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for the guys...

 

lets say you meron kang very close friend (opposite sex). You both know that you're more than just friends but you can't commit for some reason... lagi kayo magkasama... then suddenly the girl just stopped calling you... stopped hanging out with you... will it bother you?? will you wonder why she's not calling you anymore? *just curious.. *

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dejara, alam mo (in my case ha), when i've had a connection with a girl, (connection not literally), sobrang nakakaapekto samin yun... especially if we've already spent spent some time with the lady, it really confuses us...

 

talga.. thanks for replying... curious lang ako... trying to understand man... :thumbsupsmiley:

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  • 3 weeks later...

Hmmm... All the firsts were a prominent thing.

 

But the most prominent back then was how hard that b*tch was on me when she left me. Like even calling me crying over this guy she liked less than a week after the break up - REAL HARSH! :lol: Definitely over it now :D

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for the guys...

 

lets say you meron kang very close friend (opposite sex). You both know that you're more than just friends but you can't commit for some reason... lagi kayo magkasama... then suddenly the girl just stopped calling you... stopped hanging out with you... will it bother you?? will you wonder why she's not calling you anymore? *just curious.. *

 

Yes. it will definitely bother us, confuse us, make us miss her more. see, guys are more sentimental than girls. whats worse is that since we were kids, we were taught that men should be strong. we were trained to be macho. we almost have no emotional mechanism to cope with sudden unexplained loss. and the fact that we can't talk about it because it's a sign of weakness makes it harder. plus the fact that men naturally want things cut and dried makes such sudden loss harder. and remember, the fact that we were just friends, nothing physical happened means we really cared for the girl. the relationship is deeper for the fact na walang physical na nangyari. yung ganyan situation, nirespeto ng lalaki yung babae mas mahirap ihandle para sa lalaki. ang tumatakbo sa isip namin nyan, ano ginawa kong mali? ginalang ko sya, bat ganoon?

 

medyo mabigat yan for a guy. di biro dumaan sa ganyan. mabuti pa yung makipagsplit sa gf kesa sa biglang mawala yung chick na you have something going na complicated tapos bigla mawala.

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for the guys...

 

lets say you meron kang very close friend (opposite sex). You both know that you're more than just friends but you can't commit for some reason... lagi kayo magkasama... then suddenly the girl just stopped calling you... stopped hanging out with you... will it bother you?? will you wonder why she's not calling you anymore? *just curious.. *

 

Yes. it will definitely bother us, confuse us, make us miss her more. see, guys are more sentimental than girls. whats worse is that since we were kids, we were taught that men should be strong. we were trained to be macho. we almost have no emotional mechanism to cope with sudden unexplained loss. and the fact that we can't talk about it because it's a sign of weakness makes it harder. plus the fact that men naturally want things cut and dried makes such sudden loss harder. and remember, the fact that we were just friends, nothing physical happened means we really cared for the girl. the relationship is deeper for the fact na walang physical na nangyari. yung ganyan situation, nirespeto ng lalaki yung babae mas mahirap ihandle para sa lalaki. ang tumatakbo sa isip namin nyan, ano ginawa kong mali? ginalang ko sya, bat ganoon?

 

medyo mabigat yan for a guy. di biro dumaan sa ganyan. mabuti pa yung makipagsplit sa gf kesa sa biglang mawala yung chick na you have something going na complicated tapos bigla mawala.

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for the guys...

 

lets say you meron kang very close friend (opposite sex). You both know that you're more than just friends but you can't commit for some reason... lagi kayo magkasama... then suddenly the girl just stopped calling you... stopped hanging out with you... will it bother you?? will you wonder why she's not calling you anymore? *just curious.. *

 

Yes. it will definitely bother us, confuse us, make us miss her more. see, guys are more sentimental than girls. whats worse is that since we were kids, we were taught that men should be strong. we were trained to be macho. we almost have no emotional mechanism to cope with sudden unexplained loss. and the fact that we can't talk about it because it's a sign of weakness makes it harder. plus the fact that men naturally want things cut and dried makes such sudden loss harder. and remember, the fact that we were just friends, nothing physical happened means we really cared for the girl. the relationship is deeper for the fact na walang physical na nangyari. yung ganyan situation, nirespeto ng lalaki yung babae mas mahirap ihandle para sa lalaki. ang tumatakbo sa isip namin nyan, ano ginawa kong mali? ginalang ko sya, bat ganoon?

 

medyo mabigat yan for a guy. di biro dumaan sa ganyan. mabuti pa yung makipagsplit sa gf kesa sa biglang mawala yung chick na you have something going na complicated tapos bigla mawala.

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for the guys...

 

lets say you meron kang very close friend (opposite sex). You both know that you're more than just friends but you can't commit for some reason... lagi kayo magkasama... then suddenly the girl just stopped calling you... stopped hanging out with you... will it bother you?? will you wonder why she's not calling you anymore? *just curious.. *

 

Yes. it will definitely bother us, confuse us, make us miss her more. see, guys are more sentimental than girls. whats worse is that since we were kids, we were taught that men should be strong. we were trained to be macho. we almost have no emotional mechanism to cope with sudden unexplained loss. and the fact that we can't talk about it because it's a sign of weakness makes it harder. plus the fact that men naturally want things cut and dried makes such sudden loss harder. and remember, the fact that we were just friends, nothing physical happened means we really cared for the girl. the relationship is deeper for the fact na walang physical na nangyari. yung ganyan situation, nirespeto ng lalaki yung babae mas mahirap ihandle para sa lalaki. ang tumatakbo sa isip namin nyan, ano ginawa kong mali? ginalang ko sya, bat ganoon?

 

medyo mabigat yan for a guy. di biro dumaan sa ganyan. mabuti pa yung makipagsplit sa gf kesa sa biglang mawala yung chick na you have something going na complicated tapos bigla mawala.

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