Falling In Love But Not Getting Horny, Not Wanting Or Having Sex

[steven_crimes]

it can happen. but sex and love are intertwined

[jakeyjunkie]

"Sex" and "love making" are two different things for me.

 

That being said, for me, it's more of "love" and "love making" should at least be there.

[maxgreg]

You can still be in love yet not physically attracted anymore...I've seen it with my grannies. These are two different things. But when you're young, i feel its difficult to divide that line. di ba attraction muna bago love?

[logitech]

It happens at first but then as you go deeper into your relationship sex will becoming up more and more.

[hot69dancer]

falling inlove but not getting horny....

 

 

 

you will feel horny-- YES... but its up to you if you go with it...

 

is it possible that you're so inlove and yet not feeling horny? YES...

 

I agree, Love is Love... thats it... Sex is just a bonus to it. :thumbsupsmiley:

[boobooboi]

holding it in? that's a bit of a challenge

[hot69dancer]

Para sakin eventually mangyayari ang mangyayari. its natural.

[angbananas]

its not possible. love eventually leads to sex or lovemaking.

[restlesszero]

ahh Love that is pure... that transcend the calling of the flesh... that goes beyond ones selfish needs..

incredible but not impossible....

[shrike]

this is a guy-question.

 

but girls are welcomed to contribute.

 

being in love, but not having desires of the flesh, for the woman in your heart.

 

very possible ... when i'm 105 years old. :thumbsupsmiley:

tao lang :goatee:

[complicated8]

if this is possible, then your partner shouldn't be affected if you are horny towards others but not in love with them

 

if you're in love and not sexually attracted to them, then it's probably just friendship.

 

This is what priests and jesus do. They love with no sexual attraction.

 

I love my friends but since I am not sexually attracted to them. Does that count?

Edited August 13, 2008 by complicated8

[nolem_blckhrt]

if you had another person in mind that will satisfy you in bed, or someone you miss doing it with. That's the most probable reason for me

 

dun na magsisimula un mga bagay na, I'm not sexually attracted to him/her (kasi sa iba ako naattract)

un I still won't do it with her to get on her good side, but i need to do with someone

 

etc

[zzzero_coool]

fell in love with different reasons other than sex.... but if you mean not getting horny sa person eh most likely hindi sya attractive....

[BallBreaker]

we were talking bout this one time and we came to the conclusion that there is a big difference to just "having sex" to "making love". Sex, even when it is as basic as possible but when done out of love, becomes a thousand times better than any acrobatic sexual encounter. When it comes to the point that you've both transcended the physical/erotic stage of a relationship, sex tends to become more meaningful. there was a time when we made love like bunnies in heat every time we're together and at every opportunity that we can, but now, we can survive a day without it anymore (a day or two lang ha. and knowing us, that's a step up na. that's pushing it). it's not that we don't become horny around each other anymore. it's more of like we begin to see sex differently. may not happen as frequent as it used to but it's quality vs quantity. it now becomes a bonus because we now begin to focus on things that will make our relationship grow. in short, things that matter. of course, sex still does matter, but it doesn't constitute and it will not control the entire relationship. more than mere f#&k buddies, you now become partners, lovers, and the best of friends. It's actually easier to get someone into bed and have sex with you, but to have someone hold your hand, make you his entire world, look into your eyes and say how much he loves you is a rare find. Maybe it's also because you no longer need the feeling of being wanted which is what you feel when you have sex out of lust. It's like that part of you has already been fulfilled. Of course, there will still be times when you'd both get hornee and get it on like you've nailed each other on the sack for the first time, and when that happens it is a lot better too since you know what each other wants (sexually speaking) already. It's nice, being both the love of his life and his bitch at the same time.

 

As for not getting horny at all because you've fallen out of love... well, that's a different story.

Edited August 15, 2008 by BallBreaker

[Guest killercath]

is this possible?... hehe! :thumbsupsmiley:

Edited August 18, 2008 by killercath