Would You Go After Someone Who is Taken?

[stalemate]

Madaling sabihin "NO" at alam kong "NO" talaga dapat ang sagot, but why can't I move on since she got married a year ago

Edited August 14, 2023 by stalemate
wrong info

[handsomebob]

6 hours ago, stalemate said:

Madaling sabihin "NO" at alam kong "NO" talaga dapat ang sagot, but why can't I move on since she got married a year ago

because of all the possibilities of what could have been! 

 

[manloloko69]

Never

[Dade Murphy]

Nope

[Mrkiss]

There’s only one person that I’m willing to do this for. We no longer have any connection though. Maybe it’s for the best. 

[ferdinandmagellan]

Did it once.  I was single and the girl had a boyfriend.  I flirted with the girl and eventually got into her pants.  Daming beses may nangyari.  I think the bf knew but for some reason just let her get her way.  This went on for more than a year.

Booty call lang talaga.  My bad.

 

[jaszy1]

I had this several times during college days.

 

Yung una ko, sya ang unang nag-approach sakin. Txt txt and became too close but I found out na may bf na pala sya. Interesado lang daw sya sakin kaya gusto nya maging close sakin. I never stopped seeing her kahit na alam ko na may bf sya kc parang nahuhulog na rin ako sa kanya. Nag-stop lang ito nung 2nd semester magka-iba na kami class.

 

Yung pangalawa is naging close tlg kami kahit na alam kong may bf na sya at umamin pa ko na inlove ako sa kanya. Minsan ay may pinanood kami na school play sa auditorium at tumabi sya sakin pero di kami nag-usap dahil hiyang hiya ako nung umamin ako sa kanya akala ko galit sya sakin. Nung matapos na hinawakan nya kamay ko at sabay kami lumabas ng auditorium. Ako na mismo ang lumayo sa kanya kasi mahirap tlg ang sitwasyon masakit sa puso na taken na ang babaeng gusto mo.

 

Yung huli is ung client ko sa business ko. Nung nagdemo ako ng product sa kanya, bigla na lang ako nakaramdam na kakaiba sa kanya. Parang gandang ganda ako sa kanya na nahulog agad loob ko sa kanya. Habang nakatingin sya sa product ko ay sa kanya ako nakatingin at magkatabi kami nun sa upuan. May bf pala sya. Pero inentertain nya naman nya ako kapag nag-aaya ako na kumain kami sa labas. Ofcourse walang ibang nangyari nun kasi malaki ang respeto ko sa kanya at sa partner nya. Ako na rin ang kusang umiwas nung natapos na transaction namin kahit na minsan sya ang kumokontact sakin in respect to her partner na din at para mawala na rin ung feelings ko sa kanya.

[Krimpayero]

If the other party shows interest first, usually kumakagat din un isa.

Had this experience, a married Vlogger na nakilala ko sa party. Her hubby was working out of the country. The usual story, nagkasarapn kwen2han, got each others numbers, c Vlogger lagi na nagchachat about marital issues. Eventually we found ourselves fucking on weekends when im off from work.

It became complicated when Vlogger wanted to leave her hubby and live with me. Thats when i put a stop to our interactions and decided move on. Admittedly, i was starting to fall as well but luckly, logic and reason still prevailed. 

[tomcatali]

I have this long time friend ever since HS, you all know how tight the bond is when it all started from HS. We were so close before, somehow feelings developed on and off but we’ve never reached the jowa level, MU level maybe literally magulong usapan haha we’re always comfortable with each others company but never naging kami like parang super friends lang.

Presently, she has a bf and I, still here, NGSB hahaha. The other day she’s making aya to me to go out only the two of us. Then ok konting kumustahan and kulitan pero deep inside parang mali sa feeling ko kasi may bf na to.

What do you think guys? Should I stand down and tell her frankly to focus on her bf or let us just enjoy each other company? Maybe some will say “bf palang naman di pa asawa” pero ano ba mas magandang advice nyo dito hahaha.

[cress]

Nope

[panzer86]

Nope, sakit sa ulo.

[Mr Bill]

Wow

Go ahead

[fibpremo]

Never had to decide but most likely. No. I always abide by the golden rule. 

[dominickcruise]

21 hours ago, fibpremo said:

Never had to decide but most likely. No. I always abide by the golden rule. 

true bro, if you did this to somebody then somebody might do this to you as well maybe even worse!

[D0dong]

No. Respeto n lng 

[Jovin27]

No, unwritten gentlemen's code yan. Problema, meron din girls nagsasabay... 

[DrSuccubuslovesaprodite]

Alam naman natin na bawal pero ginagawa padin natin hehe life is short to be sad

[Manofyourdream]

Nope

[Kryte]

Nahh. Even if the other side shows interest. Naranasan ko before yung emotional toll and I couldn’t live with the idea of having someone else go through it.

[Mooncheek]

No

[kisbumba]

No, but some other people even though na married sila against all odds sila kahit makasira ng pamilya, worst is nagpabuntis pa. 

Edited November 18, 2023 by kisbumba

[Andy chai 2023]

Hell no 🚩🚩🚩🚩⛳️⛳️⛳️⛳️

[JoseMercado]

Nope

[gentlemanyak_007]

Done this.

[Why Not]

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