Women To Avoid - merged thread

[spongebobby]

Hehehe.. comment ko lang, meron ding male version yan.. so dapat lagay mo instead mr/miss... then edit the title to Types of People to Avoid.

 

Yun nga lang, di ka na magkakapartner nyan pag avoid mo lahat yan.

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oo nga naman. pag naghahanap ka ng relationship tapos meron kang checklist, walang mangyayari sa iyo.

 

the key is identify the bare minimums and adjust.

[Batabatuta®]

Hehehe.. comment ko lang, meron ding male version yan.. so dapat lagay mo instead mr/miss... then edit the title to Types of People to Avoid.

 

Yun nga lang, di ka na magkakapartner nyan pag avoid mo lahat yan.

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Is your statement hinting that you are a miss feminist?

[Batabatuta®]

I opted not to create a single thread for both guys and girls because experience dictates that the discussion will be leaning towards Men to avoid (There is another thread for this). This will create an imbalance in the love and relationships forum which will be aggravated by certain assholes who would pretend to agree with what the girls will post in hopes of befriending them and possibly getting in their pants.

[black cat]

Is your statement hinting that you are a miss feminist?

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Well, honestly? I'm a little of everything.

 

Excuse me, I don't hate men.. love them.. can't live without them. :hypocritesmiley:

[black cat]

.....which will be aggravated by certain assholes who would pretend to agree with what the girls will post in hopes of befriending them and possibly getting in their pants.

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So, alin ka nga ba? Mr. Angry or Mr. Bitch?

 

Keep it cool man.

[Batabatuta®]

oo nga naman. pag naghahanap ka ng relationship tapos meron kang checklist, walang mangyayari sa iyo. 

 

the key is identify the bare minimums and adjust. 

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Though it appears to be a checklist, I wouldn't really want to look at it as one. Instead, I would look at it as a forewarning as to the possible consequences if I ever get to become romantically involved with the above women. Ika nga, love is blind and love can leave you dumbfounded so at least you can be aware di ba?

 

It so stupid to find romance with a checklist but it's even more stupid to refuse awareness.

[SICOR_trams]

instead of avoiding that kind of woman why dont you look the good part of them...

[lyonhart17]

oo nga naman. pag naghahanap ka ng relationship tapos meron kang checklist, walang mangyayari sa iyo. 

 

the key is identify the bare minimums and adjust. 

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AGREE!

[oink_porky]

Most women are chameleons. May stages, ligaw stage = friendly and pakipot, gf stage = more demanding then wife stage = patay, who knows what she will turn into. Hopefully not a high maintenance wife!

[missmanners]

making distinctions between women according to how desirable they are and if they should be avoided is going to hurt no one else but those men who do it. it's limiting and paralyzing.. it keeps men from finding out for themselves what works and what doesn't. remember that when you decide to go into a relationship, you don't go fall in love with a "type".. you fall in love with a person. so instead of avoiding people, why not get to know as many people as you can and hope that one of them will strike your fancy enough to want to pursue something with them?

 

just a thought.

[pau23]

hmmm...interesting....but most of the types are true.....i have experience miss elusive and oh boy....its hard for both of us...especially me......

[Batabatuta®]

instead of avoiding that kind of woman why dont you look the good part of them...

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Before anything else, I would like to tell you that the above post is not my writing but rather an article I quoted for the sole purpose of opening a discussion. I do not have editing privileges as of this time so I could not edit the text. With that cleared, here is my reply...

 

Every guy looks at the good part of women and I am no exception. Geez, I mean that heaven in between her legs is just enough to keep me satisfied. But if you are looking at a long term relationship or even a short one, it would be wise to be open minded of the possibilities as a result of an individual's personality. I personally do not always agree that love should be unconditional, rather I would prefer that love should be a win-win situation. Being able to know her better gives you a much comprehensive evaluation of how to deal with your relationship.

[Batabatuta®]

making distinctions between women according to how desirable they are and if they should be avoided is going to hurt no one else but those men who do it. it's limiting and paralyzing.. it keeps men from finding out for themselves what works and what doesn't. remember that when you decide to go into a relationship, you don't go fall in love with a "type".. you fall in love with a person. so instead of avoiding people, why not get to know as many people as you can and hope that one of them will strike your fancy enough to want to pursue something with them?

 

just a thought.

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True.

 

The above article should only do so much to help a guy evaluate, though limiting and paralyzing, how a potential relationship could fare between the two of them. It should not necessarily tell you to literally avoid women like those. Even if it were so, If a guys falls in love, the guys falls in love.

[turi_guilliano]

True.

 

The above article should only do so much to help a guy evaluate, though limiting and paralyzing, how a potential relationship could fare between the two of them.  It should not necessarily tell you to literally avoid women like those.  Even if it were so, If a guys falls in love, the guys falls in love.

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well said, and again its not like we all havent fallen in love and gotten our hearts broken... fact is, at the dawn of every one's first chance at true love, we all approach it gung-ho style... bahala na kumbaga... but as relationships come ang go, we realize that there is reason to be careful... reason to be cautious and if not, reason to be mindful of the fact that something undesireble might repeat itself... for some people, the scars that a past love leaves are enough motivation to shy away and be repulsive, for some they are reminders that the greater the risk involved, the greater the reward...

 

others were born strong, whie others learn to be strong... some including myself would prefer physical pain over heartbreaks, while girls seem to handle the opposite a lot better... i knew this guy who could benchpress 200, we call him johnny bravo... well his gf left him... he called up, asked if we'd like to get together at his place... after 4 bottles of beer, and someone asking "anong meron?", this guy starts crying like a baby while he told us what happened... sabi da ng girl, friends nalang daw cla... you what he said? ayaw da nya ng friends, marami na daw sya nun... and this is while he was sobbing in tears... try picturing that...

 

but then again i think its all about timing, being at the right place at the right time with the right person... and when that happens... its magic...

[Guest kikay168]

how about posting GUYS TO AVOID? i would be really interested with that.