iwalkalone Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 Yeah, well, I broke someone's heart not once, but twice. I treated her like a little sister since I am naturally malambing with my female friends. She assumed I loved her so she took a big leap and told me she loved me. I told her that no, I'm sorry but I had my heart set on someone else. I could hear her crying like a little girl on the phone as she hanged up. 1st time. A few months later she found out it was her bestfriend I had my heart set on. 2nd time. I am such a heartless bastard. I don't think you should be blaming yourself like that...none of it was your fault...you were just being really nice to her...even treated her like a sister ... right? ( or maybe you're not telling us the whole story? ) ....she lead herself to believe in something that wasn't even real..."she assumed"...unless you've given her false hopes...or has taken advantage of her in some ways?....if that's the case...then you probably are what you say you are...a heartless bastard. Quote Link to comment
bodybumping Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 I don't think you should be blaming yourself like that...none of it was your fault...you were just being really nice to her...even treated her like a sister ... right? ( or maybe you're not telling us the whole story? ) ....she lead herself to believe in something that wasn't even real..."she assumed"...unless you've given her false hopes...or has taken advantage of her in some ways?....if that's the case...then you probably are what you say you are...a heartless bastard. uy.react.affected. biro lang. Quote Link to comment
Mobius Stripper Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 Yes I did many times but never on purpose, not even to get even. Quote Link to comment
Guest Cleone Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Yes, I did but never on purpose. I have a good friend that I consider as my greatest confidant. After a major break up we hang out often until we realized we seem like dating exclusively for almost a year na. He fell for me. Unfortunately, I'm not ready for any relationship and I look at him as a brother. Eventually, I fell for someone else and broke his heart. Quote Link to comment
enlightenme Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 yes, but not on a purpose... i was hurt too, i got cheated on for the third time, why would it keep me from leaving her. and yes i did hurt them... first time eh! hahaha!!! Quote Link to comment
StoneRhino Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 I don't think you should be blaming yourself like that...none of it was your fault...you were just being really nice to her...even treated her like a sister ... right? ( or maybe you're not telling us the whole story? ) ....she lead herself to believe in something that wasn't even real..."she assumed"...unless you've given her false hopes...or has taken advantage of her in some ways?....if that's the case...then you probably are what you say you are...a heartless bastard. That is correct. And hell no, I never took advantage of her in anyway whatsoever. (At that time I even looked/acted like Napoleon Dynamite so taking advantage of innocent little girls was way, waay, waaay above my station in highschool. ehehehe.) Quote Link to comment
krayziejay Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 never hurt physically the person u love....ul never realize somebodies worth when their gone... Quote Link to comment
moonflower Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 im sure i have... with hurtful words and actions ( haha very general and vague...sowee) Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 f#&k yeah...sadista ako eh...hehehe Quote Link to comment
_Honey_ Posted February 10, 2007 Share Posted February 10, 2007 i do.. i didn't mean it though kaya nga baka bago pa sila lalong masaktan, tinatapos ko na agad.. breaking somebody's makes me cry too.. Quote Link to comment
sabaku_no_gaara Posted February 10, 2007 Share Posted February 10, 2007 wla yatang taong nde nasaktan at nakasakit kahit anong iwas ang gawin mo nangyayari talaga, sabi nga nila kung sino pa yong gusto mo yon pa ang ayaw sayo Quote Link to comment
valdokans Posted February 11, 2007 Share Posted February 11, 2007 ikaw ay isang class S na halimaw na kapag hindi mo na nararamdaman na ikaw ay nasasaktan o kaya nakakasakit na pala...haaayyy... sarap maging class S... haha Quote Link to comment
smuckerz Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 olweiz...just had to, b4 dey suffer more.. to my hubbie, he wants me back but im not accpting him yet bcoz i cnt feel d luv anymor,i wnt 2 revive it doe bt im stil on d process of workin it out..its hard to see him cryin wen iv told him dt iv folen out of luv...i wnt us 2 be 2geder agen but i cnt lie to myself..im inluv wid some1 else and its odd that i chose d other guy dt i luv hu doesnt know hw to luv me back..karma? i dont know,just bein honest.. to my suitors/admirers ofcorz im sad and its rili hard to break ones heart..but i must coz if i just prolong their agony den maybe dey wil hate me.. lastly, myself...im hurtin myself by luvin another person dat is not capable of luvin me back instead hes the reason y im hurtin so bad... Quote Link to comment
iwalkalone Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 (edited) olweiz...just had to, b4 dey suffer more.. to my hubbie, he wants me back but im not accpting him yet bcoz i cnt feel d luv anymor,i wnt 2 revive it doe bt im stil on d process of workin it out..its hard to see him cryin wen iv told him dt iv folen out of luv...i wnt us 2 be 2geder agen but i cnt lie to myself..im inluv wid some1 else and its odd that i chose d other guy dt i luv hu doesnt know hw to luv me back..karma? i dont know,just bein honest.. to my suitors/admirers ofcorz im sad and its rili hard to break ones heart..but i must coz if i just prolong their agony den maybe dey wil hate me..lastly, myself...im hurtin myself by luvin another person dat is not capable of luvin me back instead hes the reason y im hurtin so bad... Hold it right there! are you for real? :boo: it's like you're speaking out my thoughts.... creepy! para di OT:kabaligtaran naman nung unang post ko... no ... i wouldn't even hurt a fly...( sensya na luka luka talaga ako folks )....juz playin Edited February 21, 2007 by iwalkalone Quote Link to comment
lilgurl_nomore Posted February 25, 2007 Share Posted February 25, 2007 course i did... specially my hubby. there would still be times that i would talk about his past relationships and envy them. he said that in order for us to stay together.i should learn to accept the things that happened in his past. because the past cannot be brought back! I LOVE MY HUBBY SO MUCH!!! Quote Link to comment
King Nothing Posted May 26, 2007 Share Posted May 26, 2007 yes, but not on purpose, and on the other hand there are people who have hurt me and i think its on purpose... Quote Link to comment
denimhead Posted May 26, 2007 Share Posted May 26, 2007 not on purpose but .... ive caused hurt so many times ... i feel like im due for a big one ... whatever.. i dont really care Quote Link to comment
wyette Posted May 26, 2007 Share Posted May 26, 2007 i've hurt Ian last night when i told him I am missing my ex. He cried so hard. Quote Link to comment
Trevortni Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 Yes, he ... they ... broke my trust. Quote Link to comment
tabouki Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 (edited) yup, long long time ago in baguio totoy pa ako at ganda (pinkish ang kutis) pero neneng-nene bubot pa siya... she got mad when i just stopped seeing her (natakot ako mapikot hehehe) she went to the place i was staying (tempo) and scattered all my torn love notes and our pics. i thank my lucky stars that summer was over, pabalik nako sa manila at di kami nag all the way kundi malamang napikot nako or tgok na sorry... Edited May 27, 2007 by tabouki Quote Link to comment
Guest simply_tinA Posted May 27, 2007 Share Posted May 27, 2007 Yes sabi nya but sa pagkakaalam ako he hurted me most.. Quote Link to comment
moon_bunny Posted May 28, 2007 Share Posted May 28, 2007 When I want out, I give the silent treatment. Yun ang closure ko. I know girls need a more "tangible" closure, pero I just dont want the drama that comes with it.ditto.... well guys in my case... I just leave them without saying anything. Quote Link to comment
dixiechiq Posted May 28, 2007 Share Posted May 28, 2007 maybe. but if i did, i dont really think it's super intentional. im very frank so people tend to say that is my way of hurting them. with my mean mean words. i get vile when im really upset. ewan labo ako eh. Quote Link to comment
ralph_130 Posted May 29, 2007 Share Posted May 29, 2007 ditto.... well guys in my case... I just leave them without saying anything. This hurts the most... silence could k*ll, too much emotional burden. mind blowing yes hurt somebody somehow, but she already knows the deal... Cant give her what she wants.. well untintentional maybe but I still feel guilty bout it. Quote Link to comment
TheDRAGON Posted June 4, 2007 Share Posted June 4, 2007 cheated on an ex... found someone else and broke up with her without telling her the real reason. she eventually found out that i was already seeing the other girl while we were still together... not proud of it. Quote Link to comment
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