JDwastaken

Compartmentalized my emotions. Tried to convince myself it was the best for both of us.

Story of my life? I tend to catch feelings too easily though I have been working on it. Have I made progress? Yes. Is it great progress? No. Fuck me. 😅

That it's not for me. I have a crippling need to argue/debate everything and for people to overcommunicate. Unrealistic in this day and age I feel.

Clik Clak - Babymonster Yes, I am a 33 year old man listening to K-pop. These girls are awesome and this song is bangin'. 🎧

Kick back, relax, and finish Hades

A new language. Spanish, French, Japanese, or Mandarin ideally.

I live life during the dark hours thanks to my work. I no longer remember what it is like to be in the sun. 😂

I don't find many questions uncomfortable but I do tend to take my time in answering most, as I like to be very careful with my words no matter what the situation.

Food. I have absolutely no discipline. I am also too lazy to exercise so very bad combo. I've come to accept that I will die early and have decided to just enjoy the time that I do have. 😅

I would normally say house & lot all the way but this is a very interesting way to think about it.

This is the ideal progression imo. That last step is what you call the extra mile and isn't necessarily a must. Perfectly normal to have a passion that is simply treated as a hobby and doesn't earn income as long as it doesn't count as too much of an expense at the same time.

Ditto on both, though I have thought on whether both at the same time would be viable before. Those thoughts may be why I'm at the weight I am at. 🤣

I've lived in our family's home my whole life and have enjoyed the benefits of it - especially financially. I am also of the belief that human beings are primarily social creatures that NEED interactions with others - which I fear would be lost for me if I wasn't in my living and work situation as I barely leave the house as is. There IS something to be said about the freedom and learned discipline that living alone would afford you though.

Like most people here said, to each their own. For me it's more about why you do/don't believe in marriage and what factors affect your desire/willingness to get involved in the ceremony/practice. Some people simply don't want to be tied down while some value the security of having a sort of "contract" between them and their partner. Both valid. Some people feel that it's just a slip of paper/certificate that you don't really need while some value it as one of the ultimate forms of expression of love. Again, both valid. Some people think it's the be-all end-all and that not doing so would mean that you are unfulfilled as a human being. Not-so-valid in my opinion but as long as they're not applying it to anybody else but themselves, you do you. Or I guess, they do them? I don't know, the English language is weird. I personally don't see it as a must, but would be open to the idea if my partner really wanted it.

Despite there being things that I wish could change in what makes us Filipino, I would still never be ashamed of being one. So I guess, yes, but also, no? Too much nuance to go either way for me.