Mobius Stripper Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 When I fell in love, I forgot & failed to do many things right, because there was only "her." When I love, I remember & I do because there is also "me." Quote Link to comment
Chi-Chi Posted October 19, 2006 Share Posted October 19, 2006 you're soooo right. its the best way to keep yourself from getting hurt. its simpy falling in love but leaving something for yourself and for your future just in case your present relationship won't work. just keeping a little reservation and loving yourself more than loving the guy that might someday hurt you. who knows.... exactly. You don't want to end up the loser in the end. HELLO SA GANDA NATING TO! Quote Link to comment
Saeki® Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 Love doesn't have to have a happy ending, 'coz love doesn't have to end at all. A man realized he wanted his love back not wanting to be hurt again. The girl said "NO"! The man cried out to God, "If it was meant to be, why did i lose her?" God replied, "You didn't lose her...YOU LET HER GO!" When you love someone, don't expect that person to love you back the same amount. One of you will be ahead, the other behind. It's either you catch up or the other waits...... When things become difficult, remember why you started in the first place. Even if there's nothing else to sustain your efforts, a compelling reason can keep you going. In dealing with the challenges that come your way, it can be easy to lose sight of the purpose behind your efforts. Take the time to reaffirm your commitment to that purpose, and you gain renewed strength to meet the many challenges. The energy needed for discipline, for commitment, for effectiveness, for creativity, comes from following a meaningful, compelling purpose. Remember why, for it helps you to determine how, and to put that strategy into action. Remember why, and you can find the strength to persist. Remember why, and you'll figure out a way to get the resources that you need. You are at your best when following a noble and meaningful purpose. All that you are can be brought to bear when the reason is solidly connected to who you are. Remember why, and you'll have what it takes to get it done. Quote Link to comment
TNT Hsia Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 (edited) I can think of something worse than a love that has been ... a love that should have been but never was. Edited October 21, 2006 by TNT Hsia Quote Link to comment
curiosity101 Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 That's not true. It's possible to love, without loving with your all, it basically just means that you're already anticipating the possibility of getting hurt, thus you're not loving with your all. Lovin with your all is being blind to everything and not ready for anything that's possibly going to happen. Been there, done that, I once loved her with all though I knew it wouldn't last forever, and when it ended, it surely hurt like hell. Could have I been a fool for doing so ? Perhaps, but it was and is the only the way I know how to love. Would I ever do it again? Perhaps... Nothing is ever written in stone Quote Link to comment
curiosity101 Posted October 20, 2006 Share Posted October 20, 2006 What my dumb heart taught me was too cut my wrist and bleed... :cry: It taught me that once you've lost someone or something, there will be no way to bring it as it was before... :cry: Like what happened to me... I broke up with my EX-boyfriend knowing that he loves me, but still, I decided to leave him for the belief that guys only want SEX and Be with pretty ladies... After that... 3 years nia akon trina try ma win back, kso, super ma pride... Gus2 q kasi ma prove na GUYS are all WHORE and they just want to give a damn hearthache :grr: I never had him back... Pero nung time na na realize ko na hindi lahat... at prinove nia na love nia akoh... E2 na yung time na hindi na siya pwdeng maging akin, kasi may nagmamayari n ng :heart: nia... at yun ang gus2 ng mom nia para sa kanya... kaya I prefer living on the dark side... Co'z it's where I belong... ............................................. :cry: Everyone who has loved at one time or another has gotten hurt, its all part of love. But getting hurt shouldn't stop you from loving again. Put the past behind and learn from it. Give love a chance for only then will you find the one who truly belongs to you Quote Link to comment
TNT Hsia Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 Chemistry: watch for it. Quote Link to comment
MS Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 That sometimes love is not really enough to cover up some issues that is present, existing and can and will affect people close to you and to your partner, you just have to face it someday and learn to be unattached if not let got someday if it is for the good others, not necessarily for the happiness of you and your partner. Quote Link to comment
sweetmind14 Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 love is the weirdest thing that you can experience in your life... it will let you fall but at the end it will hurt you... :thumbsdownsmiley: Quote Link to comment
tencute Posted October 22, 2006 Share Posted October 22, 2006 what has love taught me lately? be patient... Quote Link to comment
al_simmons Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 suffering in silence... Quote Link to comment
TNT Hsia Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 (edited) Ther seems to be two basic types of people in love ... one who will give & the other who will take when takers fall in love, they compete for each other's resources & energy & both feel drained, tired but clinging to each other like two suction cups. when takers & givers fall in love, the taker can't take enough & the giver can't give enough; like a monster goes berserk leaving behind the empty, cleaned out shell of a person. when givers fall in love & give to each other, they seem to last, not perfectly but happily at least. Bato bato sa langit ... Just my peso's opinion. http://normaandcliff.com/user/bumponthehead.JPG Edited October 23, 2006 by TNT Hsia Quote Link to comment
naix Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 don't drink to much beer if your heart is broken masakit sa ulo pag gising Quote Link to comment
kobeshaq Posted October 23, 2006 Share Posted October 23, 2006 It taught me to accept reality. Falling in love is free but what goes with it are the most difficult things. The need to sacrifice your own feelings for the good of everyone involved Quote Link to comment
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