zyclonenuz Posted October 25, 2008 Share Posted October 25, 2008 Like they said "If you really love her you have to set her free" especially she got pregnant by another guy... so dump her and move on. because if you stayed in that relationship chances are she will do it again. Quote Link to comment
Athelas Posted October 29, 2008 Share Posted October 29, 2008 We'd need to have a long and hard talk about what she'd like to do now. Whether or not she wants to be with the other guy, or remain with me. Should she choose me, then I would raise the child as my own. As for whether or not the father of the child will be a part of the equation? That would really depend on the circumstances surrounding their indiscretion and obviously we'd need to have a little chat as well. Of course, this is the ideal situation. Quote Link to comment
RockmanZero Posted November 6, 2008 Share Posted November 6, 2008 sbihin ko n lng.. " I won't k*ll you, but I don't have to save you... from your parents " Quote Link to comment
mischievousmon Posted November 7, 2008 Share Posted November 7, 2008 answer is SIMPLE! Leave!!! but i'm sure it is SOMEHOW a difficult thing to do when you're the one involved in that fateful relationship.  Anyhow, just MOVE ON... and be thankful it happened with your GF... it could be worse if it happens to your wife... just like the FUBU of Katreena0301 o diba? saan ka pa pupunta? kasal na kayo eh... Quote Link to comment
peterparker Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 i pity the fool who would get to ride on this boat.. Â if it happened to me, yeah i would ask for a paternity test.. Â if it turns out to be not mine, mag-uusap kami nang masinsinan.. i will listen to her side.. Â then i will say goodbye.. Â Â Â :mtc: Quote Link to comment
Victor Davion Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 say "bye bye bye" and grab a new GF! Simple solution to a simple question. I don't know why other guys have to agonize about this question. Quote Link to comment
Kharnall Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 (edited) We'd need to have a long and hard talk about what she'd like to do now. Whether or not she wants to be with the other guy, or remain with me. Should she choose me, then I would raise the child as my own. As for whether or not the father of the child will be a part of the equation? That would really depend on the circumstances surrounding their indiscretion and obviously we'd need to have a little chat as well. Of course, this is the ideal situation.   it is a fitting answer if you planned to be a martyr. I might agree with you on some cases , if she really loves me and she truly regretted her indescretion i will accept her and be a good father of the child , but regarding the father of the child , he better not be a part of the equation else he will be celebrating his birthday on the 2nd of November Edited February 2, 2009 by Kharnall Quote Link to comment
Admirer40 Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 not all can take this. for me ill leave her its the easiest way out because everytime you'll see the child thats a result of her beeing a flirt..that will k*ll every living part in you. Quote Link to comment
baletetree Posted February 3, 2009 Share Posted February 3, 2009 Iwan na. Her fault naman e. Quote Link to comment
don_miguel_arkanghel Posted February 10, 2009 Share Posted February 10, 2009 of course malabo na tuluyan ko pa sya. she cheated. but i wont leave her in her darkest times. most of my ex gf's were my friends even before we started going out so hindi man kami magkarelasyon, at least i still have the responsibility to help her out. parang sa pelikula lang nangyayari pero naranasan ko na eh. ngayon, ninong pa ako ng panganay nya. hahaha!!! Quote Link to comment
jbond Posted February 10, 2009 Share Posted February 10, 2009 iwanan mo na yan at bahala sya sa buhay nya....ano ka martyr? tanga n lang yon... Quote Link to comment
DOLOY Posted February 10, 2009 Share Posted February 10, 2009 leave her and move on... Quote Link to comment
jetpilot_88 Posted February 10, 2009 Share Posted February 10, 2009 as seen from the answers here, everyone just wants to leave ha. well for me, it depends on the level of love i have for that girl. unfortunately, i havent experienced loving someone to that level na id stay if such a situation happens. Quote Link to comment
thisislife00 Posted February 10, 2009 Share Posted February 10, 2009 komplikado ehh. madaming dilemmas sa ganitong situation. Quote Link to comment
mr. john Posted February 10, 2009 Share Posted February 10, 2009 depends on how much i love the girl.pero as of now, sa status ng love ko sa gf ko, i wont dump her as long as ako pinili niya maging father ng child nya.martyr na kung martyr, ill eat my pride. super love ko siya. hindi ko siya kaya mawala.kaya kahit we fight a lot majority because of her, i am always the one na nagpapakumbaba..ganun ako kamartyr, wala ng pride. Quote Link to comment
jawo Posted February 10, 2009 Share Posted February 10, 2009 Dump. I do not want waking up in the morning with some slut beside me. Quote Link to comment
JustInnCase Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 leave her and move on. i don't have time with a slut Quote Link to comment
GardoVersosage Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 That's the end of the line for the relationship. Soliaan na ng kandila. Quote Link to comment
Zephiroth Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 damn it's like being stabbed in the heart twice =/ Quote Link to comment
raymund321 Posted June 25, 2009 Share Posted June 25, 2009 to be cheated by your gf and get impregnated by other men really hurts, binabasa ko lang masakit na, iiyak na lang natin ng isang linggo then move on with your life, nangyari na un so no way na para maibalik ang kahapon Quote Link to comment
Zephiroth Posted July 17, 2009 Share Posted July 17, 2009 kahit papano mo tingnan masakit talaga.. Quote Link to comment
X3ME15 Posted July 17, 2009 Share Posted July 17, 2009 it's a matter of swallowing your ego.. if you love the girl that much then it will not be an issue on accepting the responsibility or stupid enough to even consider to still accept a cheater and an illegitimate child.. we have different prespective on this issue and i myself is unsure on the answer till i face it Quote Link to comment
valencia Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 I'm in this kind of situation now.. I'm about 9weeks pregnant, I did it with another guy and I have a bf. You may call me slut but that's the least of my worries. My bf is excited cause we've been trying to get pregnant, this was really unexpected. I tried to calculate when I conceived and to my surprise it pointed out to the other guy ( based on the date ), I'm really frustrated. I tried avoiding my bf pero he's getting frustrated with me. I did some things to terminate the pregnancy pero naagapan ako. It's hard kase I'm so confused, a lot of guys will think that I got what I deserve. I don't want my bf to take care of me, sobrang guilty ko. I wanted to tell my bf para iwan na lang niya ko kaso it's really hard. His family is expecting our baby and for us to get married. Minsan I talk to my baby and I ask her to let go na lang. It's not my babys fault and I might be wrong and this might be my bfs baby. Ayoko magstay sa house ng bf ko na andun family niya cause the guilt is killing me. I shouldn't have done that stupid mistake. Quote Link to comment
sakmobratko Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 ouch... sakit nmn... I'll break up to her... I deserve a better love. Kung nagawa nya un dati... wat more sa susunod?.... saka pag pinagpatuloy nyo pa for sure lagi mong isusumbat sa kanya un... saktan mo na sya at sarili mo ngaun kaysa magsakitan kau araw-araw.... RELATIONSHIP IS NOT ONLY ABOUT LOVE..... RESPECT AND TRUST... how do u respect her after that? was she respect u? how can u trust her? and where is the love there? Quote Link to comment
avihs06 Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 if i really love the girl, if she said sorry, if she ask for another chance. why not...But very very single mistake ill let her go or i would totally leave her. There are many fish in the sea. damn it! Quote Link to comment
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