the grudge Posted March 25, 2008 Share Posted March 25, 2008 To my mind, Sexy is not the term appropriate for men doing household chores. Why must we term it as sexy? I am of the opinion that it is a man's responsibility to do his share of household duties. Nowadays, more and more Filipinas work and share in the household bills and other expenses so it's also high time that men share with household chores-not because it is a sexy thing to do but because it's his responsibility to do so. YES IT IS DEFINITELY A RESPONSIBILITY. HOWEVER, SOME WOMEN, ESPECIALLY THOSE THAT HAVE NOT HAD A TASTE OR EXPERIENCE OF HAVING A MAN IN THE HOUSE WHO CAN CLEAN, COOK, AND OTHERWISE DO WHAT MOST HOUSEWIVES DO, FIND IT SEXY THAT THEY ARE ABLE TO DO IT. SINCE I WAS A CHILD, AND EVEN THOUGH WE HAVE HAD HOUSEHOLD HELP, MY PARENTS HAVE REQUIRED US TO DO HOUSEHOLD CHORES. THERE WAS, IN FACT, A DIVISION OF LABOR BETWEEN US FOUR MALE SIBLINGS. BUT SINCE I AM USUALLY THE FIRST TO ARRIVE HOME AFTER SCHOOL, IT WAS UNFORTUNATE BUT I DID ALMOST ALL HOUSEHOLD WORK THEN. THROUGH THE YEARS OF MARRIED LIFE, AND AFTER HAVING BEGOTTEN CHILDREN, I HAVE BECOME AN EXPERT IN THE ART OR IRONING CLOTHES. MY DAUGHTER'S UNIFORM AT SCHOOL THEN WAS FULL OF PLEATS HERE AND THERE AND I WAS ABLE TO MASTERFULLY EXECUTE ITS IRONING THAT NOW, I EVEN RE-IRON MY OWN CLOTHES WHENEVER YAYA'S WORK FAILS MY STANDARDS. OH I CAN COOK AS WELL. ANOTHER SPECIALTY WOULD BE CLEANING. DO YOU WISH ME TO CLEAN YOU INSIDE AND OUT MADEMOISELLE? Quote Link to comment
charmed shannen Posted March 29, 2008 Share Posted March 29, 2008 ^ I don't need a cleaner Monsieur Grudge but since you said you are good in ironing clothes which I loathe very much and don't have the patience to do, well you can do the ironing for me. Quote Link to comment
wynona_20fqc Posted March 29, 2008 Share Posted March 29, 2008 hehe..yung asawa ko nga lagi naghuhugas ng plato and nagpupunas ng sahig..sya din nagliligpit ng higaan namin..kakatuwa nga siya tignan...lalo siya napapamahal sakin..hehe..ang sipag sipag kasi niya.. Quote Link to comment
north13 Posted March 29, 2008 Share Posted March 29, 2008 YES IT IS DEFINITELY A RESPONSIBILITY. HOWEVER, SOME WOMEN, ESPECIALLY THOSE THAT HAVE NOT HAD A TASTE OR EXPERIENCE OF HAVING A MAN IN THE HOUSE WHO CAN CLEAN, COOK, AND OTHERWISE DO WHAT MOST HOUSEWIVES DO, FIND IT SEXY THAT THEY ARE ABLE TO DO IT. SINCE I WAS A CHILD, AND EVEN THOUGH WE HAVE HAD HOUSEHOLD HELP, MY PARENTS HAVE REQUIRED US TO DO HOUSEHOLD CHORES. THERE WAS, IN FACT, A DIVISION OF LABOR BETWEEN US FOUR MALE SIBLINGS. BUT SINCE I AM USUALLY THE FIRST TO ARRIVE HOME AFTER SCHOOL, IT WAS UNFORTUNATE BUT I DID ALMOST ALL HOUSEHOLD WORK THEN. THROUGH THE YEARS OF MARRIED LIFE, AND AFTER HAVING BEGOTTEN CHILDREN, I HAVE BECOME AN EXPERT IN THE ART OR IRONING CLOTHES. MY DAUGHTER'S UNIFORM AT SCHOOL THEN WAS FULL OF PLEATS HERE AND THERE AND I WAS ABLE TO MASTERFULLY EXECUTE ITS IRONING THAT NOW, I EVEN RE-IRON MY OWN CLOTHES WHENEVER YAYA'S WORK FAILS MY STANDARDS. OH I CAN COOK AS WELL. ANOTHER SPECIALTY WOULD BE CLEANING. DO YOU WISH ME TO CLEAN YOU INSIDE AND OUT MADEMOISELLE? kudos to you bro.me too, i do household chores to assist wifey.i cook too, usually ako ng palagi nagluluto kasi mas tsalap luto ko eh.ironing would be a fun diversion too.medjo row4 lang ako paglilinis ng bahay. Quote Link to comment
chipmaker Posted March 29, 2008 Share Posted March 29, 2008 hay, if she can only see me now... i cleaned the whole house, vacuumed the floors, cleaned the toilet and the bathroom, changed bedsheets, pillow sheets, and duvet cover, cooked dinner... hay... tapos tomorrow iron the clothes naman. Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted March 31, 2008 Share Posted March 31, 2008 (edited) That is nice to know .... BUT .... some women eventually might leave the chores (i mean ALL) will be left to Mr.... for good ....... When a man is willing to step up to the plate (and wash it for us ), we tend to see you in a different light. It's not that you're domesticated or something (which is absolutely manly for me atleast) but because men like these recognize the fact that things have to be done and that they can do it independently without relying on us women. In my experiences IT amazes women that I converse with, if I can share discussion/tips/tricks/places/recipes I can do so because:1. I cook and I keep doing so2. I go to the grocery myself ...3. I read good exchanges in MTC .... just like what we have here Cheers Edited March 31, 2008 by lomex32 Quote Link to comment
creeppo Posted March 31, 2008 Share Posted March 31, 2008 having work overseas for 5 yrs already, i can say i can do lot of household chores especially the challenging ones like: cooking (Chinese is my specialty), ironing of clothes and doing the marketing in a wet market :rolleyes: Quote Link to comment
lankaface Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 I love, love, love, love it when a guy can do stuff around the house! It is absolutely sexy when a guy can do chores... I especially love it when a guy can cook... Not using the microwave ha! Ang sarap panoorin... I know too many guys who don't even know how to BOIL a damn egg so it's very refreshing when I come across a guy who knows how to cook. Parang aphrodisiac pa nga yun eh. Its really nice to know that women appreciate men doing house chores. I love cooking, and cleaning comes with taking charge of my mess. I dont like leaving a mess behind after doing my cooking. Its rewarding when people appreciate your cooking, and that makes us feel more of a man. Quote Link to comment
yummylicious29 Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 I do agree men doing house chores are more sexy. It shows they have knowledge in the kitchen and also share the house chores at least the wife wont feel sya lang palagi gumagawa after all, they both live and eat in the same house. Quote Link to comment
bher2 Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 i do the household chores when im alone, even the toilet... basta to keep me from busy... Quote Link to comment
werr_dx2133 Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 i always do house chores Quote Link to comment
Guest dyosalet Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 Oh yeah! Definitely! I see my guy cooking for me or even preparing food for me ... SEXY! Mapapakagat labi ka kasi alam mong indi common yun e. I see my guy washing dishes .. .damn! Buhos ko kaya yung tubig sa kanya? Lol! Quote Link to comment
batang_borax Posted September 25, 2008 Share Posted September 25, 2008 i do laundry, iron clothes, do the dishes and everything...i also do some cooking.... mga prito prito nga lang...but the effort is there... :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
skitz Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 I lived alone for maybe 6 years total. So I know how to take care of myself. But now that I am living with someone, she loves to take care of me (and most of the household chores). I would love to do my own laundry, but my partner would not let me. I guess, it is her way of expressing her love for me. The only chore she lets me do still is going to the market and cooking for us. I am a way better cook than her. So I do that when I have the time. Quote Link to comment
the grudge Posted September 26, 2008 Share Posted September 26, 2008 For one, I am an expert in ironing. Much better than she can. I also do laundry, cook, clean the house, give my daughter a bath, give the dog a bath, clean the car,go grocery shopping or to the wet market. I also do all odd jobs in the house (e.g. electrical, carpentry, etc) much like what a handyman would. Quote Link to comment
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