pabebe_egg Posted December 30, 2015 Share Posted December 30, 2015 I gave them too much respect that I don't even think na parausan lang sila pop and pay in the end ako din ang naloko at nagamit kasi hindi ko inisip na i went there because i just need a quick fix and once get out of that cubicle everything is just a thera and client point and done for the day.... 2 Quote Link to comment
terry bolea Posted December 30, 2015 Share Posted December 30, 2015 Ito galing mismo sa therapist na nakausap ko. sabi niya "May mga guests na matalino, pero pagdating sa puso at damdamin, nagiging Bobo"  tanga daw sila at hindi nagiisip pag puso na ang nanaig. sa bandang huli sila kawawa dahil magagamit lang sila. sabi niya mas mabuti yung makilala niyang magugustuhan niya hindi niya makilala as guest sa spa kundi sa labas na hindi alam ang kanyang past na trabaho bilang thera Quote Link to comment
Sitti of TVS Posted December 30, 2015 Share Posted December 30, 2015 MOD REMINDER Â ''Words can inspire . And words can destroy. Choose yours well ''Â This was supposed to be a healthy discussions mga pogi.. maybe you can express and tell your opinions using a medyo hindi masakit sa tenga na words.. thank you... happy new year gents.. Quote Link to comment
crocxxx Posted December 30, 2015 Share Posted December 30, 2015 Ito galing mismo sa therapist na nakausap ko. sabi niya "May mga guests na matalino, pero pagdating sa puso at damdamin, nagiging Bobo"  tanga daw sila at hindi nagiisip pag puso na ang nanaig. sa bandang huli sila kawawa dahil magagamit lang sila. sabi niya mas mabuti yung makilala niyang magugustuhan niya hindi niya makilala as guest sa spa kundi sa labas na hindi alam ang kanyang past na trabaho bilang thera Quote Link to comment
crocxxx Posted December 30, 2015 Share Posted December 30, 2015 Ito galing mismo sa therapist na nakausap ko. sabi niya "May mga guests na matalino, pero pagdating sa puso at damdamin, nagiging Bobo"  tanga daw sila at hindi nagiisip pag puso na ang nanaig. sa bandang huli sila kawawa dahil magagamit lang sila. sabi niya mas mabuti yung makilala niyang magugustuhan niya hindi niya makilala as guest sa spa kundi sa labas na hindi alam ang kanyang past na trabaho bilang theraMas mabuti ang nagsasabi ng totoo, your past will haunt youKahit anong iwas mo may lulusot na isa, pwedeng friend , relative o bf ot asawa ng friend/relative. EtcOne good example is the movie of ann curtis and sam milby babe I love you, Quote Link to comment
J E R R Y Posted December 30, 2015 Share Posted December 30, 2015 Everyone has a purpose in life. GOD did not put them in their situation right now without having the purpose. Tao pa rin naman sila and they deserve a chance (someday).Believe me or not, if you really LOVE her, it doesn't matter what she was in the past, the most important is the present and your future. Quote Link to comment
pabebe_egg Posted December 30, 2015 Share Posted December 30, 2015 I accept what her past is ok lang i jave said those mean words about her because of what she did to me i admit its my fault i jave fallen for her pero to the that i was avoiding her and she would force me to see her but not paying to go inside just outside(tambay sa recep area) even telling me that i might having another affair with another thera i have shown her my love for her even her co thera is telling why aren't you telling him that you don't want him so that he could stop having hopes for you....In short she never told me that i just discover when an issue came out and her co thera told me everything i need to know so that i can really start avoiding her and removing this stupid feelings for her Quote Link to comment
Motoyaki yum Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 Sana may ma-in love din sa akin Quote Link to comment
crocxxx Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 Sana may ma-in love din sa akinThera ka ba :-) Quote Link to comment
Capâ„¢ Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 well, sabi nga nila, you could create assumptions over the matter pero hindi siya generalization. yes, they are people and there are a bunch who would really go for true love and a life outside the ESpa business but there are money-grubbing women in the industry as well that would use you to the fullest and their mode of doing so would to make you fall in love. You learn from bad experiences and treat it as a mental note: that you are to be more careful with these sort of women. Kung magtiwala ka sa kanila and they betray you, ipagpasadiyos mo nalang na di bumalik sa kanya yung ginawa niya sayo. If she reciprocates, do your best to understand her situation lalo na't kung di mo naman siya maalis sa ganung estado. Of course it'd be better na maalis mo siya pero kung laro lang din ang habol mo sa kanya, bitiw na 1 Quote Link to comment
Shobosho Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 May natipuhan ako na thera. Nagikot ako sa mall maghapon para pilian sya ng dress. Haayy.. Kapag mabait at sweet sayo ang thera, nakaka inlove talaga. mas lalo na kung mas sweet pa sya kesa sa sariling mong gf. Kapag walang gf ang guy, iikot at iikot lang ang isip nya sa thera na yun. mahirap hindi maaffect emotionally kapag nandun na ang physical intimacy. Quote Link to comment
terry bolea Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 Mas mabuti ang nagsasabi ng totoo, your past will haunt youKahit anong iwas mo may lulusot na isa, pwedeng friend , relative o bf ot asawa ng friend/relative. EtcOne good example is the movie of ann curtis and sam milby babe I love you, yung thera ang nagsabi hindi galing sa akin. nakikinig lang ako sa kwento niya kasi may nanliligaw sa kanya na guest pero ayaw niya. sa mga sinabi niya, mas gusto niya yung walang may alam sa past niya para fresh start. ganyan ang thinking nila kaya kahit ano pang idahilan at irason para subukan baguhin yon, hindi mangyayari. kung meron man daw na sila makarelasyon na guest ay hindi dahil sa love kundi sa pangangailangan. basta naibibigay nung guest ang pangangailangan nila at naibibigay nila ang kailangan ng guest, ok na ang ganoong set-up sa kanila. sa akin masyado simple at naive ang pagiisip na the past will haunt you. it will haunt you if you let it haunt you. maging realistic tayo hindi tayo nabubuhay sa isang fairy tale perfect world na kailangan maging honest ka sa lahat ng bagay. lahat ng tao may sikreto. hindi yung past ang dapat isipin kundi ang present and magiging future. bakit, honest ba ang mga lalake sa mga GF at asawa nila at sinasabi nila ang mga pinag-gagawa nila? kung honest ang mga lalaki hindi sila pupunta sa mga ganitong site at mga establishment. "everybody lies", accept it. ganoon din ang mga thera kaya hindi ko siya masisisi kung ganyan siya mag-isip. sa loob loob ko, marunong dumiskarte ito sa buhay, at realistic mag-isip para sa akin, hindi dapat pinapaniwalaan basta basta ang mga napapanood sa sine. dahil sine yon, pwede baguhin ng direktor or ng screenwriter yung outcome ng movie. totoong buhay ito kaya realistic dapat mag-isip ang mga tao. balik ako sa sinabi nung thera. siniraan na lang niya yung guest para tumigil na, kasi hindi daw marunong umintindi, hindi daw makuha sa hindi niya pagpansin at pagreply sa text or viber. kung hindi daw nirereplyan at pinapansin dapat makuha na daw ng guest yon na ayaw niya. pero kung sige pa rin daw ang guest, gagawa siya paraan para magalit sa guest para tigilan na siya Quote Link to comment
MidKnight Train Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 well, all i can say is that i respect all you guys who are honest and true to what you feel for your theras. i just hope all of them theras can appreciate this treatment and not take advantage of such kindness and care.... Happy New Year To All Of You! Quote Link to comment
brian.will Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 This is a good one . Its hard esp when feelings are involved but ultimately.. Never fall in love. Just think of why you're there in the first place. Go in, and go out. Quote Link to comment
brian.will Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 This is a good one . Its hard esp when feelings are involved but ultimately.. Never fall in love. Just think of why you're there in the first place. Go in, and go out. Quote Link to comment
brian.will Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 This is a good one . Its hard esp when feelings are involved but ultimately.. Never fall in love. Just think of why you're there in the first place. Go in, and go out. Quote Link to comment
crocxxx Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 yung thera ang nagsabi hindi galing sa akin. nakikinig lang ako sa kwento niya kasi may nanliligaw sa kanya na guest pero ayaw niya. sa mga sinabi niya, mas gusto niya yung walang may alam sa past niya para fresh start. ganyan ang thinking nila kaya kahit ano pang idahilan at irason para subukan baguhin yon, hindi mangyayari. kung meron man daw na sila makarelasyon na guest ay hindi dahil sa love kundi sa pangangailangan. basta naibibigay nung guest ang pangangailangan nila at naibibigay nila ang kailangan ng guest, ok na ang ganoong set-up sa kanila. sa akin masyado simple at naive ang pagiisip na the past will haunt you. it will haunt you if you let it haunt you. maging realistic tayo hindi tayo nabubuhay sa isang fairy tale perfect world na kailangan maging honest ka sa lahat ng bagay. lahat ng tao may sikreto. hindi yung past ang dapat isipin kundi ang present and magiging future. bakit, honest ba ang mga lalake sa mga GF at asawa nila at sinasabi nila ang mga pinag-gagawa nila? kung honest ang mga lalaki hindi sila pupunta sa mga ganitong site at mga establishment. "everybody lies", accept it. ganoon din ang mga thera kaya hindi ko siya masisisi kung ganyan siya mag-isip. sa loob loob ko, marunong dumiskarte ito sa buhay, at realistic mag-isip para sa akin, hindi dapat pinapaniwalaan basta basta ang mga napapanood sa sine. dahil sine yon, pwede baguhin ng direktor or ng screenwriter yung outcome ng movie. totoong buhay ito kaya realistic dapat mag-isip ang mga tao. balik ako sa sinabi nung thera. siniraan na lang niya yung guest para tumigil na, kasi hindi daw marunong umintindi, hindi daw makuha sa hindi niya pagpansin at pagreply sa text or viber. kung hindi daw nirereplyan at pinapansin dapat makuha na daw ng guest yon na ayaw niya. pero kung sige pa rin daw ang guest, gagawa siya paraan para magalit sa guest para tigilan na siyaIm sorry if some were offended by what I said, everyone is entitled to be happy :-)Happy New Year 1 Quote Link to comment
BB-8 Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016  yung thera ang nagsabi hindi galing sa akin. nakikinig lang ako sa kwento niya kasi may nanliligaw sa kanya na guest pero ayaw niya. sa mga sinabi niya, mas gusto niya yung walang may alam sa past niya para fresh start. ganyan ang thinking nila kaya kahit ano pang idahilan at irason para subukan baguhin yon, hindi mangyayari. kung meron man daw na sila makarelasyon na guest ay hindi dahil sa love kundi sa pangangailangan. basta naibibigay nung guest ang pangangailangan nila at naibibigay nila ang kailangan ng guest, ok na ang ganoong set-up sa kanila. sa akin masyado simple at naive ang pagiisip na the past will haunt you. it will haunt you if you let it haunt you. maging realistic tayo hindi tayo nabubuhay sa isang fairy tale perfect world na kailangan maging honest ka sa lahat ng bagay. lahat ng tao may sikreto. hindi yung past ang dapat isipin kundi ang present and magiging future. bakit, honest ba ang mga lalake sa mga GF at asawa nila at sinasabi nila ang mga pinag-gagawa nila? kung honest ang mga lalaki hindi sila pupunta sa mga ganitong site at mga establishment. "everybody lies", accept it. ganoon din ang mga thera kaya hindi ko siya masisisi kung ganyan siya mag-isip. sa loob loob ko, marunong dumiskarte ito sa buhay, at realistic mag-isip para sa akin, hindi dapat pinapaniwalaan basta basta ang mga napapanood sa sine. dahil sine yon, pwede baguhin ng direktor or ng screenwriter yung outcome ng movie. totoong buhay ito kaya realistic dapat mag-isip ang mga tao. balik ako sa sinabi nung thera. siniraan na lang niya yung guest para tumigil na, kasi hindi daw marunong umintindi, hindi daw makuha sa hindi niya pagpansin at pagreply sa text or viber. kung hindi daw nirereplyan at pinapansin dapat makuha na daw ng guest yon na ayaw niya. pero kung sige pa rin daw ang guest, gagawa siya paraan para magalit sa guest para tigilan na siya she has a point there. start a new relationship with a clean slate with no past to haunt the guy. but there are theras that think this is not important, that its just a job for them (even atw) and expects their bf to be faithful to them. this i do not understand. Quote Link to comment
Mar_DC Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 I think nararanasan right now </3 Quote Link to comment
Spades Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 Sa tingin ko sobra naman ang generalization sa mga Thera dito... it borders na as seeing them as object or toys.... paalala their profession does not define their character... so like any other human being they deserve din to love and be loved.... 2 Quote Link to comment
Motoyaki yum Posted January 4, 2016 Share Posted January 4, 2016 Thera ka ba :-)Opo Quote Link to comment
manananggol Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 (edited) I suddenly remember a fellow veteran GM who actually counted all of his encounters with a single thera and wrote religiously here in MTC about each encounter like a journal...I think he reached several hundreds ...some of the other MTC posters even got irritated as it became too uncomfortable for them already constantly finding all the accounts of his encounters with the girl... i think that's a cautionary tale on how far a guy can fall for a thera... Edited January 5, 2016 by manananggol Quote Link to comment
walkingdildo Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 I suddenly remember a fellow veteran GM who actually counted all of his encounters with a single thera and wrote religiously here in MTC about each encounter like a journal...I think he reached several hundreds ...some of the other MTC posters even got irritated as it became too uncomfortable for them already constantly finding all the accounts of his encounters with the girl... i think that's a cautionary tale on how far a guy can fall for a thera...I think I know who you are talking about. Quote Link to comment
Thundercloud Posted January 6, 2016 Share Posted January 6, 2016 This is a good one . Its hard esp when feelings are involved but ultimately.. Never fall in love. Just think of why you're there in the first place. Go in, and go out.I fully agree. Rule of thumb in frequenting spakols and even MPs: Never, never fall in love UNTIL you are doubly sure that you can bear the burden that goes with it. Separate the physical from the emotional... Â I once had a regular thera who eventually who became my "special" friend with benefits, but we set boundaries because she had a boyfriend and I was married. It's a matter of setting your priorities, I guess... Quote Link to comment
lovestocram Posted January 6, 2016 Share Posted January 6, 2016 Not an easy road to take ... Quote Link to comment
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