big_D Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 (edited) Being lonely or happy is a decision one has to make...Example would be... If we are battered, and still allow our partner to continuously do it to you, it will be your choice to be desperate & eventually lonely... but if we decided to be happy, we can be capable of giving up this kind of relationship....Therefore, it all depends on us to decide..it's our choice to exercise our right...our freedom...because this is one of the greatest gifts God has given us ...the freewill...the freedom of choice...what matters though is how we make use of this choice....be it good or othewise, we should be reponsible for the outcome of our choice.....do i make sense??? " Unless we become responsible for all our good lucks & ill fortunes, we can never make it.." Anonymous Edited March 20, 2003 by big_D Quote Link to comment
big_D Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 s@%t Happens, but don't let the s@%t stays..... Quote Link to comment
donvitz Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 Being lonely or happy is a decision one has to make...Example would be... If we are battered, and still allow our partner to continuously do it to you, it will be your choice to be desperate & eventually lonely... but if we decided to be happy, we can be capable of giving up this kind of relationship....Therefore, it all depends on us to decide..it's our choice to exercise our right...our freedom...because this is one of the greatest gifts God has given us ...the freewill...the freedom of choice...what matters though is how we make use of this choice....be it good or othewise, we should be reponsible for the outcome of our choice.....do i make sense??? " Unless we become responsible for all our good lucks & ill fortunes, we can never make it.." Anonymous parang ganun lang kadali yun ha. maraming factors din to consider eh. hindi ganun kadali. Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted March 20, 2003 Author Share Posted March 20, 2003 Being lonely or happy is a decision one has to make...Example would be... If we are battered, and still allow our partner to continuously do it to you, it will be your choice to be desperate & eventually lonely... but if we decided to be happy, we can be capable of giving up this kind of relationship....Therefore, it all depends on us to decide..it's our choice to exercise our right...our freedom...because this is one of the greatest gifts God has given us ...the freewill...the freedom of choice...what matters though is how we make use of this choice....be it good or othewise, we should be reponsible for the outcome of our choice.....do i make sense??? " Unless we become responsible for all our good lucks & ill fortunes, we can never make it.." Anonymous Thanks for your opinion, don't worry it will not happen anymore, have some realizations na. :* Quote Link to comment
big_D Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 Being lonely or happy is a decision one has to make...Example would be... If we are battered, and still allow our partner to continuously do it to you, it will be your choice to be desperate & eventually lonely... but if we decided to be happy, we can be capable of giving up this kind of relationship....Therefore, it all depends on us to decide..it's our choice to exercise our right...our freedom...because this is one of the greatest gifts God has given us ...the freewill...the freedom of choice...what matters though is how we make use of this choice....be it good or othewise, we should be reponsible for the outcome of our choice.....do i make sense??? " Unless we become responsible for all our good lucks & ill fortunes, we can never make it.." Anonymousparang ganun lang kadali yun ha. maraming factors din to consider eh. hindi ganun kadali. Kaya nga sabi ko ay desisyon iyon....di mag isip ka bago ka magdecide...kung di ka makadecide..problema mo na iyon....peace bro.. Quote Link to comment
donvitz Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 Being lonely or happy is a decision one has to make...Example would be... If we are battered, and still allow our partner to continuously do it to you, it will be your choice to be desperate & eventually lonely... but if we decided to be happy, we can be capable of giving up this kind of relationship....Therefore, it all depends on us to decide..it's our choice to exercise our right...our freedom...because this is one of the greatest gifts God has given us ...the freewill...the freedom of choice...what matters though is how we make use of this choice....be it good or othewise, we should be reponsible for the outcome of our choice.....do i make sense??? " Unless we become responsible for all our good lucks & ill fortunes, we can never make it.." Anonymous sa tingin mo ba, ano ang malakas? sex urge, heart, or mind? Quote Link to comment
Paquito Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 depends on ur priorities... pero being alone doesn't necessarily mean being lonely and being "free" doesn't always translate to being happy... just don't force urself into a relationship for the wrong reasons... Quote Link to comment
bambina Posted March 20, 2003 Share Posted March 20, 2003 hmmm.. ok.... this is just a point of few. Ideally, mas masarap ang feeling pag you are making out with someone you love. But I agree with Mike, sex and love are two different things. Going to bed with someone doesn't mean that you are inlove or you love that person. There are some "moments" that you just want it, most of the time if you do it, the passion is not the same though Pero, if you love your current partner and respects him (am talking about women) she can't afford to sleep around. Not unlike men, lalaki yan e, kahit anong gawin mo, they still have that urge to sleep around, play and flirt and get laid by different women. They can take a woman to bed without emotional attachments and be friends after. hope di naman bastard or a**hole ang guy. but women have the urge too!doesn't mean you love or respect your partner lessi guess its a culture thing here in the philits more acceptable if a guy behaves this waybut not so for a womansayang lang.. kasi women can get as much from this type of acceptance as menjust imagine, having your cake and eat it too!you have someone that you love and you can really be withand at the same time have sex with someone just for varietygaleng ano... Quote Link to comment
$weet Baby Posted March 21, 2003 Author Share Posted March 21, 2003 Being lonely or happy is a decision one has to make...Example would be... If we are battered, and still allow our partner to continuously do it to you, it will be your choice to be desperate & eventually lonely... but if we decided to be happy, we can be capable of giving up this kind of relationship....Therefore, it all depends on us to decide..it's our choice to exercise our right...our freedom...because this is one of the greatest gifts God has given us ...the freewill...the freedom of choice...what matters though is how we make use of this choice....be it good or othewise, we should be reponsible for the outcome of our choice.....do i make sense??? " Unless we become responsible for all our good lucks & ill fortunes, we can never make it.." Anonymoussa tingin mo ba, ano ang malakas? sex urge, heart, or mind? in my own opinion kaya nga GOD put our brain over our heart kasi it's still the mind which greatly influences our decision, even your a emotional person you still think over your decisions di ba? sabi nga nila it's all in the mind, its still controllable. Quote Link to comment
nixs Posted March 21, 2003 Share Posted March 21, 2003 Being single for me is a blessing. kc u can go out left and right with ur barkada, bes or dating partner. Tpos nde ka mag-alala na maya't-maya may tumatawag sa cell mo un pla gf (na galit na galit!) mo kc ksama mo nnmn barkada mo. Then u can enjoy ur own salary kc u dnt have 2 buy roses, choc and etc. for ur gf. And then u can joy everything adventurous thing that u can imagine (for me that's gmik every nyt on a weekend and go out of town) without begging her to go with you. the bad side is when loneliness bites back. p.i. bad 3p tpos makikita mo barkada mo ksama mga partner nila. or there are times na may mga bagay na nde kaiang ibigay sayo ng barkada saio (nde ung bastos ha) bsta ung feeling na un. if id summarize my lyf as of now. id say im a loner most of the tym. Quote Link to comment
selosa Posted March 22, 2003 Share Posted March 22, 2003 LONELY... sa umpisa kz la na cocomfort sau.. la na hugs and kisses.. la na kasama sa mga lakad tska la ka pakner pag nuod cine tropa.. pero ok lng.. its his lost, not mine.. wahehehe Quote Link to comment
bosero Posted March 22, 2003 Share Posted March 22, 2003 I never 'lose' myself in a relationship. Kaya when the end comes, almost as if walang nangyari... except that I have a lot of free-time all of the sudden. Quote Link to comment
kamlon Posted March 22, 2003 Share Posted March 22, 2003 i don't mind if i'm single...i got mah bitch wid me Quote Link to comment
pasimple Posted March 22, 2003 Share Posted March 22, 2003 Ideally, mas masarap ang feeling pag you are making out with someone you love. yes ... this is definitely correct .... lalo na you stare at each others eyes at nakikita mo talaga na in-love kayo sa isa't isa !!! Quote Link to comment
pasimple Posted March 22, 2003 Share Posted March 22, 2003 Being alone doesn't mean sadness. If I got a choice, I want to have a partner but he should be very understanding and secured for us to enjoy both of our freedom. It does not follow also porket nasa relasyon ka, mawawala na ang freedom, if that's the case, the relationship won't last..... a relationship should make you both grow and compliment each other not make a world tigher place to live in. am pretty sure ... when you say freedom it is not in the sexual sense. if it is, i think it is a very sticky situation. if both are aware of other arrangement, makes your relationship a honest and open one. but ... will it lead to fights ? or tampo ? Quote Link to comment
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