Sex Or Love? What Makes Relationship Work?

[Borgie]

it has to be a well balanced mix of the two... it actually depends on the temperament of the individuals involved in the relationship... both parties should be mutually satisfied... just my opinion though...

[EasyRiderX]

to have a long lasting relationship...you just need to have both..but if I need to choose one I think its love..becuase you can buy sex to satisfy your need but not love....

 

i aggree with this.. money cant buy love, but sex is...

sex boosts the relationship at first,.

but, ssometimes ruins the relationship.

[buboy501]

i guess it depends on how serious are you about that particular relationship.

 

for me, a serious relationship would entail 100% love...counting sex as merely a bonus. like spaghetti, you consider the sex as the cheese...you can eat spag w/ or w/o cheese, and both would be delightful to the palate if your a pasta lover, but admittedly cheese do add a distinct and more wonderful taste.

 

i mean, if you want just the cheese, then you might as well eat a whole bar of cheese :rolleyes:

 

+1 ako d2!

[michael88]

both love and sex is needed

[heartbreak18]

I read an article before about sex n love. the article said the stages of man were: he gets attracted, then sex her up then love the partner.

 

In a woman, she gets attracted, give her love and last is sex.

 

The way i see things nowadays is that both gender develops attraction first then sex. As to love, that is a big question.............and most marriage failed because of this.

 

Was there really love at all between a husband and a wife? dont they tied a knot because the guy thought he loved the girl and married her for a constant hot sex not knowing it is just sex all along he wanted? And when he realized he is done with her, he starts looking for a hottie??????

 

Same goes with a girlfriend , boyfriend thing. sometimes sex goes a long long way, a year or two or more (hot sizzling sex with your mate) then one day u'll past out and say urself u dont want ur partner no more. And u start to see ur partner in a different way.

 

Love is hard to find. when u do, u r blessed.

 

How to find love? We can find it only through "HIM"! both male and female should ask "HIM" to change us , see us the beauty of love, see us our boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband in a perspective the way "He" wants us to see our partner.

 

Then I can say with our Gods help, the relationship will work.

 

 

amen to that sister...

[paradox1113]

Love perseveres through all the thicks and thins. Sex lasts only an hour or three.

 

I agree Love is harder to find, but if I find it again I will take good care of it and would never exchange it for just Sex.

[_Honey_]

balance of both..

[gulaman]

parehas, 50-50..

[v_rhyan]

both love and sex makes relationship work

[Guest Ms.Pangit]

parang gusto ko ng maniwala na SEX pero isama natin ang TIme (peo time for sex hehe)

[bizquit22]

First..sympre LOVE muna..pro lets be honest SEX would really help a lot in a relationship..

 

i remember something that a fren used to say to me medyo corny pro just want to share it..sb nya in a relationship dpat

daw may HURTS

 

 

 

H=ONESTY U=NDERSTANDING R=ESPECT T=RUST S=INCERITY/SEX

 

 

[kHaY3g4Rci4]

^^ agree!!! :thumbsupsmiley:

[blakedaddy123]

love cguro panu ung mga uber tanda na. mga 60+. palagay ko love ang nagkokonek na sa kanila

[angel_by_day]

love cguro panu ung mga uber tanda na. mga 60+. palagay ko love ang nagkokonek na sa kanila

 

hehe...kaya po naimbento ang viagra at cialis....

[lomex32]

Well said and I agree

 

HURTS

H=ONESTY U=NDERSTANDING R=ESPECT T=RUST S=INCERITY/SEX