dingv Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 I was just a so-so in my career when i was single. Fell in love, got married, had my 1st child and my entire world changed. My objective, to provide much more to my family more than what I was provided to me at my time. Love was an inspiration. That was when I pushed myself wherein satisfactory performance is unacceptable. I became a director at 24 and finally retiring at 38 with a senior executive post and proceeded to business investments as well as leisurely investments. So...love may push career...career can never push love! just my two cents opinion. Quote Link to comment
dingv Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 I was just a so-so in my career when i was single. Fell in love, got married, had my 1st child and my entire world changed. My objective, to provide much more to my family more than what I was provided to me at my time. Love was an inspiration. That was when I pushed myself wherein satisfactory performance is unacceptable. I became a director at 24 and finally retiring at 38 with a senior executive post and proceeded to business investments as well as leisurely investments. So...love may push career...career can never push love! just my two cents opinion. Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted June 30, 2015 Share Posted June 30, 2015 If the relationship is right, if the person is indeed right for you, then it should not be a choice. In fact, dapat nga suportahan nyo isat isa maabot yung career goals nyo. Sabi ko nga, ang isang healthy relationship, hindi yan dapat puro na lang kilig at puro sex. Trabaho nyo na tulungan isat isa maging mas mabuting mga tao at maabot mga pangarap nyo. Dapat pa nga inspirasyon nyo ang isat isa. Na kung kelangan magsakripisyo eh gawin. Noon kasi, bago ko nakilala yung isang ex ko, pangarap ko talaga makapagpostgrad studies abroad. Then nung nagkakakilala pa lang kami binanggit ko na lahat ito. Tapos nung naging kami na, parang ni hindi ko na mabanggit yung progress ng application ko sa kanya, kasi lagi namin pinagaawayan. Ako pa gusto sisihin, bakit hindi na lang daw sa pinas. Ako pa ang selfish daw. Parang hello, bago ko pa sya nakilala dito na ako papunta. Sakin kasi, marami akong pagsubok na pagdadaanan sa pagpunta ko dito, importante yung support system ko. Eh she does not wanna be supportive. Parang imbes palakasin loob ko, pinapahina pa. Parang gusto pa ata pumalpak ako. So ayun, came to a conclusion na she wasnt right for me. Kung di nya kaya ako suportahan sa bagay na ito, ano pang silbi ng pagtatagal namin sa relasyon? Alangan naman I stop being the best that I can be, and later on hate her for it and myself in the process. Ala naman masama mahalin ko din naman sarili ko di ba? Anyway, bottomline is that, a person who does not support your goals in life and wants you to be less than what you can be so that she wont lose your physical presence is not right for you. That person does not even truly love you. Quote Link to comment
Breezy23 Posted June 30, 2015 Share Posted June 30, 2015 i rather choose Career! because if you made your career first you will become successful time after time. then if you have a successful career then you must find a LOVE! thats how simply . career matter most. Quote Link to comment
Breezy23 Posted July 11, 2015 Share Posted July 11, 2015 career before love matters most Quote Link to comment
rayman33 Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 Career.. kasi baka iwan ka ng love mo if wala kang matinong work.. Quote Link to comment
g_funk Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 it's not an "either or" issue unless you're given an ultimatum to choose between the two. You just need to strike a balance. It's a gamble either way. Quote Link to comment
ayjay Posted July 22, 2015 Share Posted July 22, 2015 Love kasi para sa love rin naman ung kikitain ko sa career e haha Quote Link to comment
kenz Posted July 24, 2015 Share Posted July 24, 2015 Career first before love para masarap ang love ng madaming $$$$ Quote Link to comment
One Size Fits All Posted July 25, 2015 Share Posted July 25, 2015 Career first, Quote Link to comment
~sp Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 when you're young and still not stable: career then love When you're older and stable: love before career Quote Link to comment
steadyelmo Posted August 18, 2015 Share Posted August 18, 2015 Career...for now Quote Link to comment
Walang4ever Posted August 18, 2015 Share Posted August 18, 2015 definitely career.... di ka mabubuhay if puro love nlng... Quote Link to comment
rey.etder Posted August 18, 2015 Share Posted August 18, 2015 career first. but depends on the people in the relationship. If my partner is willing to work things out with career and love at the same time, i have no objections. Quote Link to comment
global4 Posted September 8, 2015 Share Posted September 8, 2015 It is now the reverse, today you can easily find love but hard to find work. Quote Link to comment
Mar_Roxas Posted September 10, 2015 Share Posted September 10, 2015 Career. Careerin mo ang love life mo haha! Quote Link to comment
IR○N B3^ST Posted September 10, 2015 Share Posted September 10, 2015 Love pa rin ako kahi t anu mangyari.. lve love love.. Quote Link to comment
GetTestedPH Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 career, kasi walang forever Quote Link to comment
Cool Fool Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 The correct answer is career, but good luck making the right choice. Quote Link to comment
Viola Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 career... so yan 6 years na walang love life... i dont regret it though. Quote Link to comment
vocampo Posted September 16, 2015 Share Posted September 16, 2015 career for me. building muna ng sarili before love.. mas practical. atleast settled na ang lahat Quote Link to comment
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