What Do You Remember After A Break-up?

[ZariHemi]

We never hated each other after the break-up our memories binds us.

[MidKnight_Tranz]

well, for me it's the love. we broke up about 5 months ago... I actually I broke up with here because I loved her, to igve her space and time to make a choice. Some people who know my situation said that it was good that I broke up with her and some said that I should've held on.

 

Anyways, the hard part is that we still see each other from time to time but I noitced that the intimacy between us died down. During the early periods she still kissed me without me having to make a move but right now she doesn't even hold my hand... I told her that I noticed that and I just couldn't control the tears when I told her that i noticed that she didn't even touch my hold anymore (we had a special ritual on how to express our love through holding hands, at times I preferred it over sex and kisses because it was intimate and it was real)... after that she gave me a kiss that I would never forget. Alas, I feel that its time to let go and move on, its just hard to accept that I may not be seeing her again because in order for me to move on I have to allow my feelings for her subside.

 

Anyways, I will always remember the love that I have for her.

[bogliboi_blue]

well, for me it's the love. we broke up about 5 months ago... I actually I broke up with here because I loved her, to igve her space and time to make a choice. Some people who know my situation said that it was good that I broke up with her and some said that I should've held on.

 

Anyways, the hard part is that we still see each other from time to time but I noitced that the intimacy between us died down. During the early periods she still kissed me without me having to make a move but right now she doesn't even hold my hand... I told her that I noticed that and I just couldn't control the tears when I told her that i noticed that she didn't even touch my hold anymore (we had a special ritual on how to express our love through holding hands, at times I preferred it over sex and kisses because it was intimate and it was real)... after that she gave me a kiss that I would never forget. Alas, I feel that its time to let go and move on, its just hard to accept that I may not be seeing her again because in order for me to move on I have to allow my feelings for her subside.

 

Anyways, I will always remember the love that I have for her.

That's very similar to what happened to me. When we bumped into each other a few months after the breakup she was civil but cold. Maybe "cold" isn't the right word, it's "non-intimate."

 

And yes, I remember the love. I don't hate my ex at all. But sometimes I also look back and think "maybe if we didn't end up together as lovers we would have lasted longer as friends..."

[friendly0603]

i remember the sex/hugs/kisses - everything that would it make more than just a friendly relationship.

 

the intimacy and knowing that she's there - you're source of happiness - now it's gone.

 

I put up a smiling face to my friends but deep inside i'm hurting... i can't seem to be aroused. damn i need to have sex

[grayle]

It really depends... it's on a case to case basis. Generally, if the break up was mutual and you parted ways in good terms, you'll have nothing but fond memories of that person. But if the breakup was bad and there was some really bitter and unresolved issues in the relationship, then the tendency to hate that person with a vengeance. :flowers:

[ghetto_gospel]

i remember our happy moments together....eating in a new resto together, going to new places, holding hands, kisses, sex, our friendship, the time when i met her during a youth camp.......i miss you so much maitz. i wish i can bring back the time and stay there forever....

[transcience]

the good memories and most importantly, the lessons learned.

[noypi^]

honestly, di ko na iniisip

 

lalo lang sasakit eh

[Guest simply_tinA]

HATRED

[tagpi]

Lemme see....

 

Well, i wish she can still call me friend. I am such a bad ass. :goatee:

[burn4me]

love and hate at the same time...

[tonsy]

love and hate din

[amberfortress]

For me its better to remeber the good times lng

 

I read somewhere na in order to retain new memories we have to get rid of old ones so sayang naman kung bad memories lng yung tatandaan mo

[sunking]

The lessons learned. Neither love nor hate is relevant to the present. Maybe just the fact that you did have reasons to love once, and reasons to hate as well.

[Simikiel]

the pain!! actually, kahit natapos yung relationship on a bad note, the thing i will always remember is the love we shared. why dwell on the unpleasantness? for sure there are a lot of good things to remember than bad.