love Do You Let Your Partner Read Your Text Messages?

[immortal]

Ones privacy must be respected...

May tinatago o wala dapat di basahin ng partner.

It's not fair...it's unethical!!!

[burnik20]

personally i don't want anybody to read my messages for privacy reasons but if my girlfriend insists then i would let her...she should watch out though for she just might just find what she's looking for. that's her reason for looking in the first place right??

[mhengh]

yung last na syota ko...i was just looking for a reason to break up with her kasi nasasakal na ko...

and she was living at the place of her ex at that time but I couldn't prove anything...

then she was telling me about this text cat fight she had with her bestfriend...i pretended to be interested...

so i borrowed her phone and looked at her outbox...ayun, i found out na she's entertaining thoughts about sleeping with her ex again...so i told myself na makikipag-break na ko sa kanya on that day itself...

 

of course i waited till nakapag-check out na kami at nakauwi...hehehe

 

so to answer the question, i am inclined to let my partner read my text messages and I even volunteer information on every single person on my phonebook...and i let her delete the entries like "Mica DECADES" or "Sheila DARKBEAT"...i usually do this if i sense some insecurity within her...

 

if i want to break up with and get something on her, that's the time i read her messages...

[hardhunk]

I wont let her read my kalokohan

[marvin_8]

Ones privacy must be respected...

May tinatago o wala dapat di basahin ng partner.

It's not fair...it's unethical!!!

 

Tama ka diyan .... Trust and Respect

[Nighty_Knight]

i dont have any problems about my partner reading my messages. but me, personally, i dont do that. im a very trusting person and its my way of respecting her.

[kevincosme]

Text and email messages are the modern form of the old fashioned letter mails ( a paper inside an envelope, hehehe, if you haven't seen one). Back then, people, as a sign of respect, don't open somebody's letter. even if the mailman just leave it infront your door. same should also apply to text and email massages. now if you give your consent to your partner that he/she can read your text messages, that's another story. BUT, by default, we should not reading somebody's text or email messages.

[tabouki]

no secrets, no problem.

[babe in the woods]

there are times that i really have to let him read my messages especially if he's some kind of hmm paranoid.

 

but not all of it or every text i get.

[Boyette]

reading text msgs? i told my partner she can, and she told me i can. but i dont, and she doesnt. honesty and trust is all u need

[Alexandra®]

binabasa nya pag tulog ako...hehehe

no choice

[Boysbe]

She reads mine, I dont get to read her's. So sinong unang maingit,mainis,talo.

[rpxhost]

I got this from a relationship therapist interviewed in a mag, and from that moment I saw the logic of it all:

 

 

Partners (including husbands and wives) should be allowed to keep secrets, and their individual privacy should be respected. Hence, no reading of texts..

 

 

 

 

 

 

binabasa nya pag tulog ako...hehehe

no choice

[HoneyBoy]

kung gusto niya e di basahin niya. wala naman akong tinatago e.

[Jhelicious]

kung gusto nya basahin why not' pero hindi ung ako pa mag provoke na basahin nya..