BnF95 Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 Of course ... as missmanners put it so succintly, "fool me once, shame on you... fool me twice, shame on me..." You can keep loving them ... but be watchful? Quote Link to comment
Wyld Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 Of course ... as missmanners put it so succintly, "fool me once, shame on you... fool me twice, shame on me..." You can keep loving them ... but be watchful?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> IMHO ... love is not possible without trust. How can I rest secure in the so-called love of my partner when at the back of my mind I would constantly worry and fret about whether or not he is fooling around or not? Thats not love. Thats a torture chamber. Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 IMHO ... love is not possible without trust. How can I rest secure in the so-called love of my partner when at the back of my mind I would constantly worry and fret about whether or not he is fooling around or not? Thats not love. Thats a torture chamber. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hi Wyld! How can we assure to our partner that we are no longer cheating them? Ang hirap kasi pag nagkarun ka na ng history of infidelity, tama ung isang nagsabi dito na ang isang relationship parang baso, pag nabasag maibalik man ulit, may lamat na. Curious lang ako, can you expound more on how does a woman feels when she is in that state of the so called "torture chamber"? Quote Link to comment
BnF95 Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 IMHO ... love is not possible without trust. How can I rest secure in the so-called love of my partner when at the back of my mind I would constantly worry and fret about whether or not he is fooling around or not? Thats not love. Thats a torture chamber. Love is never secure, security means never having to worry, in an ideal world, that would be great. However, for the here and now, love, I think, means keeping the romance alive. If you don’t worry about your partner, you might let things slide, little things at first, perhaps the way you dress, later on bigger things, like hygiene. :sick: Worry, and let your partner worry. That way you both work at keeping the fires of love going. How can we assure to our partner that we are no longer cheating them? Ang hirap kasi pag nagkarun ka na ng history of infidelity, tama ung isang nagsabi dito na ang isang relationship parang baso, pag nabasag maibalik man ulit, may lamat na. I suppose one has to constantly strive to show one’s true depth of feelings. Try and try, until you die … or are sick of trying. It shows how much you love him/her by your efforts. Just don’t forget, love yourself enough that you don’t give all of yourself. Quote Link to comment
Wyld Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 Love is never secure, security means never having to worry, in an ideal world, that would be great. However, for the here and now, love, I think, means keeping the romance alive. If you don’t worry about your partner, you might let things slide, little things at first, perhaps the way you dress, later on bigger things, like hygiene. :sick: Worry, and let your partner worry. That way you both work at keeping the fires of love going. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Thats a good sort of worrying .. in fact I wont use the word worrying for that. Thats caring. Thats loving. Love and let your partner love. If love is true then you will unceasingly work at keeping the flames of love goin. Quote Link to comment
pretty_me2509 Posted January 6, 2006 Share Posted January 6, 2006 i'll let go of him. it happened to me before. i was so damn stupid at that time. Quote Link to comment
stargazerhunk Posted January 7, 2006 Share Posted January 7, 2006 unless she will promise not to do it again and keep her promise Quote Link to comment
Sin™ Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 Earlier today I had a long talk with a friend of mine who found out that his wife of 32 years has been fooling around with another guy. Though my friend was really pissed off, he took time to consider life with and without his wife. Amazingly, he chose to stay with her. I asked him what was wrong with him. His wife is sleeping with somebody young enough to be her son. He said, "I'm not in love with my wife, I love her. With all her faults, with all her imperfections, she's still the woman I chose to marry. I take it as a complement that some 28 year old kid is crazy about my 54 year old wife." THAT'S LOVE.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> ..shet, hindi ko alam reaction ko dito. -Sin™ Quote Link to comment
westell Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 Been cheated twice by my wife. So far, been holding on. Trying to forgive and forget, i'm aware that it is difficult, but at least the attempt is present. Trying to keep my head above water... Quote Link to comment
lomex32 Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 Different people have different reasons what pets they want to have. DOGPeople love dogs, because they show, reciporcate the love and care to/of their masters.They manifest it trough barks and body language. SNAKEThough people know that snakes will not give them anything but s**t and worse a dealy venomouse bite, they simply love them for some reasons. One reason is that people will admire you for havinga deadly creature around rather then run from it. Some SNAKE huh ..shet, hindi ko alam reaction ko dito. -Sin™<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Earlier today I had a long talk with a friend of mine who found out that his wife of 32 years has been fooling around with another guy. Though my friend was really pissed off, he took time to consider life with and without his wife. Amazingly, he chose to stay with her. I asked him what was wrong with him. His wife is sleeping with somebody young enough to be her son. He said, "I'm not in love with my wife, I love her. With all her faults, with all her imperfections, she's still the woman I chose to marry. I take it as a complement that some 28 year old kid is crazy about my 54 year old wife." THAT'S LOVE.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quote Link to comment
hotchic_primrose Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 if a guy cheats on me...i'll cheat to him as well... simple.. Quote Link to comment
spartan Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 i'll just drop her right there and then.... Quote Link to comment
Mike Chester Posted February 3, 2006 Share Posted February 3, 2006 Itaas ko lang, natabunan na pala. Quote Link to comment
papable Posted February 3, 2006 Share Posted February 3, 2006 I'll cross the bridge when I get there. Sana di mangyari sa akin to. Quote Link to comment
zencalix Posted February 3, 2006 Share Posted February 3, 2006 goodbye na kaagad Quote Link to comment
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