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Ask ko lang saer, bakit parang umayaw ka na sa relationship nyo?

Nag back read lang ako and saw this question na di ko pala nasagot. I fell out of love in that relationship dahil nagduda ako sa girl, marami siyang tinatago sa akin, like pag may message siya, tinatalikuran niya ako pagbinabasa and pag bumisita ako, walang tigil ang texting niya na halos wala kaming pinagusapan. I just thought na bale wala lang ako sa kaniya. thats why i just made an exit para she can choose kung saan siya talaga masaya. I just have to respect her feelings. But i could be wrong too in that part.

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well to be honest medyo mahirap mag trust ng babae lalo nasa gaitong profession... mahirap mag all out ka dahil gusto mo yung girl then ending up malalaman mo ginagamit ka lang nya... mas ok sana kung sa start pa lang ay honest na agad yung girl sayo... kung baga ilabas na nya lahat ng nakaraan nya at sikreto nya... that is one way to show na sincere yung girl sayo.... and it is up to you if you will accept her past or not.... i really admire yung mga girls na ganyan... sila yung mga deserving talaga ng help, support and love natin.... mahirap yung may maraming sikreto sayo... malay mo hindi lang pla ikaw ang BF nya or pangatlo ka na pla sa puso nya... mahirap yun... hindi yun fair for you..

 

alam ko mahirap talaga pumasok into a serious relationship sa ganitong babae... pero hindi impossible...

trust <yung condom ah... hehehe joke> ang pinakaimportante; alam ko mahirap... but if there is a will there is a way... good luck sa mga nasaganitong relationship... kaya ninyo yan kung magtutulunang kayo....

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Alam mo bro, gilghost, people involved in this have to look at it in different angles. gusto natin madalas maging honest sila, on the other hand if they tell us their story, are bound to beleive in it right away. Di natin bro alam kung ano ang tutoo sa mga sinabi sa atin. Likewise they ( the girls) cannot just beleive what the guy is saying to her. the guy could always say na single siya, kaya lang papalitpalit ng gf. Dapat diyan is to go out and test the real water, literaly go out like a date and see their actual surroundings. for the girl naman meet his barkada and see if they would stutter and slip when they talk. There is more to learn from tghese cenarios, marami pang variations in testing. something new is brewing all the time. Gud day to you bro, lets work for the Eb.

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Alam mo bro, gilghost, people involved in this have to look at it in different angles. gusto natin madalas maging honest sila, on the other hand if they tell us their story, are bound to beleive in it right away. Di natin bro alam kung ano ang tutoo sa mga sinabi sa atin. Likewise they ( the girls) cannot just beleive what the guy is saying to her. the guy could always say na single siya, kaya lang papalitpalit ng gf. Dapat diyan is to go out and test the real water, literaly go out like a date and see their actual surroundings. for the girl naman meet his barkada and see if they would stutter and slip when they talk. There is more to learn from tghese cenarios, marami pang variations in testing. something new is brewing all the time. Gud day to you bro, lets work for the Eb.

 

i agree to this.... totally....

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Alam mo bro, gilghost, people involved in this have to look at it in different angles. gusto natin madalas maging honest sila, on the other hand if they tell us their story, are bound to beleive in it right away. Di natin bro alam kung ano ang tutoo sa mga sinabi sa atin. Likewise they ( the girls) cannot just beleive what the guy is saying to her. the guy could always say na single siya, kaya lang papalitpalit ng gf. Dapat diyan is to go out and test the real water, literaly go out like a date and see their actual surroundings. for the girl naman meet his barkada and see if they would stutter and slip when they talk. There is more to learn from tghese cenarios, marami pang variations in testing. something new is brewing all the time. Gud day to you bro, lets work for the Eb.

 

test each other... and trust each other! :hypocritesmiley:

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Hmmm..Mahirap tlga mga bro ibigay lahat ng trust mo sa girl na nasa ganito profession, i think eto un isa mahirap gawin aside sa tanggapin cla kung ano cla..Swerte kung un girl sincere tlga satin kahit magkaibigan lang kau..Diba kaya nga cla napnta sa ganyan trabaho dahil sa pera..Sa una mabait,sweet cla na halos lahat ata ng katangian ng bbae na hinahanap natin nasa knya na tapos nun may nakilala cla mas malaki ang binibigay sa knila bigla naglaho pinakita nla satin..Diba OUCH un? Hehehe..

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i agree to this.... totally....

 

Agree! Nsa atin na tlaga kung maniniwala tau sa mga sinabi nila..Wala naman masama kung magtitiwala tau, sken kc nde naman ako ang niloloko nila kundi un sarili nila..Naging mabait ako and binigay ko lahat ng respeto sa knila, nasa kanila na un kung iingatan nila ..

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Nag back read lang ako and saw this question na di ko pala nasagot. I fell out of love in that relationship dahil nagduda ako sa girl, marami siyang tinatago sa akin, like pag may message siya, tinatalikuran niya ako pagbinabasa and pag bumisita ako, walang tigil ang texting niya na halos wala kaming pinagusapan. I just thought na bale wala lang ako sa kaniya. thats why i just made an exit para she can choose kung saan siya talaga masaya. I just have to respect her feelings. But i could be wrong too in that part.

 

 

Ganun ba bro..im sure di ka makakalimutan din nun..

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By the way guys, meron ba sa nyo may multiply account? multiply adik din kc ako hehe baka meron kau account dun? Cheers!

 

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Gud pm bro, musta? How's life?

 

hey tagalupa.... I'm ok naman... still maintaining friendships and support to these girls... but kindda afraid to enter in to a serious one.... at this time... I just enjoying single life for now... and the girls I'm dating seem to be on the same state... like kaka break lang or just exited a bad relationship... i'm investing now more on friendship which is a good foundation... and just enjoying their company.... ikaw po kamusta ka?

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in this game of hearts, you should always be on safeguard. be ready to see the things you dont like to see or hear what you dislike to hear. pag di ka sigurado sa happy ending. When you ply two boats at the same time, you dont know which one will rock first. gilghost i think both your boats rocked at the same time, kaya masmabigat yun, but these things make you smarter, therefore your next relationship should either be perfect love or a smart love. Si bro tagalupa, parang walang problem, always in a good mood to help. Thats nice of you.

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hey tagalupa.... I'm ok naman... still maintaining friendships and support to these girls... but kindda afraid to enter in to a serious one.... at this time... I just enjoying single life for now... and the girls I'm dating seem to be on the same state... like kaka break lang or just exited a bad relationship... i'm investing now more on friendship which is a good foundation... and just enjoying their company.... ikaw po kamusta ka?

 

 

Thats gud...atleast magkaibigan parin kau and kahit ppano naman may pinagsamahan kau, saer ask ko lang diba nde naman nawawala un 22o nararamdaman mo sa knya, kaibigan lang ba tlga or nagwiwish ka parin na sana maging kau? ask ko lang saer kc sempre the more na nilalapit mo un sarili mo sa knya(kahit magkaibigan lang kau) mas lalo ka nalalapit sa knya..

 

About me? Ok naman ako saer wid my gf and ke BEST(GRO) bumibisita parin ako sa knya pero minsan na lang, mas pinili ko kc ganun na lng ayoko kc magkaron ng too much attachment sa knya not because dahil GRO cia, nirespeto ko cia katulas ng respeto bnigay ko sa mga girl na nakilala ko..Ayoko lang dahil may gf ako and ayoko magkaron ng prob dahil ke bez..Ayoko dumating un time na kailangan ko pumili sa knila dalawa..Kaya hanggat maaga pa nilagay ko agad un sarili ko sa dapat ko kalagyan..Ayoko ko lumangoy na alam ko ikalulunod ko..Ayoko sumugal na baka sa bandang huli pagsisihan ko..Ok na un ganito kami no string attach...Wla kami nasasaktan o naapakan..She will always be my best beyond words..time and distance...

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in this game of hearts, you should always be on safeguard. be ready to see the things you dont like to see or hear what you dislike to hear. pag di ka sigurado sa happy ending. When you ply two boats at the same time, you dont know which one will rock first. gilghost i think both your boats rocked at the same time, kaya masmabigat yun, but these things make you smarter, therefore your next relationship should either be perfect love or a smart love. Si bro tagalupa, parang walang problem, always in a good mood to help. Thats nice of you.

 

 

Hehehe..May mga iniisip lang ako na minsan gumugulo saken pero dahil sa mga testimony nyo and katulad ng sinabi mo bro "always be on safeguard"..Ayoko lumangoy ng ikalulunod ko..May prob din ako wid my gf pero nde magiging sagot un isang bagay na alam ko mali..Kaya mas pnili ko na bigyan ng distance un samen ni Best (GRO)..Wrong timing un samen..Kung nag iba lang cgro un ikot ng mundo samen..To be honest bro.Hindi ko ipagkakait un pagmamahal ko sa knya..Nagkataon lang na una ako pinanganak hehehe...Much better kung magkaibigan na lang kami and nde naman nawawala un respeto and pang unawa sa knya..

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hey good to know you guys still read this thread.... yup am still hoping na maging kme... hindrance lang talga yung BF nya.... pero i try to distance myself para ma feel nya difference pag BF nya kasama at ako.... at maassess din kung ano ba talaga nafefeel ko for her....

 

minsan lang bgla cya tatawag sakin umiiyak at nagaway sila ng BF nya.... kahit gusto ko cya samahan at i console hanggang cellphone na lang muna....

para mafeel din nya yung difference pag ako kasama nya at yung BF nya.... masakit man gawin pero kailangan eh....

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hey good to know you guys still read this thread.... yup am still hoping na maging kme... hindrance lang talga yung BF nya.... pero i try to distance myself para ma feel nya difference pag BF nya kasama at ako.... at maassess din kung ano ba talaga nafefeel ko for her....

 

minsan lang bgla cya tatawag sakin umiiyak at nagaway sila ng BF nya.... kahit gusto ko cya samahan at i console hanggang cellphone na lang muna....

para mafeel din nya yung difference pag ako kasama nya at yung BF nya.... masakit man gawin pero kailangan eh....

 

Yun ang mahirap..Hindi mo magawa un gs2 mo kc commited cia sa iba and ang masama pa hindi cia masaya dun..Dont worry bro darating din un time na para sau..Pinagpapala un mga taong katulad mo..Cheer up bro!

 

its nice to have friends to discuss with. thats why may thread na ganito. If there is anything you guys want to discuss, we can all brainstorm and think of the best solution. An Eb could help make the members more open to discussions. lets try to pull in people for that Eb.

 

 

Yep saer, dami ako natutunan d2 and im sure nde lang ako..Eye opener ika nga..Sana matuloy un eb..

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Ang problema lang sa ganitong relationship e ung trust( hindi yung condom) minsan hindi mo rin cla masisi na magsinungaling, unang una pumasok cla sa ganoong trabaho para kumita, hindi para mag syota, yung gro ko ngayon alam ko nagccnungaling un, alam ko nag v.v.i.p cya iba pag wala me kahit sabi nyang wala, inde mo naman cya masisi, malaki rin kase komisyon nya doon and naghahabol din cla quota sa ld, cant blame her, alam nya kase na magagalit ako sa kanya , on her part hindi rin cya cgurado sa isang guy dahil anytime pede mawala un kahit sabihin natin na mahal nya. ang relationship namin ng gro ko ngayon e parang ffriends sinabi ko sa kanya na mahal ko cya pero wala ako balak makipagrelasyon at the moment, though sa totoo lang nasasaktan ako pag nakikita ko sya sa ganitog trabaho ,i just cannot show it, di mo rin cya masisi, bread winner cya and malaki naman talaga kita nila sa ganitong trabaho... hinihintay ko na nga lang ang araw na dumating na aalis na cya because nag tratraining na sa cya for japan, im just savoring the moment habang nandyan pa cya, ang masakit kase ..wala ako magawa para sa kanya, di naman ako ganun kalaki kumita, kahit sinabi pa nya sa akin noon na ang hanap lang naman nya sa lalaki e yung mamahalin talaga cya and magtutulungan cla na magtrabaho kahit hindi mayaman, kinukwento nga nya sa akin na marami na mayaman nag propose sa kanya, kahit ung may ari ng club nila, pero di nya tinanggap dahil sa wala cya tiwala sa mga yon, so sa ganutong sitwasyon hindi na mahalaga ang honesty, just pure faith, ganoon ka complicated, kase king tutuusin wala naman talagang taong 100 percent na honest ...just my opinion

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Ang problema lang sa ganitong relationship e ung trust( hindi yung condom) minsan hindi mo rin cla masisi na magsinungaling, unang una pumasok cla sa ganoong trabaho para kumita, hindi para mag syota, yung gro ko ngayon alam ko nagccnungaling un, alam ko nag v.v.i.p cya iba pag wala me kahit sabi nyang wala, inde mo naman cya masisi, malaki rin kase komisyon nya doon and naghahabol din cla quota sa ld, cant blame her, alam nya kase na magagalit ako sa kanya , on her part hindi rin cya cgurado sa isang guy dahil anytime pede mawala un kahit sabihin natin na mahal nya. ang relationship namin ng gro ko ngayon e parang ffriends sinabi ko sa kanya na mahal ko cya pero wala ako balak makipagrelasyon at the moment, though sa totoo lang nasasaktan ako pag nakikita ko sya sa ganitog trabaho ,i just cannot show it, di mo rin cya masisi, bread winner cya and malaki naman talaga kita nila sa ganitong trabaho... hinihintay ko na nga lang ang araw na dumating na aalis na cya because nag tratraining na sa cya for japan, im just savoring the moment habang nandyan pa cya, ang masakit kase ..wala ako magawa para sa kanya, di naman ako ganun kalaki kumita, kahit sinabi pa nya sa akin noon na ang hanap lang naman nya sa lalaki e yung mamahalin talaga cya and magtutulungan cla na magtrabaho kahit hindi mayaman, kinukwento nga nya sa akin na marami na mayaman nag propose sa kanya, kahit ung may ari ng club nila, pero di nya tinanggap dahil sa wala cya tiwala sa mga yon, so sa ganutong sitwasyon hindi na mahalaga ang honesty, just pure faith, ganoon ka complicated, kase king tutuusin wala naman talagang taong 100 percent na honest ...just my opinion

 

 

AGREE..Ganito din kami ng friend ko GRO..Gs2 ko man gawin lahat para sa knya kaya lang sa ngaun nde ko kaya...Im just praying na lang na sana un mga nagiging guest nya itreat cia as isang babae, nirerespeto at iniintindi..

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Hey guys, we all felt that way one time or another in our single life. What we want,, sometimes is beyond our control. We ment the best for them, yet we cant do anything about it. Napakahirap na situation yan, para nakaupo ka na di sumasayad ang puwet sa silya. And this feeling leaves you totally drained of your spirits, ang lupit talaga ng feeling emotionally down. thats why meron itong thread to spill out you ill feelings so others can help you forget them. wish you the best Punisherxxx.

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Hey guys, we all felt that way one time or another in our single life. What we want,, sometimes is beyond our control. We ment the best for them, yet we cant do anything about it. Napakahirap na situation yan, para nakaupo ka na di sumasayad ang puwet sa silya. And this feeling leaves you totally drained of your spirits, ang lupit talaga ng feeling emotionally down. thats why meron itong thread to spill out you ill feelings so others can help you forget them. wish you the best Punisherxxx.

tnx bro!! i love this topic... at least alam kong di lang ako nag iisang nasa gantong sitwasyon, guess somtimes nag babackfire sa atin ung pag punta sa ganitong lugar, imbes na lust lang habol naten , nagiging love pa , inde naman kataka taka tao rin naman kase mga gro/mpa o psps

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