Be Honest, Have You Hurt Someone?why? How?

[1800donttry]

Intentionally? No.

 

Maybe semi-intentionally?

I guess I kept leading him on... And I guess I knew where it was going. He had hurt a lot of my girl friends and I knew it was just a matter of time before he got around to dating me. When he did, I made him work hard. For the longest time, we were friends... and we flirted a lot. I kinda had the whole "I'm gonna teach him a lesson" mentality set up. He was the guy who got around but he couldn't even bring himself to tell me straight up that he liked me. The only thing he kept complaining to me about was how he felt like he had "lost his touch with the ladies." I knew he meant me but I acted like I didn't know.

 

Nagka-two girlfriends pa sya within than period of time but they ended up breaking up with him cuz he wasn't there emotionally. So I hurt two girls in the process pa... they both really cared about him but I guess from the start na-sense naman nila that he had feelings for me. Our friendship had gotten so strong that by the time he broke up with his second girlfriend, I sincerely cared about him na and didn't want to go on with my original plan. I still wasn't attracted to him in that way though. The hardest part was having to avoid him after he told me about his feelings for me. We talked about why I wasn't attracted to him and I even told him the part about how I wanted to straighten him out. Okay naman sana kami but I just wanted to avoid the awkwardness and him being attached to me so I avoided him...

 

I saw him after a year and he was mad as hell... Bakit daw I never called him again and bakit daw I never saw him again. He was hurt because he cared about me and even if he wasn't going to get more, he wanted to be friends. After that, we moved to a different state so I didn't hear from him for a long time.

 

Fortunately, I got back in touch with him recently... and we're okay now. He eventually got into a relationship... a serious one at that after our little confrontation. And as they say, time heals all wounds. Friends ulit kami Basta it made me realize that you can truly care about someone without being attracted to them.

Edited March 28, 2008 by 1800donttry

[cherrrrypickerrrr]

hmmmm tons of people....when the present management of the company ask my group to handle the integration of the company we had to layoff hundreds of people who have been with the company for ages...maybe they and their family wish my head everyday.....

[chipmaker]

yes. i made the mistake of falling for someone else while she was still my gf. she took it so bad that up to now, she hasnt gotten involved in another serious relationship.

[Kali_Angel]

yeah.. dala pa rin ata ang guilt until now

[slipknot]

meron akong bad habit na papa inlabin ung girl then pag alam kong nahuhulog na, umiiwas nako. hinde ko alam kung bakit ganto ako. sakit na ata toh.

[DaChosen1]

In the past two years, I unintentionally hurt at least six girls; not physically, more emotionally.

 

All I wanted from them was friendship all along and they ended up falling for me.

 

One actually told me, she is saving herself for me as long as it takes. We had a little fling one time, though both of us a little tipsy, still cognizant of what were doing and never got to the point of no return. We talked about it and all along I thought it was just a friendly fun flirting, but over time, turned to an all out love. We talked about again and that’s when she told me about saving herself for me.

 

I am just being me, friendly me, and these girls fall. When I enter a friendship, I go all out as a friend you can count on; either a ride to the mall or escorting them to parties.

 

When I cannot give them the same love, I hurt them emotionally and it bothers me.

Edited April 1, 2008 by DaChosen1

[darrow_85]

men who hurt women physically have small penises. nuff said.

[itikbitik]

Unintentionally, yes.

 

I treated her like my younger sister and she expected more. Something that I can not give her because I'm in love with someone else who doesn't even know I exist.

 

Pathetic.

[stoneangel]

Yes..

 

Yung kaibigan kong tomboy.. Biniro ko na, parang nililigawan ko sya.. trip lang naman para sa akin..

 

Pero bumigay pala..hehehe.. Biglang naging babae..

 

Kaya lang sabi ko, Tropa lang sya para sa akin..

 

Ayun.

[mokong_parin]

yes.......

we had the perfect relationship...

I love her more than my life and she loves me more than hers......

the only thing that hurt her most......

is that im MARRIED. :cry: :cry: :cry:

[Queen Darkeinjel]

i've hurt so many people in my lifetime and here are a few of them:

 

1. my friends when i tell them the truth that they would rather not hear from anyone...

2. my family when i do things that they do not agree with.

3. some people that i've met in this journey of life when i get frustrated and tell them to FCKU OFF!!!

4. myself when i broke up with the person that i was so much inlove with.

5. the person that i loved 15 years ago when i said i do not want to see him again...

[gorgeouslitz]

i did when i was still young and didnt thought about what they felt for me. i was selfish then that i didnt realize that what they had for me then was pure love.

[cOme2shine]

yes just last month... when i broke up with my bf and nasabihan ko sya ng masakit na salita.. but after that i realized

na i was so mean and bad.. went to his house and then hug him and kissed him and tell him how sorry i was

for hurting him.

[MzPsyChoLoGiSt]

Have You Hurt Someone? yes

How? when i answered the call

Why? coz i told the truth

[raver15]

a lot, i wonder if i'm gonna get karma someday or if i'm getting karma now cause i'm single. i don't mean to hurt them, i just lose interest.