Would You Go After Someone Who is Taken?

[TanglewoodBoy]

i do believe i am engaging in this situation now...

 

can't help it,. she's a wonderful person...

 

[in_vitro]

Before I believe in Soulmates.

I used to think films like Serendipity happen in real life.

 

But then I began thinking,

 

"Bakit lahat ng "soulmates" nakatira sa parehong LUGAR?

Sa laki-laki ng mundo natin, bakit ang alleged Soulmates eh matatagpuan sa iisang bansa, probinsya, lungsod, subdivision lang?"

[cocoy0]

good thought, in_vitro. I used to indulge in that kind of thing too.

[incognitocosplayer]

there no such thing as soulmates"

[Guest Riveria]

Yes....as long as he's not married...

[ISABELLA]

ONS - maybe. Serious one - never!

[whapaks00]

Yeah hangang wala pang sing sing sa daliri nya pwede pa.

[maldita_overload]

Sometimes people do this, not to break up an existing relationship, but out of fear. Fear that if they actually set out to establish their own relationship with someone who is not taken; and they can't make it work, they'd have no one to blame but themselves. This, of course, does not make it right- but it makes it a little easier to understand.

 

Hooking up with someone taken means you can always say that it didn't work out because you weren't exclusive.

Edited May 18, 2010 by maldita_overload

[daigorolonewolf]

it depends,is she worth losing everything for?

[dirtypop]

Why not? Love is a risky business, If you think that a person is worth pursuing after even if he/she's already taken, then go and give it a shot, you'll lose nothing. But be prepared, coz you might ended up getting hurt.

[jhared]

depende...if i love her, then at the same time yung bf nya is a super jerk that doesn't deserve her in my point of view...i will..

[royginald]

There are few people that are doin this just kicks!

Para ka lang kumuha ng martilyo ipampupukpok mo sa ulo mo!

 

If She/He is taken! STOP flirtin!

 

 

. . .

[blow_gobi]

I might. But as advised by someone older than me and whom I respect, I'll exert 10% effort only, vs. 90% effort on someone not taken.

[murofasarap]

if you feel its right, go for it, but if you're just going to toy with him/her, think a million times.

[Guest slave69biatch]

if married, no..

 

but its also difficult pag may sum1 na sya..

 

mahirap magpaka manhid..

[maniaclara]

i'd rather he go after me...

 

seriously, it's flattering if he does, but if he's married, i think i'll back off... life is complicated enough already without me having to consciously add another complication...

 

siguro mas tatanggapin ko pa yung single dad, kesa yung married guy, whether he's happily married or not...

Edited May 22, 2010 by maniaclara

[ReDBaByBuRn]

i wouldn't...

 

ayokong maramdaman ng iba kung gano kasakit yung naramdaman ko :(

 

 

it was HELL!!!

[josol9]

nope. thought about it before never pushed through. mahirap mang-agrabiyado ng iba.

[agnostic]

No.

[shrike]

why not ?

is she worth the effort and risk ?

[macoys]

if someone is committed, BACK OFF!

[BUTTPHILE]

Well, I'll weigh the situation. If she's worth it, then I'll go for it.

[Potty25]

Definitely No.

 

It's all about respect.

[idLe`HanDs]

pag taken na wag nyo na patulan. if possible sabihan nyong makipag break muna bago kau magkaron ng relasyon.

kung yung taong yun ay may bf/gf na tapos pinatulan mo, im sure magagawa nya rin sau yon?

laging tandaan ang mga ginagawa natin, maganda man or hindi may nakabuntot na karma yan.

[incognitocosplayer]

masakit masarap ang bawal, my latest fling me bf pa pero kami na pero minsan nakakatakot ang karma.. . enjoy the moment muna.. .