kariton Posted August 8, 2008 Share Posted August 8, 2008 My definition of a fling is something less serious than a fully committed relationship. It's doesn't necessarily mean you guys are fubus, because a fubu for me is someone you just do the deed with - no strings attached. Whereas for a fling, there are emotions involved (other than lust) but not enough to commit yet. I'm ok with flings as something like a pre-committed relationship thing. But after several months and there's still no commitment or it's just a one-sided thing, I think it's better to move on... Quote Link to comment
tukmulin Posted August 22, 2008 Share Posted August 22, 2008 I might consider it na, kung hindi ako attached. Quote Link to comment
glidesmoothly Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 it really hard to react on this topic. my "bf" had fling(s) before... it lasted for months... nawala lang kasi umalis yung girl... so i really dont know what that meant... anyway, maybe its ok na may fling on the side... pero sana for companionship na lang di ba? masakit kasi for a girl (or am i being emotional?) na malaman na nagkafling ang "bf" nila then parang ang saya saya pa nila during "their" time. girls cant really help but compare... to have flings or not... think of your future... how your wife-to-beor husband-to-be would feel... companionship lang sana ang flings... Quote Link to comment
peterparker Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 the most memorable "fling" i had was with my intern when i was a resident M.D. at a gov`t hospital.. there was instant attraction for both of us, though i was unattached and she was taken.. and she was much younger than me.. :goatee: it was more like an affair, not just ordinary fubus.. it went on for 6 months.. we would do the deed almost daily.. :boo: yup, it happens and minsan hindi mo rin mapipigilan sarili mo.. :evil: it stopped when nabisto kami ng bf niya.. haaay those were the days.. :mtc: Quote Link to comment
Sheepshop Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 Flings do not last long. But no problem having one. If both like to have flings, no problem. Quote Link to comment
TX Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 i greethats the very essence of itit shouldnt last longhehehe tikiman lang ba... Quote Link to comment
Culaspiro Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 as long as malinaw na fling lang and yung magiging ka-fling mo e fling lang din ang gusto.. mag fling-flingan kayo Quote Link to comment
Guest FL Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 If you're both single why not, pero dapat sa umpisa pa lang malinaw na fling lang kayo. Quote Link to comment
don_miguel_arkanghel Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 If you're both single why not, pero dapat sa umpisa pa lang malinaw na fling lang kayo. I will have to agree with miss FL. dapat malinaw sa simula para nde kayo magkakasakitan. at least may boundaries na agad kayo naiset sa umpisa pa lang. pag nagkaproblema, eh di wlang sisihan. :thumbsupsmiley: Quote Link to comment
MS Posted February 12, 2009 Share Posted February 12, 2009 (edited) What if you don't talk about it.... No one dared to open up the subject, whether you are a fling or more than fling... Sometimes it's just hard to break the news... Edited February 13, 2009 by sikret_prend Quote Link to comment
topsykretts Posted February 12, 2009 Share Posted February 12, 2009 if you can live with it, why not? Quote Link to comment
vanillaLatte Posted February 13, 2009 Share Posted February 13, 2009 sabi nga nila, "lamang-tiyan din yan." for those who can get away with it. or those who are extremely bored. Quote Link to comment
GreenMan Posted February 13, 2009 Share Posted February 13, 2009 pag cutie yung babae at yummy din game akotikiman lang ba.. pag cutie yung babae at yummy din game akotikim lang pag cutie yung babae at yummy din game akotikim lang pag cutie yung babae at yummy din game akotikim lang Quote Link to comment
avarez Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 noong single pa ako...lagi ko ginagawa yung ngayon na married na me parang nde ko na kaya kasi kawawa naman husband ko..pero minsan nagpropose yung ex ko na ok lang sa kanya maging fling ko sya..muntik ko ng patulan...kaya lang mas malakas ang love ko sa husband ko :hypocritesmiley: :upside: :heart: Quote Link to comment
mapaglaro69 Posted February 14, 2009 Share Posted February 14, 2009 the question i think is, how far do you think you can take it before you start thinking of the consequences. .. Quote Link to comment
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