dudulover Posted March 15, 2008 Share Posted March 15, 2008 malamang - goodbye bunot!!! Quote Link to comment
Speksto Posted March 15, 2008 Share Posted March 15, 2008 i was cheated on nung college. nung time na yon parang naisip ko i still want her back. well eventually, sumama na siya dun sa ibang guy. stupid me was still trying to woo her back. looking back though, it's better na di na din kami nagkabalikan. it would never be the same anyway. but it was a humbling and great learning experience. Quote Link to comment
KingKobra Posted March 15, 2008 Share Posted March 15, 2008 Question lang, just to clear the boundaries.. kapag ba sinabing "cheat", kasama ba dun yung pagpatol sa MPA,PSP,fUBU? (No strings attached). Kasi guilty ako kung ganun! Quote Link to comment
jojosmojo Posted March 16, 2008 Share Posted March 16, 2008 Question lang, just to clear the boundaries.. kapag ba sinabing "cheat", kasama ba dun yung pagpatol sa MPA,PSP,fUBU? (No strings attached). Kasi guilty ako kung ganun! are you related to bill clinton????hehe ...technically that's included...wala namang degree degree yun - "kung one night stand lang okay lang siguro puedeng pagbigyan pero kung binabahay na ibang usapan" type of "cheating" hehe...cheating is cheating...but as to how much the partner is willing to forgive may depend on the type of cheating that you did... Quote Link to comment
cadbury007 Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 To answer the thread : Yes.. I will give another chance...pero pag naulit..Man..thats leaves a mark.. pero sabi nga..un mirror pag nagkalamat..kahit i-glue mo..andun pa rin un lamat..things will never be thesame..better let her go na lang siguro..FORGIVEN BUT HARD TO FORGOT. Quote Link to comment
kathryn1816 Posted March 23, 2008 Share Posted March 23, 2008 im pretty tough. once he cheats, then thats it. 2nd chances doesnt really work for me ... Quote Link to comment
marcusjohn Posted March 25, 2008 Share Posted March 25, 2008 mag minsan d ko maalis magduda pero d ko pa nhuhuli pero pag nahuli ko wala na talaga mag minsan d ko maalis magduda pero d ko pa nhuhuli pero pag nahuli ko wala na talaga Quote Link to comment
chad8693 Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 i gave her so many chances mga bro to change...i swallowed my pride and still accepted her with open arms hoping that we can start with a clean slate..kaya lang bro..i discovered that she has not changed..the lies become bigger and unbearable mga bro..everyone has a limit ..the funny thing she was even the one who called it quits after all she has done to me!!!!GRRRRRRR..Stupid ko talaga!!!..learned the hard way! Quote Link to comment
jomzki Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 My Girl tried to cheat on me... I killed her...seriously.. in my mind and in my heart she's dead. Quote Link to comment
franzfrancisco Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 im pretty tough. once he cheats, then thats it. 2nd chances doesnt really work for me ... I think that depends on the weigth of cheeting vs weight of love... Quote Link to comment
wOwShakes Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 cmply lang.. HIWALAY NA :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
wOwShakes Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 hahay :thumbsdownsmiley: .. shall i say i always believe in 2nd chances.. clear? ONLY 2ND CHANCE..kung gnwa nya e2 once lng, then if he really feel sorry to me and ask for forgivnes, y not? hndi nmn kc perfect ang tao eh, wala dn perfect sa relation db? :hypocritesmiley: kung deserving tlga xa para patawarin, cge.. pero kng hindi lng once, twice nya ito gnwa.. well, hindi ako pangit noh para mgpaka tanga ng labis labis sa knya.. hahahaha Quote Link to comment
franzfrancisco Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 id burried her six feet under. Quote Link to comment
lankaface Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 hahay :thumbsdownsmiley: .. shall i say i always believe in 2nd chances.. clear? ONLY 2ND CHANCE..kung gnwa nya e2 once lng, then if he really feel sorry to me and ask for forgivnes, y not? hndi nmn kc perfect ang tao eh, wala dn perfect sa relation db? :hypocritesmiley: kung deserving tlga xa para patawarin, cge.. pero kng hindi lng once, twice nya ito gnwa.. well, hindi ako pangit noh para mgpaka tanga ng labis labis sa knya.. hahahaha Bilib ako, you are so forgiving. If everyone could be as understanding as you, there will be lessseparations and anger among couples. Hats off to you, it takes an intelligent person to think that way before you make a hasty and disastrous decision without much thinking. Quote Link to comment
callmerica Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 2nd chances are hard to come by so don't waste the first ones so the answer is no. it'll just make things worse Quote Link to comment
hayati Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 No 2nd chance.... its so difficult to regain the trust.. thoughts of it will keep on taunting you.... why settle for less... kung nangaliwa cya.... kalas... Quote Link to comment
boyturko Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 If she's not going to do it no more and you feel you can trust her word for it and you really want to give it another try, then give her a 2nd chance. If in any way, you feel you won't be able to forget her mistake and 2nd chances won't work. Let her go... If she's not going to do it no more and you feel you can trust her word for it and you really want to give it another try, then give her a 2nd chance. If in any way, you feel you won't be able to forget her mistake and 2nd chances won't work. Let her go... Quote Link to comment
redheels Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 I do not believe in second chances for this one. I have patience but not with this one. I'm better off without him. You loved him and that's how he will pa you? Loser 'yun. This is perhaps, the reason why I broke up with my ex. Nalaman ko na may gusto sya sa bestfriend ko.. So I bounced. Then he'll tell me he wants me back? Anu 'yun lokohan? Haha.. Buti nga't nanghi2nayang sya ngayon. Quote Link to comment
beansidhe Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 sabi nga ng teacher ko nung gradeschool "NO CHEATING!" Quote Link to comment
geneticfreak Posted April 22, 2008 Share Posted April 22, 2008 It depends on the circumstances. if i found out she had been cheating consistently behind my back and sleeping with every other guy out there like some sick nympho then I wouldn't hesitate to throw her out unto the street right away. But, if it was one time. and it was a mistake and she does admit it and I maybe at fault in some way. Yes naturally I would give her another chance. God knows I've had my share of mistakes. Quote Link to comment
Season_Girl Posted April 22, 2008 Share Posted April 22, 2008 (edited) Definitely NOT. Edited April 22, 2008 by Season_Girl Quote Link to comment
DaKingLeaves Posted May 16, 2008 Share Posted May 16, 2008 I know I should...But I dunno If I can... Quote Link to comment
nhel25 Posted May 16, 2008 Share Posted May 16, 2008 I will go.. I dont want to see her anymore. Quote Link to comment
lonelychick Posted May 16, 2008 Share Posted May 16, 2008 yes i will still accept him... maliban na lang kung sya ung umalis sa relatyonship...si vah love is to forgive and to forget... martyr pa amn me.... di ko magawang magalit sa taong mahal koh... let me tell you a story of infedelity ng ex bf ko he was my first bf.... but then marami kami sa lyf nya hahahaha.... playboy kasi.... pero i always ask him to be vocal about it... aun kinukwento nya yung about sa mga iba pa nyang gfs hanggang binreak nya yun lahat to stick up with me... when i found out that... sabi koh magcourt sya ng iba... aun hahaha ginawa nga at binreak akoh.... hahahaha Quote Link to comment
swingergirl Posted May 17, 2008 Share Posted May 17, 2008 2nd chances are hard to come by so don't waste the first ones so the answer is no. it'll just make things worse yup you are so right... i did just that and tried to break up with my bf after i found out he cheated on me.... he admitted his mistakes and won't let me go... so i gave him another chance.... but he did it again ..... So in SHORT better to let go na lang the first time it happens.... even if you love the person and you find it hard to let go.... kasi he/she will just keep hurting and you and you relationship will never be the same because there will be always be full of doubts Quote Link to comment
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