clandestinecuddles Posted February 8, 2015 Share Posted February 8, 2015 Inggit mode kasi sa mga girls who are given the importance of being loved on this day. Nobody never made me feel special on this date Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 Its all in the mindset lang naman yan. Kung kaiinisan mo araw na ito dahil wala kang kadate, kung kakaawaan mo sarili mo, magmumukmuk, magmamaktol, walang mangyayari sayo. Kasi ang happiness minsan choice naman yan. Pero kung iisipin mo na, its just a date lang naman in the calendar, ni hindi nga considered na legal holiday ito. Besides, can you not enjoy an ocassion na kasama mo ibang kaibigan at pamilya? O kahit ikaw lang solo. May iba nga dyan ine-enjoy ang pasko kahit sila lang magisa. I guess the point I am trying to make is that, single people should learn to have a good relationship with themselves. Dapat kaya mo maging masaya kahit di ka umaasa sa iba. I mean, go shopping, buy yourself nice things, magspa ka. Mas maganda nga minsan na ikaw lang solo gumawa nito sa sarili mo, kasi everything is on your terms and not on anybody elses. Quote Link to comment
direstraits94 Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 Way back my college days I asked my girlfriend to go out on Vday and her answer was no, to her Vday is corny kaya from there on I never ask her anymore even If she's my wife now, we never celebrate it Quote Link to comment
99PercentCaffeine Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 (edited) There are basically two types of people who hate this Hallmark Holiday: Those who are not part of a couple (which apparently is now a requisite to being happy and feeling content), and those who are in a relationship that provides neither sexual fulfillment nor satisfactory companionship. Either way, there is always the feeling of resentment towards other people or even oneself. The notion that Valentine's Day is intended for the enjoyment of those in a relationship is self-defeating and, ultimately, foolish. Edited February 9, 2015 by 99PercentCaffeine 1 Quote Link to comment
Vanessabvearv Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 Easy as that BITTER Quote Link to comment
Edmund Dantes Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 There are basically two types of people who hate this Hallmark Holiday: Those who are not part of a couple (which apparently is now a requisite to being happy and feeling content), and those who are in a relationship that provides neither sexual fulfillment nor satisfactory companionship. Either way, there is always the feeling of resentment towards other people or even oneself. The notion that Valentine's Day is intended for the enjoyment of those in a relationship is self-defeating and, ultimately, foolish. I agree, in addition, its also showing lack of emotional independence. Many take this for granted. Basta special occasion it always has to be a requisite na you need someone special to celebrate it with. Laging nakadepende sa ibang tao yung happiness. Pag walang special someone, minsan dadaanin sa self-pitty which is the most foolish thing one can do. Para sakin, to survive the valentines blues dahil wala kang special someone, you can do two things. 1. live like its just another date in the calendar. Heck its not even a non-working holiday. 2. You can choose to celebrate it by pampering yourself. Eitherway you can't resort to bitterness and self-pitty. Quote Link to comment
cyberchanch Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 I do not hate it, but it is a regular day for me and my wife. Better to go out at any other time with less people around. Quote Link to comment
raizel2nd Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 (edited) Hassle and inconvenient. You can celebrate something special on any day, any time. No need to follow certain "special" dates for something special. Edited February 9, 2015 by raizel2nd Quote Link to comment
glut_func Posted February 9, 2015 Share Posted February 9, 2015 (edited) I agree, in addition, its also showing lack of emotional independence. Many take this for granted. Basta special occasion it always has to be a requisite na you need someone special to celebrate it with. Laging nakadepende sa ibang tao yung happiness. Pag walang special someone, minsan dadaanin sa self-pitty which is the most foolish thing one can do. Para sakin, to survive the valentines blues dahil wala kang special someone, you can do two things. 1. live like its just another date in the calendar. Heck its not even a non-working holiday. 2. You can choose to celebrate it by pampering yourself. Eitherway you can't resort to bitterness and self-pitty. a cold 6pack and pr0n should do the trick. Instant cure for the incessant need or longing to be with someone special.... and also, stay away from your phone or FB to avoid any drunk dialing/pm'ing your lovelorn bitterness to anyone by mistake. Edited February 9, 2015 by glut_func Quote Link to comment
Kurtsky Keigee Posted February 11, 2015 Share Posted February 11, 2015 its because this so called holiday even though specifically for lovers,seems to make people who are single, somewhat envious. a very special day to some, a nightmare to others. i long for it to become my most treasured day but meh! Quote Link to comment
star_angel_becca Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 wla kacng kadate naiingit s my mga kadate,,hahhahahhahha Quote Link to comment
BRAIN FOR HIRE Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 commercial pressure to be "in a relationship" and/or "happy". But its useful for showing someone that you care by taking extra effort to show it. Also useful for the more youthful mindset. Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Absolutley. On V-Day, restaurants fully reserved, bulaklak mahal 3x price, motel/hotels fully booked baduy kasi! pwede naman kayo mag celebrate anytime and anywhere kahit walang valentine's day Quote Link to comment
Seductive9 Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Because it's very expensive Quote Link to comment
darkspider Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 it reminds me of her Quote Link to comment
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