Sex Or Love? What Makes Relationship Work?

[wreckage]

Right combination of both

[wyette]

More of love. Then sex will just be pure bliss after.

[j]

isnt sex an expression of love?

[Guest Riveria]

Love comes first then sex will follow.

[*kalel*]

i would like to simply say sex sa simula....pero habang tumatagal love na

[dodiedz]

sex is for short term and love is for long term.

[Monolouge]

50 50

[Jeso]

For a relationship of course love is way more important than sex. Sex can easily be found outside of a relationship. Love can't!

[shampooh]

Kaya ba ng love lang? Walang sex

[cHinitababe86]

for me, relationship works on BOTH.

especially nowadays, the sex part also matters alot,

meaning, people also consider the 'love making' compatibility

when it comes to having relationship and even before entering marriage.

para saken, hindi ko maeenjoy ang isang pagsasama kung puro sa

love-love lang kame ok. and i would be a hypocrite telling

na kahit hindi kame click sa sex, magiging ok lang ako

at walang chances na i would be tempted to look for a good one

incase hindi ako satisfied sa intimate portion ng pagsasama namen

Edited December 18, 2012 by cHinitababe86

[Archus]

Both. Parehong kailangan yun in a relationship.

[Jhelicious]

pareho naman na mahalaga sa relasyon ang love at sex.. kung talagang mahal nyo ang isa't isa natural lng na may mangyari sa inyo.. ika nga ng iba 'dagdag anghang' sa pagsasama ang sex..

[karayuan]

madali lang sabihin na mahal mo sya pero mahirap iparamdam.. kaya sa sex mafifeel mo yun kung love ka talaga nya o sex lang habol nya kaya sex muna

[edwardloreto]

mostly stages yan

sulitin lang parang pag liagawan love.,

then kapag stable na love and sex.

the kapag matanda na kayo love ulit

[bella665]

both love and sex ……unconditional love and sex

[DyosangLigaw]

before I use to believe it's love then sex... then maybe after a while I thought it's sex then love.

[vincent85]

both love and sex... they're the spices to lasting relationships.

[Duckie4120]

It all depends on the dynamics of the relationship. If its a friends with benefits type of relationship. Love is not a good thing. Now say you're married, sex, or the lack thereof, will be a major issue. This is quite common. The 2 most common problems in a relationship are finance and intimacy.

[Duckie4120]

Indeed

 

If you're just fubus / have-a-thing-with-someone situation then sex alone should just be the main issue; I don't think anyone should even think of LOVE in this context. In relationships, serious ones (marriage and commitment ones) then these two should come together.

 

And I think a LOT of people fail to take that into account. I know I did. I have a higher sex drive than my wife and it can take a LOT of understanding and self control especially when it isn't all that difficult to find that comfort elsewhere.

[xchinesebeauty]

sex with love

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Combine both of them. Great sex daily of every other day. Then make sure that you show your loving care by working hard to provide for the family including some in-laws lavishly.

[jakeyjunkie]

A healthy mix of both is still the way to go. In my opinion, love without sex may result to faster than expected falling out due to boredom, sheer lack of physical contact, and some others. Sex without love is just something similar to FUBU if you think you're having a relationship.

[berdugo birador]

Love and Love making...

[xenogear]

love and respect makes the relationship works...

 

sex is just a plus.. =)

[ron2b1l]

now i realized n d mag grow ang relationship pati ang love kpag walang sex... kmi ng x ko.. 5 years n kmi.. pero sumuko ako s relasyon nmin.. kc walang buhay ang sex life namin..nung una kala ko ok lng kc mahal ko nmn sya eh.. pero habang tumatgal d ko pala kaya.. =( =(