Is it weird if i Dont believe in marrriage

[RonEsh]

Not really. Oks lang naman yun kesa ipilit the pagsisihan sa huli.

[VivaForever2005]

It's a norm nowadays

[HimuraButosay]

On 4/24/2024 at 1:27 AM, RonEsh said:

Not really. Oks lang naman yun kesa ipilit the pagsisihan sa huli.

 

Same here.

Yep... I am not a believer in marriage anymore.

Walang sisihan sa huli, ikanga.

[ArchfielD23]

If legal terms ng marriage mas magiging convenient narin sa tao if kailangan nyo yung real estate benefits.

If you're referring to marriage in the emotional sense, I do think it's much healthier to approach long-term relationships optimistically since you're going to be sharing a large portion of your life with someone. Some relationships work, a lot don't. If sa tingin mo di kayo tatagal ng partner mo or along the way di sya magiging kasing saya like your earlier years, valid and realistic naman - but who wants to go through a shitty/toxic long-term relationship anyways lol

[kreikrei]

di naman. ang kasal, economic at legal lang  yan e, optional na lang yung cultural at religios na part

[Marakim]

No.

[cynophile]

No, actually dati akala ko I dont believe talaga in marriage. Turns out, defense mechanism ko lang kasi kahit naman maniwala ako o gustuhin ko, di naman mangyayare e hahahaah

[Marakim]

Different folks, different strokes.

[parengben]

no, marriage isn't for everyone, and that's ok.

[ChillaxLang]

If we eventually have divorce, I think marriage is just pointless. 

[steviejones]

It's up to you!

[Mister3gg]

Marriage isn't for everyone, I'm sure you have your reasons

[icuminpeace]

No

[Ryla of Daje]

no, I don’t believe in marriage either.

[JDwastaken]

Like most people here said, to each their own. For me it's more about why you do/don't believe in marriage and what factors affect your desire/willingness to get involved in the ceremony/practice.

Some people simply don't want to be tied down while some value the security of having a sort of "contract" between them and their partner. Both valid.

Some people feel that it's just a slip of paper/certificate that you don't really need while some value it as one of the ultimate forms of expression of love. Again, both valid.

Some people think it's the be-all end-all and that not doing so would mean that you are unfulfilled as a human being. Not-so-valid in my opinion but as long as they're not applying it to anybody else but themselves, you do you. Or I guess, they do them? I don't know, the English language is weird.

I personally don't see it as a must, but would be open to the idea if my partner really wanted it.