complicated8 Posted December 16, 2010 Share Posted December 16, 2010 for me its a yes. making each other happy in terms of our human desire is logically considerable.I guess I disagree. Sex is plain when it's just with anyone. Quote Link to comment
UncleFrancy Posted December 16, 2010 Share Posted December 16, 2010 I've met a lot of couples.....usually church people who have non-sexual relationships....there's something wonderful in a Christ Centered romantic relationship....the best prayer partner is your mate.... Quote Link to comment
complicated8 Posted December 16, 2010 Share Posted December 16, 2010 ^^isn't just the same as saying that your partner doesn't turn you "on" anymore? Quote Link to comment
blastradius Posted December 18, 2010 Share Posted December 18, 2010 ^^isn't just the same as saying that your partner doesn't turn you "on" anymore? probably, on the sexual aspect. Quote Link to comment
knoll1234 Posted December 18, 2010 Share Posted December 18, 2010 since love, like life has ups and downs and peaks and valleys....so does sometimes 'an episode' in mine own life ....i can feel the love, all over, but not being horny and no sex just as good as having sex......normally it's just an episode. Quote Link to comment
miguelandal Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 i can relate to this. i've been together with my gf for seven years, on and off, and we don't really have sex often. don't really feel the urge to do it on a regular basis. same with what chris said.. to each his own. Quote Link to comment
UncleFrancy Posted December 24, 2010 Share Posted December 24, 2010 it's kinda cute when couple is saving the virginity for marriage.... Quote Link to comment
BornAtNight Posted December 24, 2010 Share Posted December 24, 2010 I've met a lot of couples.....usually church people who have non-sexual relationships....there's something wonderful in a Christ Centered romantic relationship....the best prayer partner is your mate....  it's kinda cute when couple is saving the virginity for marriage.... I SUPER AGREE FRANCY Quote Link to comment
cHinitababe86 Posted December 25, 2010 Share Posted December 25, 2010 ^^is sex plain when it's with one you love?its NEVER plain. its special when its NOT sex, but LOVE MAKING. it is plain with its just LUST alone, nothing more. its different when there's love, passion with lots of emotions. Quote Link to comment
johnlove Posted December 26, 2010 Share Posted December 26, 2010 imho:Marriage should come with love, sex should separated from marriage.In a home, sex should happen only between husband and wife.Outside your home everyone should have the freedom to have sex with a different partner. Quote Link to comment
friendly0603 Posted December 27, 2010 Share Posted December 27, 2010 (edited) ^^??it's kinda cute when couple is saving the virginity for marriage....just like a puppy is cute or baby sharks or any small animal  But then it grows up and bites you Edited December 27, 2010 by friendly0603 Quote Link to comment
Leyna Posted January 4, 2011 Share Posted January 4, 2011 This is quite perplexing. Although I respect other people's preferences, especially those who are 'saving' themselves for marriage. I, at least, would definitely be glad to know my partner wants to have sex with me. If he doesn't -- I might point a gun at his head or strangle him in his sleep. 1 Quote Link to comment
jgc813 Posted January 4, 2011 Share Posted January 4, 2011 (edited) I would say that when two people truly love each other, sex comes almost naturally and instinctively. It may not be the only form of expression, it may not be the highest form of expression, but definitely, it is an important form of expression. I must say, too, that in a love-relationship, there is a thin line separating love and lust. More often than not, it is pretty hard to distinguish when you feel in love or in lust as the two intertwine so very succinctly. However, I do believe that, true love is found in the times when one partner just doesn't feel horny (for whatever reason), and the other partner being able to respect that. My significant other used to feel bad whenever she doesn't feel well enough to allow me the privilege of sexually loving her. At times, she would even just allow me to do her, even if she doesn't feel it, or would not be enjoying it. I definitely appreciate her on that. BUT, I'd always reply with a "thank you, but no thanks all the same." Why? Because, I could not imagine touching during those moments. And, I would often assure her that it's no big deal for me, and that, I don't loose any interest if there such times when she's not in the mood, or not feeling well, or has something in mind that does not allow her to feel horny. Once, in fact, during a date, her visitor suddenly arrived. All of a sudden, her face fell because she felt bad for me. I might feel disappointed. (Her ex's would, she said.) I assured her that I didn't feel anything close to that. We could still enjoy the date. (And we did!) In fact, I did date her two days after even while she had it. I just wanted to assure her sex is not everything, and that, I can appreciate and enjoy her even in the times she just wouldn't be disposed to it. (She told me that her ex's wouldn't be dating her during her red days. That's something not me.) In any love-relationship, anything and everything done should be consensual, and both partners should be enjoying. To engage in something whereby only one is enjoying, and the other is not, goes against the grain. There is no exchange of anything, there is no relationship, there is no intercourse (even if you're doing it physically). Edited January 4, 2011 by jgc813 Quote Link to comment
UncleFrancy Posted January 5, 2011 Share Posted January 5, 2011 ^^?? just like a puppy is cute or baby sharks or any small animal  But then it grows up and bites you ha ha ....so true and well said..... Quote Link to comment
ndn Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 this is so possible. Saludo ako sa mga taong ganito ang pananaw. Quote Link to comment
olop Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 its a rare breed. sometimes its because of genetics or sickness or what not. just have to remember if one of them doesnt want to do it, its called rape. besides thats why we have bars for Quote Link to comment
markus_cruzade Posted January 15, 2011 Share Posted January 15, 2011 Though it exist. I don't think I'll ever reach that point. Quote Link to comment
Miss Zelda Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 i think if a guy is a religion fanatic, just too scared of sex and seeing a REAL vagina, just saying EEW when you say something dirty ( i'm wet)...i think gay gay GAY Quote Link to comment
raiku Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 Well i have a friend.. yup he is a guy.. he falls in love but still is a virgin.. i think it has something to do with breeding... Quote Link to comment
UncleFrancy Posted February 20, 2011 Share Posted February 20, 2011 I'm thinking about lolo's and lola's falling in love ...I guess it's more for the companionship....and even if they wanted to have sex...it'll be a miracle if the lolo get's a stiffy.... Quote Link to comment
vanillaLatte Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 It happens. I am committed to someone but somehow I've lost the desire. I used to be a horny fairy, a very horny one at that. The problem used to be overactive hormones, which I have feared is running a flat line now. There were times I'd actually force him even if was tired because I was so damn hot. Then... gone. The thought of getting dry was a joke. So when the moment came when we needed lube, I stared into the thing as if it's a reminder of failure. (the former problem was being so wet that there was hardly friction anymore.)Â Maybe I got bored in bed. It's not stress since the more tired I was, the more orgasms I wanted. I am losing it and I could only hope it would go back. Quote Link to comment
LuSciousNess Posted February 21, 2011 Share Posted February 21, 2011 (edited) It happens. I am committed to someone but somehow I've lost the desire. I used to be a horny fairy, a very horny one at that. The problem used to be overactive hormones, which I have feared is running a flat line now. There were times I'd actually force him even if was tired because I was so damn hot. Then... gone. The thought of getting dry was a joke. So when the moment came when we needed lube, I stared into the thing as if it's a reminder of failure. (the former problem was being so wet that there was hardly friction anymore.) Maybe I got bored in bed. It's not stress since the more tired I was, the more orgasms I wanted. I am losing it and I could only hope it would go back. same here dear. im a very hottie gal. very active one. and i must admit i enjoy doing it. the only thing that's different is that i still get wet. but not totally turned on anymore.i haven't reached the point wherein i needed to use some lubes, but i can really feel im not into the actanymore. sometimes, i think about it, what to do to bring back the excitement, the passion,the desire, but oh no. im thinking what if i thought of someone hot for me to be turned on..? :lol: but i guess, im just bored. we need to work it out to bring it back. and hopefully, it would go back to its normal intensity. Edited February 21, 2011 by LuSciousNess Quote Link to comment
UncleFrancy Posted February 23, 2011 Share Posted February 23, 2011 It happens. I am committed to someone but somehow I've lost the desire. I used to be a horny fairy, a very horny one at that. The problem used to be overactive hormones, which I have feared is running a flat line now. There were times I'd actually force him even if was tired because I was so damn hot. Then... gone. The thought of getting dry was a joke. So when the moment came when we needed lube, I stared into the thing as if it's a reminder of failure. (the former problem was being so wet that there was hardly friction anymore.) Maybe I got bored in bed. It's not stress since the more tired I was, the more orgasms I wanted. I am losing it and I could only hope it would go back. it could be because as time goes by we mature and our priorities change... Quote Link to comment
friendly0603 Posted February 23, 2011 Share Posted February 23, 2011 Does it make it ok for your partner to satisfy his/her libido elsewhere if you don't have the libido/desire to keep up? Must be frustrating.... Quote Link to comment
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