b1gbeauty89 Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 if both married i guess you need to keep it secret, pag one is married and one is single, dapat din cguro secret, pero pag pareho single no reason for the secrecy as long as they love each other ..they've got to flaunt it di ba Quote Link to comment
blow_gobi Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 Pag FUBU, ok yung secret. Pag-love dapat hindi. That's why I believe in only 1 love affair at a time. Quote Link to comment
newcityboy Posted March 28, 2009 Share Posted March 28, 2009 korek ka jan... ganyan nangyari sakin now lang... i have been so demanding kahit alam ko na di me ang legal ng gf... hirap tanggapin nung sinabi nia na "tama na"...  di ka talaga mahal non. kasi di pa naman sya kasal eh so kung mahal ka nya there's no reason for him to stay w/ his legal gf. yung iba nga dyan iniiwan asawa kasi may minahal na sya iba. pero dont get me wrong ha di ko sinasabi na tama iwan asawa hehe Quote Link to comment
lankaface Posted May 20, 2009 Share Posted May 20, 2009 I think a lot of people think of this matter only from one point of view. When we say secret love affair, this could mean many things, could be illegal or being secret due to avoiding cruel peolple who make fun of couples in a relashionship. When its illegal then it should be quiet and if its legal, its up to the couple to announce their being a couple to the right type of friends who would help them go through their relationship smoothly. Sometimes people mock at new relationships just for fun and unconciously are in the process of breaking up what could have been a good relationship. Quote Link to comment
mhim101 Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 done this...masarap na mahirap pero lamang yung sarapyung thrill na may maka alamkaya ingat lang Quote Link to comment
jakeyjunkie Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Mas masarap kapag patago. Quote Link to comment
Guest biancaanne Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 It's better to have a secret affair especially if you have a lot of common friends. Tendency is, if there's a break-up or even a simple squabble, lahat nakikialam. Everyone has something to say about each side of the story without understanding both sides. The good side to keeping a secret love affair is that you get to know each other without the pressure of the public eye. You get to savor your partner for everything he/she is, whether disclosed fully or not. Quote Link to comment
Slutposer Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 i would certainly indulge myself in a secret love affair kahit kupal ung gf ko ngyn Quote Link to comment
Miss Zelda Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 yeah, but how can i start Quote Link to comment
blackthunder Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 yap, will try it. if opportunity knocks. Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 in all likelihood, not anymore. i guess you'll eventually come to a point when you just realize that you deserve more......than being kept as a secret.....a secret gf, a secret wife, a secret lover. Quote Link to comment
don_miguel_arkanghel Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 nah i dont like complicated situations. my life is complicated as it is. Quote Link to comment
-wet- Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 now, ayoko na talaga. it's so tiring. but i just don't know till when. i hope i won't give in again. tukso, tukso, please lang lumayo ka muna sa akin... Quote Link to comment
Seishi Posted May 26, 2009 Share Posted May 26, 2009 hmmm... secret love affair... sounds interesting  I'm more attracted to women ... and my husband is more jealous when I'm with my friends. Quote Link to comment
DaddyO Posted May 26, 2009 Share Posted May 26, 2009 I recently ended a secret love affair. We were together for 8 months. The first few months were great! Things deteriorated when she started to bring in so much personal baggage into the relatinship. I went into the relationship because i was looking for some lacking happiness in my life. When it started to become a headache it was no different from my married life, so had to end it. Now I'm looking again. Quote Link to comment
ron2b1l Posted May 26, 2009 Share Posted May 26, 2009 yup...lalo n f tlgang in nid,,,, Quote Link to comment
Niru Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 (edited) hmm... im a bit choosy with women...i dont bite every oppurtunity that came...secret love affair? this means only one thing.. shes a married woman...ill have to pass. unless your a single mom like valerie conception hehehe Edited May 27, 2009 by Niru Quote Link to comment
cbr600rr Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 Love is something you shouldnt keep secret, unless it's an illicit one. In which case, why not? So long as my partner is discreet as well. Quote Link to comment
dexterl2000 Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 parang exciting to...... i think I would.... Quote Link to comment
angel_by_day Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 i've noticed that most of those who answered yes havent actually experienced it.  the excitement is there, of course, at the start....and it can tide you over for a while..... but when it wanes.....realizations hit you and reality makes itself known. Quote Link to comment
eyeball29 Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 depends if the girl knows how to keep secrets Quote Link to comment
yummybaby Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 it's something we want to experience at some point in our lives but sooner or later we'd want a real normal relationship. Quote Link to comment
immacul8bitca Posted May 27, 2009 Share Posted May 27, 2009 No. The lure of a secret love affair does not entice me at all. When I'm in love I'm just too happy and too giddy to keep quiet, not saying I will spill everything to the next stranger who asks about my current status. I will go mental if i have to watch every step to make sure no one knows I'm with someone...that's not for me. Quote Link to comment
sexgod69 Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 yes. if both parties can be happy for the moment, then why not? Quote Link to comment
dexterl2000 Posted May 29, 2009 Share Posted May 29, 2009 yung nga lang.. may consequences din to... Quote Link to comment
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