raistlin Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 It's a possibility.. Falling in love with someone changes the whole concept of things.. A friend of mine they are in a relationship since high school till now and they are still together and much in love... Love is something difficult to explain that people would not just crave for flesh.. It's a whole lot different then what it seems.. With regards to consumating the marriage or the sexual experience, I believe they (who believe in love) would do the deed when they get married. Don't you think that despite the fact of physical attraction, people do find some other things in their partners that they care about or see that they feel passionate about. Couples who have remained with each other to reach either their silver or golden anniversary do love one another without having to crave flesh. A state of mind, or conversation may allow the person to love their respective partners.. Quote Link to comment
cedric_errol Posted July 5, 2004 Share Posted July 5, 2004 this is a guy-question. but girls are welcomed to contribute. being in love, but not having desires of the flesh, for the woman in your heart. it happened. Quote Link to comment
shark bite Posted July 6, 2004 Share Posted July 6, 2004 it happens....but i gotta say it rarely happens. :evil: Quote Link to comment
chris_md Posted July 6, 2004 Share Posted July 6, 2004 to each his own i guess. people express love differently. Quote Link to comment
cockie Posted July 6, 2004 Share Posted July 6, 2004 sex, although misused a lot, is the perfect physical expression of love. if you really are in love and aren't horny, well first ask what "horny" is. Quote Link to comment
mazinger Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 usually a person will have an instinct whether its true love or lust......being in love is one of the best feeling in the world while to be horny is temporary only........but sometimes love and horniness can be mixed up..........as long as both parties feel the same way then there's not problem of having an extra fun within the relationship....... Quote Link to comment
Chi-Chi Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 this is a guy-question. but girls are welcomed to contribute. being in love, but not having desires of the flesh, for the woman in your heart. Well there's no passion though.. I mean if you have feelings for someone the easiest way to show it is to kiss and hug her.. so. how can guys not get get horny with kissing and hugging when they can feel the girl's breasts? Quite impossible.. Quote Link to comment
ALLMight Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 Getting horny is just one of the many byproducts of the physical love you express with someone else. It is just a precursor for sex. Love can still thrive even without being horny. However, it is difficult to find that kind of love these days, but I believe it is still possible. Somewhere in this world, there is a boy loving a girl in its purest and most innocent sense. Quote Link to comment
darkpaladin Posted July 7, 2004 Share Posted July 7, 2004 Getting horny is just one of the many byproducts of the physical love you express with someone else. It is just a precursor for sex. Love can still thrive even without being horny. However, it is difficult to find that kind of love these days, but I believe it is still possible. I agree... because i belive that there is a fine line dividing love and lust... and yeah, it's really difficult to find TRUE love these days... but we know better right? Somewhere in this world, there is a boy loving a girl in its purest and most innocent sense.Naks! Gandang punch line ah! :cool: Quote Link to comment
Guest Insomnia Girl Posted July 13, 2004 Share Posted July 13, 2004 Yikes! If I fell in love with someone and didn't feel horny for him then I think I'd be very sad. I'd consider it the worst thing to happen to me since my first pet dog died. Hehe. Quote Link to comment
T_bone Posted July 13, 2004 Share Posted July 13, 2004 Using the phrase "desires of the flesh", in my opinion seems inappropriate when referring to the woman of your heart. As to the existence of loving a person and not having sex, its possible but not probable. Quote Link to comment
andre_mark Posted July 13, 2004 Share Posted July 13, 2004 THATS I TRULLY CORRECT. IT MEANS THAT YOU TRULLY LOVE THE GIRL; AND I HAVE EXPERIENCED THAT MYSELF Quote Link to comment
kjmm Posted July 13, 2004 Share Posted July 13, 2004 pwede yun....madali lang namn magadjust..basta ba you respect each other... Quote Link to comment
dickee Posted July 30, 2004 Share Posted July 30, 2004 you know...somehow i could relate to this post...from a girl's point of view that is... you see...my bf seems to have less of an inclination to do the "nasty" with me...especially in places where doing the nasty seems to be on 24/7. don't get me wrong...we do make love...at least once a week but that's because i get all pouty if we don't. we started getting hot and heavy even before we became bf-gf...ganun katindi yung attraction namin...we we're like doing it 6-7 times in like 24 hours. we were so hungry for each other. pero alam ko naman that the love grew na lang between us because nga we didn't start off in the traditional way..and he just got out of a stiffling relationship with his now ex. now that he's really in love with me...he seems more reserved with me. he's refuses to take me to a motel kahit na raring to go ako. he could sleep beside me hugging me all night without getting it on with me. okay lang sana yun kaso ang problem eh...gusto ko! it sometimes get me frustrated...parang ang ingat ingat niya sa akin eh ako naman gusto ko na na bastusin na man niya ako in bed minsan...get's nyo? hehehehhehehe...wala lang exciting kasi yung medyo gugulatin na lang niya ako ng quickie. oh well...anyways...this dosn't just happen for platonic relationships...this happens even to those who are in love. ewan ko ba...may nangyayari atang transformation sa guys eh. if the guy takes the girl seriously enough to marry her...he holds a higher regard for her...and he would avoid anything that would tarnish that image. madonna-whore complex ata...duhhhhhhh.. paano na kung gusto ni madonna? huhuhuhuhuhuh... well, i can very well relate with your bf... it's a complicated matter, actually... talagang may konting character change kapag ganun... pero kung ang habol nun e katawan lang, mas malupit ang aabutin mong palo! --baka sumuko ka nun! hehehehe... Quote Link to comment
freakish Posted July 30, 2004 Share Posted July 30, 2004 i have this experience with my first boyfriend..actually he was my childhood sweetheart we were together for five years. In all those years he never dared to ask me or even tried to make love with me. Which was fine with me back then coz we were really young pa. so i guess it is "doable" naman. depende rin sa tao yun on how they control their emotions. Love has ways... Quote Link to comment
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