Walang4ever Posted August 22, 2015 Share Posted August 22, 2015 Definitely yes,,, just for fun Quote Link to comment
mjane74 Posted August 23, 2015 Share Posted August 23, 2015 I probably would but I better not... Quote Link to comment
toruk makto Posted August 23, 2015 Share Posted August 23, 2015 Fling, thats my middle name. Quote Link to comment
jelly bean Posted August 23, 2015 Share Posted August 23, 2015 Wait till we meet, I'll change your perspective haahahaOnT:Yes why not? LolHmmmm... OnT: I wouldn't know how to set boundaries anyway. Quote Link to comment
dex0225 Posted August 23, 2015 Share Posted August 23, 2015 It can develop into a relationship so yes. Pero definitely not for fun. Quote Link to comment
jelly bean Posted August 23, 2015 Share Posted August 23, 2015 It can develop into a relationship so yes. Pero definitely not for fun.Then just go into a relationship. Flings Are meant to be temporary Quote Link to comment
HateEternal Posted August 23, 2015 Share Posted August 23, 2015 Yes but as long as it would lead us to being in a relationship, not fan of the fling for fun thing. Quote Link to comment
global4 Posted September 8, 2015 Share Posted September 8, 2015 Fling lang pala di panandalian lang sya. Quote Link to comment
IR○N B3^ST Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 Yes to fling kung single pa. Quote Link to comment
Eddy Syet Posted September 9, 2015 Share Posted September 9, 2015 Syet, yes! Just make sure that you know how to handle this kind of relationship and both parties understand that it's JUST A FLING. I believe that a man or a woman can have flings even if they really love their "legit" or "legal" partners. Also, make sure that you don't get caught so that no one will get hurt in the process. Quote Link to comment
Il pirata Posted September 20, 2015 Share Posted September 20, 2015 As a married guy, I don't see any reason to have one. Single, maybe. But right now I don't seethe point of wasting time with someone if the relationship will go nowhere. As a married guy, I don't see any reason to have one. Single, maybe. But right now I don't see the point of wasting time with someone if the relationship will go nowhere. Quote Link to comment
BeautifulBitch Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 Sure, flings are harmless. It's okay as long as you're both honest to each other that you can't expect anything more. Flings are fun because it gives you butterflies in your stomach, a smile when you wake up and a motivation to work out. Flings will satiate your need for something new and exciting without requiring commitments. It will also give you more choices for different kinds of activities because you can get different kinds of partners. Flings are all fun and games for adults. Quote Link to comment
john5791 Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 Yes.,rather than hv a serious relationship and both will be hurt in the end.. Quote Link to comment
hocojoc Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 yes basta pareho kayo single haha! Quote Link to comment
letmelickyou Posted September 21, 2015 Share Posted September 21, 2015 It depends. Some girls are for playtime only Quote Link to comment
Sabsab Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Nope.. Pero kung single ka nmn pwde nmn.. Hahaha Quote Link to comment
djsinple Posted October 3, 2015 Share Posted October 3, 2015 Agree with salute! Quote Link to comment
anobatalaga Posted October 3, 2015 Share Posted October 3, 2015 No, mahirap pag na fall (either of the party) Quote Link to comment
SneakyJ Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 As long as clear sa both parties na landian lang to even if may mga nangyayari na. Quote Link to comment
hideki2001 Posted October 12, 2015 Share Posted October 12, 2015 If you're single a good fling is better than a relationship that goes bad. Quote Link to comment
SneakyJ Posted October 14, 2015 Share Posted October 14, 2015 As long as clear sa both parties na landian lang to even if may mga nangyayari na. Quote Link to comment
sensible33 Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 been there. done that. dati, cool ako dun since it was me rin who doesnt want to be in a serious relationship that time...(nagrerebelde after a breakup pa fyi).i made it very clear rin naman na we cant fall for each other. so yeah everything was just a game...but after almost a year i got tiredcoz i started to care rin naman.... mahirap... kala mo lang... hehehe actually nasa tao na un if mas masaya sila na fling lang kesa to be in a relationship.and we can even blame them, ung iba kasi pra maka multiple partners lang sila with no strings attached; while others, takot lang na masaktan ulit pagmagseryoso sila. but thank God, grad nako dito;) Quote Link to comment
Trey150 Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 (edited) #1 Don’t Get AttachedThe golden rule of any Fling relationship is “not to get attached.” its easier said than done.. #2 No feelings involvedSex is sex, and if you’re just going to have sex then you cannot talk about your feelings with each other. No sharing how bad your day was at work. or how happy you are because your team won in a basketball game. No meaningful conversations, no intimate evenings, and no crying on your shoulder. And lastly do not mistake sex with intimacy… #3 Do not bring her home With Fling relationships you should never bring her to your house or condo it sends wrong signals.. Do it somewhere else. #4 What she does when she is not with you is none of your business.Her love life is none of your business. Whoever she goes out with is none of your business because you and her are not an item. Remember that, because you have no right to be jealous. the only business you have with her is monkey business #5 Don’t ask her to buy you anything.Because it’s a fling relationship, you can’t ask her to buy you underwear or shirt because that’s what a girlfriend does… the only thing you can ask her to buy are condoms.. and may be some lube.. when you meet for your noontime or night time tryst..note: always practice safe sex... its going to be a big problem if you get her pregnant. #6 Engage only in small talk No long ConversationsThis goes back to the “feelings” rule, but a little more detailed. It’s difficult not to feel something for someone you sleep with, But when you talk about your interests likes and dislikes and things you have in common (besides the porn style sex) you are threading on dangerous grounds boy, you’re only making things hard on yourself. Don’t make more out of it than it really is. #7 Don’t go out for coffee or dinner.The best way to avoid those lengthy conversations and misplaced feelings, don’t “hang out.” In fact, don’t see each other often. You can also include phonecalls or Goodmorning texts If you really want a fling relationship, you’re going to have to make sure your life does not connect with hers. #8 Rules and guidelines must be set from the startBefore you develop a fling relationship both of you must set ground rules for each other. It’s not enough that you stick to these rules; you have to have specific rules for your individual relationship. Make sure both understand what you are getting into.. #9 Letting Go… be ready..Let it go. If it gets too real or you start to care then end it. If you are not enjoying anymore end it #10 Make sure to follow your rules believe me, when you say Fling ..its almost never a fling. The both of you would have to try hard in order to not keep on crossing the boundaries you both have set… #11 Do not be friends in facebook, twitter , instagram…etc.. etc.. because if you do your fling relationship wouldn’t last a week… to answer TS question : if i can abide by these things i wrote then the answer would be a big yes... problem is i cant ... i like giving gifts... i like long conversations... i like going out on dinner dates...and most of all i like intimacy.. Edited October 18, 2015 by trey150 2 Quote Link to comment
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