Falling In Love But Not Getting Horny, Not Wanting Or Having Sex

[metalhead109]

it really do happen

once i had a girl whom i adore so much

i'm contented just to be with her

talking, playing cards, etc...

we even slept together in a private room

just the two of us

but surprisingly nothing happened

 

maybe because i felt that she's not ready

and i'm willing to wait when the time comes

i respect and love her so much

until now...

Edited July 15, 2010 by metalhead109

[audiman]

It's called "MARRIAGE"; ruby wedding anniversary last year, so trust me guys......

[joeymarquez]

yung may sex nagkakasawaan pano pa kaya pag wala. mag tropa nalang kayo

[ndn]

if you really LOVE the girl, mangingibabaw yung respect mo sa kanya so, having sex with her is like disrespecting her...

 

 

101% agree. Nangyari na sa akin ito and sa ngayon nangyayari ulit. I think im in love with a GRO. Before kasi puro kamanyakan pinag-gagawa ko sa vip room pero with her ewan ko b,never akong mag-attempt na hipuan man lang. Tama ang sabi ni Master TWB,mangingibabaw ang RESPECT sa taong mahal mo talaga ano man ang trabaho niya. Unfortunately for me,unrequited love ito. But its ok at least napaalam ko sa kanya and i believe in time ill learn to forget her.

[deepdiverboy]

I can relate to this question. I had a gf before that we were so in love the sex came regularly, without planning.

But then, as with all relationships, we hit a plateau. After that, we seemed to be unable to connect intellectually, emotionally, and as a result, physically--that despite all our efforts to revive the romance. Dumating sa point na we'd be looking at each other thinking, "What am I doing wasting my time with you? There are better things to do with my time."

 

When that happens, how can you be stimulated enough to even think of making love?

[MarcAlmond]

Platonic Romance daw ang tawag dito...pwede naman siguro sa initial stage....

[immortal]

Platonic Romance daw ang tawag dito...pwede naman siguro sa initial stage....

ganun ba!

d naman cguro sa sex sa ibabaw ng plato kaya platonic...

[blythe429]

yes this is possible. but after sometime, you'll feel something else, given the right timing

[JLC]

may 2 klaseng love yan, love with lust and loving her wholeheartedly..if you combine love with lust, dyan pumapasok ang sex, but if you learn to love that person sincerely without any motives. kahit walang sex, its ok basta the feeling is mutual.

Edited August 6, 2010 by JLC

[mc_darklight]

love can be physically or intellectually... so pwedeng walang sex

[happidick]

Fortunately, haven't experienced it yet... need to fell in lust before falling in love...

[davemac27]

I experience it once... wierd nga eh .. sya pa nag aaya ... sya wet na wet na ... ako di mang lang nag erect ... ewan ko ba sabi ko sa kanya i respect you ... di ko maatim na gawin ko sayo yun....

 

siguro mga 3 months bago kami nag sex... maraming attemps syang ginawa bago nya makuha pagkalalaki ko!

[Seishi]

Possible... in love without sex for a certain period. This may sound Emotional Affair, siguro.

 

But if it's more than a year, still without sex... parang iba na. parang may kulang talaga.

[cHinitababe86]

hindi naman all the time kaylangan mo makaramdam ng lust before mo masabing inlove ka.

there are relationship that survives without having sex, given yun and acceptable.

we have all reasons and considerations before engaging into something deeper.

pwedeng love mo ung tao, hindi niyo ginagawa kasi hindi pa ganun ka deep yung feelings,

and you wanted to develop more before doing it, meron naman, nadedevelop after several

sexual/love making activities.. but for me, meron o wala, it has no difference.

whats important is the sincerity of my partner, kung talagang mahal niya ako.

anyway sex/love making comes along if talagang its meant to happen.

hindi ako nagmamadali mangyari. abnormal rin siguro if totally wala..

parang kulang. pero for me, im willing to wait.

[silver_ff]

well i've encountered some guy na ganyan..i asked them na may gf ka pala bakit nagpupunta pa cla sa mga mp..out of respect and too much love daw..parang mababasag daw kasi kapag hinawakan..sabi ko kapag nangyari na yung love making na yun im sure it'll be very unforgetable because it's a passionate love making and not just sex..sabi ko u will see the diffrence..