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Be Honest, Have You Hurt Someone?why? How?


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my current boyfriend who stays martir. he is here lying beside me, and i know he is teary eyed again. why? because am chatting with my honey who is miles away.

 

gusto ko syang pakawalan, ayokong maging madamot sa knya but he preffers to stay. alam kong sobrang nasasaktan na sya sa pagka blunt ng pinapakita kong atensyon sa honey ko. ayaw nyang mawalan ng pag-asa na magiging kanya pa rin ako. but ilang beses ko sinabi sa knya na mahal ko sya but i love my honey more.

 

naaawa ako pag nakikita ko syang umiiyak sa tabi. i know he have done so much favor for me. nagpaparaya sya kahit masakit para sa knya. kinausap ko na sya na layuan na nya ako but he can't.

 

natatakot na ako sa sarili ko. ayokong maging sakim at maramot sa knya kasi alam ko hindi sya pedeng maging masaya sa piling ko kasi nakakulong ako sa isang walang kamatayang pag-ibig sa ibang guy who is apparently married.

 

kahit hindi nya mababasa to paulit ulit akong humihingi ng tawad sa kanya. hindi ko ginusto na saktan sya. in fact minahal ko din sya yun nga lang mas mahal ko yung isa. he's too nice and i can't find no reason to hurt him like this. baby am so sorry for giving you burdens. :cry:

 

nahihirapan na rin ako. ayoko dumating time na i need to choose, baka wala na akong gusto mawala sa dalawa.

 

am so honest about sa kanilang dalawa sa isat isa pero still nobody wants to subside. ako rin i wanna drop off the other one but parang yoyo the more na babato mo the more na babalik :cry:

 

i asked my friends and GOD about this pero wala akong makuhang magandang sagot :cry:

 

 

In my point of view... kung mahal mo yung si martyr bf mo... iwan mo siya ng walang pakundangan. kasi alam mo kung bakit... every single day na kasama mo yang martyr na yan. everyday mo siyang sinsaktan... gets? kung mahal mo nga yang martyr na yan, it's time to choose now, time to end it now. Martir yan e... ang martyr- matigas ulo at masyadong dependent. Words don't stop them... only ACTIONS that means that you really don't want them anymore. (example putulin mo lahat ng communication sa guy, tratuhin mo ng parang trapo)

 

It sounds sick pero, yun lang talaga ang makakapagtigil sa kanya and that's how you drop the martyr off. You love him and you love the other more... duh... love knows no boundaries... awa malamang ang nararamdaman mo sa martyr... that's why you called the guy martyr.

 

hay nako... hirap talaga sa pagibig... hindi mo alam kung awa or pakikisama or pagibig talaga ang nararamdaman mo e.

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In my point of view... kung mahal mo yung si martyr bf mo... iwan mo siya ng walang pakundangan. kasi alam mo kung bakit... every single day na kasama mo yang martyr na yan. everyday mo siyang sinsaktan... gets? kung mahal mo nga yang martyr na yan, it's time to choose now, time to end it now. Martir yan e... ang martyr- matigas ulo at masyadong dependent. Words don't stop them... only ACTIONS that means that you really don't want them anymore. (example putulin mo lahat ng communication sa guy, tratuhin mo ng parang trapo)

 

It sounds sick pero, yun lang talaga ang makakapagtigil sa kanya and that's how you drop the martyr off. You love him and you love the other more... duh... love knows no boundaries... awa malamang ang nararamdaman mo sa martyr... that's why you called the guy martyr.

 

hay nako... hirap talaga sa pagibig... hindi mo alam kung awa or pakikisama or pagibig talaga ang nararamdaman mo e.

 

alam mo let's not judge them...come to thinkj of it.... bagay naman talaga sila eh...isang sadista at isang masochista.....o diba?...naku girl, pakasal na kayo....soulmates kayo nyan :wub:

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i have... but i am not proud of that...

 

i became the 2nd GF

- the 1st GF learned about it, i got her hurt and since the guy also love the 1st GF - nasaktan din sya

- i tried to leave the guy, coz he can't choose. i let go - he got hurt.

- i decided that i love the guy so much that i decided to get back with him, fortunately he still loves me so much so we got back together. - again nasaktan ko ulit yung girl

- and then it hit me... i have to do the right thing - i broke off again and never returned... i got hurt so much and i got the guy hurt.

 

i did not asked him to choose. i just wanted to have the chance to love him... ang labo no?

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ive hurt a couple .... one who i led on, making her think i was serious while i was making plans to migrate here to the states, she thought i was just going here for a vacation, when i told her it was for good ... she was livid... in between crying and cursing at me in the resto... she managed to say she thought i was the one (im never the one)... we worked together ... i considered her a friend with benefit while she thought i was serious

 

the other one was this girl i hanged out with over here .. i told her i was gonna have to stop seeing her cos i wanted to spend all my time studying ... following saturday i went out with this girl in my class and the other girl was in the same bar we went to ...i dunno what they talked about but the new girl stopped talking to me after that ..... all's well that ends well i guess.....

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