tisoybrown Posted December 21, 2007 Share Posted December 21, 2007 in the first place,u tried to meet the person because of curiosity and interest.might as well kep that pace going.make her keep the ineterest on you by making her feel comfortable and happy.first impressions really last. :headsetsmiley: Quote Link to comment
pinocchia Posted December 21, 2007 Share Posted December 21, 2007 first blind date tanung sa aken, "what is your career plan for the next 10 years?". as in serious! e di ako nag-review! last blind date ko na rin yun... Quote Link to comment
Guest Yavanna Posted December 22, 2007 Share Posted December 22, 2007 first blind date tanung sa aken, "what is your career plan for the next 10 years?". as in serious! e di ako nag-review! last blind date ko na rin yun...  hahaha... this made me laugh... i am reminded of a semi-blind date (semi kasi sya ung nagpa-setup... ako lang pala ung blind)... first question nya sa akin pag-upo palang ng sasakyan, "Are you a catholic?" nung sumagot akong oo, ang laki nung smile nya...teka... engagement na ba ang nasa isip mo, iho? last ko na din date un sa kanya...  a no-no for guys, please. Quote Link to comment
YeN_TaW Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 hmm... This is the easiest part of dating... daming question that you can ask. avoid very personal topics though.. start with work, school etc. Quote Link to comment
ligtasan Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 First dates are recon missions. I always ask general questions and let a conversation start from there. The usual stuff: any common interests, what does she like to do, favorite songs, movies, etc. YeN_TaW is right though. No personal questions, this is only the first date. First dates are a time to get to know a person better and, if they make a good enough impression, a time to ask for a second date . Quote Link to comment
BallBreaker Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 First dates are a time to get to know a person better and, if they make a good enough impression, a time to ask for a second date .does this mean that if a guy asks you out for the second time, it must be something good? always thought na they ask you out the second time kasi they didn't score on the first. Â Â on topic: common interests maybe. and his views on certain topics. no use putting my best foot forward. if I get comfortable with a guy on a first date, that must mean I like him. Quote Link to comment
ligtasan Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 (edited) does this mean that if a guy asks you out for the second time, it must be something good? always thought na they ask you out the second time kasi they didn't score on the first.  Heh heh, that depends if you got a manyak mutt instead of faithful hound  on topic: common interests maybe. and his views on certain topics. no use putting my best foot forward. if I get comfortable with a guy on a first date, that must mean I like him. Isn't that the whole point of a first date? Finding out if you're comfortable enough to say yes to a second date ? To see if he piques your interest enough that you want to find out more about him? At any rate, if the first date falls through, no harm no foul *shrug*. If it doesn't, who knows? The possibilites are endless. Edited January 3, 2008 by ligtasan Quote Link to comment
reachard Posted January 3, 2008 Share Posted January 3, 2008 for me it's more on the "getting to know stage" both of us ask questions about each other at the same time tell stories about ourselves (family, school, work, etc)Â I think to know if there's chemistry between the two of you Quote Link to comment
jojobata Posted January 13, 2008 Share Posted January 13, 2008 whether I have food stuck between my teeth seriously, whether there's something there between us. I'm usually very straight forward in a less than subtle way - does that make sense? Like the previous poster....just feeling her out to see if there's a connection...a spark if you will. Quote Link to comment
machogwapito69 Posted January 13, 2008 Share Posted January 13, 2008 Usually the common "Getting To Know You" Stuff........ 1.)Where did you study during H.S. and College?(Assuming she is working/graduate)2.)Ilan kayong magkakapatid?3.)Family Business? Work/Means of income?4.)Hobbies? Things you Like/Dislike?5.)Common Friends? After asking these questions(In any order)......madali nang pahabain yung conversation eh....... Based on her answers dun ka magkakaidea on what kind of a person she is........ Usually kapag mga 3rd or 4th question palang medyo hindi na interesado sumagot or puro mga 1 comment answers......I don't pursue to lengthen the conversation kasi alam ko medyo hindi siya interested sa akin That is one of the advantages of being a good conversationalist........ Pero sometimes.......Meron din naman mga girls na very friendly lang talaga kaya mahilig makipag kwentuhan Quote Link to comment
jakeyjunkie Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 Everything personal information, tapos kwento-kwento about life's happenings, after which e malalaman niyo na ang mga likes and dislikes niyo. Quote Link to comment
Megan Posted January 14, 2008 Share Posted January 14, 2008 First date...yes I agree blind date muna,then the following days face to face na..hehehe Quote Link to comment
poip0i Posted January 20, 2008 Share Posted January 20, 2008 all about her.. nakikinig lang ako Quote Link to comment
gandararugu Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 well, im a girl and so i usually do most of the tlkin and i dont care what guys think of me cuz i feel so comfortable around them so i talk about random things such as: "did u know they cant put the word gun on the radio?" and then that leads to music and that leads to movies which leads to sports....and if its really awkward, just say "im sry im not really good at this.." she SHOULD completely understand, if not then end the date short by ur cell "ringing".... Quote Link to comment
revi Posted January 21, 2008 Share Posted January 21, 2008 well, im a girl and so i usually do most of the tlkin and i dont care what guys think of me cuz i feel so comfortable around them so i talk about random things such as: "did u know they cant put the word gun on the radio?" and then that leads to music and that leads to movies which leads to sports....and if its really awkward, just say "im sry im not really good at this.." she SHOULD completely understand, if not then end the date short by ur cell "ringing".... .."if not, then end the date short by ur cell 'ringing..'" - hahahaha...  Para hindi OT: I talk about almost anything under the sun.. Whatever interests us.. Music, sports, contemporary events, education, politics, family and even trivial matters.. But I am not the type who would just let the girl talk.. I am also a talker and I would like the gal to listen to what I have to share/talk about.. But I don't argue on a first date.. Kung mukhang hindi tugma ang utak namin, I just let the date pass by.. But there would be no more 2nd date.. Making my cell ring is not really my cup of tea.. hahaha... Quote Link to comment
cadbury007 Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 (edited) i always makes her lough.. make her feel comfortable as if you've known yourselves for so many years..and yes..most important is Sense of Humor...pag wala ka nun...hmmm kelangan mag-enroll muna un guy sa DATE 101 subject hehehe. :thumbsupsmiley: Edited January 22, 2008 by cadbury007 Quote Link to comment
HeinrichCu Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 i talk about things like jokes, funny events that happened to me,maybe she can relate with..my interests and sex Quote Link to comment
fm316 Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 virtually everything about your date and virtually nothing about yourself unless he/she insists on talking about it. p.s. well, actually my answer is on the presumption that you like your date and you want to impress on him or her Quote Link to comment
alteclansing Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 very informative topic we have here. Havent been on a date for ages kinakalawang na ako Quote Link to comment
icymyk Posted January 22, 2008 Share Posted January 22, 2008 buhay buhaywork - studiesanything except sex panget un eh hehehe Quote Link to comment
tequilasunrise Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 Lahat naman ng naka-date ko, kilala ko na one way or the other (kahit through chat or text), so when we first met personally, usually, "kumusta ka na?" or dig something from the previous topics discussed and take it from there. Quote Link to comment
RuinasLasCorazon Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 likes, anything under the sun without the sleazy topics unless i know she's into that.. Quote Link to comment
cleanpinoy Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 find a common topic between you and her. That will start the free-flowing conversation. Quote Link to comment
ca5an0va Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 nothing in particular but i guess more about urself and herself...the getting to knw thing :headsetsmiley: Quote Link to comment
pixel888 Posted January 17, 2009 Share Posted January 17, 2009 talk about anything but yourself. Dont talk about the me ,me , or I yet. Leave that out for the next date. Listen to her more. Be attentive to her expressions,body language and gestures. Quote Link to comment
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