dynamicstan Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 I still don't know what to do... but it's really hard to accept. Quote Link to comment
saucybabe Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 sakit nyan chong. di talaga tama. ang gagawin ko ay pagsasawaan ko muna sya and then just dump her. di ko naman anak yan e and she's the cheating whore.so you haven't cheated even once in your past relationships? why is it that if guys cheat, it's fine. it's forgivable. and then 'pag babae na, the boyfriend would throw the first stone?the only big difference that i see between men cheating and women cheating is the fact that men don't get pregnant. if nabubuntis lang kayo, magbubuntis siguro kayo every year. tao lang din po ang mga babae, may sexual uges at nagkakamali din tulad ninyo. Quote Link to comment
saucybabe Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 i'm not saying that you should take the responsibility na hindi sa'yo. all i'm saying is, you don't have to do this --> pagsasawaan ko muna sya and then just dump her. just to make her realize her fault. because i bet she knows her mistake. firgiving her doesn't mean you have to father the child and marry her. tell her you forgive her and be the friend that she needs at that point. just make sure she knows that you're only there as a friend, not as a lover. Quote Link to comment
Candice Posted October 27, 2006 Share Posted October 27, 2006 heart to heart talk...then mag paalam ka sa kanya ng maayospatawarin u nalang siyawla ka na magagawa tpos na eh my bgo na siya familysana lng panagutan nung lalaki Quote Link to comment
chiechel Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 i'm not saying that you should take the responsibility na hindi sa'yo. all i'm saying is, you don't have to do this --> pagsasawaan ko muna sya and then just dump her. just to make her realize her fault. because i bet she knows her mistake. firgiving her doesn't mean you have to father the child and marry her. tell her you forgive her and be the friend that she needs at that point. just make sure she knows that you're only there as a friend, not as a lover. You know i already experienced this kind of situation...at first it really hurts....reality bites...but I must go on nga....I talked to her....she said that he loves me...but i had to let go of her...besides she is already pregnant , the guy must be responsible enough to take care of her....Deep inside ....a lesson learned in my part, coz di ako nanloloko ng babae.... Quote Link to comment
sir_boss_master Posted October 28, 2006 Share Posted October 28, 2006 good point saucybabe. Quote Link to comment
joggernaut Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 I can't really imagine that my girlfriend would cheat on me and got pregnant, siguro kung mangyayari yun biglang mawawala feelings ko sa knya. Quote Link to comment
gambit_^^ Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 firgiving her doesn't mean you have to father the child and marry her. tell her you forgive her and be the friend that she needs at that point. just make sure she knows that you're only there as a friend, not as a lover. saucybabe put it correctly - if you really love your GF, you'll find a way to forgive her and for sure di mo din matitiis not to be there for her even as a friend Quote Link to comment
scalper Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 saucybabe put it correctly - if you really love your GF, you'll find a way to forgive her and for sure di mo din matitiis not to be there for her even as a friendits true you learn to forgive and forget.. specially those who made a vow Quote Link to comment
LordKai Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 LEAVE HER. BURN HER. HEX HER.. HEHEHE.. BUT THEN AGAIN, DI NAMAN IKAW ANG NAWALAN!!! Quote Link to comment
Chi-Chi Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 (edited) If that happened to me, getting pregnant and all, accdg to my boyfriend he wouldn't forgive me UNLESS if I got raped or I was really drunk and couldn't do anything.. but I think he'd still forgive me even if I had the capability of choosing.. but hey, I'll never do that to him. Edited October 29, 2006 by Chi-Chi Quote Link to comment
big-poppa-pimp Posted October 29, 2006 Share Posted October 29, 2006 we would then really know how much i love her...pero its a metter of accepting the thing...easy to say...hard to do Quote Link to comment
saucybabe Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 You know i already experienced this kind of situation...at first it really hurts....reality bites...but I must go on nga....I talked to her....she said that he loves me...but i had to let go of her...besides she is already pregnant , the guy must be responsible enough to take care of her....Deep inside ....a lesson learned in my part, coz di ako nanloloko ng babae....ganun ka kabait? pa-touch nga! hahaha... i know it's not as simple as that because you're hurt. but you can try to put yourself in her shoes. for sure, her parents are angry. she would need your moral support during that time. Quote Link to comment
poorguy Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 i dont know, it depends on how i love the girl...medyo stupid talaga ako pero i dont think n magkakatuluyan kami if that will happen..syempre dami magooppose sakin pero i will still be her friend, syempre she made a mistake n nga tapos if you leave her baka tuluyan n madepress yung girl....well i still need to know her story why tapos her plan and if i know the guy about the situation =[...anyway basta bahala n basta for sure malulungkot man ako d ko agad iwan =] antayin ko sya bumangon =] Quote Link to comment
chiechel Posted October 30, 2006 Share Posted October 30, 2006 ganun ka kabait? pa-touch nga! hahaha... i know it's not as simple as that because you're hurt. but you can try to put yourself in her shoes. for sure, her parents are angry. she would need your moral support during that time. Well you have a point on that, ...there are two sides of a coin kasi, dpat tinitgnan rin the side of the girl and the guy...pero di rin agad mawala ang nararamdaman....all wounds heal.....in due time it will heal... i have a question for you pla? if you allow me..... Quote Link to comment
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