselosselosan pa to when I'm out with my regular friends on regular gimmicks. I read the part na Baka pag Tagal manggugulo sya sa amin. I don't want that to happen.Wild also can relate to some posts here.  And honestly I'm starting to develop feelings for her nilalabanan ko lang hahaha tell me what you guys think please\ Thanks a bunch Start to plan your escape route para when the time comes, you know what & where to go. Obviously dapat yung hindi nya alam as it seemsyour too stupid to tell all. Quote Link to comment
layman37 Posted February 5, 2014 Share Posted February 5, 2014 Thank you. Pero paano kaya malalaman kung totoo sila?    you won't... until (just like in any relationship)  you know (this is the harder part)   truth is, only time will tell. (hardest part) Quote Link to comment
haroots2 Posted February 5, 2014 Share Posted February 5, 2014 Also can't believe I'm one the guys hereafter doing this for 2 years. Can't get my mind off her for over 2 months now and seeing her weekly in ESpa. Maybe because I'm lonely that I fall for her or maybe that I just needed to love someone and be loved by someone. Its been a very long while since I felt this way and whatever happens I'm still happy that I felt this way again rather that not to fall in love again. I don;t know if she will read this because she also have an account here. Really hopes that this relationship will prosper for long term. I'm not a rich guy but I just have a good paying job at the moment. This is the first time there is a thread like this and saw I'm not the only guy with this situation. Is this just part of a mid-life crisis? 2 Quote Link to comment
Vimax Posted February 5, 2014 Share Posted February 5, 2014 mga gm's, opionion ko lang ito i hope that i'm not offending anyone... its up to you guys kung gusto niyong ma-involve with people of these kind of profession... maybe meron talagang naging successful sa ganoon pero sa tingin ko bibihira lang yun... buti sana kung kaka simula pa lang sa ganitong work baka ok pa... pero sa mga matagal na ganito ang work marami dito ay parang corrupted ng computer file na... from time to time nagbibigay ito ng problems... minsan iisipin nating ayos na pero bigla biglang nagbibigay ng sakit ng ulo... for some reason nag e expect tayo na walang ibibigay na problema pero pag corrupted na lalabas at lalabas din ang problem one day... ayaw ko naman lahatin pero sa tingin ko karamihan ay corrupted lalo na yung matatagal na sa ganitong work... masakit pa siguro kung mangyari pa na kung wala ka nang pera or pag hindi mabigay ang hilig nila ay lagi tayong babantaan na babalik na lang sa dati nilang trabaho or baka na me iba na mas kayang magbigay... also, marami din complications sa acceptance ng family members or relatives or friends... baka yung iba pa ay i-disown... pero cyempre there are exceptions pero kokonti lang... halimbawa kung sa sugal, bakit ka tataya sa isang bagay na me low probabilities to win... but come to think of it... para sigurong lotto ito, kahit low probability, dami pa ding tumatayo kasi me chances pa ding manalo... pero sa lotto kc konti lang time ang ini-involve natin, mas similar siguro ito sa casino na maraming time ang kinukuha sa atin pero kaya pa ding sirain ang buhay natin kung hindi natin kayang i handle...  have a nice time everyone... Plus one ako dyan. Sanay kasi sila ba malaking kita kng d naman nila niluluho sa gamit yung iba tinutulong din ng mga thera sa pamilya nila. Quote Link to comment
lelouch2000 Posted April 15, 2014 Share Posted April 15, 2014 good morning sa inyo sana may makatulong sakin. Dumaan ako sa pagkabroken hearted kasi inwan ako at niloko ng ex gf ko..,ang ginawa ko para makalimot nagpupunta ako sa spa. Meron akong nakuhang mpa at regular ko xa. Nung una medyo mataray xa at nakakainis pero kalaunan ewan ko kung bakit bigla xang bumait sakin. after 6 times na nakuha ko xa bakit ba feeling ko nahuhulog ang loob ko sa kanya.. isa xa sa top 3 sa spa na un. Iniisip ko nahuhulog lang ba ang loob ko sa ganda ng muka nya or dahil sa bait na pinapakita nya.Alam ko namang madami xang nagiging client pero bakit ba di ko masabi sa sarili ko hanggang dun lang talaga ang lahat..alam kong di naman pwedeng maging kami dahil una sa lahat mayaman xa at isa lang akong pangkaraniwang tao na sumusweldo ng 20k monthly.napakalaki ng bahay ng girl na un at may sariling kotse samantalang ako ay nagbabayad pa ng mortgage ng bahay namin.. paano ko ba aalisin tong pakiramdam na to? Ano ba ang dahilan bakit ba nahulog ang loob ko sa kanya? dahil ba sa magandng muka nya or dahil sa mangandang ugali na pinapakita nya.ano ba ang dpat kong gawin para malimutan ang mpa na un..?? Sana matulungan nyo ako kung sino man ang nakaexperience ng ganitong situationdahil feeling ko masisiraan ako pag di ko xa nakikita..maraming salmat.. Quote Link to comment
lelouch2000 Posted April 16, 2014 Share Posted April 16, 2014 Feeling ko ung mpa na nakuha ko ehh just pretending sa mga gusto kong marinig..Mahirap nga lang kasi kpag isa lang ang mpa na pinili mo plagi ehh darating pla ang time na mahuhulog ka sa kanya.. ewan ko kung totoo ung sabi ng iba pero sabi nila try ko daw kumuha ng iba at sigurado malilimutan ko ung mpa na regular ko..Katulad din ba to ng love rebound after break up or parang sasabihin lang sakin na madaming magaganda.. Quote Link to comment
kali7 Posted April 16, 2014 Share Posted April 16, 2014 Feeling ko ung mpa na nakuha ko ehh just pretending sa mga gusto kong marinig..Mahirap nga lang kasi kpag isa lang ang mpa na pinili mo plagi ehh darating pla ang time na mahuhulog ka sa kanya.. ewan ko kung totoo ung sabi ng iba pero sabi nila try ko daw kumuha ng iba at sigurado malilimutan ko ung mpa na regular ko..Katulad din ba to ng love rebound after break up or parang sasabihin lang sakin na madaming magaganda.. There are certain MPA that are good with the skill that you feel special with them, para maging regular mo sila. They don't rely sa walk in random customer only. They prefer may regular clients sila, they even text or call them to come kung mahina sila that day. Like other said, tell her your feelings and see what would be her reactions and decide it from there. May holy week naman to think about it. 2 Quote Link to comment
lelouch2000 Posted April 16, 2014 Share Posted April 16, 2014 There are certain MPA that are good with the skill that you feel special with them, para maging regular mo sila. They don't rely sa walk in random customer only. They prefer may regular clients sila, they even text or call them to come kung mahina sila that day. Like other said, tell her your feelings and see what would be her reactions and decide it from there. May holy week naman to think about it.grave saktong sakto yan bro.. yan mismo, she text me whenever mahina or something.. nagparamdam ako ng pabiro.. naramdaman din siguro nya na napapamahal ako sa kanya dahil parang nailang xa sakin.. she said it's better kung friends lang kami.. I think she is a good person and don't want me or her to be hurt.. Do you think it's because im just not that rich? I don't know what she's thinking...but my problem is I can't focus on my work.. I can't sleep... thinking of her always.. Im not that rich to go to the spa everyday..im only a simple guy earning basic amount but sadly I fall on that girl..I am a freelance worker so I think the reason this happens to me is I become lonely.. Because I only work at home and no co workers to talk.. it's really hard getting out of this feeling. Good thing I found this forum because my friends are laughing at me.. thinking that it's absurd and crazy having this feeling. Pero di nila alam kung anung hirap na nararamdaman ko..Iniisip ko gawin ung advice ng iba nung nag backthread ako na kuha ng madami at malalaman ko na this is not love rather than just lust.. I don't know kasi di ko pa nattry.. happy holy week Quote Link to comment
Gits Posted April 16, 2014 Share Posted April 16, 2014 grave saktong sakto yan bro.. yan mismo, she text me whenever mahina or something.. nagparamdam ako ng pabiro.. naramdaman din siguro nya na napapamahal ako sa kanya dahil parang nailang xa sakin.. she said it's better kung friends lang kami.. I think she is a good person and don't want me or her to be hurt.. Do you think it's because im just not that rich? I don't know what she's thinking...but my problem is I can't focus on my work.. I can't sleep... thinking of her always.. Im not that rich to go to the spa everyday..im only a simple guy earning basic amount but sadly I fall on that girl..I am a freelance worker so I think the reason this happens to me is I become lonely.. Because I only work at home and no co workers to talk.. it's really hard getting out of this feeling. Good thing I found this forum because my friends are laughing at me.. thinking that it's absurd and crazy having this feeling. Pero di nila alam kung anung hirap na nararamdaman ko..Iniisip ko gawin ung advice ng iba nung nag backthread ako na kuha ng madami at malalaman ko na this is not love rather than just lust.. I don't know kasi di ko pa nattry.. happy holy week i understand your situation bro. ganyan din kasi ko ngayon, nagkakagusto/naiinlove ako sa isang thera... and she knows what i feel for her. right now we're friends ok naman yun para mas lalo namin makilala ang isa't isa at para makasiguro din sa nararamdaman Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted April 16, 2014 Share Posted April 16, 2014 Doesn't this defeat the purpose of hiring in the first place? So you can be intimate with someone and not risk being attached to them? Quote Link to comment
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