a_man_apart Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 once is good enough... twice is too much... thrice is making yourself a big stupid... Quote Link to comment
LadyCapitis Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 you can give your partner a second chance coz if everybody would leave the moment someone cheats them then all of us would be separated by now!!!its ok to forgive but it's entirely different matter if he or she continues to cheat you!!! Quote Link to comment
phaqers Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 yes, but it should make things clear why he/she had cheated.. if the reason is valid.. Quote Link to comment
chokenot Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 for me mga tol, sa experince ko.... di naman sya nagcheat nakahanap sya after me... then nagkabalikan lang kami.... okna yun... okna rin kami.....sabi nga love is sweeter the second time around... Quote Link to comment
Ambrose Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 Hmmm' interesting thread! For men, i believe forgiveness is the best move para cool ang karma. Then lumabas ka din , an eye for an eye. Although that doesn't mean you cheated, in my opinion your girlfriend just gave you a free pass to go out. :cool: I f you meet someone and you feel you do not LOVE your current, make a decision, splitsville or balikan. It always boils down to what you feel deep down inside; walang sisihan. Whatever your choice, charge to experience. Puede mo naman ligawan ulit if you decide to split for now. For women, in my opinion is nothing new. There are only a few rare men out there who do not cheat. If ever, your mate is just good in hiding stuff. Although cheating can be in the form of just physical glances with naughty thoughts. Well back to cheating; men in general would always want to try their sex appeal and moves most especially if they have been in a relationship for a long time. Baka kasi "makalawang". What you don't know won't harm you. But if you do catch your boyfriend in bed having sex, there are two things you can do; break up immediately or makijoin ka rin! If he really loves you he will learn his lesson, parang mga puppy mga males kasi. Then you females will have the upper hand; you can test them for their staying power sa pag ligaw ulit. But i'm sure there will always be a first time to cheat!! Diba? So this boils down to morality, guilty ka ba o hindi? Whichever, it's great to be human, don't take life to seriously. Goodluck guys!!! :upside: Quote Link to comment
honey Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 Mas ok pa rin talaga ung wag kang aamin kahit na on the spot e nahuli ka na...hindi naman sa gusto mong magsinungaling sa girl, pero ayaw mo lang saktanlalo ung feelings niya. Kasi kapag hindi mo aaminin, ire-retain mo pa rin ung "feeling of doubt" sa girl na baka nga hindi tutuo na niloloko ka niya, at kahit paano mas okey na ung feeling na ganyan, kesa kapag totally inamin ng guy, mabubuo na talaga sagirl ung notion na niloko mo talaga siya, and mas masakit sa girl yun.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> i guess you're right on the part that you're just trying to avoid hurting her more if ma-confirm nga. pero dapat noh before mo pa ginawa yun, inisip mo na ayaw mo sya ma-hurt and that should've stopped you from doing it. eh what if super huli mo talaga? as in you've seen clear proofs, there are witnesses, and the third party says na nagkaganun nga...nde pa rin dapat aminin? Quote Link to comment
boy popoy Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 ang daming martyr dito ah! personally, i have too much pride to forgive a partner who cheated on me. i dont think i can ever do it. shed have to be able to move mountains to prove herself worthy of my forgiveness... and when i say move mountains i mean it! kelangan nya ko ligawan at iyakan. it will take several months or even years of her courting me while she sees me dating other women... and she better not date anyone while trying to win me back either. kelangan talaga nya patunayan na she really wants me. ang lupit ko noh! well, if they dont want to go through that then they better not cheat on me. Quote Link to comment
Chickquero Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 sus.....pag nagloko ang babae (ibig sabihin kuman toot ng ibang lalaki) sipain nyo na.....dami babae sa mundo....umaapaw...dami pa bata....ogag lang ang lalaki na hindi maniniwala rito.... seriously, i know of a guy who let go his gf's tryst with an office mate. He forgave the girl. One time the bf overheard the other guy boasting about how soft the gf was...(parang siopao..)...the bf got super duper mad that he stabbed the officemate right there and then.... talk about excess baggage dudes..<{POST_SNAPBACK}>I agree with you p're. As one love doctor said...Remember, guys, once the kitty cat strays, it is over unless you want to sleep with one eye open for the rest of your life and wind up being the one emptying the litter box. Quote Link to comment
Switlass Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 (edited) you can give your partner a second chance coz if everybody would leave the moment someone cheats them then all of us would be separated by now!!! Er, Please don't generalize. Not everybody cheats. Edited October 13, 2005 by Switlass Quote Link to comment
Switlass Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 (edited) ang daming martyr dito ah! personally, i have too much pride to forgive a partner who cheated on me. i dont think i can ever do it. shed have to be able to move mountains to prove herself worthy of my forgiveness... and when i say move mountains i mean it! kelangan nya ko ligawan at iyakan. it will take several months or even years of her courting me while she sees me dating other women... and she better not date anyone while trying to win me back either. kelangan talaga nya patunayan na she really wants me. ang lupit ko noh! well, if they dont want to go through that then they better not cheat on me. Sobra ka naman. Hindi ko ata kayang gawin sa mahal kong nakikipag date ako sa iba habang sya umiiyak lang. We have to maintain our 'mabait' image. Have her k*ll the other guy na lang Edited October 13, 2005 by Switlass Quote Link to comment
honey Posted October 13, 2005 Share Posted October 13, 2005 Er, Please don't generalize. Not everybody cheats. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> yeah. agree. not everybody cheats. i used to be so idealistic when it comes to relationships and used to say that if you dont cheat, you partner will not too. but even after a painful experience, one would think na gagawin ko din yun para pantay...nde ko pa rin magawa. nature. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 i guess you're right on the part that you're just trying to avoid hurting her more if ma-confirm nga. pero dapat noh before mo pa ginawa yun, inisip mo na ayaw mo sya ma-hurt and that should've stopped you from doing it. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Korek! I mean dapat sa una pa lang i try mo nang i avoid na masaktan ung partner mo. But most of the time, it is easier said than done. Kaya my answer is applicable only kung nakagawa ka na ng hindi maganda sa partner mo. Minsan gumawa man ng kalokohan ang lalake, it doesn't mean naman na hindi na nila mahal ung girl nila, kaya para hindi lang lalo masaktan ung girl, wag na lang aminin di ba. eh what if super huli mo talaga? as in you've seen clear proofs, there are witnesses, and the third party says na nagkaganun nga...nde pa rin dapat aminin?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> yup hindi pa rin, kahit na anong mangyari .... Quote Link to comment
honey Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 yup hindi pa rin, kahit na anong mangyari .... ack! this is kinda hard to accept. if this is the case and he cant give me a good explaination...i'd have to say goodbye to him Quote Link to comment
Switlass Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 I agree with Honey. It is hard to accept Mike. Men like [you] ( no offense meant) makes it hard for women to trust. Quote Link to comment
scent ofa woman Posted October 14, 2005 Share Posted October 14, 2005 Maybe, "some" things deserve a second chance... But once is enough, ika nga. Quote Link to comment
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