love Do You Let Your Partner Read Your Text Messages?

[BnF95]

Well, I suppose, though that means that she doesn't trust me.

[sweetpink]

yup... kc wla nmn kming sinisekreto sa isa't isa... may tiwala kmi kaya ok lng na basahin... alam din nmn nmin na wla kming gagawing mali...

[malisyosa_ako]

do you let ur partner read ur txt message?hmmm..

 

 

y not..?kung wla nmn tlaga akong dapat itago sa knya,,,..

depende nlng kung my third party..

[gig0l0]

kaya kami nagbreak kasi ayaw niyang pabasa text messages niya.

 

[RoadPizza]

No. Privacy is privacy. We'd all be in trouble if we could read each other's minds.

[Hottie_Babe]

With my ex-es, them reading my text messages has always been a non-issue. Puro mga text lang ng mommy at daddy ko yun, pati sis ko nagpapahabilin ng pasalubong. But it would still be polite if they ask permission first.

[astig_supah_ganda]

okei lng.. kung close na kami at

alam nya na lahat sakin..

kung bago palang.. hndi..

 

kumplikado kc ang buhay ko..

 

[the messiah]

yes, i hav nothing to hide

[cyner]

Wala pang nakaisip nito, but this happens very often sa mga existing relationships, jealousy over a text message.

 

Its a crisis when jealousy starts because of a simple text message, the question is: Is it right to let your bf/gf/husband/wife read text message from your phone? Or is it just paranoia? Comments and suggestions please.

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Hi der IMHO they shouldn't read txt. I mean a simple txt that to a fren is ok but to a partner might be offensive. Sagwa naman naghiwalay kayo dahil lang sa TXT. Babaw. In order for a relationship to exist there has to be "mutual respect" after that comes trust. Without trust there's no respect. :hypocritesmiley:

[nice_in_ice]

letting your partner to read your text msg will be okei coz it will show your cleanliness for being honest however u'll lose your privacy <but for me its okei, coz i dont anything>

[Guest buru_tus]

yes, we read each other text messages and sometimes, kami pa nag rereply

 

just show that you are open to each other and no secrets are being hidden

 

mutual respect!!!

[mick8]

i don't mind at all if my gf would read the text messages in my cell since i've got nothing to hide from her and besides she is an open minded person,one of the qualities i liked in her.

[reignman]

this happened last week to me.

 

Wednesday night, a good friend, girl of course, texted me. asking me how i am, etc.. take note.. GOOD FRIEND lang ito ha.. so i ask her, how she is, what she is busy with..

 

she said exams..

 

the next day, this is our text conversation:

 

me: so how is your exam?

 

good friend girl: HARD

 

me: (wondering she replied in ALL CAPS, parang indi sya) ok, dont worry, result will turn out ok. hey, lets go out soon, am leaving for the U.S. next week eh. hang out tayo

 

good friend girl: y?

 

me: what do you mean y? lets just hang out.. like old times.. parang di tayo friends

 

MY PHONE RANG! its good friend girl calling

 

me: HELLO?

 

good friend girl: (damn S**t, voice of a man?) WHY ARE YOU TEXTING MY GIRLFRIEND?

 

me: why? because she is a good friend..

 

good friend girl: i dont want you to text my girlfriend anymore ok?

 

me: huh? ok then..

 

phone shuts.

 

as for me.. insecure BF's such as that.. mataan na ang mataan, wag sana magalit, pero totoo lang.. these bf's are such a loser.. nasan ang confidence ng mga guys na ganito?! poor girlfriend.. naku sa inyong mga babae na may ganyan na bf... wag na kayo magpaka martyr noh.. laglag nyo na! dami pang ok na guys dyan.. di pa kayo mahihirapan at makakahinga pa kayo. =)

[mick8]

the guy is indeed insecure. what if pa kaya if you were a guy..since then hindi ka na tinext o tinawagan ng good friend mo?

[señor_bugoy]

dont see anything wrong with that...