ghost_in_you Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 the face, her smile, laughters, the hugs, kisses, the walks, the talks...all the good times and things that were shared. kung tutuusin, these things are the reasons why youre hurting after the break up kabaligtaran from the thought that youre hurting because the person left you. Quote Link to comment
bigay_hilig Posted September 17, 2007 Share Posted September 17, 2007 of course all the good memories! but when bad thoughts come in like the negative things that had happened or the petty fights . . . . . . yun na! hate hate hate again! pero on the bright side - be thankful kse may makikilala ka mas maayos or with other people may nakilala na! yeheyyyyyy Quote Link to comment
Guest Ms.Pangit Posted September 22, 2007 Share Posted September 22, 2007 im happy becoz this is the start of my new life (im excited) . .. its just like dream come true Quote Link to comment
strawberryshortcake Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 funny i cant even remember anything except that he is really a pain. so.... no good memories i guess.... Quote Link to comment
destron Posted September 25, 2007 Share Posted September 25, 2007 I remember how she cooks our breakfast and prepares me coffee that way I like it. Namimiss ko 'yun...... Quote Link to comment
Defiant Posted October 1, 2007 Share Posted October 1, 2007 (edited) Hmmm... All the firsts were a prominent thing. But the most prominent back then was how hard that b*tch was on me when she left me. Like even calling me crying over this guy she liked less than a week after the break up - REAL HARSH! Definitely over it now Edited October 1, 2007 by Defiant Quote Link to comment
gadalej Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 for the guys... lets say you meron kang very close friend (opposite sex). You both know that you're more than just friends but you can't commit for some reason... lagi kayo magkasama... then suddenly the girl just stopped calling you... stopped hanging out with you... will it bother you?? will you wonder why she's not calling you anymore? *just curious.. * Yes. it will definitely bother us, confuse us, make us miss her more. see, guys are more sentimental than girls. whats worse is that since we were kids, we were taught that men should be strong. we were trained to be macho. we almost have no emotional mechanism to cope with sudden unexplained loss. and the fact that we can't talk about it because it's a sign of weakness makes it harder. plus the fact that men naturally want things cut and dried makes such sudden loss harder. and remember, the fact that we were just friends, nothing physical happened means we really cared for the girl. the relationship is deeper for the fact na walang physical na nangyari. yung ganyan situation, nirespeto ng lalaki yung babae mas mahirap ihandle para sa lalaki. ang tumatakbo sa isip namin nyan, ano ginawa kong mali? ginalang ko sya, bat ganoon? medyo mabigat yan for a guy. di biro dumaan sa ganyan. mabuti pa yung makipagsplit sa gf kesa sa biglang mawala yung chick na you have something going na complicated tapos bigla mawala. Quote Link to comment
gadalej Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 for the guys... lets say you meron kang very close friend (opposite sex). You both know that you're more than just friends but you can't commit for some reason... lagi kayo magkasama... then suddenly the girl just stopped calling you... stopped hanging out with you... will it bother you?? will you wonder why she's not calling you anymore? *just curious.. * Yes. it will definitely bother us, confuse us, make us miss her more. see, guys are more sentimental than girls. whats worse is that since we were kids, we were taught that men should be strong. we were trained to be macho. we almost have no emotional mechanism to cope with sudden unexplained loss. and the fact that we can't talk about it because it's a sign of weakness makes it harder. plus the fact that men naturally want things cut and dried makes such sudden loss harder. and remember, the fact that we were just friends, nothing physical happened means we really cared for the girl. the relationship is deeper for the fact na walang physical na nangyari. yung ganyan situation, nirespeto ng lalaki yung babae mas mahirap ihandle para sa lalaki. ang tumatakbo sa isip namin nyan, ano ginawa kong mali? ginalang ko sya, bat ganoon? medyo mabigat yan for a guy. di biro dumaan sa ganyan. mabuti pa yung makipagsplit sa gf kesa sa biglang mawala yung chick na you have something going na complicated tapos bigla mawala. Quote Link to comment
gadalej Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 for the guys... lets say you meron kang very close friend (opposite sex). You both know that you're more than just friends but you can't commit for some reason... lagi kayo magkasama... then suddenly the girl just stopped calling you... stopped hanging out with you... will it bother you?? will you wonder why she's not calling you anymore? *just curious.. * Yes. it will definitely bother us, confuse us, make us miss her more. see, guys are more sentimental than girls. whats worse is that since we were kids, we were taught that men should be strong. we were trained to be macho. we almost have no emotional mechanism to cope with sudden unexplained loss. and the fact that we can't talk about it because it's a sign of weakness makes it harder. plus the fact that men naturally want things cut and dried makes such sudden loss harder. and remember, the fact that we were just friends, nothing physical happened means we really cared for the girl. the relationship is deeper for the fact na walang physical na nangyari. yung ganyan situation, nirespeto ng lalaki yung babae mas mahirap ihandle para sa lalaki. ang tumatakbo sa isip namin nyan, ano ginawa kong mali? ginalang ko sya, bat ganoon? medyo mabigat yan for a guy. di biro dumaan sa ganyan. mabuti pa yung makipagsplit sa gf kesa sa biglang mawala yung chick na you have something going na complicated tapos bigla mawala. Quote Link to comment
gadalej Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 for the guys... lets say you meron kang very close friend (opposite sex). You both know that you're more than just friends but you can't commit for some reason... lagi kayo magkasama... then suddenly the girl just stopped calling you... stopped hanging out with you... will it bother you?? will you wonder why she's not calling you anymore? *just curious.. * Yes. it will definitely bother us, confuse us, make us miss her more. see, guys are more sentimental than girls. whats worse is that since we were kids, we were taught that men should be strong. we were trained to be macho. we almost have no emotional mechanism to cope with sudden unexplained loss. and the fact that we can't talk about it because it's a sign of weakness makes it harder. plus the fact that men naturally want things cut and dried makes such sudden loss harder. and remember, the fact that we were just friends, nothing physical happened means we really cared for the girl. the relationship is deeper for the fact na walang physical na nangyari. yung ganyan situation, nirespeto ng lalaki yung babae mas mahirap ihandle para sa lalaki. ang tumatakbo sa isip namin nyan, ano ginawa kong mali? ginalang ko sya, bat ganoon? medyo mabigat yan for a guy. di biro dumaan sa ganyan. mabuti pa yung makipagsplit sa gf kesa sa biglang mawala yung chick na you have something going na complicated tapos bigla mawala. Quote Link to comment
gadalej Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 for the guys... lets say you meron kang very close friend (opposite sex). You both know that you're more than just friends but you can't commit for some reason... lagi kayo magkasama... then suddenly the girl just stopped calling you... stopped hanging out with you... will it bother you?? will you wonder why she's not calling you anymore? *just curious.. * Yes. it will definitely bother us, confuse us, make us miss her more. see, guys are more sentimental than girls. whats worse is that since we were kids, we were taught that men should be strong. we were trained to be macho. we almost have no emotional mechanism to cope with sudden unexplained loss. and the fact that we can't talk about it because it's a sign of weakness makes it harder. plus the fact that men naturally want things cut and dried makes such sudden loss harder. and remember, the fact that we were just friends, nothing physical happened means we really cared for the girl. the relationship is deeper for the fact na walang physical na nangyari. yung ganyan situation, nirespeto ng lalaki yung babae mas mahirap ihandle para sa lalaki. ang tumatakbo sa isip namin nyan, ano ginawa kong mali? ginalang ko sya, bat ganoon? medyo mabigat yan for a guy. di biro dumaan sa ganyan. mabuti pa yung makipagsplit sa gf kesa sa biglang mawala yung chick na you have something going na complicated tapos bigla mawala. Quote Link to comment
gadalej Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 for the guys... lets say you meron kang very close friend (opposite sex). You both know that you're more than just friends but you can't commit for some reason... lagi kayo magkasama... then suddenly the girl just stopped calling you... stopped hanging out with you... will it bother you?? will you wonder why she's not calling you anymore? *just curious.. * Yes. it will definitely bother us, confuse us, make us miss her more. see, guys are more sentimental than girls. whats worse is that since we were kids, we were taught that men should be strong. we were trained to be macho. we almost have no emotional mechanism to cope with sudden unexplained loss. and the fact that we can't talk about it because it's a sign of weakness makes it harder. plus the fact that men naturally want things cut and dried makes such sudden loss harder. and remember, the fact that we were just friends, nothing physical happened means we really cared for the girl. the relationship is deeper for the fact na walang physical na nangyari. yung ganyan situation, nirespeto ng lalaki yung babae mas mahirap ihandle para sa lalaki. ang tumatakbo sa isip namin nyan, ano ginawa kong mali? ginalang ko sya, bat ganoon? medyo mabigat yan for a guy. di biro dumaan sa ganyan. mabuti pa yung makipagsplit sa gf kesa sa biglang mawala yung chick na you have something going na complicated tapos bigla mawala. Quote Link to comment
detective kyuu Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 when i wanted to be alone having coffee at odd times where people wont see me with a pack of smokes, slowly smoking the memories out of my system and more and more do i hear the cracking and crumbling of my heart while reminiscing the feelings and thinking of all the regrets....this is all being washed down by the hot coffee and being forgotten. Quote Link to comment
SQUIRTERBITCH Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 >>> haayss.... i really hate it kapag napag uusapan ang mga ex... kapag nag rereminisce ako lagi ako naiiyak ... nde nako nasanay.. nde nako natuto tuto hehehe(I’ll share my latest story nalang before I got preggy and magka baby ) (with my live-in partner na lesbian) Karamihan ng ex ko comedian eh i mean who is always making me laughed. I remember all our happy moments together. While she was asleep, I put lipstick all over her face, while she was taking a bath I keep her undies somewer ,I even dared her to sing in front of many people in baywalk, indo strip wd michaelangelo. We went sa province namen andwe had fun in my dad’s farm, nanghuli ng tilapia, maligo sa ilog and had christmas and new year together wd my family, hanging out sa mall and play hide and seek. And also I remembered yung lambingan moments namen na before we sleep paramihan kmi ng kiss sa face hehehe…. Without breathing…hugging me so tight, we both love music, I remember how she strum her guitar and I will be the one will sing our favorite “ here without you” and “tulog na” yun lang libangan namen sa bahay, manood ng tv / cine, sometimes we used to play tong-its and pusoy dos wd my barkada and drinking gran ma ( gran matador) as well… and of course I will never forget the ugly part of it----- she’s a BIG LIAR and a GREAT PRETENDER! :( 8 months na kami nung tinapos ko relationship namen and ang hirap talaga maka move on…halos iyak ako ng iyak araw at gabi. I started to hang out with different guys ( date or even sex) just to forget her, lumipat ng bahay, iwasan ang mga bagay na makapagpapaalala sa knya pero ang hirap talaga….. then one of her kasabayan na nanliligaw saken noon ang lagi kong nakakasama nagbabakasyon lang nun dito sa pinas and one time nag bar kami we got drunk, I got wasted and nde nya alam kung saan ako lumipat kaya napadpad kami sa isang motel. And yun yung reason bkit naman ako na preggy at naging singlemom. Quote Link to comment
treb' Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 the songs we used to sing(corny noh) ung mga motel na tinuluyan namin the moans..grrr Quote Link to comment
mistere57 Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 mostly the moaning and groaping and if i will ever find someone better to have intimate moments in bed with... Quote Link to comment
kHaY3g4Rci4 Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 * some promises of him.. that's obviously...has been broken* <_< Quote Link to comment
Saeki® Posted October 2, 2007 Share Posted October 2, 2007 ung mga nasayang ko..... Quote Link to comment
kHaY3g4Rci4 Posted October 4, 2007 Share Posted October 4, 2007 (edited) ....... ung babae niya!! hahaha Edited October 4, 2007 by kHaY3g4Rci4 Quote Link to comment
FlavoredBeer Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 all i can remember is a bottle of red horse beside me after nya sinabing ayaw nya na ituloi relationshp namen Quote Link to comment
easyhard Posted October 5, 2007 Share Posted October 5, 2007 We just finished sex, our last one. I told her that the relationship cannot continue. I remember her crying, parang batang nawalan nang magulang. Nanghina ako. But I had to be strong. She had to hate me. Ang sama ko nga dahil may balak na pala akong makipag-break, nag-agree pa ako na mag sex kami. (masarap naman kasi eh). But we broke up nevertheless. I would hear from friends on how much depressed she was that time. A lot of them pictured me as the bad guy. Time moved on, but it took a lot longer for her to follow with time. Eventually she immigrated to Canada. We found each other on friendster last year and still exchange updates on how we are doing. Both of us have loving families now. But I know she'd still want to be with me, kahit sandali lang. Our book is not yet closed. maybe in the future it will. A big sorry from me is in order. Quote Link to comment
gonefishing Posted October 6, 2007 Share Posted October 6, 2007 The Bitch from Hell Unleashed Quote Link to comment
LickMeDownThere Posted October 8, 2007 Share Posted October 8, 2007 all the stupid things that we used to do.. :cry: Quote Link to comment
vianne Posted October 10, 2007 Share Posted October 10, 2007 hmmm....ang dami kong naubos na sigarilyo.... Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted October 10, 2007 Share Posted October 10, 2007 pag yung totoong totoong final na final na break up....naaalala ko lang sandali (mga less than a month?) kung gano ako nagmahal tas wala na...i try to erase every single detail of everything that went by...para walang clutter...sabi kase ng mommy ko noon "never cry over spilled milk"kaya yun ang laging natandaan ko. Quote Link to comment
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